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>>17330356
Why would "too good to be your work" wreck your confidence?

It's like playing a video game and doing some sick plays and some kid calls you out for being a "hacker". It's high compliment that your standard is so far beyond their expected reality that you must've cheated to get there.

A simple reframe does the trick nicely.

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>>17330375
Because "too good to be (my) work" was followed by accusations of cheating my way/tracing, and not taking art seriously, just drawing as a distraction.

In was really, really proud of that poster, I really thought I'd get a compliment for my effort from her, not accusations of trace.

>>17330356

do it anyways. anyone who posts their stuff thinking that they arent going to get criticized is out of their mind with delusion.

in 2007 i decided to create a fanime. and i got shit on by every other fanime in that community. for years they insulted my work, talked about how they were the best fucking shit in the world. i struggled with 600 views per episoe at the age of 14 trying to learn how the fuck computers work and being insulted by much older people.

flash forward to now, literally all of those fanime have given up after 1 and a half episodes of mediocre work, mine is the only one in the community to air its complete story, i got over a million views across the episodes and still get 60 thousand views a month (over 100 thousand until some were blocked in america over musical rights). Were loved and adored by thousands, some people consider our fanime cannon, we get fanart, and fan videos and fan fiction and someones even designing an action figure from our OC.

and you know what? people still come along and say 'HURR DURR THIS IS SHIT BECAUSE I SAY SO'.

its something you deal with and keep doing cuz you love what you do.

so just do it OP. put it out there, and learn what criticism is good and bad.


P.S. if you ever want a co-writer on the comic hit me up yo

>>17330335
You could use some filler in there. It generally gets overlooked by employers, but it will fill that resume out a little.
Fluff it up.

>>17330335
You look overqualified.

>>17330335
Dijkstra has a typo in your resume

>>17330331
120 lbs and 5 feet is healthy. It's a BMI of 23.
If you want her to get more toned, exercise with her. But she doesn't need to lose weight.

>>17330331
>with all these fucking female friends she has?

They can't let her get thinner, so that they don't look fat in comparison. I know the type who do this. They're innocently vicious with the whole "Wow, you're so skinny" bullshit, when everyone within normal weight-range looks skinny to them, because they're simply fat.

You probably can't deal with it every month. You could try to initiate healthier lifestyle and help her. Start exercising together, cook together healthier meals, etc. Criticism doesn't work as well as actually helping her and then complementing her when some results actually do turn up.

>>17330331
How is 120lbs fat?

>>17330312
Big cocks are overrated. Sure, nice to look at, but fucking with a big cock is painful and it limits your options a lot. My ex was a lot bigger than my boyfriend and sex sucked, it constantly hurt.
You dick is well over average and if you can satisfy her, who cares.

So, he had a bigger dick. Bigger dicks are better. Are you going to let that bother you? Are you going to be the insecure one too? The one who whines about his dick size? Or are you going to man up and deal what you got? You can learn to lick pussy to make sure you satisfy her, lick that fucking daily and you are guaranteed better in her eyes than the ex ever was.

>I give her multiple orgasms when we have sex, and she says sex is amazing but I'm an insecure faggot with an above average penis

I'm in the same boat as you
Boyfriend is super needy as I have a life as well as him.
I say wait a bit longer and if you don't want this for the rest of your life then don't settle.
Does he really love you? Think about that to

>>17330287
Do not settle. If the problems can't be talked through and worked out, then jump into the lifeboat and don't look back. A relationship shouldn't be a prison, regardless of how you feel. If you stay, you might end up never leaving because you'll keep saying "but what if it changes?" and it'll never change.

Get out sweetie, while you still can.

>>17330287
>what if I throw this relationship away before it does finally get better?

Do you have any idea why he's that way? Is it because he considers himself a failure? You can only help him so far.

Make your coffee. Your mom's fault for getting drunk on the couch instead of her own bed.

I say this as someone who loves their mother more than anyone. But she's still human and time can't stop for her.

>>17330227

Unless you're paying rent, go buy a coffee.

Also, either go to bed earlier learn to function without coffee.

>>17330237
Thanks anon, I took your advice and managed to not wake her.

Unfortunately this is a daily occurrence.

>>17330266
>implying I have income
>implying I don't live in a rural area miles away from any shops
>implying caffeine withdrawal doesn't exist

What gender are you?

>>17330203
Whatever it is that you need the meds for, it is almost always the case that there are 2 or 3 different meds for every condition. Your doctor will prescribe the one most likely to help, but if it has bad side effects, you can ask him to switch you to another.

Female

Kys

>>17330189
Jesus fucking christ

>>17330211
is that a good jesus fucking christ or a bad one?

