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I am constantly petrified that people don't get along with my boyfriend, or that he might be saying or doing something which might make people not like him.
Recently my closest friends met my new boyfriend.
As I understand, my friends didn't like him.
It flipped me out and I couldnt stop thinking about it all night, and I still am now.
It's not the first time I lose interest in a guy because of the negative comments from my friends.
I don't want to lose touch with my boyfriend, but I can't stand the fact that I care what others think.
What should I do to change myself?
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>>17257447
You might wanna find out why nobody likes him. Maybe he's an asshole but you're blinded by love.
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>>17257447
Prioritize. Think: who's more important?
And also, compartmentalize. Your boyfriend doesn't need to interact with your friends. If they don't like each other, so what?
We can't all be best friends.
>>17257451
Or maybe the friends are assholes. Who knows.
We all have to learn to judge character eventually.
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>>17257451
The main reason why most of my friends didn't like him, because he didn't talk much ( shy ) and if he did, he would usually discuss with me with interesting topics.
My friends were annoyed they couldn't join the discussion, because they didn't understood the topic. They acted like assholes.
>>17257465
I respect and love my friends, but when it comes to talk about things like these, they can act like total assholes.
If I'll be with my boyfriend, they will push me out of theyr friend circle, in other case, they wont be in touch as much .
When they met my boyfriend they acted like assholes and I've noticed that my partner felt awkward around them.
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I recently moved to Melbourne and getting adjusted hasn't been that rough but I've had trouble making friends. When I moved here I was in a share house and all the roomates were cool but we all parted ways and now I'm living with a 51 year old because his place is cheap, nice, and close to work. Now I don't really have a social outlet save for a depressing 51 year old who has decided to give me advice about whatever we're talking about when we do talk.
What's a good way to meet people in the city? I've met up with a few people online but we don't get up that often and I haven't had much luck contacting other people. I've gone to a meetup.com event before and it was awkward and lame. My voice sounds funny in bars and it's hard for me to get my mojo going inside the bar when everyone's having fun by themselves and I feel like I'm intruding. I had some luck at work but two coworkers younger than me left for another country, the bosses son (same age) left to travel yesterday, and there's a clear maturity difference between me and the other employees (most are 10+ years older)
Are there some other places I should try or things I should do to meet people?
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Welcome to Melbourne anon! What are your interests? I recommend joining some social clubs or interest clubs, there's a lot of stuff to do around the city. Admittedly it's very hard to make friends around here post-uni, so don't worry, it's not necessarily you. Try to post on /r/Melbourne maybe (inb4 leddit), there are other new comers who are in the same boat as you who make posts periodically.
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>>17257437
Thanks it's really nice here
I had looked on reddit but didn't think about posting directly to it to look for friends.
Is there a place to find social groups other than meetup.com?
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>>17257456
I'm not sure how it ends up working out for the people that do post, but it can't hurt to try.
Try hitting up your local social club, or meet ups around your interest areas. Check your Facebook events, there's always something going on. I'm sure your voice sounds fine, and bars are meant for approaching randoms. You should try again, hit up a different bar maybe.
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Femanons, have you ever had sex while on your period?
Anons, have you ever had sex with your girl on her period?
Any repercussions? Dangers?
Also:
How do I stop myself from cumming so quick? When I go in raw it takes me about a minute before I pop.
And when I put on a condom, I start getting flaccid almost instantaneously. And with the few times I got inside my gf with the condom on, I never cum, at all. So it leaves her tired as heck, and me unsatisfied... which wants me to do raw sex. But she doesn't want to cause she's too tired, and fear of pregnancy and all that.
Any ideas?
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Can't help with the first part but had the second issue with the condom. The whole losing it with the condom on thing happened until I started exploring my kinkier side. This let me open up more sexually to her and made keeping it up easier.
Or you could buys some horny goat weed
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>>17257426
>Anons, have you ever had sex with your girl on her period?
Yes.
>Any repercussions? Dangers?
Don't fuck your girlfriend without a condom if she's not using some form of birth control unless you're prepared to have a child. Because yes, she can get pregnant this way.
Aside from that, it can be messy and blood is not lube. Sex can be painful or uncomfortable just rubbing wet (but not lubed) body parts together.
