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>>17326331

>how do you know what college / university major is right for you?

there is no way to know for sure. many many many many many adults go to school, get a degree, than hate their job field. a big problem with college is that it doesn't give you any realistic job experience. at best you get internships cuz its required but you end up only getting coffees and little things so dont actually get to experience the job itself.

the best you can do is study a subject that interests you and is known for decent career paths. you dont have to be a doctor or a lawyer. most office jobs will accept pretty much any degree as long as the office job itself isn't supoer duper ridiculous.

I manage a small business but had an associates in film. most human resource managers didn't go to college for human resource managing. many accountants didnt go to school for accounting.

>what's honestly more important, studying what you like or studying something that has more job opportunities.

when you're paying 10 grand a semester to 'study something you like' you'd better hope it has good job opportunities cuz ur wasting 80 thousand fucking dolllars 'studying something you like'.

>>17326360
That being said it would suck even more to drop 80 grand without taking the opportunity to study something that interests you.

University isn't all about the job.

Find a major, or second major, or minor, that you love, and that compliments your more practical "core" major. I studied Sociology and even some philosophy (comm/semantic theory, the arts), to compliment my Business Marketing and Statistics focus. Now I work at an advertising agency.

>>17326331
I switched three times before the end of my sophomore year.

I ultimately just went with the subject that was easiest for me. I went from bio to neuro and realized I hated labs. So from then I looked st my best subjects and realized theyvwere all the physical science class (physics, chem, etc.) So I just said screw it and changed to math.

I honestly never looked back so I guess it was the right choice.

Give yourself some time to grow and find out what clicks with you and what doesn't.

>>17326319

yes

Your penis might explode man

>>17326465
Dude I fap three maybe four times a day. Penis is still there.

>>17326304
you where probably nervous. first time i had sex, i never came. sex only started to feel good about the 4th time. plus, people like different things, you might not of found what you like yet.

when i used to watch porn, i used to think the girl on top was hot as fuck, although when having actual sex i dont really like the girl on top. i like being on top.

>>17326304

normal in the sense that sometimes it happens but not normal in the sense that its a good sign.

it may be the porn. it may be the daily jerking. it may be that you were just nervous. it may be that you used a condom.

I cannot tell you how many men have sex with a condom, cant cum (or worse, lose their erection) and then think they are broken men simply because the condom ruined the sex. i cant maintain an erection at all.... with a condom. take it off and im good to go.

nature did not intend for sex to be your dick wrapped in latex getting its circulation cut off. frankly i dont think someones really lost their virginity til they lost it bareback, cuz even those who can cum with a condom on must not feel very good.

>>17326329
i hate wearing condoms too. what are the alternatives apart from pull out?

Mark my words, only time will help. Keep going, and stop looking at her online stuff.

>>17326274
I know, but what am I meant to do right now when I hate waking up.

Sex doesn't help
Sleep doesn't help
Reading doesn't help

Only playing guitar helps sometimes.

Life isn't fair and things don't have to have reasons to happen. Hedonism is a poor distraction compared to improving yourself. Stop indulging your pathetic impulses and mold your situation to your liking. Life takes work and most of the effort you put in you will not get back.

>>17326264
1.be yourself
2.talk to alot of girls.

>>17326271
I see.... Playing the numbers game always made me a bit salty but it seems necessary.

>>17326264
Seize the means of production

>>17326256

man has this weird thing where they have to stop consuming and start creating. you enjoyed art, you were inspired by it, but you never built upon it in any way. you have noted that you are tired of consuming but you havent made the transition into creating.

so go start creating stuff.

also, getting a normal job does not take away your individuality. if all you had going for you was you didn't get a degree, than you never had any individuality to begin with, you just wished you did.

>>17326311
I've been making stuff for 10 years tho.

>>17326411

then give up and kill yourself?

>>17326235
I have no first hand experience but wish I had done this field. Fucking 6 figure jobs man, straight out of college!

>>17326240
>6 figure jobs

Where do you get your information? From what I was aware most entry level jobs were only 5 figure

double bump

>>17326196
Go volunteer somewhere and screw up there. At least you'll learn to be confortable in your own skin and gage if you'll be ready for real work.

>>17326211
Are there no jobs where I can just lift shit for people and labour? I'm pretty /fit/, I just don't wanna talk to anyone.

>>17326225
Become a construction/carpenter apprentice that's what I did, it's simple but hard work after you've done that for a year or two any other job will seem like a piece of cake.

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>>17326177
This is me attatched. Ikik not very attractive.

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>>17326182
I was think getting something like this. Opinions?

>>17326183
Do anything with your hair and you'll look better. Besides, stand straight

Customer service, so you can work on that shyness and introversion. Happened to me and after a few years of it I'm pretty much a normie now talking with people. Still have my anime and videogame hobbies though.

>>17326178
How do I get into customer service with no experience? Aren't they usually looking for someone with experience?

>>17326188
Not really. Customer service is pretty entry-level since they sucks so much. I mean, it might help with your shyness and all that like it helped me but I had to go through so much it that I honestly don't recommend it to somebody. Working for a cleaning company or a position not involving the cash registers on a supermarket might be better for you.

>>17326166
Write a letter to her at work.: "Unless you pick up your cats by [date 2 weeks off] I will bring them to the cat shelter in [name of town]."

Do it.

>>17326166
Poor kitties. Anon, please take them to a reputable shelter to get adopted if she keeps blocking you out. They deserve better than that.

>>17326245
Even better, fucking go to her job and tell her boss what a worthless human being she is and make sure everyone knows it.

Your boyfriend sounds like a bitch.

If my roommate brought home a dog, he'd soon be missing one dog, and one window, because I'm booting that dog out his bedroom window.

There's household rules, and if you don't follow them, there's household consequences.

No fucking dogs are allowed in my house.

>>17326176
>Your boyfriend sounds like a bitch
Because he didn't want 5 dogs in the house? Tbh I didn't either but I'm too scared/passive to speak up for anything. That's one reason why a lot of this happened. He didn't want 5 dogs because he was home the most and ended up taking care of all the dogs, even the roommate's who said he would take care of his own dogs. He was also tired of things getting chewed up by the roommate's dog (even if off the floor and hidden from plain sight, he'd find a way to get to it) without taking responsibility for it.

I agree though: no more dogs. We were only able to bring one dog with us while the other dog is back with my mom and I don't want any more dogs in the house.

>>17326224
Not because he didn't want 5 dogs in the house, because he allowed 5 dogs in the house.

Call animal control, crush glass up in hamburger meat, kick them out a window, beat your dog bearing roomates up for even thinking about crowding your home with dogs.

I wouldn't stand for that shit in my house, why is he? Oh, right. He's a bitch.

Community college. Otherwise, enroll now for winter quarter / spring semester.

>>17326089
It's probably too late to receive any financial aid for this school year. Even though you have GI Bill access, most financial aid is already accounted for. Your best bet is to call financial aid at a college you're interested in.

>>17326089
Here's a really bizarre off-the-wall thought - why not contact the college and ask them?

bumping for answers as well, I am in a situtaion where I'd do anything to get back with my ex (even if I know it probably won't happen)

Yes.

>>17326042
With an axe.

Two hours left

Try to fuck or just be friendly?

I was soft when a girl gave me head and i felt like shit. I went down on her and after about 20 min i got hard. Maybe you should do that first.

>>17326037
She's old enough to know what she wants, that's why she invited you out. You should be old enough to be able to read this situation.

Don't tard it up.