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>like this girl
>girl tells me she likes another guy
>girl is very flirty with me
>i'm very confused, what should I do?
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>>17285981
You are either misinterpreting her signals or she's a slut. Find someone else
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Forget about her.
She seems like a gigantic slut.
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>>17286000
Trips never lies.
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Hello...
A short backstory -
I met a guy who was dealing drugs and smoking them too,I became close to him he basically told me everything,Now this guy is a real psychopath,He did time in prison from age 14 to 16,started with the criminal activities at 12,so not too long ago he totally flipped on me and it ended up as we stopped talking,after a week I get a msg says "this was the last time u ever shake my friends hand" it was from this guy so I told about it to my best friend and my best friend decided to call him and ask whats wrong, here to there the guy calls me and start yelling at me to come outside my house (we live in the same neighborhood) obv I went outside because I couldnt pussy out,
when we met he had a glass beer bottle and he took me to this place where is empty of people and he was about to break the bottle on my head and stab me with it,and then he noticed my neighbor was watching outside the window and he let me go home and warned me were enemies now,after that we saw each other and we just stare at eachother,I took my distance,
Now theres my step brother who is also "involved" in criminal activities,He offered me his protection, I must say that if I wont i can gather around 50-100 people if needed,But Im not a violent person I hate it when I have to fight,anyways I told my brother to not speak to anyone,Now i was outside and got a call from the guy yelling at me that I go to his people behind his back and he said that few people called telling him to now touch me,that only pissed him off more,he told me that he's at work now but if we meet outside he's going to stab me (at my face probably) This guy is 18 yrs old now and have already stabbed people,
he's very good at street fighting,and I just dont know what to do... Im afraid that ill meet him outside and that'll be my end, now I cant go to the police bcz even if i do and he gets jail, when he gets out he'll find me and stab me and he doesnt give a fuck about going back to jail.
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Now I can gather all this people but once we jump on him he'll simply jump on us with his friends one by one or get out of hospital and just stab me for that. All i want is fucking peace but this guy just looking to fuck me up. im sorry its a long story I really need help and dont know what to do... thank you....
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Can you rewrite this with proper punctuation? Not being a grammar nazi here, I'm legit having problems comprehending.
From what little I did understand, call the police, show them the message where he threatened you, get your neighbor to give a witness statement, wait for him to be arrested.
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>>17286006
Im sorry what do u mean when u say proper punctuation? English is not my mother language
And I cant go to the police as I said cuz as soon as he gets released Im back to the same situation only this time ill get killed for sure...
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How does one stop gay people from hitting on oneself?
In the last few mintha i have been hit on(even molested) by gay dudes, and i don't really understand why, and how could it be avoided
Im a male btw
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>>17285943
Welcome to the experience of every woman ever.
Really though, stop going to gay bars and dressing like a faggot.
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>>17285943
Stop going to gay bars.
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>>17285956
Oh such a tough life
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>girl decides some guy she knows is boyfriend material
>guy notices this
>guy thinks the girl is okay looking/fuckable/why not
>relationship starts
Seriously, this is how most if not all relationships are formed, right?
>inb4 no
explain
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>Person is attracted to another person
>Person can't stop thinking about other person
>Person pursues said person
>Person finds out person they don't actually love them
>Person tries to make it work anyways
>Relationship fails horrifically
>Either get cheat or get married and then cheat
>Physically and emotionally abuse one another
>Person screws other person over by claiming their shit
>Person commits suicide
>Other person goes onto the next person
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Yes? Sort of
Usually a person doesn't know if they are bf/gf material until after getting to know each other for a while. Physical attraction is the first stage, then it goes from there.
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People get to know each other first, using the ancient art of verbal communication.
They don't just look at each other and suddenly decide they want a relationship.
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Still a chance to fuck her? 2016-06-23 18:15:15 Post No.17285901
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Still a chance to fuck her?
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Me and this girl got pretty close this past month or so, and we went on a couple dates. She's a virgin and during these dates I played and sucked on her tits, dry humped and made out with her a few times (in private, not out in the public). We're the same age (both recently turned 18) and she had only kissed a few guy prior to me and some other dude she was checking out from last year when she was at a different college had seen her naked when she was changing her clothes.
