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So there's this girl. We have kissed already. She really likes me as a friend.

I met her today, first time in two weeks or so and we didn't kiss. We hugged. There was talk about a trip we can take together, but I don't know now if we are just friends or more.

She's on a lot of meds after a nervous breakdown and I've told her I'm there to support her through it all.

But equally, I need to know if we are together or not. How do I have this conversation gently?

I'm seeing her tomorrow, for some amount of time. But then she's going back to a city 3 hours away. So even if we are together it'll be long distance.

Help?
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>>17265091
You must be 18 to post here.
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>>17265099
I'm 27. She's had a nervous breakdown. Is it all the same to ask or does this need to be done carefully?

I don't know what her mental state is like at the moment
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>>17265091
sounds like you contributed to the breakdown after not asking her out from kissing or something. just simply ask her out or like you said
>She really likes me as a friend.

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Okay /adv/ I've been saving up for a while and have around 2k bucks to spend on building my own PC. I've never actually built one before but I know a god bit about computers (mostly software tho). Anyhow what are your tips for parts to get, brands, or any /adv/ you think I need.
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>>17264893
Don't they have a PC building thing on Reddit? If you want advice on a specific subject it really is the best place to go desu.
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>>17264893
Just put one together one newegg and call it a day. If you have a good pc store that's competitive you could do that too. If you're going to be building something nice, I'd go for the leading brands like Intel for your CPU and Nvidia for your GPU. Get a well reviewed mobo, PSU, etc. $2k is a fairly large budget for a new build if you're scratch building it yourself. You can always spend more, but that will get you a pretty good rig. I recommend a full size case so you don't have to tetris your components and cables, I did and never looked back.
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There are tons of sites that could help you. /g/ could help but keep in mind this is 4chan. PCpartpicker is good. There is a also a reddit that helps. They will either advise you on your build or build one for you. My personal recommendation would be to use a the newest generation Intel i7 or i5 with either a 1080 or 1070 from whatever manufacterer you like. Then just built everything else around that. Get a good color scheme going and a sweet tower. Also make sure to get a SSD for the OS. I recommend MSI parts. Just make sure all the parts work together before you buy them.

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So every month i pay 227$ to geico. Im 22 and the car is in my name. I've been in three accidents, all of which i was not at fualt. Is there anything i can do to make the cost lower? Ive already shoopped around and even the ghetto 18$ insurance sites tell me 300 per month. I still live with mum can she put the car on her insurance?
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>>17264750
Mum constantly says " i wish i could put you on mine but you cant insure a car that isn't in your name " after a few min of Google i just learned it was a lie.
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>>17264750
Did you try Traveler's Insurance? Shop around and actually get some quotes after explaining your situation--they're in the business of selling policies and they might just cut you a deal if you play your cards right ;) GL!
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Get a motorcycle

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Hey guys, i really need advice right now. I don't have a huge problem, i just don't know what to do.

Is apologizing by text bad? I didn't spoke to a girl for some time because we had a "fight", i had the chance to talk to her today, but i decided not. Now i'm home and wanna talk to her, but idk if i should. I think she doesn't care about me and everything, i just wanna do this to be okay. Pls help anons
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Usually i tend to apologize in the moment.
After that, it's a past thing. Move on.
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Do the right thing. Condemn her to death.
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I feel you ought to meet her in a café, and tell her about how sorry you are and stuff.

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I don't know if I should make this question to fit or adv. I have very high cholesterol and I don't what to do. Should I lift or do some cardio?
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Same thing happening to me atm. Just change your diet, eat alot of foods high in fiber like oats and veggies and fruit. Do some sort of physical activity everyday..Stay away from too much sodium and if you smoke or drink exessivly cut that shit out. Especially the smoking.
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Last time I had my cholesterol checked, my doctor said it was the best she'd ever seen. My good cholesterol was over double my bad cholesterol.

I eat oatmeal for breakfast almost all of the time, and I'm pretty sure that contributed a lot to my awesome levels. So, get them oats, bruh. I also was doing a lot of cardio intervals at the time (running then walking, then running again).
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>>17265558
He's right. It's diet (and genetics) more than exercise.

Did you ask your doctor for advice when you got the results?

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So there is this girl that I have great chemistry with. Do to circumstances we only see one another maybe once every 2 months but we always have a lot of fun together and basically ignore everyone else to hang out the entire night.


THeres a bit of an age difference.
I didnt think much of of it but she mentioned last time I saw her last she turns 20 next month (Im 26) more than once.

