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Hey /adv/, what hardware do I need to upgrade on my PC to prevent crashing from the number of mods on Skyrim and KSP?
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>>17272225

its hard to say cuz we dont know what you got.

generally speaking you need the 'minimum requirements' that every game will tell you to have. with great mods come great PC power, so take those minimum requirements and go two steps higher.
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>>17272225
Kek that fucking pic
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>>17272260
I've got
AMD fx 4350 4 GHz quad core
GTX 950sc 2 GB
8 gigs of ram
Corsair 500 watt PSU

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Going to be moving from NYC to Chicago soon for work. I don't know anybody there, and I'm a 27 year old dude

How do I start all over making friends and meeting people? Like, completely from scratch. It's easy to meet people through your current friends, but I will literally be starting from nothing
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Considering how your picture is that of Goku and Naruto, I'd suggest reading up on Gunsmith Cats, and going to Mitsuwa and the local convention.

That would be a good start.
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>>17272192
but im not a flaming weeb

just a part time weeb
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>>17272341

>im too good for anime fans send me soemwhere else.

im barely into anime at all really, seen like 3 shows since 2006 but i went on meetup.com and joined anime groups and hang out wiht anime nerds. its great cuz they happen to be human and also like other things.

met my new bud via an anime meet up. weve done no anime stuff since then, we mostly play dodgeball hang out, planning some video game stuff etc.

so that being said, meetup.com. its great in los angeles. the trick is you have to actually go. not say 'NAH THAT DOESNT SOUDN LIKE SOMETHIGN ID DO' then not go, because you can and likely will say that about literally everything simply cuz youd never done it before.

which is funny cuz it makes you realize what a dull person you are demanding to be entertained.

I have a job interview tomorrow, I been practicing and reading up on the company and watching YouTube videos on what to do and what is really terrible to do.

ITT: Share your job interviews experiences, details that might help people that are currently looking for a job and might be going to an interview in the somewhat near future or near future.

Are there any older and more experienced people out there that have some solid advice?

Position: Kindergarten teacher
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>>17272135
Be familiar with, and able to discuss without looking at, your resume and your interest in the job. Consider visiting the job before the interview and seeing what they dress like--dress as if you already belong there. Smile and maintain eye contact. Think of a few questions to ask that will show that you're both interested in the job and the right person for the position. I hope that these help! GL!
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Just be cool dude.
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>>17272135
I'd google stuff for teaching interviews. They probably have more applicable and realistic questions and scenarios that have happened.

As for me personally. I've been asked stuff like
>tell me about yourself
>why should we hire you
>where do you see yourself in 5 years
>what is your biggest weakness
typical questions. then some curveballs likes.
>(in group interview) sell me the other candidate.
>what would you do with $1000 right now
>what song best describes your life
>who's going to win the big game this week and why

you should have questions rehearsed and prepped for an answer. This goes without saying, but make sure clothes is clean and ironed. shower. dont eat like an onion or garlic bagel in the morning. gl man.

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i want to learn to hack, ddos, and doxx
but i have no one to get advice from.
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Install gentoo :^)
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>>17272114

take programming classes. hacking is literally finding flaws in the programming and exploiting them.
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If you're over 13 years old and haven't started learning yet, give up. At best you can be a script kiddie.

Everyone seems to have a different definition of hacking but at its core, I think "hacking" has a lot to do with finding the answers yourself. Besides, this question has been asked millions of times. I'm sure you'll find someone good online through searching.

Learn how computers work, how the internet works, etc. Learn a programming language.

If you're like me and tried picking up a language but lack the motivation, don't even bother. We don't have the right mindset, otherwise we would have started at a young age with a natural yearning to find the answers ourselves rather than ask to be taught.

Your time will be better spent learning a trade. How does a plumber or electrician sound?