We both had a great time (she says how much she loves me etc.) and we continue talking but then 2 weeks later (last week Friday), I get a unknown call and it's her big bro and he says he needs to speak to me.
>meet up with him
>he says he found out there's something going on between me and his sis
>says I need to explain everything that's happened between me and her
>tell him everything
>we were supposed to keep it a secret but it was pretty obvious he knew something was going on
>he says to never speak to her ever again and i'm lucky he's matured as last year he would have totally beaten the shit out of me had he found someone messing with his sis.
>agree then ask if he knew about how she has kissed other dudes etc.prior to me
>says he hasn't got a clue
few hours later
>tell girl what I said to her bro over text (hindsight it would have been better if I said it over the phone and explained it better)
>she gets extremely pissed off at me
>calls me a dick, tells me to delete her number, fuck you etc.
>tell her there's nothing I could have done, he already pretty much knew and if I lied to him then I would have gotten beaten up later on
>she tells me to watch my back
>conversation ends there
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cont.
She hasn't blocked me off any social media. In fact her last seen on whatsapp hadn't changed for almost a week (she'd normally be on it everyday) and she deleted half of her Instagram photos which is pretty strange. I have pissed her off once before (to a lesser extent) and she calmed down 2 days later and apologized for overreacting.
I haven't contacted her since and it's been almost a week, I definitely made some mistakes which led to her bro finding out but I think I can keep it secret better next time (if there is a next time). Me and her will get our drivers licenses this summer so we can meet out of town/late night drives etc.
I was thinking off just waiting until she contacts me first (will work on improving my self in the mean time both physically and mentally) but if she doesn't then there's this mutual friend of ours who's throwing a house party in a month. He's closer to me so i could ask him to invite her which can give me a window to communicate with her again, and she'll be drunk this time.
Any input?
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>>17285901
You're an idiot
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>>17285967
tell me something I don't know. I know i'm an autist too.
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Can anyone give me /adv/ about getting hired in a hospital? I have 2 years of administrative assistant experience and want to work at a hospital, as I know they are stable and offer good benefits + tuition for school.
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>>17285838
in what capacity?
go to their website and look for job openings same as anything else
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>>17285851
Making it past the application process. I have sent over 20+ applications to various hospitals and the closest I have gotten was having my application being reviewed. Never been called or anything. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or should go about it differently.
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>>17285838
>go to website
>careers
>apply to listings
i volunteered at a hospital for a few months. got hired. they'll always take volunteers, need to get yourself in the right department to meet people, shake hands, etc. the risk is that even if you're competent at your job and you seem to get along well with everyone, if they don't have room in the budget and no one is leaving then you're just there.
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Hey guys!!
My teacher diagnosed me with special snowflake syndrome. Do any of you know anything about this disease? I asked my parents but they never heard of it. How can it be cured?
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Describe your condition in detail and how it effects you, please.
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>>17285840
I don't know, my teacher just said that I have special snowflake syndrome then I asked ''what is that ma'am' and she was like ''go figure it out yourself'' ... I'm gonna talk with my doctor soon to ask him about it, because if it's a disease that's deadly I would really like to get it removed as soon as possible
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It can be cured by not baiting /adv/.
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Signed a lease can't get out of it 2016-06-23 17:46:00 Post No.17285814
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Signed a lease can't get out of it
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I fucked up. Green text story short I signed a lease and forgot about and found a better place and never moved in to the original lease I signed. It would be okay if I could break the lease via payment but the only way to break the lease is to find a replacement tenant and given that:
a) The tenant would have to share a 4 bed 4 bath unit with 3 other people
b) It's summer and this college town is dead plus summer classes have already started
I can't find a replacement tenant.
I asked the employees there what they would do if I signed my lease but didn't move in and didn't pay rent, the only thing it would effect is my credit score.
This is my first year in college and I have no credit cards or loans. I have no intent to use credit score to get a house because I don't believe in debt and loans and it's possible to get a house in the future without a credit score. However I'm worred how much this will affect my future leases and finding a place to live while in college.
Tl;dr
Should I bite the bullet on this or should I work out an agreement. If it helps I may not be legally living in the country when I get out of college as in I'll be volunteering in other countries. That being said does your credit score reset if you live in another country for a certain amount of time?