I dont know how to take this.
Is she saying "im too young for you back off" or is she just excited about her birthday.

I dont know. It sort of occurred to me she could be wigged out by me as an older guy laying the flirtation on so thick.

I feel a bit like a creep now and am super embarrassed. At the same time I hope Im just being paranoid (I did think of this while high last night) I really like this girl. Shes clever, fun, cute and interesting. Plus we have a lot of interests in common.

Picture unrelated. On a work computer.
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I could really use some input.

But Im Only going to bump this once.
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>>17264364
At 20 yrs old she might very well be just excited about her birthday and hoping that you might say something about it--show interest, ask her what her plans are or invite her out, etc. She'd have to say more than that for it to read, "You're too old for me, grandpa!" Relax, breathe...
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>>17265537

Yeah probably.
Most people Ive asked about it. People that know her and I and people totally outside of it don't think the age difference is that weird.

I just got out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago and shes the only woman I know that makes me forget about my ex. Which was an amazing feeling. I think thats part of the reason im so freaked out by this.

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How do i get through this situation? I've been like this for almost my whole life. I was a mischievous kid,tomboyish and sporty until that incident in physical class turned my life to another page.
It happened when i was 11. After that incident there was something wrong with my knee and i got some big operations to get it fixed. Thanks god its function is totally perfect now but what i got after those operations wasn't the same anymore.
I started closing myself to others. I went through some days where others kids stared at me,some tried to show their sympathy,some made fun of me while i was in a wheelchair.
I didn't want anyone to share with as my ego was too big i didn't want them to look at me as somebody disabled.
I went through my high school time trying to get away from guys even if they show their interest or chasing me. I dated but whenever the relationship get to another point I quit. I can't show them what i am since i was rejected by it once when that boy in the same highschool rejected me.
Yes and I'm depressing by it. No one knows as i was trying to cover it my whole life. I moved to another state. Now that some people i made friends with starting to question me why i am still single even makes me more stressed. It's just the way I choose to live with I don't know why they care about it too much as it was their business.
Also i am stuck in the stage where I want to fix my fear to have a better life but afraid of showing it to others.
I went to the therapist before but refused to take those pill. Don't really want to depend on it too much.
What can i do now?
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Bumpppp
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Pathetic
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You are doing the right thing by asking for help. Look up some yahoo answers and what not, as I doubt not a lot of people here can help you based on what you just wrote. Write the whole picture and not just some side-story crap, your an anon here, no one gives a fuck about you and no one will care unless you specifically go out your way to get attention. So you were depressed and nobody knew, just seems to me like your were looking for some friendship and relations. Btw, was your "knee" actually your dick? if you can't progress far enough to bang.

> Get a job and it might help.

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Guys how can I earn some money online if I live outside US? Pls don't even link shit like pay2click or refferal based sites
PS: Amazon mturk reject everyone outside US
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Do something original? My friend used to make some money drawing hentai on request a while back

I don't think there is an easy solution to your problem though.

Try http://www.upwork.com/
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>>17264123
You ever heard of that nigerian prince who gives away money?
You should try that..sounds like easy cash.
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>>17264123
What are you good at, skilled in, or qualified to do? What country are you in? Education?
I might have a good suggestion for you.

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Ok so there is this girl I have been seeing for about a week. We are really into eachother, but are waiting a few weeks before we call ourselves a couple. She wants to wait because the last guy she was with was very controlling after a month, and really mean to her. The problem I have is that there is this guy who asked her out before we started seeing eachother, and they planned it this saturday. She asked me if I would be cool with it in text, but I do not know what to say. Im not really that okay with it, but I really have no say in this because me and her are not really a couple officially yet. What should I tell her?
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>>17287604
Say that you'd like to be a couple with her and that you're not really comfortable with her seeing another guy. If she can't accept that, unfortunately you just kind of have to move on.
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>>17287604
you hit it just right - officially not a couple you dont have a choice, but you can still at least let her know that you dig her and you might be a little hurt - say hurt not jealous. then you put it back on her and see what she does

it doesnt mean this new guy will steal her away, or maybe it might - thats not up to you or under your control
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>>17287604
Only a week is still way too little of time man - u cant say much at all really

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Help please I can't tell if I'm being stupid or she is flirting with me
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Totally flirting.

Send her a dick pic.
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>>17287495
/thread
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>>17287485
How about some context you dumb nigger.

