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How do you know if a women is serious about you or thinks of you as a fall back plan? dating a women atm but she sometimes say stuff like "i might never find love until im like 40". i dont know if i am just being insecure, and this is typical behavior by women. thanks.
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>>17330092
bump
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>>17330108
>4 minute bump
Lel
Also women do have plan b,c,d,e,f guys
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She's making it very clear she doesn't love you so don't be a dummy and fall for her. If you had attractive girls hitting on you regularly like boys do to her, you wouldn't be iooking at her as the clear #1 either bc you'd have lots of good options that are constantly coming up
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Does my ex want me back/should I pursue this?
I was with this girl from 9th grade through till we started college. 4ish years. We ended up going to the same college, though we would have gone to it separately if we'd heard about it. We didn't get together much after college started because we were both caught up in the novelty of hanging out with new people, and we were already at the point where we were comfortable spending some time apart.
Later she started showing less affection, and eventually broke up with me and started dating someone new. Now that I look back I suspect cheating, but I never asked. It was a really bad breakup, happened in October.
I cut off contact in October and didn't even want to text again until sometime in April. I had a nice little mutual rebound relationship from November to March.
I think the breakup was much needed, and I've improved a lot as a person and made tons of friends that I probably wouldn't otherwise have made. The rebound didn't work out in the end but I learned a bit more about how relationships should work.
We texted once in April and it's been radio silence from then until 3ish weeks ago when she texts me about a souvenir I gave her and an inside joke about it.
If she's grown and changed like I have in this first year of college then I'd consider getting back with her, and if I'm reading her right, she's thinking the same. Pic is some subtle evidence, supported further by the amount of time we spend texting. I think I have a good read on her, I've known her for a long time. It's either that or she's trying really hard to build a friendship back up instead of a relationship. I can't tell.
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Additionally, I don't know what her current relationship status is. I figure if she's comfortable texting me late into the night then it isn't like she's hanging out with the guy she dumped me for originally. I'd frankly prefer not to ask about it and just progress things without asking, in case that relationship still exists but is falling apart.
Please send help. Should I get back with her? Does she seem to want to get back together?
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i get uncomfortable reading texts like that.
try to be upfront or something i dont know, i felt like posting a response cuz i read all that bullshit
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>>17330076
Before anything else.
Flat out ask her if she ever cheated on you. Even if you want to pursue this, you need to know the truth now before it's too late. If she did, you have your answer.
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tl;dr
>tickling nostril from hell, watery eyed, interview tomorrow, cant take it anymore
I have a job interview tomorrow and my fucking right nostril is driving me insane. It's slightly runny (not such a bit problem), tickles all the time, I seriously for the life of me can't keep a normal face, sneeze a lot and am heavily watery eyed constantly it's ridiculous and pathetic. How am I going to present myself this way tomorrow when I need to keep a fucking napkin on my face all the time?
I don't know what's the cause, it started after an intense session of running (I didn't keep my breathing in check), it may have become irritated or something. Please suggest some quick remedy or advice on how to make it go away or control it, it's just a bad timing and it's been like this since yesterday (a lot worse yesterday but it's still very frustrating)
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Sounds like you have an allergy to something
Or there's heavy amounts of mold in the air.
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>>17330085
what do
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>>17330100
Get allergy medication from the store
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I went on a camping trip with some friends, and my friend's girlfriend brought her friend along. She is very fat and not very pretty (almond shaped eyes, really big lips for her face, always looks like shes pouting, hair only down to her chin... way too short for my liking.) Well the first night she was kicked out of the girl's tent for snoring... I found her outside sleeping on a cot and told her she could come into my tent. She did and we stayed up talking... the next night she slept in my tent again and this time things escalated and she gave me a handjob. The last night of the trip, she just flat out blows me in the tent... and it dawns on me, the handjob was awkward and uncoordinated, and the blowjob was super messy, she accidentally gagged herself multiple times and had no rythm. She was a virgin... since then shes totally flipped into a freak, letting me do what I want when I want... I have only told one of my friends about it, and I kind of had to because he walked in on her giving me head... the thing is, I still date other women while hooking up with her, none of my friends know we hook up except the one. He says I need to be more open about it, that she probably feels like I'm ashamed of her... I do hide her from friends and family, not just the girls I date on the side but she doesn't seem to mind, at least hasn't expressed anything to me about it... my friend told me she won't, that shes probably just happy someone will have sex with her... I denied that was the case but she does let me literally do anything I want to her or with her... I ask if its ok and she says yes to everything, even letting me sleep with her before I go out on a date so I don't have sex on the mind. I don't know, could I be hurting this girl? she acts like shes cool with everything, but the one friend that knows about her says what I'm doing is really fucked up.
