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>>17257783
I doubt you offended her, she's probably just bashful.

>>17257783
Speaking entirely from experience, meaning that this is a rather one-sided statement, you didn't offend her.
I used to spend a lot of time, with a Muslim girl, from the school I went to, back then. We had a lot of fun and talked about many different subjects. At one time, we got to talking about her Hijab. I asked her why she wore it and things like that, and at one point, she mentioned that not many people had respect for her choice. She told me, that a lot of people would actually (verbally) attack her, because of the Hijab.

Maybe the one you talked to, was simply surprised, that someone would actually go as far as to compliment it.

>>17257783
>flirt with girl
>responds positively
>assume you offended her anyways

I don't really know what to say. Everything about the way you think and live is irrational

Why don't you have insurance? Are you under 26? If your parents won't cover you under their insurance plan, in most (non-Republican) states, you can get on Medicaid.
https://www.healthcare.gov/medicaid-chip/getting-medicaid-chip/

Could be heartburn. Is it worse when you eat? Got rid of mine by reducing the glycemic load of the stuff I consumed.

You need to consult a doctor, though.

Check this out: http://chriskresser.com/what-everybody-ought-to-know-but-doesnt-about-heartburn-gerd

This for practical measures: http://chriskresser.com/get-rid-of-heartburn-and-gerd-forever-in-three-simple-steps/

>>17257809
+1 to heartburn. What kinds of foods are you eating OP?

It literally takes no math. Do you know what a cash register is/does? Or do you think they give you a notebook and pencil then tell you to add everything up with tax?

>>17257747
I know what it does. Im just so nervous about fucking up somehow.

>>17257751
You really shouldn't worry about it. I mean really, have you seen some of the people that work at Wal-Mart? Literally anyone can do it. It's ok to be a little nervous with a new job but you'll come to realize that you can learn it and it's not that bad. You'll be fine, I know you will!

>>17257712
*intimate, lel

Bad news or worth it? I feel like this is a common concern.

Well, each relationship has its own standing and the amount of worth that needs to be sacrificed in other for each person to be sustained within.

Are you two living with each other?
How long have you two been together?

>>17257698
Go see a psychiatrist.

Become older than 14

>>17257698
SO DEEP.

you should listen to this new disturbed song, called the Sound of Silence.

it changed my life forever.

>>17257685
Girls always text me. They text me too much. Walls of text. All damn day. I wish they wouldn't talk to me so much.

And my girlfriend approached me from day 1. The only work I had to do was show up to the concert she asked me to go to. Was an easy cruise from there.

Sounds to me like you're boring and try to attach yourself to similarly boring chicks.

>>17257685
>I am autistic and boring. Why am I having difficulties with women??? Grr!! It can't possibly be my fault!!!

Reasons include: not being interested and not wanting to appear more interested than they are, being so interested that they want to avoid looking over eager at all costs, or that they feel rather neutral about you and are fine with talking when you initiate but feel no desire to initiate more interaction than you already have. As you already heard, girls texting first isn't an unheard of thing. They just typically get more attention, or from guys they are more lukewarm about, than they match with their own enthusiasm.

Also
>it can be misconstrued and then suddenly you are maced and on a sex offender list for life.
is a grave exaggeration. No one even got put on a sex offender list for talking to someone. If you don't let your hands wander, don't say explicitly sexual things and don't intimidate anyone, the worst you'll get is overt disinterest.

anyone ?

Have you ever thought of, you know, asking the professor yourself about your standing in the class?

>>17257658
Dear professor X,

I would like to discuss up with you my mark for subject Y.

Regards,
Anon

Pic not related by the way.

>>17257647
Yes you are a bad person. You need to force your friend to do things, and see things your way. There is no room in this world for people who make their own decisions. If they refuse to listen to you you need to shame them until they do

>>17257647
>They have a record of not heeding my advice
>I'm kind of tired of wasting my time, effort and emotions on a person who won't even put what I say into consideration.
You sound like a horrible little cunt.

Some people say that Russian R is trilled, others say it's just a flap? Who the hell do I believe? How to do a flap, what is it about?