>Will have to work along side girl I dated
>Broken up for a month
>Wasn't a long relationship but pretty intense (spent 2-4 days a week together)
>She had a bunch of rules I had to follow
>I ended it when she wasn't open to drinking or partying only on the weekends (wasn't even open to talking about it)

I'm still pretty pissed at her - I didn't really want to break up with her but I knew I had to.

Either way I want to act like I don't give a shit about her - but to really aggravate her should I just ignore her all together and pretend she isn't there/be happy, or is it more gut wrenching to acknowledge her and pretend I've forgotten all feelings towards her?

>I get that I'm being petty, but I'm a petty guy
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>>17287397
well you tossed her b/c she wont party, so i guess you dont care about her that much

party girls can reel you in and break you good if you let them - maybe a non-party one is a better choice
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>>17287397


>Either way I want to act like I don't give a shit about her - but to really aggravate her should I just ignore her all together and pretend she isn't there/be happy, or is it more gut wrenching to acknowledge her and pretend I've forgotten all feelings towards her?

You're being petty. Stop it. The only thing this attitude will accomplish is solidly convincing this girl and everyone you work with that you're an immature ass-hat who shouldn't be taken seriously.

You broke up with her, for a stupid reason on top of that. You did this to yourself. Move on. There's no reason to punish her because its not her fault you're a fucking idiot.
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>>17287414
>well you tossed her b/c she wont party, so i guess you dont care about her that much
I cared about her a lot - The problem was that she was partying too much and I knew I had to break it off

More than anything though I broke it off because she demanded compromise from me but refused to acknowledge the problems I had which is why I'm still pretty pissed

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I kinda have different personalities, I'm not sure but when i'm in school everyone thinks that "Wow you know stuff" "You're really smart" "Woow how did you know that" and stuff.

I have different friends and they're not from the school and they think i'm the dumbest person on the earth. Like everything i say to them is a mistake.

And for my family i'm a kinda calm guy but offensive sometimes and my thoughts are too extreme they think i'm smart for them but a little bit extreme for having some ideas, because i kinda dislike everything thats what they think

But whenever i'm alone i think that "I really hate those people around me. I think I'm smarter than everyone of them. They really disgust me"

Do I have fucking problem ?
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Yeah, they're called run ons

But seriously, it sounds like you need to get out more. There is a right answer in school, and you have a knack for memorization, but in open ended conversations you lack the ability to either articulate or express yourself.

Basically you're young, find some friends and ave some deep conversations. Things can only improve
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no, you're just an edgelord. reported for underage.
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>>17287382

>I kinda have different personalities

No, you're just a kid who has no idea who he is yet.

>Do I have fucking problem ?

You do have a problem, its called adolescence. We all went through it and it'll probably even out somewhere in your mid twenties.

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Basically, everyday I see him try to talk up a girl from my group. Its summer session, he looks like your typical jersey shore douche with red hair and expensive car.

Anyways, I noticed he is always looking in my direction when I am in class. And then he talks up to the girls in my group. I like one of the girls, so it fuckin killed me when he was hitting on her. But then he started doing the same thing to the other two.

On top of this, I never see him flirt with the other 8 or 9 girls in my class. What is going through this guy's head? the girls do talk to me and flirt but I am a socially inept retard whose building his life back up. The girl I do like has a rich boyfriend and she gives me mixed signals where she shows interests but acts shy. Another thing that is odd is I found his lab on my book one time, out of no where. I returned it to him. Yeah, idk what is going on. Do you guys?
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Are you like 16 or something? Ffs
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I am mentally pretty stupid. It may just be limited to social intelligence but i think i am stupid as fuck honestly.
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>>17287366
Maybe he wants someone to tell him that this mystery man is gay and once it's mentioned he will come back with "I thought so because..." and we're all supposed to then advise him on where to go from there and elaborate on which signals showed up and then to suck his dick ferociously.

Or maybe we're the ones who are 16.

captcha
>spaghetti

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How do you guys accept compliments? I feel like I've forgotten how. Broke up with my gf 3 months ago. Self-esteem hasn't been the same since.
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>>17287326
I usually thank whoever complimented me and go about my day.
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>>17287326

>How do you guys accept compliments?

"Hey anon, you're looking good today."


"Oh, well thank you!"
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>>17287370
>>17287384
There's still that lingering feeling like it isn't true, but those are pretty obvious and straight forward answers. Thanks. I suppose it'll go away in time.

What's the cheapest way to get braces?

No health insurance or anything, and just barely an adult
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>>17287324
Stocking doesn't have double Ds.

What the fuck mang.
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>>17287429
:^)
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I really really like this picture

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