Is it worth it to start drinking and partying at college?
What are the exact pros and cons?
Pros: If you're not ugly you might be able to get some pussy
Cons: Less money, hangover, potential to fuck up your life
>>17270817
>What are the exact pros and cons?
Pros : You get to drink and party and have fun.
Cons : It typically stops after college.
>>17270822
Anon, is it possible that only extraverted people have fun there?
Just what kind of fun do you get on a party?
>>17270819
I'm female and don't want to fuck anyone drunk.
So when I was driving through our neighborhood yesterday to go meetup with my friends, I saw my neighbor's daughter ( she's 12) taking out the trash. Shes pretty cute honestly and she was wearing the these really hot shorts. I took a picture of her with my phone and showed it to my friends. They didn't think it was hot, and they called me weird. I'm sorry I have different pereference, didn't have to be asses about it. I'm in highschool btw
Mods.
Also creep
Fuck off kiddo
>I'm in highschool btw
Sorry OP, I'm afraid you have to be 18 to join this club, i gotta ask you to leave
I have a boyfriend right now, but things have been going bad. I met this new girl and I have a huge crush on her. What should I do?
>>17270691
Go with whoever's gender is opposite yours.
Threesome.
>>17270703
this
My room-mate moved out and paid me with a Geforce 980. It worked great, however there was a storm a few days ago and my PC surged. The card's dead now. Apparently my room-mate is a dumbass and threw away the sticker/box so I can't RMA it. I'm thinking of buying one from Best Buy/Walmart/Amazon and swapping stickers returning the bad one.
Any input on this? Who has the most slack return policy? Can I get jailtime or anything?
Wait two weeks. 980 prices will go down.
>>17270598
this or wait those two weeks get the cause of the price drops a 1070/1080 GTX
Not sure how walmart is with electronics but i return crap all the time and they dont even look at it.
I bought a desk for my wife and the picture looked like it was sturdy but it wasnt at all. I told them it was missing a part and incase they looked i tossed one away. They didnt bother looking.
I've developed a habit of collecting relatively effeminate stuff related to comics/media. Pic related, some art I bought tonight from a cool artist at a comic-con.
How do I explain this, or stop this, and how do I tastefully display my purchases? I'm a guy who is very confident in his masculinity, and very few would ever expect this kind of thing, but art/statues/etc. of women I find alluring for some reason.
I've been holding myself back until recently and suddenly anything based off a couple of different characters I really want to have.
Collecting pictures of hot women is effeminate now?
>>17270585
Sorry that my pictures are rotating sideways on my phone, but like, I bought this, too.
Pictures of cartoon women are iffy territory in the first place. I have a Spider-Gwen statue that I ordered that won't be here until October, and I also bought a Sailor V Figma.
I'm also too old to be buying toys/statues. Not that I normally believe that age should be a factor there as long as you're not excessive... But...
>>17270624
do you have elsa too
also, you'll get more useful responses at >>>/toy/
I'm a weary of how I am these days
I am.so bitter and cynical, I think I am alienating myself because of it.
so I ask, how do I change and become optimistic and full of love? it's not so much that i am depressed but more that I am always just so damn angry
idk I guess I just wanna stop being such a toxic cunt
>>17270503
the problem is that you are asking how to change soemthingi n your head. and while its possible, its not really something we do easily. you are asking to change something that is possibly inherent to your personality. and personality is hard to change. otherwise we'd all have the same one.
people say im pessimistic, except on /adv/ they say im optimistic. really i just love life and whats happening around me but dont ignore the problems. i think most people think you can only be optimistic, or pessimistic, but never realistic.
if i think something bad is going to happen i address it, but i maintain my happiness cuz i built my life in a way that doesnt make me deal with those problems very much, especially since i address them.
that being siad, i used to feel a bit like you and what changed me was purposely taking the time to enjoy the little things.
take out yuor phone and open the calendar and set two random alerts a day. set them to vibrate. no matter where you are or what you are doing when you feel the vibrate, take a moment to acknowledge how nice something is. is your seat comfy? food tasty? the sky look nice? and if ur a total edge lord who cant enjoy anything, enjoy the fact taht you can take three deep breaths, cuz its better than having a cold.
over time this condition syour brain to take these regular moments and think of them as positive things.
now im the kind of guy who cant stop thinking about how great the day is, even if its just a normal day at the office.
the downside is, if you can call it that, is you tend to examine whats going on a LOT instead of simply living in that moment. when i was on vacation (my first ever) i was sitting on the beach, and i wasnt even doing anything but i was sitting there giddy and thinking how exciting and amazing it was that im on the beach and i found an old sandcastle. it just felt amazing to do something that is so 'human'.
thanks anon, that actually sounds like a pretty neat idea,
>>17270658
worked for me. one size doesnt fit all, but sitting there and enjoying th ethings you like cant hurt right?
in my defense though that was an epic trip to the beach. i happened to stumble upon a wedding that was happening. check it
Can you give me psychological tips for taking exams?
I freak out, forget everything and stutter every time. So I always appear less competent than i am.
There are lots of people with high Bluff skill who are the opposite, how can i do that?
>math and physics are problematic because you can't just spill everything you remember and go home, they make you solve problems and think on the oral exam.
>getting to know the professor won't work we are assigned to random member of the faculty.
Masturbate beforehand.
Chew gum.
practice like its the exam, and do the exam like its a practice
>>17270414
Thanks, I'll try!
How do you make reciting by yourself not weird though? I don't want to whisper and i live in the dorm.
So I've started going through some hair loss last year, I've tried to not worry about it but lately it has been increasing. I am working on changing my lifesyle to be healthier and planning on going to the dermatologist to make sure it's not the worst (Genetics) getting to me.
