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I am seeking a masculine man. Tinder surely didn't work out for me, as none of those guys have any balls what so fucking ever. I would like someone to have the courage to approach me, not incessantly message me and hide behind their phone. Grow some balls for fucks sake!
Where do masculine men hang out at? Auto body shops, motorcycle groups, car shows, foot ball games?
I am a feminine woman who wears dresses, skirts, gets my nails done, I take care of my over all hygiene. I am girly and pleasant. I would love to be embraced by masculinity, and follow his lead, instead of bossing him around like he's some fucking loser. I don't have enough respect for that kind of person to call him my man.
Please men, can you try to be more masculine and take care of yourselves? I am at a point where I am losing hope.
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What do you weigh? Not to be rude, this is a critical number.
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I'm 5'3, 130 pounds. I am not over weight.
FYI I have just recently ditched wearing pants to heighten my sense of womanhood and femininity. I wear jewelry and all that. I am also growing my hair out longer, at this point its shoulder length. I have gotten some attention since then, still not from exactly the type of man I would want to be with.
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>>17326602
You appear quite obsessed with being "feminine". Why?
I, personally, have a thing for short hair, practical clothes and sneakers.
How do I cope with the fact that my friends just can't party as hard as they used to anymore and rebound?
I'm just finishing up my annual beach 4th of July weekend with my friends. These are my old high school/college drinking buddies, people that used to be able to rage into what seemed like infinity.
Yesterday, most of the group didn't even drink, some left early, one slept for 15 hours. It was just four days of drinking. I know I'm an anomaly here, and I'm not mad at them or anything for not being able to keep up, but it seems like no one can. Everyone has turned 30 but me - I have just over a month to go.
I know I'll probably get a lot of "grow up, partying isn't fun when you're older" kinds of messages, but I'm not ready to stop and I feel like I'm coming to the end of the line.
How do I deal with this? Anyone else in a similar scenario or dealt with this?
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Younger, 22, but used to party with two friends that could actually keep up (summer vacation was a drunken stupor, for my 21st they took me to Bangkok and you can get a tray of 50 shots for about 7$), they went off into the military and now the only other pals I can drink with get hammered off of a couple of beers or two mixed drinks. I'm finding that the only solution to the problem of having friends that just can't hang in there and play hard is to make friends that can. I met my new drinking buddies who are much older than me by spotting the heavy drinkers that handle their shit all night at my favorite bar and socializing with them if it's welcome. Go to drinking environments or party environments and just try to make friends with people who stay long and don't fade out.
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>>17326581
do what you want for as long as you want.
you are an anomaly, sure, but that does not make you entirely unique. while you may not be able to get those amazing nostalgic party vibes with your own friends, you can make new party memories with new friends. worse case scenario tag along with some youngins. it may sound lame but if you find the right group it can be fun.
this will take plenty of trial and error but if you really feel the need to party hard, you gotta work for it.
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The obvious solution is to find a younger group of friends to do these partythings with, and have tamer get togethers with your old friends. Even if you won't resent them for not keeping up, they will probably be able to tell that you want to go harder. It is easy to become resentful of a friend who puts (even unspoken) pressure on you to go further than you want.
You can still have tons in common with them without having this need in common with them, and you can get it out of your system with other crowds. Then you won't be disappointed if a party with them doesn't turn out as crazy as you sometimes like it, either.
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I haven't fucking physically spoken/hung out with someone my own age in TWO MONTHS, I just sit at my house all day jacking off, browsing the internet and playing video games. I've been looking for work but haven't had any luck, been unemployed two months now so just living that NEET life for right now. I have no friends in my town, I can't find people my own age who want to even give me the time of day or hang out with me, and most of them are probably working anyway and have no free time to devote to hanging out.
I'm 23 and a virgin weeaboo nerd, guess that explains why it's so hard to find people my own age to hang out with. We really don't have any weeaboos over the age of 20 in my city, and if we do then I don't know how to find them. We have a lot of normies in my town and they won't give me the time of day, especially stacies since I'm far from chad-tier. I just think I'm going partially insane, I NEED social communication, especially with people my own age. I WANT to have a social life, I want to have friends and meet people my own age but I don't know where to start or how to find them. I fucking hate going outside, I have social anxiety and it's hard for me to just go to a bar/club or some place where people my age gather. I think it's awkward to just show up somewhere by yourself and start conversing with people, I've tried online dating/tinder and I get no matches or results. The girls I get on Tinder are normie as fuck and I have nothing in common with them, it just sucks.
I don't know what I'm going to do, it's been two months and I'm already reaching my limit. I hate not having anyone my own age to hang out with, the only people I speak with are my parents or people who are in their 40's. I just gotta meet people my own age, I want friends man......I want friends.
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tl;dr just normie things the thread.