Will it ever be "natural" for me? Will I ever be able to pronounce my R in words properly like other people or am I doomed forever?

Does anyone have any tips to help me use the R in words? Right now I can only RRRRRRR and even that I don't know if I'm doing correctly due to all those different opinions people have :/

Also could people give me tips about Czech Ř? I have no idea at all how to do it, would like some redpilled info about its proper pronunciation rather than going to google again and see people arguing with each other about whether opinion X is correct or not.
And is it harder than normal R?

Basically would like to pronounce R and Ř in the most correct way possible. Would be very glad if someone can answer the questions I posted, give tips, etc. Just give all your info please :) thanks in advance.

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>>17257621
bump ^_^

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>>17257650
a desperate bump?
Anyone? pls?

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Also don't mind my grammatical mistakes. English isn't my mother tongue.

>>17257555
Are you a boy or a girl

>>17257562
hahaha I get asked this question quite a log.

I'm a boy

Listen, if she orgasmed she would be very wet. She is either lying to you about her orgasms or she has some medical issue and needs to speak to her gynecologist.

>>17257536
maybe i should clarify
it was extremely wet at one time and realy dry the next...
we were both pretty dehydrated if that makes a difference

There is a medical condition called "vaginismus" where the vagina contracts and spasms in response to physical stimulus. It can be quite painful.

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Gonna bump this once and go answer some other threads

Your only recourse is probably to shop around for a more expensive place or something

otherwise no unless you want to get into lawyers and shit

>>17257518
The insurance co won't give you any more than the book value of the car. They're probably classing it as "fair" condition. You might be able to convince them to upgrade it to "good" and get a little more out of them. And since the car is for their purposes totalled, you should get the check directly, to spend as you wish.

>>17257498
>What to do if a person wants to date/dates you and you clearly see (s)he loves the idea of you and not you?

try them on, dump them if they're annoying. but using people for validation is a-ok with me, might not be for you.

Choose yourself over them in this situation.

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I would say that you avoid it OP. I know this is 4chan so I don't want to wax too poetic or blogpost but this happened to me and it fucked me up hard.

It was awful roller coaster of a relationship that I am surprised lasted as long as it did.

If you go for it OP, enjoy constantly reminded by your significant other that you aren't living up to their expectations of 'who you really are.'

Be prepared to constantly hear about you how you should feel and behave. My ex would literally get pissed that I didn't enjoy certain hobbies they thought I 'should enjoy.'

It will fuck with your self-esteem and your sense of identity. It also just plain sucks to feel like you're a failure just for not conforming to another person's narrow expectations.

Live for yourself.

How often do you see each other? LDRs take a lot of work.

>>17257490
We've been together for 2.5 years, our relationship was LDR from the start since we are both from the same town but study in different towns.

So that means we see each other for winter holidays, easter holidays, during the whole 3 months of summer and a few visits here and there between those days.

She has been going out with her friends from university more often recently, so that has sparked my worry probably.

I'm also worried about what she may or may not do when we get into an argument, because I know how irrational and vengeful women can be, I trust myself but I can't ever trust 100% someone else.

I'm in an LDR here, too. I empathise with the feeling, desu.

I just trust her. Then again, she's more into me than I am with her, plus I get decent attention from other females which keeps her on her toes a bit more.

I'm going all-in w/ the trust (I'd still call her out on sketchy behaviour). What keeps me going is that I can't control if she cheats or not - a cheater will always cheat. Additionally, I'll eventually find out, the truth always comes out. If that does happen, I know I'll dump her, go NC, and her shit will get fucked up. She'll become a better person, I'll be free to find someone better. it'll suck, but it will get better.

Just stay posi, trust her, but don't hit "cuck" territory. Paranoia robs you of the joy in the present, homie.

Stop the self pity and actually take some responsibility?

convince yourself that you lack self control

then realize how much of a whiny arse you are and do something about it

You aren't a dog. You don't have to have some Pavlovian response to feeling sad that makes you eat.

Be a fucking person and decide what's the best course of action for you to take to better your life.