I have an ex who got incredibly horny during some days on her period and blood doesn't upset me so I tried to make her feel good to the extent I could. What a woman likes or what is uncomfortable can be different when she's on her period, so don't assume you know what feels good or not. Slow it down.
As far as coming too quickly, see if a different position will slow things down. I come pretty fast in missionary but will last considerably longer in doggy. Again, don't fuck without birth control unless you are very prepared to get her pregnant. "Oh, I'll just have her get an abortion" is not a responsible or realistic preparation for getting someone pregnant.
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>>17257455
Thanks for your input anon. I wouldn't want to force an abortion on her anyways, and she said if she did get preg, she wouldn't abort it. I don't mind, but I'd like to be able to get on my feet in the world first before a child, ya know?
I had sex with her 2 days ago on her period, raw. I didn't last very long, about a minute, but I made sure to pull out before I came. I also took a piss just before, to make sure I cleansed out any sperm that might be in there.
But in the long run, you're right. I gotta make sure to get condoms.
And i'll try doggy the next time. I've been doing missionary mostly, so maybe that's why.
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Gf of a year and I got into a bit of a scuffle yesterday, a few years back I became really infatuated with a girl who is coincidentally friends with my current gf, last night they met at a party and her friend told her how I was super into her at the time and how I wrote her a cheesy love letter which my girl told me she got a laugh out of but later revealed made her jealous. I got a bit salty at this but yknow fair enough people will do that however my girl started acting weird and being distant I asked her if she was legitimately upset over it and at first she was acting as if she wasn't but she later revealed she got jealous. I was annoyed at first because she kept giving me "uh huh", "whatever" which she knows annoys me. I told her that's it's fine if she got jealous but she didnt have anything to worry about because I love her the most etc etc. and she kept doing the "uh huh" routine. This got me a bit angry so we just decided to cut the conversation there for the night. Later on after I cooled off I extended an olive branch saying I didn't feel like fighting on our anniversary week and it shouldn't be as big a deal as it got to be and that id like to move on from it but also that she should try to communicate her feelings about stuff more directly, she read that message and left me on seen which she knows annoys me as well. Should I just let her throw he tantrum and not try to reach out or prompt conversation?
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Write her a letter and explain your feelings. If it's really your anniversary and you really care about her organize something super special.
Dont give up on her. Good luck.
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Women jealousy is so easy to defeat it's laughable. Don't feed into their emotions, use your logic. Tell her it happened a while ago and means nothing anymore. Your not going to waste anymore time/energy on something so juvenile. Then ignore her until she starts acting like an adult.
She will fix her attitude.
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She's not really being rational in processing her feelings because it's hard to do that.
It sounds like she's deliberately doing things that she knows annoys you because her feelings are hurt that you expressed these deep emotions for another girl (even if you wrote them long ago, she's seeing it for the first time NOW).
Try not to get butthurt over how she's behaving. I would send her a message like "I think it's unfair that you're acting like this toward me over something I sent years ago, and besides, I didn't even really understand what love was until I fell in love with you."
And then leave her alone until she can stop acting like a bitch.
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I have visited both of these countries and want to get out of my current one and would like to move to one of them. I like them equally as much although in some different aspects. Which one should I go to?
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Germany 10/10.
I hope I dont have to explain why.
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Idk how do you plan getting a citizenship?
Are you from 3rd world country by the way?
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Somehow 1 of my parents are from each
Poland
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hi /adv/...
i need your help here especially from people who did self cutting or dealt with loving ones that did self harm
ive been with my gf since senior year of high school now that's 3 years now and because of life we went to different unis soo its been distance relationship for 2 years when i meet her after a couple of months being together i saw some scars on my gf's thighs it was surprising coz i never knew she did that shit and never heard about it i managed to make her stop cutting herself.
she did that without a reason her family is good with her,she has no social life problems, i never hurt her and her weight looks are all great. but now she started cutting again without no reason at all i ask her why do you cut yourself
she just replies i dont know.
im pretty sure she doesn't do that for attention coz she always cut her thighs and always hid the scars and she's ashamed of the scars no body knows that she cuts herself she never told anyone about it not even me even i found out myself.
soo i ask you people who had similar problems please help me out here
pic related
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sorry for the graphics
i just wanted you all see what im dealing with
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the thing about cutting is that at least for me, it's something i'm deeply frustrated and troubled about that i simply can't express. i'm 31 and i cut this year because of my marriage troubles. i don't have anyone to talk to and talking to spouse just results in an escalated fight that i don't have the energy for.
if everything seems "okay" and she's cutting, then it's obviously not okay. she's putting up a front and expressing her frustration in secret.
just talk to her about it and make her feel supported but without pressure. don't make her problems about you.