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>>17285814
Bump
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How long of a lease did you sign up for?
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>>17285814
>I don't believe in debt and loans and it's possible to get a house in the future without a credit score.
If you forgot that you signed a lease, you are too stupid to ever have enough cash to buy a home without a loan. Some potential employers will also look at your credit history before making a hiring decision.
Am I the only one who has the quick reply section not working? I'm tired of scrolling to the top box to just reply for some posts. All extensions are disabled, it doesn't even work in IE.
Help please
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It only does this on /adv/ for me. Just kinda got used to it.
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is it only on advice? if im not mistaken it runs a slightlyh different code and adblock can ruin that.
it can also be that your computers time and date are wrong. mine has to by synced and accurate to my time zone or it wont let me post.
but yeah its probably adblock. disable on 4chan its not invasive at all.
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>>17285780
turning off your adblocker fixes this, its because it thinks /adv/ means advertisement
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How the FUCK do dudes to this? 2016-06-23 17:21:48 Post No.17285726
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How the FUCK do dudes to this?
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One of my friends told me that he gets women to travel long distances to meet abd date him consistently.
How the fuck dies he do this? Getting a girl to go out with me is like pulling teeth. While he doesn't pay a dime of the woman's travel fee.
How the fuck does he do this? I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. He is 27 as well and has had many women.
He told me he doesn't even bother going out most dates. Just orders Chinese food abd watches Netflix with the girl.
What kind of fuckibg Magic is he using?! What the fuck is going on and why can't I do it?!?!
It seems so crazy that women would spend half a months pay to come see some fuck living in a condo abd eats Chinese food every day. What the FUCK is going on?
What am I missing?!
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He knows how women like to be treated. Turns out that's an extremely rare quality in straight men, so sometimes a girl is willing to travel a bit for a couple great nights.
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>>17285726
Confidence. Probably.
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>>17285726
post a picture of yourself. then post a picture of your friend.
if you cant do this then literally nothing we say will matter and we wont say much so...
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Any pointers on dating an introvert?
how do I make open her up
please share your experience.
thanks.
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>how do I make open her up
Don't. If she's an introvert, respect that sometimes she'll want to be alone and sometimes she won't want to go to parties. Extroversion and introversion aren't learned, you don't switch from one to another.
Source: I am an introvert
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>>17285731
this. though if i had to guess OPs not using any of the actual definitions for interovert, he just means his gf is quiet and it gets awkward for him
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Be you, but don't try to change her. Or talk to her and communicate your issue, ask how you guys can compromise.
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Ok. Thus woman rear ended me a few weeks ago. I didn't file a police report or anything but I got her info. My bumper was damaged her car was not. She's completely denying that we were ever in an accident. I have her number. She's all over Facebook and instagram. What should I do?
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Go back in time and file a police report
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>>17285714
>not your personal army
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>>17285714
Did you not take a photo of the wreck when it happened? That's just common sense bruv.
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I just got let go from my job for crying in the staff bathroom. I didn't swear at anyone, didn't yell at anyone, just asked to be excused and calm down a bit in the loo. And I got fired for it.
What am I going to do? I really liked the job and thought it was going really well...
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>>17285708
That doesn't sound legal.
I'm bretty sure they can't just fire you on the spot like that, not unless you're still in your probation period.
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>>17285711
I was a supply teacher for a daycare, and still in probation. I'd been working there for 6 months, and things were going really well, or so the supervisors had told me.
When I asked if I was being let go on bad terms, my boss said no, but that they simply don't need people who can't keep their composure. It's the first time I had cried at work, and it was only for 3 minutes in a bathroom.
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>>17285708
Why were you crying?
odd situation
Gf (26) recently moved 3 weeks ago out of state for school. I'm moving in 6 weeks.
Gf has an older (30's) roommate finishing up school. Lived in apartment for a few years.
Everything was cool, I met roommate, roommate likes me. Roommate is a larger girl and once got a bit too handsy while drunk without it being sexual.
Last night gf calls me and I hear pots and pans crashing and roommate being drunk and gf sounds like she's taking care of drunk person. making food and distracting. The usual "friend got too drunk to function" type of shit.
she then gets away into her room and tells me sounding very uncomfortable and whispering.
