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>I cause no problems.
>other people cause problems.
>if there were no other people, I would have to problems.
You guys think that's right?
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If you think everyone else is the problem, odds are it's you who has a problem
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I'm not sure about that. Being alone is usually easier, since you don't have to make time to care about someone. So if you consider being selfish a problem, maybe you're right... people who think that way are usually the problem due to their ego.
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>If you think everyone else is the problem, odds are it's you who has a problem
Literally no
That's so fucking dumb and something a problematic asshole person would say
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What environments affect you positively? 2016-07-07 00:17:10 Post No.17331814
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What environments affect you positively?
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What factors around you that you seem effect you in the sense of feelings or vibes. What I mean is that nature seems to bring a calming sense to most people. Trees, woods, dirt, birds chirping. I also love cold weather and rain with a wet sidewalk. What kind of environment is ideal to you?
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Cold weather, rain, city lights, jazzy music. Essentially anything that could be considered comfy
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Going anywhere I can forget other people exist. It's nice to get so far out into the wilderness I don't even see trash anymore.
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city lights at night, rain, almost deserted places(streets where theres not a lot of people, its less fuzz...), driving in that environment with relaxing music on the stereo... i could do it forever
I'm turning into an alcoholic, /adv/. I'm drinking almost a 6 pack a night now, sometimes skipping dinner. The weekends are a blur. Situation with my ex doesn't help that she led me on then dropped me like she once did. I feel like I'm falling apart, losing who I am. My life is swirling out of control and I don't know how to stop myself. I can't afford this habit either, I don't like cheap beers.
So what is the best kind of liquor to drink room temperature out of a flask? I'm hoping to save some money by switching to hard liquor. I'm thinking like a Bacardi 8 year rum. Thoughts?
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>skipping dinner
Efficient
>best liquor to drink room temperature out of a flask
>hoping to save money
Vodka is your answer. Cheap vodka will give you a nasty hangover, but the taste difference isn't too noticeable with cheaper brands. I recommend Kamchatka.
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>>17331822
Possibly a good choice for my weekend binging. But I can't have bad hangovers since I work. anything that will minimize damage in the morning?
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>>17331838
Milk and salt before you go to bed. Trust me, it works. Also, drink a lot of water in general.
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TLDR: Shipping off to AF BMT next week and I have Achilles heel pain, can it heal before then?
My heel has been bothering me for the past 2 weeks now, the past few days i have been keeping it elevated and have been icing it. Is there anything else I can do or am I screwed going into basic training next week?
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Tell your recruiter. You may have to go to meps again and wait 6 months but it beats getting removed from bmt and stuck in medhold indefinitely. There were kids there for 8 months at a time doing nothing. Literal torturous nothing. Its so bad i thought i was dead and went to hell in all honesty.
Tl;dr tell recruiter. Go heal for a few months then start over. Its not the end of the world they still want you more than they let on.
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First post, best post
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>>17331798
Yeah put that shit off. You're not gonna get a chance to heal in basic. Theyre gonna make you stand all day on crutches.
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I immediately become uninterested after I ejaculate
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This has been going on for a while, every time I cum I have this uninterested mindset. I wouldn't call it boredom, it's this weird thing where If I'm masturbating to something I find really hot, the moment I cum there's this thing in the back of my head telling me that it's not all that hot. How can I change this? I'll elaborate if you need more info.
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uh....
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This sounds like porn induced erectile dysfunction. Despite the name it mainly affects the brain. Google to learn more about it but there is a good chance you have it.
In a nutshell: Cut the porn, gradually cut out the masturbation, and find a way to keep your mind off it.
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>>17331794
Funny coincidence. I jack it about 5 times a week or so, not twice a day. Is that my problem? I didn't think I jerked off that much.
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If you lose your virginity to rape and never have sex again in your whole life and that was your only sexual encounter, does that make you as bad as being a virgin?
Also to give this thread more relevance since that question can be an opinion, how do you deal with this situation as a guy going into a relationship? Should you tell your partner that you have an abusive past and never had sex outside of that and to start things slow or would it be better to just say your a virgin or just nothing at all?
