Now what? The woman I truly thought would be the perfect match for me doesn't like me romantically. I am devastated but not really angry. I am more concerned about what the fuck I do now. This girl was one in a fucking million. My age, she is average looking as am I. Had similar interests.
I am 23. Now what? How the fuck am I going to live knowing that perfection doesn't like me. There is no one like her and I will probably spend my days looking for her carbon copy.
Help me... For all the people who think I am being over dramatic, think if this way. If you ate a pie made by the God of pie making and it was the best pie ever.... Then the god said fuck you and told you to eat mortal pies... Wouldn't you be upset knowing that you tasted godliness but now you gotta eat pleb pies?
I would secretly steal gods pies.
You don't need pie you fat fuck. Move in with your life. People aren't that goddamn special.
Get over yourself and her. 23 is far too young to complain that you'll never meet anyone else who is compatible.
Your obsession with her will poison all future attempts at a relationship, thus creating a self fulfilling prophesy.
Just got a job at Mickey D's, any advice or worries I should be aware of?
>>17286206
You'll quit after a week.
It sucks.
Beware of the hamburgelar.
>>17286213
Yeah, I'm not planning on staying for long, I just need something to hold me over for a bit
>I live in Canada and weed will be legal next year.
>always wanted to become a police officer.
>I have no criminal record. I do smoke and refuse to ever quit smoking marijuana.
Do yall think that when Marijuana becomes legal I would be able to join my local police force?
No. you're too lazy.
>OP
I am 27 years old, I have my grade 12, I make $28 a hour now. Concidering going back to school and choosing a different career path.
>>17286205
What do you currently do?
D I S G U S T I N G
is this for real?
>>17286187
Get it cut. Uncut peckers are gross!
>Have crippling OCD
>Always counting things
>Scared of becoming a hoarder
>Only buy 12 albums/books per artist/writer
>Realize this is dumb, end up with 15 Beatles albums
>Realized I only needed about 14 Beatles albums
>Scared of the number 13
Should I keep the collections at 14 or 12 items per person? God I hate being this paranoid...
Also I'm scared that if I go over 12 my "favorites" would seem unrealistic.
>>17286179
Are you getting your meds?
>>17286179
>>Realize this is dumb, end up with 15 Beatles albums
You went against your own OCD rules?
That's fucked up, dude.
I made a thread about a breakup that happened on Saturday, and i'm starting to think my girlfriend might be suffering from PMDD.
She's been telling me that she just wants to be alone and she can't give me what i'm giving her in our relationship, but there's admittedly (by her) no other reason. I was convinced that she was just being crazy and Ive been bothering her trying to change her mind... but after talking to an ex about whats going on, she basically opened my mind to the fact that she might be suffering PMDD. It definitely makes sense because right around now would be the time she would be experiencing pre-menstrual symptoms, and maybe this time around her hormones are just crazy.
This all began saturday, she said she woke up at 4 in the morning and couldn't fall back asleep and sat there thinking about our relationship and decided its not a good idea to be together. Over the last few days she hasn't been the person I've known the last few months, showing a lot of hostility and anger towards me when she never really had in the past. I just believe this is the right diagnostic for what's happening between me and her because all the times she's PMS'd in the past, she came across to me as a completely different person, and when she finally got her period, it was back to normal.
Can anyone say they've ever been in a relationship with a girl with PMDD and can say they've experienced the same relationship issues?
>>17286172
You don't know women very well yet, do you? She really does want to break up, she just doesn't want to tell you the real reason. Women always give an excuse. But make no mistake, if she says she doesn't want to be with you anymore, she doesn't want to be with you anymore. You're sure as hell not going to save this one by saying "oh no, honey, I KNOW you still love me, you're just having some mental difficulties that make you think I'm not the one. I'm not going anywhere"
If this line of thinking is common for you, I might have a few guesses on why she's really dumping you
>>17286186
I find that hard to believe because I've literally begged her to tell me that If there is a further reason that it's better off to just tell me then hide it and she just gets angry that I don't believe her.
Maybe you're right, but I figure if I give it 1-2 weeks to let her cool down and then present the possiblity of PMDD that she might be willing to believe that.
I also strongly believe this possbility because she hasn't had her period for 4 months now, and hits literally every symptom of PMDD on the head of the nail. Not to mention this is the time of the month it should be happening.
Literally all this shit happened over night, and nothing should have caused her to think this way... we've only had maybe 3 fights that ended by the end of the day, and it was just shit going on between us, no outside cause.