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Well after you get your job, why not go look on craigslist and see if anybody close enough is looking for a roommate. Talk to them and see if you're a good match, have similar interests and are looking for the same things, then move in with them. Boom, instant companionship. Lots of people your age are looking for people to split the rent with.
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Anon, I'll be your friend. I'm not NEET but I'm a weaboo/nerd and I'm lonely too.
21/f/Midwest. We're probably not near by each other but we can be online friends.
If you play WoW, I'm getting back in for Legion and just started a guild. You can come play with us.
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Simple question, would love to hear from someone with experience in the Computer Science field.
Is it a good idea to go with a degree in mathematics if I wish to get into software engineering. I'm afraid that the degree is over saturated and that skills given in mathematics coerces would make me a beneficial asset.
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Stick with Comp Sci as your Major. Add Math as a Minor. Or if you think you can handle the workload, add Math as a second Major. That would look good on a resume.
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CS >= Math heavy STEM >>> Rest
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>>17326528
Probably won't double major, but will take Math as a minor. For sure.
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Thanks anons
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how do you actually interact in public with people you don't know if you want to socialize.
how do you approach a person.
I'm not autistic but i have severe social anxiety and this is just beyond my imagination. i don't want to be alone but I don't "get" how to just walk up to someone and talk.
are there any videos where people just do this or something?
I feel like almost everyone always has some kind of (very)short term goal in their had already and is busy with something else. I can't relate to that.
Very often I'm just at a place and exist and have nothing particular on my mind. As soon as I notice people looking at me or talking to me I'm in shock for a short moment.
I'm super ashamed of that.
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My friends forced me to talk to a girl in public because I have the same problem as you and it went kinda well, didn't get a number of anything but it was surprisingly a nice conversation. I did have the luxury of making it slightly less awkward by joking about my friends kinda making me do this and the fact that she was just texting on her phone waiting for a class before I approached.
What helped me prolong the conversation was asking and talking about things I know about, finding common ground. Maybe that's what you need to look for.
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>>17326506
Working at a retail job actually helped ease my shyness by forcing me to talk to other people (I was a cashier). That's one idea.
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>>17326629
why didn't you get her number? were you just afraid to ask?
>>17326634
I worked as waiter at a restaurant when I was at high school. I grew into that particular role and got more confident on talking to people on this professional level. but desu it didn't really help me outside my job environment.
nowadays I'm working a kind of office job where I don't have contact to too many different people except my colleauges and professional relations
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what's the minimum height you think a man should be ?
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>>17326504
the legal definition of a man includes being 6'1" or above.
everything below that height is referred to as a manlet if we're getting technical. the term "boy" can also apply.
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sub 7' should be castrated, little manlets always think they could get a GF
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if you are not at least 10'1" you should kill yourself, sucks for you
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how do i know if someone blocked me on facebook? They no longer show on my friends list but when i go to a mutual friends friends list they show up on there without a profile pic and i cant click their link
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Go through settings, and "blocking"
Find the person you're looking for
Try to click on their name
If nothing happens then he might have blocked you, so take another Facebook account and repeat your search and see
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>>17326515
lookem them up through "blocking" but they dont even show up. tell tale sign im blocked by them?
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Just look them up on another profile.
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K so I've been talking with this girl and she's wonderful. Only problem is she's 7 years younger than me. She knows I'm older and told me to tell everyone (her family, etc) I'm 20. I know they'll buy it no problem because everyone thinks I'm 21ish, so 20 wouldn't be that hard to swallow. If we keep our mouths shut, no one will ever know. What could go wrong?
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>starting a relationship based on a bed of lies and deception
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>>17326491
how old are you and she actually?
and as for what can go wrong, I guess people could find out your real age and wonder why you bothered lying. beyond that, I can't really say without knowing what your actual ages are.
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>>17326491
I wouldn't lie. What happens if you guys end up falling in love and getting married and her family finds out you lied about your age? They'll start to wonder what else you lied about. Maybe you're actually hiding your true identity and you're a secret murderer.
Not worth the drama.
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SO I was thinking: does the majority of the guys out there prefer bubbly and happy go lucky type of girls or rather melancholic and mysterious?
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Different guys like different things. Either way, be friendly and polite, but be yourself.
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Be yourself anon.
Also
>preferences
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>>17326447
i don't think this is a matter at all. just try to look as good as you can
Which sounds better?
Mike O'Sullivan, or just Mike Sullivan?
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>>17326437
Whichever is in the coffin.
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>>17326454
I don't understand..
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>>17326437
The first one.
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I'm going to China for 12 days within the northeastern area, specifically Dalian. I'm going there to see a friend and tour around the area a bit, but a couple days ago, my friend hit me with a curveball saying I should have some itinerary in mind.
I literally have no idea what to see there. Does anyone know some neat places? If it helps, I'd like to stay away from historical attractions.