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>>17257458
thanks anon.
it's really frustrating, i wish i could help. I'll try my best to figure out this mysterious problem she has.
what really bothers me is that we are not close to each other, i dont know about her daily life.
so what are you saying is that only big problems makes you think of cutting again or just small daily issues can do that too?
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Did I accidentally lead on a girl?
>Asked for her Snapchat
>Flirted for a few weeks
>Stoppped for 3 weeks
>asked for her number
>Texted her for a day
>Stopped
Supposedly she's really into me and I had a crush on her a year ago. Am I fucked? Highschool just ended and I really want to salvage this. Bout to get drunk and tell her "I had a huge crush on you during chemistry class" or something corny along those lines. What do
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If you had a crush, and it's still latent, why are you "accidentally" leading her?
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>>17257407
Never really made a move.
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Send her a corny text. I'd fall for it if I liked you.
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Unemployed and have been looking for work for almost half a year...
Been applying for retail and drafting and getting rejections left right and center. Everyday it hits my confidence and enthusiasm.
Any advice? Tips?
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Is relocating to an area that has more available jobs that you are trained for out of the question?
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>>17257328
Is it a problem with the interview?
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>>17257333
That's what I did though haha
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> Be History/English Student (want to become a teacher)
> Hate it after just one year of University
> Decide to apply for an apprenticeship at a bank
> Get invited to interviews at two banks
Alright now here is where shit gets stupid.
One of the banks is expecting me to prepare a presentation for the interview.
Its supposed to either be a powerpoint presentation or just a poster - covering three tasks/questions.
> Whats important to know about me (+ some details from my biography)
> What makes me suited for the job
> Presentation of a product (including a slogan)
All of that in no more than THREE MINUTES.
Honestly I'm at a total loss here.
I got no idea how I would fit all of that into a three minute presentation - aside from not knowing what product I'd even like to present (they wrote I can present just about anything).
Is this supposed to be a trick where they give people a task that is not really do-able and they just want to see how little you fuck up?
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Nope. That is do-able in 3 minutes. They're testing how well you can isolate important information and deliver it clearly and concisely without any fluff.
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That seems reasonable. It's just a very low amount of bullet points. Consider it an exercise in filtering out less valuable information.
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>>17257317
Seems doable. 1 minute on yourself and why you suit the job, 2 minutes on the pitch. Be succinct, no fluff.
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Anybody made the decision to switch degrees midway through?
I'm currently 1.5 years into my CS degree, and quite frankly I hate it. I originally went in with the mindset of "I like computers, computer science sounds good", but it's been the opposite.
I see a lot of my class mates seem to live and breathe the subject whereas I couldn't care less, completing the work purely because I have to.
I'm considering switching into a biology focused Science degree, as it's a subject i've always been passionate about. But feel like a huge faggot doing it so late into my current degree.
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Better leave it now, that in 1 year
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>>17257308
I did it. I've actually changed degrees twitch. No regrets. The earlier you get out of it, the better. Might be able to get some credits too, so it won't be a major waste of time.
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>>17257358
*twice
Ok i havd weird sexual fantasies and im wondering if women, any women, are willing to try them.
>>want to eat a1 steak sauce out of a vagina
>>want a girl to play "horsey" with me: pretend shes a horse as i bang her doggie style and go "neigh! neigh!" out loud.
>> Want a women to "make" me hold a glass under her vagina while she pees it it make me drink the glass
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Cure yourself.
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>>17257295
Why would you say im beta?
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>>17257293
What the hell anon?? Why would you wanna do this shit? Are you a virgin who has watched too much fucked up weird ass porn?
Kindergarden teacher has told my son he can't bring a hard boiled egg and herb salt for a snack because it's unhealthy. Wtf it the problem with this lady? Or have i missed some breaktrough scientific discovery that eggs will cause incurable diseases?
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What does she think is a 'healthy' snack then? The only objection I could think of is that some other kid has an egg allergy, but there's nothing unhealthy about eggs otherwise.