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>>17330059
you're using her. she's letting you, but just because someone lets you do something doesn't mean you should. do the classy thing and turn her loose.
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bump for interest
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>>17330059
Is there a question here or are you just bragging?
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So I think I have romantic feelings towards my best friend. The thing is, I considered myself straight for the longest time. In fact I'm only attracted to girls my whole life, and never did I feel attracted to guys. I don't necessarily feel attracted to my best friend either, except that, over the years, I do often think of him, and I often miss him when he's not near me. I often imagine us living together, and, while I said I'm not attracted to guys, I do imagine for example sucking my best friend's dick or have him have anal sex with me, and that doesn't disgust me I think.
I've been trying to hint at my best friend (like sending him homoerotic pictures and bait his reaction), but I'm still not sure how he feels and I don't want to make things weird (or worse become seen as the closet homosexual in our circle of friends).
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VERY important question: is he straight?
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>>17330037
I think so
but I don't think he ever had a girlfriend
we're pretty normal and non-gay, at least that's what I'd assume the longest time.
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>Not attracted to guys
>imagine male friend anally desecrating you
wut
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I don't really want to get into to how I got this, long story short it was one of the worst decisions of my life.
I'm getting a consultation of Friday (it's Wednesday now) but looking at this how many laser treatments (with a picosure laser) do you think this will take.
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Getting hand tattoos without any other tattoos is retarded. You deserve it. Probably 6-10 sessions.
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cover it up with another tattoo that doesn't look like a inside out asshole and save yourself some pain m8
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I mean it's pretty small. I don't want to cover it up with another tattoo. I'm just going to laser it off. I'm expecting more like 4 sessions desu
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I can't stop fapping to pictures of other girls. Epecially ex high school classmates.
I love my girlfriend, we've been together for a very long time now but we can't see each other in real life for now.
I tried to delete my facebook so many times it's ridiculous. I always end up getting it back.
It hurts me when I think about my gf and what I do. It really kills me but it's so fucking hard not to do it. Any advice?
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>>17330006
Video chat with your gf and masturbate to her.
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>>17330013
I already do that. I fap to her a LOT. But not just to her and it makes me feel bad.
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>>17330020
The don't do it or just get over it. Masturbating to someone else doesn't necessarily mean you prefer them over your gf. Variety can be nice. You're a human.
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people at work are inviting me to be their childs godparent, the thing is I don't really GAF about these people or anyone else, i'm trying my best to avoid social interactions with people at work but it cant be avoided and now they think one of their friends or something(not sure though but i get invited to alot)
how bad would it be to refuse being a godparent?
sorry my engrish is bad not my first language
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do these people have the same religious beliefs as you? even if you go to the same house of worship, you may believe differently from them. usually a godparent is supposed to help with a child's spiritual development, so I would think the parents would want someone whose beliefs match theirs.
are you uncomfortable around children? sometimes that can be a good excuse.
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>>17330011
closet atheists but religions doesn't bother me,
yes i am "VERY" uncomfortable around children,
what/how is the best way to refuse them without sounding like an ass to everyone else.
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Its purely ceremonial bruh just accept and move on. You'll have to go through a lot more social interaction if you refuse
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Heres my story so far... my friend hooked me up with a friend of hers so I could lose my virginity. Me and this girl start hooking up regularly, I really like her. I told her I loved her during sex, and now she barely texts me and won't hang out anymore.
I found out she is now hooking up with a new guy... some fat bearded guy with long hair and it pisses me off, imagining him flopping around on top of her. When I asked my friend about it, she said "shes moved on, you fucked it up, and shes done with you." but I can't accept that. I've tried to "accidentally" run into her at stores I know she shops at but I can never get her alone, she clings so close to this guy and its aggravating, she barely knows him... I saw them under a tree at a public park, she was in his lap in a skirt, bouncing up and down... she isn't that kind of girl, I know it... she needs someone to show her shes worth more than just random sex with gross people... shes worth being in a relationship with... how do I do that? how do I show her shes worth something?
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nobody can show her that, she needs to learn it for herself. if she's ready to learn it, then she will learn it from the kindnesses of whoever is actually in her life (which is not you anymore unfortunately). if she's not ready to learn it, literally nothing you could do would make her realise it.
