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I don't know, probably

>>17329085
if you were reaping the benefits of western women being easy then you would probably have a different opinion, yes.

doesn't mean you couldn't be critical of it. it's degenerate behavior. too many special snowflakes with short term plans.

>>17329085
hookup culture goes against the natural order where sexuality allows two people to get to know each other extremely intimately. it artificially keeps you one above and away from the base level of personal connection that forms a real relationship, so it feels unnatural. it's a dance out of step.

>>17329039
Just sounds like something you're going to have to live with as long as she is on that medication.

>>17329039
well, do you pressure her for sex?

if she's on a bunch of meds then the likelihood of her libido plummeting is pretty high.

unless you want her off the meds then it'll take some time for her to see any increase in sexual desire if ever while she's medicating.

Talk. To. Her.

It may be hard, it may not be easy, but you have needs and they have the right to be fulfilled, too. You need to say that once a month is not okay, hell, I imagine most married couples do it more than once a month.

Try to explore some of the sexual fantasties she has, do something new and exciting. A part of relationship is usually having sex, and just because she has a low libido doesn't mean that's okay.

I am on Impanon and my sex drive used to windle down until I met my boyfriend and realized how important sex is in a relationship. Now my sex drive is great and we do it once a day, maybe more. Please talk to her.

>>17329008
How does watching gay porn make you feel?

>>17329084
My parents won't let me

>>17329103
Usually not something you get permission for. How old are you?

>>17329001
What do you want to do?

If you're not opposed to vocational training there is serious need for skilled plumbers, welders, electricians. You make bank and don't go massively in debt by going to college.

>>17329040
I was actually looking into that, but didn't really know where to start. Vocational. I wanted to try and become a technician of some sort.

>>17329060
http://mainemaritime.edu/

>>17329000
if you're implying sexual harassment then what sort of things have been occurring?

go to HR?

>>17329000
CAPTAIN SAVE A HOE! ALERTTTTTT

>Not getting 3 of your niggiest friends and just plain beating the shit out of the guy
What are you, a pussy?

Why bother? What are the chances this will get back to her any other way? This information will only hurt her and hurt your relationship

Who goes on vacation without their wife?

>>17329022
visited my hometown while she worked

Have you tried getting ear plugs or even, I don't know, talking to them?

>>17328963
Try logging into the router. 173.0.0.1, 192.168.1.1, 10.0.0.1 etc. From there you can block all the ports or close their connections.

Why don't you just down some sleeping pills?

I dunno I used to go to wallmart in the middle of the night and walk around to be around people when I got lonely.

>>17328926
Tulpa

>>17328926
Have you posted 300 times on >>>/r9k/ yet?

>>17328910
If you're not in a good place mentally you won't get a good high, that's just logic.

>>17328910
You should get somebody to be with you and monitor first time on hallucinogens. You have no idea how you are going to react, you could put yourself into a dangerous situation otherwise. I disagree with the other poster, in my own experience shrooms have provided epiphanies in my life when I was in a bad place. But you absolutely need a sober person there with you, preferably someone who has done it before. I don't know if your sister is a good person to be with you, but without fully understanding the dynamic I don't know; the shared experience may actually bring you two closer together.

I have no experience with LSD

>>17328920
Are you referring to doing it by myself or in general?

That's why they call it the nasty.

>>17328889
Maybe you're gay, I think human bodies (genitalia of both males and females) are ugly, but I think that's common, freaking out and not having sex is a different story.

>>17328889
I felt the same way. I let my animal instincts kick in instead.

I forgot to mention that I've completely abstained from masturbating for over a week. I'm often super horny and I basically pop boners whenever we cuddle or kiss

Have you tried taking a viagra?

>>17328875
performance anxiety. very common occurrence for inexperienced guys.

you're in your head too much, putting a lot of pressure on yourself to "perform" and since you're with a girl you really like it gets even more difficult.

you need to think less. get out of your own head. focus on the girl and get lost in the physical act of sex. no real need to think too much, the mechanics of it all are pretty simple.

talk to her about it. "i really like you and i think that's causing me to get really nervous when we're being intimate. i'm sorry if it's been disappointing. i'm working on it." she'll respond with something along the lines of "i don't care. i just enjoy being with you. you're not disappointing me. we'll work on it together, it'll be fun." that should get some of the pressure off your shoulders and help you to relax.

>I'm trying to save a strained relationship.
A date isn't going to save it, let's be honest.

It was an anniversary, 7 years iirc. We had a lot of sex, obviously. For the date itself, I took her to where we had our very first date and recreated it. Sweet and simple.

>>17328877

No shit. But I'm trying to find out if there's any potential at all for it to be saved.

>>17328879

That's a great idea but I took her there two weeks ago, so that won't work out for me.

Wouldn't you giving him a thorough blowiob improve the situation drastically?

We can't tell you what your relationship is with him. Or whether you should cut off contact or not. You'll never be able to give us enough information to determine that over the internet.

What I can tell you is that if a relationship is strained, it won't go back to normal right away. Trust has to be built up all over again.

>>17328878
He's not gay and neither am I.

>>17328840
>Does anyone know how easy/difficult it is to be prescribed adderral?
Depends on whether you genuinely need it or you're just being a little bitch

>>17328855
Just being a little bitch.

>>17328840
no, it gives you the mouth of an amphetamine addict. you might think you're doing a good job, but no one else does.

would you think you're better at public speaking on speed? then why would you think you're better on adderal?

Do you trust her not to sleep around?

>>17328821
it's only two months. how many dicks can she possibly suck in two months? like, 40?

she's getting a lot of attention from guys. she's telling you about it though. it's not to make you jealous/insecure, it's to be transparent because she wants you to know she's truthful.

and no, you can't do anything about it so you do nothing. just keep in contact with her as best you can. don't go and accuse her of anything like the insecure bitch inside of you would like to.

>>17328821
You're in Canada. She's in Korea. What can you do? Nothing.

Maybe hire a big guy to follow her around and whenever someone asks her if she has a boyfriend, then punch that dude in the face?

You either trust her or you don't. There's nothing you can "do".