>>17286200
>>17286186
If she still holds the same feelings after another week when I decide to talk to her one last time, then yeah, Ill believe that she just wants to be done and wont tell me the true reason.
I should also say that yesterday we were together after she had refused to see me for 4 days, and we were hanging out like however we normally would and she wasnt reluctant to give my physical attention and was even giving me all the signs she wanted it, but as soon as I went for it she backed off and went back to "thinking", and stormed out of my house and shot me a text saying she just needs time to clear her mind and I said okay.
I really try to expand conversations, but everytime I do I get an answer of which I can't respond to, resulting in the usual silence.
Anything I can do about it (except speaking to more people, I tried and miserably failed)?
>>17286166
At 26, I haven't been able to. Kinda stems from the fact that I've been doing the bare minimum i.e. work, eat, sleep & repeat. Tends to leave you with not much to say.
>>17286166
You're still in the mindset that people can change.
If you're 21 or older and you're still not talkative: you won't ever be.
>>17286242
People can still improve. I'm 23 and much less of a moron socially than I was at 21. What changed is I got a job that forces me to interact with people a lot. It made me a lot better at conversation. People over 21 can still improve.
So this is the first thread I've ever made, and I rarely comment. I've observed that the biggest thing with 4chan is negativity, people either whining about their problems and then never accepting viable solutions, or people calling the former gay and autistic. I've decided to make a thread dedicated to improvements we've made on our lives lately, tiny or huge, doesn't matter, and our short term plans to become even better :)
bumpity bump bump? I'm sorry, I just can see my idea catching on, it just hasn't happened yet
soooo i'm touring the US this year with my band, the tour's gonna be called "One Last Bump"
If you smoke weed daily, seriously, take a 2 or 3 week break.
I know it sounds "bogus" but you'll thank me after.
Hey my friends. I am 29 years old with a somewhat steady gf. Well on the last few months I have been hooking up with this hot chick on the side. She is wonderful and amazing. However she is moving into another continent in 4 months. How do I cope with reality after she leaves? She is trully one of a kind as I have met many, many girls in my lifetime. Thanks in advance
Just die
just follow her where ever she goes. she may cuck you a couple of times but in the end you'll know what its like to be someone's fuck toy.
>>17286124
Kill yourself.
Why is my neck so fuckin red all the time? I don't even have to scratch it, it's just red from the morning all day - cold and winter...
Also why's my bone in the middle of the chest like that? I thought it was Pectus carinatum or some shit when I was younger but it doesn't really fit it's diagnosis.
helb
>>17286116
Just google "why is my neck red in the morning?"
Go to the doctors bro, they can help alot better than we can
I've been working my entire life, and my 18 year old girlfriend started at her job and already makes more than I do.
Do you think I can trust her enough to support me while I quit my job to take care of household things like cleaning, cooking, and playing video games?
Or is she more than likely to quit/leave me and screw me over?
>>17286080
she would leave you since you'd be a fucking deadweight.
>>17286080
>my 18 year old girlfriend started at her job and already makes more than I do.
Does she charge by the hour or by the act?
I don't really see a reason to do this if you don't have kids that need cared for.
Hey anons, Im a 19 yo fag who just finished high school in Switzerland and now I have to choose where I would like to go to college.
If I stay in Switzerland, i will live like a poor fag, weather will still be shit, and i will hardly get a college degree without repeating at least one school year. However I lived here all my life and love based Switzerland.
If I move to Dominican Republic with my mother, I will go to private college, will live better in overall ( will afford easily a car, better food, etc ), will get nice latina pussy cause they love aryan blood there. However I don't know anything about this third world country and I dont even know If this college degree will be recognized, when I comeback to Switzerland.
pls help /adv/
tl;dr How is life in a third world country for a student?
>>17286065
>being poor
>Switzerland
Pick one and only one.
>>17286065
Do not under any circumstance leave switzerland, its is literally the best country you could possibly live in, i would honestly kill for swiss citizenship. You are also used to a country that does things right, the third world is not nice, trust me. If you leave, you will regret it.
>>17286088
he doesn't have to renounce his swiss citizenship to move to DR for a few years, senpai
Subject says it all.
I'm 19 years old, male, living with mom, enrolled in Western Washington University with 105 credits under my belt, working toward a degree in archaeology with the idea of having a career working in the field someday. The reason for wanting to work in the field is because I like being outdoors and I love history. The first thing I wanted to do as a child was be an archaeologist, but I've only very recently started considering it again. The only issue is that it seems like archaeologists don't make a lot of money and the field is fairly competitive. this doesn't work super well for me as I plan on having a family someday soon and want my wife to be able to not work so as to take care of the kids. This leads into my other passion.