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>>17331780
If you're still that hung up about sex you should probably sort your shit out with a therapist before getting a boyfriend.
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>>17331787
LOL thanks,
While I am bisexual, largely because I was abused, I was referring to a relationship with a women.
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>>17331780
I would probably stay away because she's likely fucked up in the head from the rape. Not her fault, but I'm not a martyr.
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Hi, I'm 47 years old and I'm a virgin. Throughout my adulthood I have been depressed about being a virgin. But that's coming to an end! I've been just getting into PUA and I can't believe how stupid I was for thinking that just because I was ugly and short or old meant that I can't have sex with beautiful girls. I have a degree already, but starting in Spring I am re-enrolling in college. I'm going to shave my head and wear sunglasses and sit in the back of the class. I'm no longer a nerd like I was in my 20s. I'm going to be one of the cool kids. I have even chosen a new name I am going to start calling myself: Cool Smoke. It makes me seem mysterious and keeps girls interested. My plan is to party and make some male friends who are 18-19. These guys are going to be my "bros... Having friends in the 18-19 range makes girls less likely to turn me down for being old because they will view me as hip for having young friends. Once I am in their social circle and really good friends with them, I will start going clubbing and to parties with them, and I will meet girls this way.
any advice?
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>>17331745
If you do this try not to be 47.
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>pic related
Okay so I really need some advise because I don't know who to turn to and this is a really difficult situation
britfags would be better as they know the laws and ect
>get extreme anxiety and agoraphobia
>have to move back home to recover and get therapy
>have abusive mother who's personality is volatile
>super nice switches to unimaginable rage
>family road trip coming up
>fuck I have travel anxiety
>know if I don't go she will kick me out and I will be homeless
>she has done this before
>haven't told her yet
>plan to move out and live on benifits until I'm better again to work
>therapist says I won't get better until I move out of emotionally abusive household
I don't know if I should plan to rent out an apartment behind her back so when the time comes I have a place to live or if I should just play it by ear
Tl:dr abusive mom will kick me out, what do?
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Or if I should just gtfo as soon as possible
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>>17331721
how old are you
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Can you learn to not hate fat people
>running a cash register at a fast food joint
>a whole family of obese people walk in
>they try to make eye contact when they walk in (like they're human) but I can't even look at them
Why are we programmed to hate fat people? Is this wrong?
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>>17331717
No anon, it is the only way. Fat people are like drug addicts in my book. They have no self control and are happy in their misery. Let them die slowly and smile at that thought each time they eat another burger.
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>>17331730
Honey you can compare fatal withdraws to not eating ten hamburgers per sitting. Go to school or something
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>>17331717
Fuck fat people.
/adv/, I don't know what I'm doing with my life.
I'm majoring in political science and really want to be involved with politics, but right now, there's too many options at hand. Should I take the pre-law track? Should I go to business school? Should I instead major in something else like economics?
I'm just not sure where to even begin a political career once I'm out of college, let alone how I'll build up a sort of credibility.
Anyone have advice? I saw a similar thread yesterday but that wasn't quite the same as what I'm asking, so sorry if this is polluting this board, i'm fairly new
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why would we know what you want better than yourself
dude do what you want; and if you dont know what you want then it doesn't matter what you do.
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Anything that isn't stem in college is just a way for them to milk money from retards. HF with a shit tier job
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>>17331741
But as I said, I want a career within politics or international affairs. STEM is obviously not my route, and I just want to know what my best path is from now
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Daredevil Original Cut 2016-07-06 23:40:24 Post No.17331707
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I was wondering if there is a link of Daredevil''s (2003) Original Cut, I've been looking for it for a while now but all I keep finding is the Directors Cut, I know this really odd seeing how the Directors cut is better but I need the original one, If you're able to help thanks!
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I might have that, Anon. I'll check. But why?
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Long Story...
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Yeah whoops
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I am a man, born a boy and raised in the north of England. My main interests/hobbies are Video Games, Bodybuilding and Rugby. I always struggled in academics due to lack of focus or interest, but I always maintained a position in the middle of the pack. Happy to be mediocre, I currently manage a medium-sized retail chain branch in my local town. Not the best but comfortable.
I am average, I would say.