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bamp
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only a shimada can control da dragons
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>>17326434
ask int and the travel board lol
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Where to find introverted hermit chicks 2016-07-05 16:56:02 Post No.17326387
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Where to find introverted hermit chicks
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I'm 20, and I hate going outside. And I can't stand summer season.
A while back I came to accept the fact that I just enjoy being inside and do what I love.
>Play some vidya, binge watch Netflix, and go to the gym without any worry of social pressure.
Although I've always wanted pursue a romantic relationship, I never found anybody who liked to stay home and just not do shit. Or preferred to play some video games instead of going outside and "do" something.
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>TL;DR
Where does one find homebody chicks?
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Bumping for gold
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>>17326387
You won't find them. They're at home.
To be actually helpful, probably online. I'm a homebody and met my boyfriend online.
We live together so we don't have to go out and do stuff to spend time together.
Before that, I would go over to his house and we would binge anime and video games
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There is no QTDDTOT here so...
Lately i'm having this desire to learn to play the harmonica for some reason. I did try it once but i gave up; one of the reasons for giving up was how bad my harmonica was.
If i try it again i'll buy a decent one. The problem is that i never finish anything in life; i'm probably just going to abandon it.
I really want to but i know that, realisticaly, this is just a waste.
Should i follow my desire or nah?
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>>17326382
you didn't actually give up because your harmonica was bad, you gave up because you lack discipline. don't waste your money now. you can still pick up a new harmonica after you developed a habit of playing it
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>>17326476
I know that. It being bad was just a minor factor.
The one i had disappeared, i searched the whole house for it and nothing, so i have to buy a new one if i go back to it but now i won't buy one so bad; that's the point i tried to come across, and failed.
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I like the hoener's. Got an e minor, it sounds beautiful. For starters, get a more basic one and start doing some resesrch. There are tons of guides online, and all you need is patience.
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How do I make myself do things? I waste my time shitposting and doing other useless crap on the internet, or playing games all day every day. Sometimes I go outside if I run out of food or other supplies.
I'd like to go walking/jogging regularly, draw, read books, watch the movies I've always wanted to see, learn a language or a few, play guitar, learn something useful, get friends, etc. But just thinking about starting something and committing to it even for a few minutes gives me this weird uncomfortable feeling and urge to avoid the thing altogether. It feels like my brain puts up an actual block between me and the motivation to do something. I guess I have a massive case of procrastination. I've read a million articles and whatnot about procrastination and tried all the tricks, but they never help me on the long term.
What do?
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>>17326371
Too much of these "how to do stuff and not be a worthless loser thread", I'm sorry friend you are a worthless loser BUT if you want shit done you gotta do that yourself, a lot of people found it hard to get motivated, including myself, truth is you gotta motivate yourself, tell yourself "hey bud you're not a piece of trash after all, ok maybe you are but that can be changed" end quote, end comment, end these shit threads, good day and god bless bb
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A to-do list works for me.
Put simple stuff on it as well as the bigger stuff. Putting "Floss your teeth" at least gets you up and moving and gives you a tiny sense of accomplishement. Once you're in motion it's easier to move on to workouts and bigger goals.
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>>17326371
You just gotta do it bro. You'll never feel like doing it at all. You have to discipline yourself and tell yourself that you are not a worthless piece of shit. Don't wait until tomorrow, start now. Don't make up shitty excuses because that's gonna get you nowhere. So what are you waiting for? Build up a new hobby
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She needs "space and time" to work on herself. 2016-07-05 16:46:19 Post No.17326350
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She needs "space and time" to work on herself.
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Met this girl at school and she is an exchange student. We were not too close when she was here but we got along and had fun. Before she left we exchanged numbers and said our goodbyes. Over the next 8 months we got a lot closer. She informed me of her issues with your intimacy and said that since her parents died (6 months apart) 4 years ago she's been afraid of getting close to someone. Last month I went to Berlin for a week and we didn't speak, when I texted her she admitted that she missed me and she was developing feelings for me. All downhill from there. She started fights for no reason, started playing with my emotions. It came to a head last week and I said she either works in this with me or she leaves. she said she'd work on it and she couldn't leave me. Two days later she disappears and comes back to tell me that she can't do it, that she needs time and some space to work out her problems.
So my question is, do I just give her time and see if she fixes it. Or is this her keeping me at arms length and not having the nerve to tell me she isn't interested. I like this girl a lot, she seems to have a lot of issues but I don't mind working though them with her. I just dont want to stick around for someone who plays games
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Am I misreading things or are you in a relationship-repair mode before actually building the relationship to begin with?
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>>17326369
Well we never got a chance to be actual boyfriend and girlfriend, she was there only for a semester and I didn't want to start anything temporary. She has a hard time opening up but in these past couple months she has. She's just confused about everything I suppose. Or so she says.
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>>17326393
I think you're both confused and that you're trying to fix something that just isn't there.