Like every other millennial, I love to travel. I figure the job that best allows for a life of travel while also being able to support a family is being a pilot. I started researching how to become a pilot a while ago and it seemed like the military was the best way to go. However, I have some medical issues on record from when I was younger that if the military ever found would immediately dismiss me. Which leads to the sudden realization I had today.
I got married to my friend a few months back so I could get free college. This has been working pretty well at my current university, but I realized today that I could go to any aviation school in the country for free and become a pilot that way. I heard that Embry-Riddle has 90% job placement rate upon graduation.
So this is a pretty recent idea of mine and I would really appreciate some advice on the issue. I don't really know the quickest and best way to become a pilot, but this seems like a good start. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Tl;dr Should I go to Embry-Riddle to become a pilot since it's free for me or should I do something else?
>>17286064
My friend goes to Embry-Riddle. He'll be a junior there next year. If you really want specific questions, I can relay them to him to answer.
>>17286064
my cousin went to Embry-Riddle, he says the travel is nice but the job itself is shit. Other than take-off and landing you have nothing to do and just sit there bored out of your mind for hours, on most planes you can't even stand up or move.
>>17286140
Don't most jobs end up being pretty boring? Seems like the pay, benefits, and time off are all pretty sweet.
>>17286119
I'm wondering if you have to do anything besides go to school do well in order to get a job. Do I also need to do some kind of extra curriculars of some sort in order to get a job?
I did the right thing
If I'd have walked on by no-one would care or know
But I didn't , I tried to make sure some people were safe
now no-one likes me because of it
What should I do?
>>17286040
what did you do friend?
if you stopped some bros from consensual sex with some passed out chick behind a dumpster then you did the wrong thing.
I can't say in case I'm a prosecuting witness
How do you distance yourself from toxic people, anons? How do you deal with the grief when you leave those people? Please share your stories.
It could be friends or social acquaintances. It could be a spouse or significant other.
In my case, my family is pretty bad. They are mostly alcoholics and drug addicts. My parents especially go out of their way to start drama and fights, verbally abuse (and used to physically abuse) my siblings, steal money, etc.
But they are my parents so I have a thirty + year history with them, and I have found that it is impossible to distance myself completely.
If my dad ends up in the hospital or jail, the cops call me first. We work in the same industry so we will end up working with the same people or on the same contracts. We know so many people in common.
I love my parents, I really do, but I am so tired of getting hurt/taken advantage of every time I see them.
I don't know at this point what kind of boundary to create. Should I stop talking to my dad altogether? Just see him on holidays?
I'm married with 2 kids a 2.5 yo and a 1.5 yo.
She's pregnant with child #3
I'm not invited to the birth at the moment.
She's just grown to hate me over the years.
I can't say I've done any one big thing wrong -- such as cheating, drinking, or a drug habit. I don't even have a temper and am emotionally sound.
I take the kids for more time than she does, I make all the money, I do all the cleaning, cooking, and laundry.
She says I just don't listen or support her enough.
One huge grievance she has is that when we used to have sex I would spit in my hand and put it on my dick before insertion. She's asked me stop and I did.
She sees the spit dick as a sign I don't care about her pleasure. However we almost always have sex for longer periods of time and I frequently brought her to climax.
I deal with screaming and crying tantrums from her on almost a daily basis. I never really engage with negative responses I'm always the calm voice asking why and how can we work to make her happy.
I feel almost as though my removed and calm state and refusal to fight may exacerbate our issues.
She has 20% ownership of a 500k valued house with her siblings that her parents gave them.
My understanding is that since she got the property before we were married it wouldn't be on the table in a divorce.
However, her parents are selling the house and if that sale happened during our marriage the proceeds would be up for grabs in a divorce.
I can't help but think she wants a divorce to happen before the sale to keep me from receiving any portion of the sale.
Also who wants a divorce so close to giving birth? Someone who has a child by a man other than their husband. I was away for work for a large amount of the possible time the of conception. But we did copulate a few times during the window of conception.
I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to have my nice intact family and live and thrive
Help
how did the marriage go downhill? that type of thing is hard to comprehend... you just fell out of love? Did she get unattractive?
>>17286021
The way you describe it, it sounds as if you've done nothing wrong.
Shit happens, OP. Once you're paying alimony and child support it won't matter all that much, but consider MGTOW
>>17286021
>She's just grown to hate me over the years
And being the dumbfuck that you are, you've knocked her up not once, not twice, but THREE times in three years. Congrats bro.