I am also half-Chinese, a fact which has tainted every aspect of my life and left my achievements either unnoticed, or recognized in a back-handed way.
Mini background: Mum met Dad etc and they started a family, but Dads main interest was permanent residence in the UK. My parents divorced and Mum took my siblings and I far away from Dad. As such, I have no link or sentiment for Chinese culture.
Chinese Art? Music? History? Politics? Culture? Not really bothered. My life has never included these things and so I do not identify with them. When I think of myself and my traits, being half-Chinese is incidental and does not reflect in my personality or identity.
The world, however, sees me as the Chinese guy. They say I'm an academic failure [for a Chinese guy], a good laugh [for a Chinese guy], pretty strong [for a Chinese guy]. People have on occasion stopped me in the street to ask "when are you going, you know, home?". People interrupt me mid-sentence to compliment my English, and ask me how many languages I speak. People stop me to comment on my beard, as of course no Chinese guy can grow facial hair.
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When I work hard to achieve something, my efforts are minimized to the point where achievements are simply unrecognized or taken for granted. I either achieved something only because I'm half-Chinese, or what I've achieved is so un-Chinese that there are no words that apply.
I have only shared this sentiment with a few close friends and Mum. When I told Mum, she found me a therapist, hoping that a professional could assuage my hangup and I would stop talking about it.
My therapist fed me Tublrisms; I should "do me". I should embrace my culture because it a beautiful, shining aspect of myself that I can present to the world. Forget that noise. I do not want to accept it. I do not want to embrace it. I do not care for it. I have nothing to do with it. I feel 'normal' but look 'different'.
I wish I were white, and nothing will change that.
So how I help people understand? My co-workers all think I moonlight for a Restaurant/Takeaway, and are attempting to find out which.
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People will never truly understand you because there is no benefit for them. Just remember to love yourself, and believe there is a better tomorrow. Be happy and kind to others, and you will find yourself in a better place.
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>>17331704
Kill your biological father.
It is the only way.
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Interviewing for an introvert 2016-07-06 23:38:23 Post No.17331699
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Interviewing for an introvert
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After several interviews and zero solid offers I'm starting to think my problem is my personality. I tested as INTJ, and even though the field I picked is supposedly safe for introverts I feel like my personality type is hurting me. How should I be normie as possible in interviews?
I tried drinking coffee and meditating beforehand.
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>I'm starting to think my problem is my personality
Well yeah, if your entire personality is 'introvert' then you don't really have a personality to begin with. Employers don't want someone with no personality
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>Employers don't want someone with no personality
Actually, they want someone who's competent at what they're supposed to be doing. So unless he's applying for a leadership position, or something with a media presence, or customer service that goes beyond ringing shit up on a cash register or answering support tickets, then having "no personality" shouldn't matter.
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>>17331835
Someone with no personality isn't going to be good at working in a team, or talking to people. Someone with no personality will bring the atmosphere of the workplace down and perhaps make others uncomfortable. There are plenty of people who are competent enough to do jobs, why would they choose someone like OP over someone with a personality?
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Am I fucked? Don't think I'm ever going to be happy. 2016-07-06 23:26:54 Post No.17331681
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Am I fucked? Don't think I'm ever going to be happy.
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Happiness seems impossible. I'm 30, never been in a real relationship. In love with someone but we can't be together, been in love once before but it didn't work out. I hate a lot of people and the world depresses me. What I have going for me is a decent income and a few good friends.
Am I fucked? Have you ever felt like you'll never be happy? What can I do?
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Why can't you be with her? Maybe she could help you
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Be happy for what you have.
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Same situation. No matter how social I am and out in public there are two girls, one that I love but cannot be with and one where it didn't work out, that could fill this emptiness in my being. Every week is a total crawl to go out and get nothing in return and no results.
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Hi /adv/
So I have a butt problem I'm tall and kinda thin but my butt doesn't suit my body ~ height 6'4 and weight 163lbs
Any advice to make my butt thinner it really ruins my looks :(
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You have a nice ass and are thin and tall, what's the problem?
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>>17331650
It doesn't suit my body it is bigger than it should be I think
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>>17331650
And I am a boy in case you thought I'm a girl