Her roommate offered her a massage and that progressed into her rubbing her chest, and sucking and licking her nipples. roommate trying to kiss her and kiss her neck. Eventually trying to take her pants off and go down on her.
Girlfriend is a petite girl and is extremely submissive and a people pleaser. It works great for my personality type and our sex lives. But she sounded kind of fucked up over the phone and later on Skype looked really off about it. Saying she felt really uncomfortable and scared and didn't know what to do or say. And the roommate was messing around with her nipples for a while and never said anything.
Gf was honest and said she didn't know where to draw the line and she was drinking too. But when the roommate tried taking her clothes off on the couch. She got up and called me. And starting making spaghetti for the roommate to eat to sober her up and distract her. Ended up with roommate eating half cooked pasta and passing out in her room. Gf then proceeded to tell me entire story in her bedroom.
I got pissed naturally. We liked this roommate. My gf has her own alcoholic tendencies and watched my gf's back and would force her to drink water and gatorade.
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Now we're both uncomfortable. My gf was raped when she was a young teen and has issues from that and she had a similar look on her face last night as when she first told me about what happened when she was younger. She mentioned she didn’t know what to say or do after last night because she was stuck living here until the end of the year and was afraid of things being awkward. So since I’m still pissed off. Said i’ll talk to her and wrote up a text that she wanted me to revise for being too mean. Text is as follows
“hey I talked with (gf) tonight and she told me EVERYTHING that went on in detail. That’s not okay. Period. She’s uncomfortable and didn’t know what to do or how to stop it. I’m uncomfortable. You’re a chill roommate and I know you were drunk. Its super awkward to send this and I’m sorry I have to. But you crossed boundaries by touching (gf) like that and trying to go beyond that unwarranted. You’re a lot of fun as a roommate but and in the nicest way I can possibly say this as her boyfriend. Do not touch her again. That being said. Again I get you were drunk and moving forward it’ll be like nothing ever happened or won’t change aside from more personal space. If you blacked out. I get this text may be a surprise. Feel free to check with me in the morning if you want to call and find out what. (GF) doesn’t want to talk about it. So I’m asking please don’t ask her for her own comfort level. “
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its the next morning now and I haven’t heard anything. Gf is probably still asleep and with her dog.
I have my own concerns now. Like my gf can get shitfaced pretty quick, loves wine, and has a difficult time making friends and feels lonely pretty often.
Now I’m afraid of what might happen if that happens again. Like what is the roommate going to try and do.
They have only been living together for three weeks. And when I visited for 6 days over a week ago. Roommate mentioned her concerns with my girlfriend drinking constantly and being drunk and not feeling comfortable with her young niece coming over. Now its like the tables have turned.
don’t know how to go about this from now on. I don’t think moving is an option, not for a while.
This girl was my girlfriend’s only friend up in this state. And now I think this large girl is going to pounce on my gf if she gets drunk.
I’m flying up on saturday and not sure what to say without acting like a pissed off boyfriend.
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>>17285701
You act like a pissed off boyfriend, to the roommate. Make it clear that next time you won't be so polite about your response and imply the response may be physical.
So I've been going through a bad time, pretty much my entire life and last night I had this dark, heavy pit feeling in my chest, started getting sad and then really, really angry
I managed to calm down but I've never been that angry or sad.
I've never had a girlfriend or any kind of intimacy. I just turned 27. I don't think I look deformed or crazy ugly, I dress decent, I don't act autistic or say creepy things, I've gotten a number of contracts and promotions by getting along with people.
I talked to a woman at my barbershop and chatted her up for a good 5 minutes, she gave me her number without me asking for it, then texted me saying she loves teasing guys
Then I've been dating sites and never get anything
It's just extremely frustrating and I really just wanna chill out and I can't calm down
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>>17285667
i get that kind of feeling every now and then. i'm in a similar position, 24 y/o. it really helps me to just accept that this world is a piece of shit and the vast majority of people don't deserve respect anyways. just make the best out of it because apparently we are still too attached to our lives to just commit suicide
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Man I believe the best way to get a good relationship with a girl is to become good friends first and not worry about what happens. Spending time with and being close to someone will lead to what you desire. Worrying about the end game is going to fuck you up.
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>>17285667
we start from the surface and work your way down.
post a picture of yoturself and well go from there.