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forget about her, move on, consider her only if she'll approach you again. it's better this way, if you try to "better her life" or what kind of shit you think you'll only result creepy. i also know a girl i consider perfect who broke with me and now i know she'll literally fuck up her life, but i'm not an angel and this is not how things work.
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>>17329998
Assuming this isn't a troll: dude, move on. She isn't into you, she into gross fatasses that will fuck in public. Forget her and find a new girl.
She isn't into you and that's okay. Think about the amount of time you're wasting on someone that won't return your affection, you could be spending that time and effort on a girl that actually likes you and returns the affection. Focus on finding a different girl.
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So in my class there is this skinny blonde quiet skater punk dude that keeps giving me these fucking looks. It honest to god pissing me off.
Everyday when i enter the class. I catch him looking at me. When im hanging out with my posse i catch him staring at me from afar. Only to quickly look away when we lock eyes.
I honestly kinda want to stand up look at him and say "look i aint interested so stop faggot" and roast him in front of the class but, im not that much of a dick.
So what should to make this queer fuck off?
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Kiss a chick in front of him. Or just talk loudly about how sexy some chick is with a friend, withing earshot of him.... this shit aint hard
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>>17329988
fuck him really hard and then dont text him after
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>>17329989
Dude, thats what me and my buds do all the fucking time. Especially after the weekend.
The motherfucker is persistent. If all fags are like this no wonder people beat the shit out of em.
>>17329996
Yeah,no.
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Need critique/evaluation of life goal/plan
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Anyways, I have this goal in my life to work in healthcare and specifically, to get into med school and become a surgeon. I have a path planned out and have been making strides at it, but I haven't had anyone necessarily tell me whether or not the plan is feasible.
I'll green text it for conciseness:
>Currently 23, working full time in retail (slightly irrelevant)
>Going to community college with a basic general transfer studies AA
>Taking a semester off from that program in order to get my EMT-B certification (16 week program)
>Once I get my EMT-B cert and pass the licensing exam, I'll apply for jobs and quit my current full time job
>Continue to work as an EMT while going to school full time, hopefully finishing up my General Transfer studies course this time next year (Will be 24 at this time)
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>Next, transfer to ideally an in-state university with a science major (Biochem is the current idea, but that could change as time goes on)
>Keep on working as an EMT while going to school full time (4 year program, will be 28 when it's over)
>Get my undergrad in science, take MCAT test then apply for med school
>Get into med school, 4 years of med school, graduate, apply at hospitals for surgery residency programs (I'll be 32 when med school is over, with another 5 years minimum for all surgery residency programs I'll be about 37)
>So on and so forth
I realize it's a tremendous workload to take on, but I'm very serious about becoming a surgeon. I want to work as an EMT because I know one thing they look for during interviews is your experience in healthcare. Most people shadow at clinics or do volunteer work here and there. Not so many have actual field experience as an EMT. So I want to have that field experience, on top of having the shadowing and volunteer work in order to stand out.
Would appreciate any feedback or potential advice anyone could offer me. Just sort of typed this up hurriedly on a whim after the thread I responded to 404'd immediately, so apologies if things don't make sense or are worded strange.
Thanks
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OP, do you why you want to be a surgeon? Do you know how much you will work, what you will be paid? Do you know what residency is like?
Consider some basic costs, how much is your college going to be? Med school? Then what's your income during residency (hint, 60k if you are lucky, 40k if you aren't). During residency, do not expect to have a life, and I mean that in the most austere way possible. Residents work 80hrs a week minimum, and depening on hours etc it may be more like 100+, all day on your feet doing really detailed work that if you fuck up will have REALLY big consequences. Are you OK being stuck at one hospital for a longer time? Medical professionals can't compare their jobs or unionize in the same way other professions can.
It is a LOT of effort for something you aren't going to get much into, with surgery being your choice. Surgeons are kinda act like the jocks of a hospital, but its not really all its portrayed to be. At it's best, when you've gotten into a better position post residency etc, you will still have shit hours, shit pay relative to other medical specialties, and shit outside life. Surgeons are also the "least intelligent" field of practiced medicine, by which I mean you're getting paid to do the manual work, not the actual thinking of it. Also, surgeons are looking right now to be the first thing to be replaced by machines in hospitals (I can attest to this, it's the field I work in).
NOW that said, if you take being a surgeon and do something interesting with it, like make a new tool , software, or procedure, you will make huge dosh, but that usually only comes with heavy specialization, not general surgery. The problem with heavier specialization is more time in residency, more costs, and harder to get into.
