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No girl knows what she wants before she's 25 and gone through a mountain of mistakes and true asshole bfs. Likewise for u your 22 keep trying till u find someone that really fits with you. Doesn't do any good to hold onto a girl that's not into you.

Eh breaking up can hurt for a little while just pack ur balls up and move on.

You had a fun six weeks. Little investment, got laid, made some nice memories.

Get the fuck over it. Don't waste your time feeling bad about a fling.

>>17304163
Its gonna cost a hell of a lot to drive all the way to LA in a rental car. I would travel by train. It would probably take longer but you're able to sleep, study, eat, and see scenery on the train.

>>17304169
Then I'll have a ton of stuff that will cost more to sell/replace (as there seems to be no viable method of shipping that doesn't kill your wallet) than the rental car. Also bringing a bro with me who wants to visit their dad in LA and will help me move shit. So I'm sticking with renting a car.

Don't spend more on moving shit across country than the shit is worth. That's just stupid. Get rid of your stuff, store your records with friend or family who won't charge you, then just go. Pack light. Get all your furniture from a place that deals in used stuff and delivers.
I've moved many many times, and I know what I'm talking about.

>trying to kill your girlfriend's gains
Pass her over here, mate

>captcha is salad

>>17304154
Don't worry. Once you'll turn 13 you'll stop worrying about nonsense bs :^)

>>17304159
>gains
How does spinach provide gains?

>>17304160
I'm 29, she's 27

>>17304130
>cleaner at a nearby Hospital, good pay, very excited
>talk to my father and bring up the topic of paying bills and contributing to the household
>he wants me to contribute one third of ALL bills
>to me, this is not acceptable
>he has bought in the last year, with welfare mind, FOUR monitors, a high spec top of the range computer, a lathe and countless tools/materials for his garage hobby
>this consumes MASSIVE amount of electricity, the lathe alone consumes so much it sometimes causes powercuts in the house by overloading (or whatever happens, sue me I'm no electrical engineer)
>I cannot comprehend why I have to pay one third of the electricity bill when my father uses over 50%, potentially even more
>suggest a compromise at one quarter, and he goes off on me shouting and being aggressive
>bring up the internet restriction and ask if he intends to continue limiting the time while I am paying for the service
>says yes
>I am in shock, I cannot even BEGIN to understand the thought process, the controlling nature of my father really came into light
>argue about it for a while
>for the first time in my life I am shouting at my father, and subtley tell him he's a shit parent

The advice I'm looking for is;
- How can I have rational conversation with a person like this, is there any legality in refusing to pay if he doesn't remove the restriction?
- How much would YOU consider fair in terms of bills?
- ANYTHING at all that you think may help me, be as assholeish as you can

>>17304133
That sounds rough mate. I've got a couple of suggestions for you, but I've got a bit of paperwork to get done (I was on site at seven this morning and didn't get home until after the kids were in bed and still haven't managed to get enough done) so I'll come back with those in about half an hour.

In the mean time:

>legality in refusing to pay if he doesn't remove the restriction?
I'm assuming that you don't have a written tennancy agreement with mum and dad, so technically there's no legal requirement for you to pay them anything. That said, they're not under any legal obligation to house you or even allow you to be in the house - or to look at it another way, they could put you out on the street right this minuite and you'd have absolutley no recourse whatsoever. Also:

>lathe
>causes powercuts in the house by overloading
Yes, that'll be overloading the MCB, and it's also bloody insane. I've got a big lathe and a couple of other woodworking machines in a building at the bottom of my garden, and I paid for SSE to install a seperate 3 phase supply (a 415V industrial power supply, like you get in factories and such) to power it all, as a domestic 220V supply just doesn't have the guts to run that kind of gear. He's lucky he's not burned the house down yet.

Tell him you'll pay a third, but you're not happy about it and you don't think it's fair. Then see how much that comes to and how much of your disposable income that takes up. Then think about whether you can move out on your own. You probably can't. Which means that you have to put up with their crap since they are still supporting you.
I'm not saying you're wrong. But you still sound like a millenial. I'm sorry that life isn't always fair.
You're still young. This isn't the end of the world. Land that good job, start earning some real money, and then you can call him a welfare loser if you like when you move out. That's your motivation to succeed and your revenge.

>>17304089
No, they're baiting you and will scream rape to get you thrown in jail

>>17304089
>So they want my money?

Yes.

>>17304089
At 67? I dunno, not sure I believe a senior citizen is using a Burmese aquarium advice forum to ask about girls.

What I can say, though, is that I'm in my mid 30s and look a little older (lot of grey in the beard, slightly weathered face). As I've gotten older I've noticed a significant uptick in interest from girls in their 20s. My theory is that a big, strong, successful man who generally has his shit together provokes something in them.

>>17304061
I built one for around $600... You don't need a graphics card, but I highly recommend core i7, 8 gigs of ram and water cooler

Get apple bcuz apple is the best there is no better computer than apple lol I should know because I am an expert of you don't believe me, go to any Starbucks and see what people are using they are using some bcuz apple is the beh-eh-eh-eh-eh-est.

Good processor and ram (8gb+)
SSD for your files/samples

Vsts:
Get Serum, Massive, Sylenth

good FX Vsts: (not mandatory, stock FL plugins are great too)
Fabfilter ProQ
Camelphat
Dblue Glitch
WOW Filter

You ever considered drugs?
I know...I know,
>it's bad for you and could destroy your life
But only if you aren't in control, don't be an alcoholic though, I recommend shrooms, weed, acid and Ecstasy(ecstasy is a maybe, you never know what its cut with). Just those drugs though, everything else might be too addicting or harmful

>>17304038
I smoke a good amount of weed just about every day and I drink once or twice a week but primarily pot. I've done acid and shrooms a few times each and I intend to do them again at some point. I'll probably just get drunk and have some buddies over tonight

>>17304069
That'll do it op

And if you still aren't happy then I recommend exercise and staying /fit/.
It makes drugs a lot more enjoyable when you do them after working out, makes it feel like a reward

>>17303989
Join courses at unibersities or similar.

>>17304014
i just want to do it at home cos i have a lot of free time on my hands

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>>17303989

Height and weight?

>>17304000
I'm 6'3" and around 220lbs

>>17303986
>Best ways to get rid of face fat?
>Since last summer I've been hitting my workouts fairly heavily

seems like you aren't

You have no self worth.

>>17303964
Is he abusive? Or just immature and uninterested? You're just too comfortable and obsessed with a fake idea of the way things used to be. Do you wanna be stuck with an emotionless cuck or genuine lover?

this is what you get for dating a footfag

' m exactly the same. Except i hate drawing cause my drawings never turn out the way i want them to.

And thats because i never spent enough time learning fundamentals.

>>17303909
If you're over 18 and not a female then give it up.

It won't put any money in your pocket.

>>17303934
Unless he draws lewd. If you target the right group you might get a lot of fans.

>>17303875
2/10 trying too hard

>>17303875
Was this supposed to be funny?

>>17304196
*I think maybe falsely

Excuse the typos I'm pretty angry.

Idk tell her what u think

>>17303864
I do, and she absolutely doesn't care. She doesn'y even have a job, she says cleaning and shopping is a job.

Drink.

Drugs

Drink and do drugs

>>17303805
>inb4 dreams mean nothing
But they don't

>>17303805
She said she liked it as well

>>17303805
It means you invaded her safe space and mind raped her. Lawyer up now.