Lmao inviting me to places with his family**

How did I type in senpai? Weird

>>17330178
Well, did you found a games to play with him, did you try to do things together with him, did you invite him with you to places with your senpai? do you start conversations and provide interesting topics other than gossiping and state of your relationship? Maybe he is bored with you, maybe he is goind through some heavy stuff he don't want to tell you.

Asking "what's the matter, can I help you in anything" in least bitchy way, would be a start. You could read much from his reactions. If he seems distressed when you tell him "I will always be there for you. I will always help you, I love you very much" it might be sign there is something fishy going on.

Maybe he is unsure about his own feelings, maybe he is not geting as much from relationship as you are geting. Maybe he has his own issues.

>>17330241
Yeah 3+ weeks ago he was crying and telling me how much I meant to him

After that he just distanced himself and now I just think he was playing with my emotions.

>>17330170
There are people out there who drink a dozen or more coffees a day.

>>17330205
I drink like 6 to 8 daily, stop being a faggot op, you also couldve googled it instead of littering this board with more bullshit

>>17330228
>I drink like 6 to 8 daily
And you're browsing 4chan.
Clearly not a normal person.

Do it after the vacation, but make him pay for everything

Just do what my shitty fucking bf is doing to me at, ignore him and get more and more distant and deliberately make it obvious that you're talking to other guys

If he's lying to you about talking to girls n shit you shouldn't trust him

>>17330191
yeah. I don't trust him. but he blames it on me, making me seem like a bad person "well its bc YOU don't trust me!"

hwo does ur bf make it obvious hes talking to girls o_0
-I mean he "sleeps" ALL THE TIME. like that at this point I don't really believe him that HE ALWAYS SLEEPING... he disappears for THE WHOLE DAY sometimes I wont hear from him till 9pm. I finally got on his ass about it and all the sudden hes awake in the morning, but usually doing stuff with friends.. so I cant help believe that he always is awake and just hides it from me to ignore me. and its pretty obvious he likes the girl his best friend is fucking, its really disgusting, and he just followed her on Instagram and liked a pic of her his friend posted and then like her insta pics (not selfies, but still). and shes immature, 5 years younger than me, desperate. he also had some random girl recently add him on snapchat, and he says he doesn't know who it is but I find that weird, ive never been added on snapchat by a random person.. and I haven't been able to see his phone for 2+ weeks like he hasn't kept it alone around me and stuff...

>>17330191


alsooo lol I so would do that but I would feel kinda bad if we went on vaca and I made him pay for it then dump him.. like I'm not a shitty person, but I'm not ready to break up with him yet...but I also don't wanna take pics of us on vacatin bc idk if I see a future with him anymore.... and I don't want that stuff on my social media

-honestly, I should have broke up with him when he confessed to lying to me about all that stuff a year ago. idk what I did

Take more time for yourself so you actually look forward to seeing her.

>>17330195
I have before and for a time that worked but I still don't feel too much.
She has even said she feels like she misses me more than I her and it's true sadly

The same thing happened to me, except that i'm male and i was the one who got dumped.

It's almost exactly the same thing, we began long distance, eventually got closer, i loved her very much but she didn't feel the same for me and eventually ended it all.

It was extremely painful, i was depressed for months, it hurts A LOT, but, in the end i realized one thing, the longer a dead relationship gets dragged on, worse the break-up is and more it's gonna hurt for one or both parties.

If it's not working out, end it, life is too short for wasting time with a lie. It's gonna be very painful but it's better done now than later, because it can only get worse. Cut all contact after it, even sporadic phone calls or texts will nurture false hopes that will only make the pain last longer.

If she really loves and cares about you, it's gonna hurt way too much, i know that pain, so be considerate, don't step all over her, be honest, tell her you are very sorry but the feelings aren't there for you, she is going to cry, she is going to say she hates you, she is going to be depressed for a while, but time will heal the wound, and it's gonna shape her into a more mature, wiser person, like it did to me.

Be considerate, honest and don't lead her on any longer, she is going to remembe you with a smile in the future.

Go watch "Dancer in the Dark" if you're stuck and can't quit your job

or hang out on /biz/, learn how to make money, start a business, and live the life

Earphones

Learn to use music to help pass the monotonous droning that makes days feel slow and long

>>17330168
i can't its against the rules

Sounds like an infected hair follicle. It'll hurt for a bit but if you let it be it should clear up in a week or so

>>17330162
Thanks man

>>17330137
It might be snoo.

Good fucking luck.

You don't need a woman to be happy.

1) Hang out in libraries
2) Talk to a lot of girls

You'll find her in the next 4 months if you're persistent