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So I'm having trouble keeping it up. I've always had the problem but I have limited sexual experience to begin with. I recently got a new girlfriend and we've tried having sex twice. She's really good and knows exactly how to get me ready quickly. Amazing head and handjobs. But when it came time for me to insert, I went limp the moment it touched. We tried again and I was able to get hard for a brief period of time but my mind started to wander and I started to feel somewhat awkward and lost it.
It actually hurt a bit when she asked me "do you think this is something we just won't be able to do?" She's been so sweet and understanding but I know she's disappointed and she deserves more. What can I do to improve the situation?
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I forgot to mention that I've completely abstained from masturbating for over a week. I'm often super horny and I basically pop boners whenever we cuddle or kiss
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Have you tried taking a viagra?
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performance anxiety. very common occurrence for inexperienced guys.
you're in your head too much, putting a lot of pressure on yourself to "perform" and since you're with a girl you really like it gets even more difficult.
you need to think less. get out of your own head. focus on the girl and get lost in the physical act of sex. no real need to think too much, the mechanics of it all are pretty simple.
talk to her about it. "i really like you and i think that's causing me to get really nervous when we're being intimate. i'm sorry if it's been disappointing. i'm working on it." she'll respond with something along the lines of "i don't care. i just enjoy being with you. you're not disappointing me. we'll work on it together, it'll be fun." that should get some of the pressure off your shoulders and help you to relax.
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