I am not trying to dissuade you from medicine, it gets much much more profitable the more specialized you get, but really plan out your expenses, timing, and what you actually want.
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Yes. I understand all the nuances, pitfalls and tremendous workloads associated with being and becoming. As well as someone who hasn't gone through it possibly could. I know about the long hours and shit pay you receive (basically translate into minimum wage when you consider the amount of hours you work, effort and investment to get there). With all that considered I still want to be a surgeon.
I appreciate you bringing to light all of the factors and disuading things that go along with being a surgeon. I have yet to endure them, but it's good to know that they're there and to be prepared.
With that aside, is my path feasible? Any shortcomings or alternative routes you'd suggest?
Thanks again for your input
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What makes a guy good at sex? Is talking dirty cringe or hot?
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completely dependent on your ability to manipulate the situation to please your partner. its a lot like figuring out how a cat wants to be petted. there is no "right" way to do it.
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>>17329974
What about the talking dirty part?
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>>17329979
completely dependent on whether she's into it or not. test the waters with something less obscene and see if she responds well.
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I hate to ask this, but how do you stop getting rejected frequently ? 2016-07-06 14:28:42 Post No.17329959
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I hate to ask this, but how do you stop getting rejected frequently ?
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Hello /adv/, I've been working for a few months, I dress well and I'm not a nice guy.
I talk to girls (only small talk,I smile and I don't act creepy) and still get rejected every single time.
Is there any reason to keep talking to girls if you just get shot down all the time ?
Lastly, I will take your advice seriously.
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find a girl near your level, obviously if you are not that good with them lower your aim. eventually you'll gain enough experience to try with better ones
or just find the one you like and start trying with her like it's an house of cards' episode, if you've something to say give it time and you'll reach something.
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>>17329959
>not a nice guy.
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>>17329959
>I don't act creepy
Rule goes you don't say what you don't think...
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I just applied and got a very nice part time job at a company I worked for before. It pays quite well and I will work there for a week. The person in charge emailed me saying that there is still vacancy and she asked me to recommend this job to others.
Most of my closest friends are busy during this period. I am now traveling abroad with a group of 10+ people from my uni. I know some of these people well but others not so well. Should I recommend this job to ALL of them? I just don't want this to become an awkward move or something.
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you can still mention it to your friends who are working, because they might know someone who is looking for work.
what I would do is, while you're traveling, the next time you're sitting around together (with 10+ people idk if this will happen much but), just casually bring it up. and I might post about it on facebook too.
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>>17330003
Yeah a 10+ people meetup will happen soon
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Just because she asked you to recommend it to others doesn't mean you have to do it, she just wanted you to spread the word to people you think might be suitable. If you don't feel comfortable telling these people about it, then don't.
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me and my friend are two giant nerds... we're unattractive and have only had a couple of girlfriends. Hes a virgin and I have only had sex a handful of times. We were working together to find a way to get sex on the regular, I would go to massage parlors to see which ones offered "Full service" he would browse craigslist to find prostitutes who had all their teeth.
We also started talking to girls on facebook and found one who was nerdy, very fat and who also was in a sexual dry spell... when we met up, we hung out, then eventually, me and my friend took turns having sex with her. We've been meeting up with her on the regular... and taking turns with her. Well recently I found out, a couple of weeks into the arrangement, my friend got a girlfriend... and they've been dating one months now, shes a very very sweet girl, and I know they're supposed to be monogamous but not only is he continuing to go to our hook ups, hes also began going to the massage parlors I found that provide extra services. I don't know what to do... I've thought about at the very least, cutting him out of the arrangement with the fat girl, so he doesn't give her or me anything he picks up from the asian parlors, but he is still risking his girlfriend's safety, because I know he isn't using condoms when he goes to those parlors. What do I do?
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talk to him and dont be stupid yourself, tell him your gonna wear a condom with that girl from now on and if she asks why say, you hope he doesnt spread any stds.
monogamy is his own problem, chances are, he doesnt see it as a long time thing if he still fucks around or he is just dumb, but you cant change that. Dumb people will always do dumb stuff and get kids and stds.
just be more thoughtfull yourself
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>>17329965
Honestly, I think I'm going to tell the girl we hook up with that she should make us wear condoms... I do care about the nerdy girl, yeah we are fuck buddies but we're still friends... hes been frequenting some dirty ass massage places... the ones where all the windows are covered... seedier ones than I was checking out.
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fuck his girlfriend