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No. Why would their experience in maths matter to you?

I can't really say, all I know is that I'm studying what my parents want and not what I want and I've had a bunch of suicide attempts on my way to college after 4 years of studying this.

hey, if you think you understand mathematical analysis and etc, go for it; not that many people do

>>17274782
Unfortunately, you should NEVER have agreed to such a contract. Review the contract very carefully for any circumstances which may apply to you and lessen the penalties for withdrawal. If you truly hate what you're studying and must break the contract, then you should look into what kind of repayment plans are available and find work ASAP so you can cover those payments and survive financially while you decide what you do want to study or what direction you want to take next. GL!

Firstly, the fact that you signed that contract is probably the dumbest decision I have seen on the chans outside of some of the shit on /r9k/.

Secondly: Review the contract and see exactly what the terms are. Every contract has a release clause, if it doesn't it's not valid. I would consider talking to a pro-bono lawyer, because this contract doesn't really sound legal to me. An employer cannot force you to work on penalty of debt slavery if you don't follow through like this.

>>17274782
Suck it up.

>>17274659
Congrats OP, you are a total faggot. Better change your worldview and find your place before somebody shows you to it. Faggot>>17274659
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Sounds like you're a teenager. Or you're still one developmentally. At least you realize it though.

You know what your problem is.. So you know exactly what to do, you just don't want to. Start reaching out to people and being nicer, and if you're not feeling it, you'll start feeling it with time.

>>17274666
I'm 24, but in a lot of ways, I am inexperienced in most facets of life. I often do find myself thinking about how my current life experience might be that of a teenager.

>>17274599
Like any skill, it takes practice, practice and more practice. If you can, talk to Russian speakers and ask for their help in pronouncing difficult words or saying the correct phrases--every language has its own idiosyncrasies. You just need some practice and feedback from real Russian speakers. GL!

>>As an American how do I speak without sounding like a cunt?

Fixed that for you. Also, the answer is, you don't.

speak from your throat with slavic languages, not the front of your mouth.

>>17274543
Screenshot is a person I have been on one date with the night before.

>>17274543
>>17274546
So, do you want some advice, or something else? I'm not entirely sure what you're looking for here.

>>17274556
Yes. Do I seem interested in this person? Or do I seem disinterested. If so should I try another date or end it? i think this person is nice and enjoyed the date but this kiss was beyond awful. The person is 6 years older than me which makes feel they are looking for marriage sooner rather than later and I'm nowhere near that point. I am looking for a committed relationship but not marriage yet.

>>17274478
Everyones got problems OP. Seriously though, get off the computer and get a fuckin hobby man. Theres nice women your just shopping in the discarded/trash section

>>17274500
You're. Shit man no sleep = lower brain function

>>17274500
>discarded section
Great description of the OKCupid scene right there. Don't use that website, half of the women there only use it for the attention and the other half is damaged goods in their early 30s.

Anon, if you are concerned; get a test.
If it is positive, you know now so you can make that decision now and not later when it is either too late or you're caught unprepared.
If it is negative, good news you don't need to panic anymore.

Maybe you are overreacting but if it isnt hard to get a pregnancy test, I don't see what is holding you back here.
Additionally, it may be advisable for you to see a doctor because you're throwing up so much.

Good luck Anon.

When was the last time you had your period?
I had a pregnancy scare with my ex girlfriend, my mistake was that I re-used a condom. I didn't cum in it so I thought "why not? I was young back then. Anyways she had symptoms for 2 and a half weeks every day it was TERRIBLE. she had cravings, stomach problems, she even threward up and was dizzy all the time. Her nipple also became different. And at the end she wasn't her period just came late. So my advice to you is that you are probably not pregnant and you should just wait for it to come. You'll be okay !

Impregnation from cum on someone's hands is very unlikely. Sperm die quickly in the open air and are unlikely to make it to the womb from surface contact alone.

Personally it sounds to me like you've been paranoid about it for a while and overreacting at any symptoms that pop up. Now you're stressed out and anxious so your period is late and you feel ill.

Take a pregnancy test to be safe and go on the pill or something if you're gonna get this freaked out.

You have a computer in front of you that can visually provide you with every dance that has ever existed. Have you studied any yet or did you just come straight here to waste time

Literally google "learn to dance"

>>17274413

I can teach you the basics. Practice at home in front of the mirror.

Smoothly gyrate your hips. Do some motions with your hands. While pushing the hip to one side, push your shoulder on the opposite-side. Try do to this while following the rhythm of the song.

If you follow my instructions, congratulations are due: you've learned the basics of dancing, and are ready to hit the club.

>>17274411
Beating boredom is very different for each of us, so you just have to find the right things that might entertain you! There's all kinds of books, you might just need to get a better one that covers one of your interests. Think about fun things: Summer is here, so there's going to the park/beach/hiking/fishing/movies/live shows/mall/visit friends/take a trip, etc. There's often events like fairs going on. You could take up a hobby like drawing, dancing, playing music, etc. Just think about what's fun in general besides anime and video games and see what's within your reach! Just don't stay doing the same thing and go out more, whatever you decide! GL!