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>>17257285
An egg is an incredibly healthy snack and more kids should be eating them.
Go into the school and tell her to fuck off one way or another.
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Hahahahahha
Life in America folks.
so I've been going out with my gf for just over 6 months now and I've got some things that are tearing me up a little inside.
when we first started to know each other it was through a mutual friend, he knew he and her friend through his church, and we started hanging out over the next few months. My initial impressions of her were that she was an innocent church girl, and I knew she had a bf before me so she's maybe had sex at least one guy. We started dating and about a week later she tells me she's slept with 3 guys before.
obviously this wasn't an issue for me, but then I also found out another few weeks later that I'm the shortest guy she's dated and all of her ex's were all around 6'4.
we started having sex a few weeks into the relationship and I always thought something was off when we were doing it, even though she was the first girl I've been with. she would try certain things where I would barely be long enough to reach, or I would slip out often while she's trying to ride me. for the record I'm 6" long and I pass the toilet paper roll test so I've never thought I'd have a major issue with my size.
I'm certain at this point that almost every ex of hers has had a huge dick, and I'm the smallest she's been with.
I know you're going to bitch about this being a juvenile issue, but imagine how it feels going into a relationship with a girl thinking she's the innocent church girl then it turns out she will literally date guys just because they have a big dick. also imagine that you are on the top end of average penis size and now your girlfriend has the idea that you have a small penis because she's only been with guys that are huge.
the worst part for me is that I just don't think I do it for her during sex. it seems more like she's treating it as her job to have sex with me rather than doing something she enjoys as well. I'm even able to go an hour without cumming, and she still can't get off from that.
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If all you're doing is penetrative sex and expecting her to get off from it, that's the real problem, not the size of your dick anon. You have a mouth, a tongue, and presumably some fingers. Use everything in your arsenal. If those fail, there are literally tons of toys and vibes and shit to chose from to aid you in getting this church skank off.
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Why the hell do you consider 6" short?
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>>17257272
The old whore was right, anon: "it's not what you got, it's what you do with it."
Few women get off on penetration only. Try asking your gf what works for her, she's the more experienced one here
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Hey /adv/ there's this really beautiful, cute and shy girl that looks similar to pic related usually hanging around in the college library or around campus.
How can I make a move on her without looking like some creep or desperate person. She has her own social circles and I have my own and I just don't know how you can join another circle just like that.
We don't have any subjects together and one time I entered the library we made brief eye contact when she was sat by herself and she immediately looked down when we did and I looked the other way as well.
This is the second girl that's given me these feelings, I don't know if I'm in love or not but the other day I had a dream about her too. I got shot down when I asked the first girl I ever had a crush on and after that my body and mind just shut down all feelings of love.
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>>17257258
Look at her and smile. If she looks away, throw a book at her to get her attention. If she smiles back, approach
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>>17257258
Follow her around for a day.
Find out all you can about.
Study her movements.
What she reads in the library, eats for dinner, paths she walks, the stairs she uses, the loo she visits.
Look for a pattern in her daily routine.
Find those moments in her day that she is alone and when she hasn't got anyone waiting for her.
Make you move.
Protip you can destroy dna with soapy salt water.
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>>17257258
theres no non-creepy way to express interest in a random stranger, next time you see her in the library walk up to her and say hey I think you dropped this and hand her a folded up piece of paper with your number on it. she'll call you back or she wont, but you tried
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So, I have a female friend who I'm very close to and I'm really not sure if I have a chance with her.
>She considers me her best friend
>We were in a non-physical long distance relationship with each other a couple of years ago, but we've both changed a lot since then
>I ended the earlier relationship with her, not her
>I haven't dated anyone else since, however she has
>A friend told her that I had feelings for her and she temporarily avoided me
>When she stopped avoiding me, she said she couldn't stay away from me
>One night she told me that she had romantic feelings for me, but the next day she downplayed it
>She said that she would consider dating me again but wouldn't consider dating her ex who she broke up with six months ago
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So, purely curious, how old are you?
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>>17257254
If she said she had romantic feelings for you than she's into you, doesn't matter that she downplayed it. You have a chance. Go for it OP.
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>girl said she liked me
>a-am i being friendzoned?
Oh... my... god.