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i'll start off this by saying i've /practically/ made up my mind, however, i am open to input. I've already talked to my parents and sister about this, and they have been supportive, but have not given an answer, only a summarized: "we'll support whichever decision you make" so i need some outside input

TL;DR: girlfriend of 2 years started hanging around with guy i don't like. i tell her constantly to not hang around him, talk to him, etc. she goes to his house during the day, gets raped. she has filed charges, and is continuing on, she wants my support, i'm not really with it. contemplating leaving her

>dating for two years
>love her
>we build, etc
>few months ago, she meets guy in class
>think nothing of it
>they start talking more
>i dont cosign, tell her cut it out
>she deliberately ignores me
>i assume shes enamored with him
ok, ive flirted with girls while with her, so i cant say much
>tell her to cut it out one final time
>she doesnt listen
>last month, she hangs at his house (for whatever reason)
>later that evening she tells me she was raped by him
>look of disgust on my face
>i try to hide it as soon as possible
>no hug, just back pats
>tell her i love her etc, itll be okay
>im absolutely mad at her all this time
>she hasnt said much about where they are with the case
i dont care either
>she comes to me recently saying how glad she is to have me, is grateful for my support, blah blah
>dont care, just want to leave her
>i just cant get over the the fact she didn't listen

i know i cant control her, but its like what the hell
i dont even look at her the same anymore, just need input or something, also i dont think shes a whore or anything, but i cant cosign her deliberately ignoring me and then having this happen because i feel it'd happen again
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>>17272056
Bro you're literally getting cucked. She's cheating on you and using the rape as an excuse. After a few more weeks she's gonna start hanging with him again and is going to use some bullshit excuse as to why it's okay she's seeing him.

Point is she never got raped, she has consensual sex with him and is lying to you like the slut she is.

Dump her before you waste anymore time, effort and money on her than you already have. You fucked up enough by staying with her after all this.

Even by some slim chance she did actually get raped, she didn't listen to you. Telling her not to hang out with a guy ALONE while she has a boyfriend is not controlling. She should listen to you on this as you should listen to her on things like this. I doubt you'd hang out with a girl alone?

Get the fuck out of her life before she ruins yours even more.
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>>17272056
you are correct, op
this is a tough situation, and moralfags will no doubt chastise you for even thinking about leaving her. but you know the truth- a good woman would not have even maintained contact with this guy, let alone put herself in a position to be "raped". i put that in quotes because there is no way to know if she is only pressing charges in an attempt to keep you around. for all you or i know, she initiated the sex and then was overwhelmed by guilt afterward. add to all that, that she has been fucked by another man. for me, there is no redemption from that. if she were actually raped and it was proven, the only way i would stay with her would be if she provided me all of the guys personal info and watched as i laid vengeance upon him. even then, i dont know if i could continue a relationship with her, because it was her own questionable choices that led her to this situation.
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>>17272056
Some rapists will groom girls by pretending to be nice at first (including consensual sex) and then lure them into a false sense of comfort and surprising them with rape. If she's filing charges she's probably serious about it.

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I have only a little friends and I am constantly talked shit about by a certain person to everyone and everyone thinks i'm a scumbag because I didn't speak up against the rumors. I have some social anxiety and i blurt out autistic shit all the time. Said person is a complete shithead and he is one of the more popular people around, so next to noone really believes me. Wat do?
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>>17272046
Well, learn to think before you speak, that's going to help you in the long run.

But also fuck rumors, and fuck them. If anyone tells you something about yourself, just tell them it isn't true and get on with your life.

Some people just need a scapegoat for their own issues so they create issues and spread rumors about someone for other people to talk about.

But for real at least get to know someone before calling them a shithead or whatever.
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>>17272098
Actually OP, re read your post and realized that same person you called a shithead was the same guy spreading the rumors.

So basically you're not wrong calling him a shithead if he's making shit up unprovoked.

Just ignore it and spend time with people who aren't shirty.
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>>17272111
OP here, not trying to argue, but many people have the same opinion of him being a shithead. Most people are just friends with him because he's rich and only that. No one actually likes him for his personality as far as i know. Also, he has a temper that is extremely small and flips his shit at the smallest things and he talks shit about everyone, even HIS friends. I've been looking to get more social and he's a mayor obstacle because everyone has a bad opinion of me because of him so it's hard to make friends and he just doesn't stop.