>>17274707
>summer is here
fucking american retard

Anyway OP, you could try playing an instrument or writing. And watch movies that will allow you to talk to interesting people, the ones that aren't obscure but aren't super popular dumb tier. You could take doing charity work as a hobby, that should make a good impression on people and make you feel better yourself. I hate reading long stuff too, maybe your thing is short stories, try Ray Bradbury.

>>17274411
I've found lately that attempting to distance myself from my current hobbies (addictions?) helps me find new things to do. Even if it's a simple idea, go outside and go for a walk. Sit in the sun, it's good for you. Talk to people. Try and make relationships and ask for real advice from real people.

If you're really conflicted about your current pasttimes, you have to ask yourself if those hobbies are affecting you in a negative way. If they are and you want to change, if at least half of you makes a conscious effort at it, things will change. If it takes time just remember that at the very least time you enjoyed wasting was not wasted.

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If she's shy, you have to lead the way.

ask for a "date". Get into a conversation with her somehow/ if its school, then at a task with partners etc, and end up asking to go to the cinema with her. But not only, go to the cinema at evening and before it , get something to eat, talk etc . If she says no, or tries to make any subterfuges you know the answer, but if she comes up with like: how about at: (insert date) , then its fine.

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I'll do that, cheers mate!

Not to mention crippling loneliness

>probably have depression
According to who? Yourself? You probably feel like shit because you've been having a shit week.

>stop talking to the girl i love because we had a fight, and because i realised i needed to get away from her to get my feelings in check
This kind of shit will always make you feel sad, specially if there was no romatic relationship between you (which seems to be the case).

>allowed my friends brother to do stupid shit, which resulted in friends parents banning me from their house
Why should you care?


>got in a car crash
Are you at fault? If that's so then be fucking glad you're alive you imbecile.


>exams are on
Then get on studying you piece of shit, the only reason exams would make you feel bad is if you are actually a shitty student, even if you don't feel like it just study.


It's all probably just you dealing with your feelings for this girl but you are just projecting them everywhere, hang in there, you'll get over it sooner or later.

>>17274368
Ive been dealing with shitty emotions for a while now, mostly due to shitty selfesteem, which is part of the reason i had the fight with the friend, when i told her i was going through shit she conpletely ignored me.

I feel terrible for the friend because I did something terrible.

I wasn't at fault, (well thats up to insurance agency to determine) but i don't have insurance

Stressed out as shit for exams, not necessarily because im stupid, but because they are exams and i reslly don't feel like failing
Thanks, i think i just need a good nights sleep. But i do honeslty feel like its the worst I've ever felt.

Just do it. They'll whinge for a few months but they get over it. It's not like you're dead and can't contact them anyway.

>>17274207
What are the tantrum reasons? Genuinely curious. Are you a boy or a girl also?

Are they being super over protective or are the the abusive sort that wants you around to be a slave and pay rent

>>17274207
What is your monthly income
What are your monthly expenses
Is your income steady

Don't do anything you wouldn't want your girlfriend doing.

>>17274178
>She's nuts about me
And yet you say nothing about how you feel about her. Your relationship is one-sided, doesn't stimulate you, and is fulfilling. You imply you have experience from getting older, but clearly you're not experienced enough if you can't see that relationships are about more than having an attractive younger girlfriend and a good sex life. You need some sort of connection too, which you don't seem to have with your girlfriend, but you do with your coworker. Any two people can have sex, finding someone you have a real connection with is different

>>17274191
Not sure that's true. You're right in that I don't think I'm as nuts about her as she is about me. But I haven't had much of a connection with anyone I've ever dated beyond sex and general fondness that grows over time ever.

Maybe my first gf of over a decade ago, but I don't think anyone ever feels the same as they did the with anyone as they felt with that first lover.

The initial spark isn't really there anymore, but I don't think there's anything more than that initial spark attraction between me and my coworker either.

Plastic surgery or you could just make up some badass story about fighting off an alligator or something.

>>17274137
What kind of plastic surgery?

Also why doesn't this board auto update?

Buy some Bio-Oil and apply it daily. You should notice your scars fading after a couple of months.

>>17274119
Don't bother, she is just using you for emotional support as you said.

>>17274119
>she likes to fuck with people on tinder (leading them on), and worked as an escort for a while.

Yeah... even if she did have any interest in dating you, that'd be a huge red flag. But no, it's best that you assume you're eternally friendzoned. Sounds like you have a nice friendship going though. Don't fuck that up.

>>17274135

Mhm, I guess I'm just concerned about whether or not she's into me, because I don't want her to eventually end up resenting me for not being romantically interested in her. I've already got a girlfriend, and I don't really see her as girlfriend material for so many reasons.

Thanks anon.