My question is, is there any temporary solution to keep the hairloss at a minimum? I'm well aware that most stuff is BS but I'd like to hear your input, thanks.
Minoxidil slows the rate of loss.
>>17270382
There is no easy solution. If there as you wouldn't see bald men everywhere. The best you can do is take pills, use those hair liquids, and use special shampoo. They probably won't work but then you can at least rest knowing you tried everything short of surgery. Best you just try to overcome the fear of losing hair.
>>17270400
>Minoxidil
Will look into this
>>17270407
You guys are right, I gotta just ease up to the situation, it just gets really annoying having to get a good amount of strands of hair off my hands every time I shower
Hey, all I have a problem about going out by myself sometimes. It's not an everyday problem but I get torn between about going out to the bars or local breweries around my town. I feel as when I go into a bar for the most part (around my town at least) it's like all eyes are set upon me. As I enter I feel like I'm being judged on the spot. Not "cool enough to be here" kind of attitude from most people. It's pretty annoying...sometimes I just need to get out by myself and maybe make friends. But then I realize that bar culture is kinda lame and it's almost like this adult hook up, or come look at me kind of place. Which I don't really want to be part of. I just get this spark inside of me telling me that I should leave my house and do different things. I don't feel this way when I go to coffee shops at all if you can really compare the too. For the most part, I'm pretty observant about my setting and all I see are horny men, drunk girls, groups of people, close friends, and or people just like me getting out and about at night. In all honestly, I would love to meet people that are willing to be friends not just "bar buddies" that kind of people is just pointless to me. Maybe even have smart conversations and or have same ideas. Do you guys have any advice about this subject? Or maybe any experience with the same feelings I have in a shape or form? How can I overcome these insecurities?
You need a wingman
>>17270351
have u had a sad event happen at a bar before? maybe you feel that way because everyone has friends there and you think theyre thinking hes all by him self? does it help to bring a friend along?
It does help to bring a friend along with me. But I barely have a group of friends to call up. Only a few good people we go out occasionally.
I have a hole in my butt!??
you are suppossed to.
Nnnooooooooooooooo!!!
>>17270295
No, you have a hole hidden by your butt. The anus is the body's dirtiest secret.
>alone in this city, no friends
>options are to stay in, browse tinder, fap and sleep
>or go to this after hours place by myself, enjoy some good music, maybe chat up some hawt girls, but be down 20+ bucks and a good couple hours of sleep
What do
order a pizza, watch a movie, fap, go to sleep
god damn i wish i lived alone in a city
no pain no gain bruh
>>17270048
Wut?
Sup, /adv/, lately I've had a massive lack of motivation to do pretty much anything, and things I used to enjoy, such as video games and movies, have just felt very redundant, and I don't know what to make of it. Is this depression, or just some phase?
(Sorry if I sound like some tumblrfag, but I'm really feeling low, and I didnt really know what else to turn to)
i'm in the same boat
i have no motivation for anything, nothing to look forward to, bored of life
i don't think it's depression because i can still function normally
>>17270025
What would it be, then?
>>17270054
laziness? indifference? hell if i know
sometimes i get sad thinking about how much of a loser i am and how i want to die, but i don't actually think of killing myself
I wanna get a phone to car jack but idk what kind to get. I have a galaxy s7 but want a universal plug for all types of phones if that is possible. Pic Related my car Kia Rio 2007 LX
Just get something like this.
http://www.ebay.com/itm/Newest-Bluetooth-Car-Kit-MP3-Player-FM-Transmitter-SD-LCD-Dual-USB-Charger-Blue-/361353056050?hash=item5422520f32:g:ah4AAOSwie5XTUbP
>>17269965
okay I got one, thanks I just wanted to make sure it would work for a car like mine
>>17269959
>I have a galaxy s7 but want a universal plug for all types of phones if that is possible.
There are only really two types of phone connector - lightning cables for apple products and micro-usb for literally everything else in the world. The closest thing you'll get to a universal connector is to buy a micro-usb cable and a lightning adapter to go on the end of it for when you connect an iphone. The downsides to this plan are the fact that apple products don't allways work well (or even work at all) with third party hardware, and also that you'll probably loose the adapter the very first time you take it off.
A much better solution would be to follow >>17269965 sugestion. Those bluetooth/FM kits cost next to nothing, and yet they work really well. There's certainly no difference in sound quality between that and an aux cable.
What should I do with my life?
>>17269848
master the fine art of the kickflip
>>17269848
Listen, cat: You keep asking me that, and I keep telling you to ask yourself.
You're a really great cat. I mean, how many cats can drive a car? You can drive a stick, for fuck's sake. *I* can't drive a stick. That sets you apart from other cats. You need to capitalize on that somehow. Just my opinion.
Learn to do this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23B017ZVIx4
Hi. I want to be a correctional officer. And I'm going to community to get an associates in criminal justice so I can easily land a job anywhere in the country. But there's a problem... I was born with club foot. Unfortunately I still have complications with my feet. I expirence pain on a regular but I'm getting surgery to hopefully fix that. Though I'm worried about future problems with my feet. Plus I don't have very good balance and my feet are really wide that require me to get special shoes. Do you think I'd be able to get into the academy with my feet problems? Even with an associates? Should I try? Pls give me your advice.
>>17269807
You will never get a correctional job. Focus on something else. sorry op.
>>17269807
you should definitely try, even if they turn you away for the academy you're still going to open up so many doors on the way there that you might find a very close alternative to correctional officer.
>>17269811
I know correction officers who have a bionic leg. Don't get how having post club foot can effect me getting a job. Idk what else to do. I wanna do truck driving but there's going to be self driving trucks coming and I'm too young to drive.