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Am I wrong to feel hurt?

>birthday was the 5th
>was way for 2 weeks for work
>comeback, no gifts, no cake, nothing
>I live with my parents
>I spent 100 dollars on fathers day gifts for my day

I guess I'm supposed to accept it since I'm 20 now and I did get some birthday text messages.
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>>17271979
Some families are just like that, sadly, but you may want to consider talking to one or both parents just to be sure that nothing's in the works for your birthday or that something else is going on...

For what it's worth, happy belated birthday out there! I hope that things only get better from here on!
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>get gifts
>nothing I wanted
>tfw
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>>17271979
:( sorry OP

When I was in HS i invited my "friends" to go paint balling. None of them brought me a present, and they kind of ignored me. It was pretty embarrassing, because my parents and some other family was there, and they all got to see what a loser I was.

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hooked up with alt / ratchet / punk friend of a friend, losing my virginity to her. I can't stop thinking about her, feel fluttery and hot and awkward whenever I see her. Ask my friend if I should ask her out, my friend tells me shes not the kind of girl a nice guy like me should date... that I should leave it at I lost my virginity and thats it... but I can't. Meet up with her again to hang out... she blows me by a river near a walking trail... I ask her out and she tells me shes no good and I should just enjoy what shes doing.
The more time I spend with her, the more I like her though, not just the sex, everything about her... I don't know what to do, shes driving me crazy... Shes really fucked up, but I can't help it, I want her so badly... my friend keeps telling me to stay away from her, she even says she regrets getting me involved with her... but I don't want to stay away.
Whats wrong with me? Why would my friend want me to stay away so badly? I'm so confused.
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You should listen to them both, you're more or less something new for her, a *good* boy, something interesting for a while. Fuck as much as possible, when it ends if you're still in pain get proper drunk with a nasty hangover but don't do stupid shit like calling her.
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>>17271911
Do I keep hooking up with her? I don't know why my friend says shes so fucked up. Shes weird, partially shaved head, piercings, weird make up and clothes. But shes really nice, at least shes always been nice to me, I'm not very good sexually and literally everything me and this girl have done has been embarrassing for me but when we hang out shes always enthusiastic. She seems to like spending time with me, but doesn't want to be in a relationship, she acts like shes protecting me from herself and its aggravating... my friend seems almost angry I keep hooking up with her, and I just don't understand any of it.
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>>17271928
Oh for God's sake do NOT stop fucking her holy shit. Your future girlfriends will thank you.

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I'm tired of this. It's gonna be 9 fucking months since she left me, and I still feel like shit. I mean, I'm okay, I was feeling very bad for like a month, and I started to go forward, made friend, dated another girl for a few weeks, etc.

But still, the thought of her makes me feel like shit. She left me for a good reason, because I fucked up (I don't really want to tell the whole story on here), and I still have regrets, I still remember how we used to feel great together. Now, she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. And I can't even be mad at her: that's her right. But, I have to be honest: I kind of miss her.

Am I just supposed to feel like this? How to I get over it?
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>>17271859

ur supposed to feel bad for awhile. and that awhile can be quite awhile.

i fell in love with soemone i never even dated. its been two years and every time a certain song shows up on my iphone i have to immediately skip it and my heart sinks and i get all sad.

so if you actually dated her and had a real relationsihp, im sure the feelings can run a lot deeper, last longer and still hurt.

maybe you'll never get entirely over it. btu that doesnt mean you cant compartmentalize the feelings.
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Damn. It's painful. I feel great mostly, but sometimes the thought of her and the regrets hit really hard and I find myself listening to dark ambient in my room, not wanting to see anyone.
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>>17271938
I was answering to u >>17271870 obviously

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i have gotten more and more gay recently

i really dont want to be a faggot how do i fix myself

im going to kill myself if i cant fix it
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>>17271843
stop looking at/fapping to gay shit. /d/ is pretty much all that. Ive become much more interested in dicks since browsing /d/
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Stop giving a fuck about it and it'll become a non issue. Went through a stereotypical gay phase now have stopped caring. After college I ran into woman of life. No fucks given attracted to men and women
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Just roll with it. Best way out of a phase is through it. You like cock, so what, enjoy cock. No harm no foul. I mean if you feel like it's weird, there are guys here who live happy normal and even social lives while having a thing for giant tentacle cock monsters raping cartoon characters so like, at least you're into consenting adults.

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Anyone else extremely desensitized?
How do you learn to feel more strongly?
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>>17271747
Expose yourself to more things. Yeah i can watch people get blown to bit online and probably real life. but could you apply for a business load as coldly and emotionlessly?
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Let's all love Lain.
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>Anyone else extremely desensitized?
Yeah, 4chan does that to you.

>How do you learn to feel more strongly?
Start seeing a psychiatrist.

I'm planning in 4+ years to move to the northen USA to be with my aryan tier frau, and I am not sure what skills or degree to get myself in the meanwhile to land a good job there.

Currently I am in the military, and thought I would tango in a uni for either a english-french or sports bachelor degree, but I remain unconvinced.

Is it a waste of time and money as I think it is?
Should I instead learn something more practical and in need?
I will soak up as many military courses I can get, maybe even manage to grab a chance for a tour in Astan, but how much will that grab the eye of employers?

What would best play out?


Also, general Advice on employment and potential career thread
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>>17271729

depends what you did. office jobs arent as common as they used to be but are still common, and when you apply for an office job very little matters other than having a degree unless that officej ob is rather specific. you dont even need to have a specific accounting degree as long as you've taken all teh basic maths.

outside of that things aren't as 'vague'. ur asking for 'whats the best' in terms of the most versatile but thats not really a thing. the US is a large place and theres a lot of fucking job options. pick something you actually like that isnt some foo foo fantasy and go for it. whatever degree you get will be useful enough to go for the more common jobs
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>>17271740

So a degree is nevertheless necessary for having access to the widest array of common jobs you say?
Just wanting to make sure of the importance of just having one.
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>>17271900

common in the sense of comfortable not so minimum wage office work, yeah. you can go in with a liberal arts degree and get a job doing office work. many have english degrees or the like.

you dont need a degree for flipping burgers or working at wal mart or those kind of comomn jobs, no.

if ur military you should consider looking in to security and safety management and that kind of thing. worked for my dad.

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I have been questioning things a lot. How many of the advice asking and received is by the same group of people posting repeatedly? I have probably made 50 posts maybe for receiving and asking, but with different topics. I'm not sure how narrow my world view is. Is it more then likely the same posters in each thread? How much is the population in 4chan advice?
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We do have a core of regulars, some of whom use names and trips, while others do not. Most of them focus more on giving advice than receiving it; that's just the nature of the topic.

We have some regulars for asking too, but unfortunately, most of these are shitposters. Raiders from/r9k/ are the most common, though we get some from /pol/ too.
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>How many of the advice asking and received is by the same group of people posting repeatedly?
It's hard to say on an anonymous imageboard.

>How much is the population in 4chan advice?
Again, it's hard to say on an anonymous imageboard.

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I'm in NYC for the weekend. Any cool stores/museums that I can visit that relate to no wave or industrial noise? What's a "cool" kid like me gonna like in the Big Apple?
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Go to the dildo shop. faggot
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Bump?
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Buuuummmpp?

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Protips on killing youself?
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Wait until you're like 85 then go skydiving with a knife and cut the reserve parachute and scream something about life on the edge
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>>17271639
You draw a image of Muhammad and a kind Muslim will end your life for you.
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>buy all the drugs
>get on the roof of the tallest building in town
>do all the drugs
>literally have the trip of your life

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