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Hello. Just wondering if anyone knows the the title of the book that focuses on positive mental reframing techniques that has been posted here quite a bit. Much appreciated
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>>17333454
Mein Kampf
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Anything more you remember about it? This description fits a few.
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>>17333459
Someone made the pdf it wasn't an actual book. Might have been nlp techniques but not 100% sure

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How do I get over the fact that my girlfriend will fuck other guys after we do/if we do break up. I'm only 20 and I was her first. The main issue is that there are one or two guys I know that she'd likely fuck and I can't stand thinking about that. Them just waiting around for their chance. What do?
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>>17333448
Go fuck those guys homo
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>>17333448
Have you considered the fact that you yourself will be pounding someone else's hairy slit? Why does it matter to you who is fucking your ex by then? If it matters that much don't let her go.
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Murder

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I just broke up with a girl I was seeing off and on for seven months. It was a very stressful time for me; others and even herself claim that she was emotionally abusive towards me.

Minor things, that in my head played out as me being a pussy or just sensitive, were actually major indicators of abuse. As a result, I'm left feeling really hollow. I poured a lot of emotional energy, time and effort into trying to make this girl as comfortable and as happy as possible. How do I recover or feel like I can invest in others or even just function?

The situation has revealed a lot of depression and anxiety on my end, usually showing itself as anger issues or emotional instability. I just want to feel normal, not broken, tired or sad that couldn't be the person I needed to be for this specific girl.
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>>17333409
When you realize you've set unreasonable and unrealistic standards for your emotional state you'll feel better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VrFV5r8cs0
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>>17333409
>sad that couldn't be the person I needed to be for this specific girl.

What sort of person do you think you needed to be anon? What do you think you could have done to make her not an abusive person? Why are you the only one who needed to be a certain way for it to work? Why didn't she need to be less emotionally abusive?

You can't be responsible for how someone else feels and what they want. You can't be a good enough person to just MAKE someone else want to be good too. You need to let go of that.
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>>17333447
There's a lot to it. Essentially she's struggling with her sexual identity; at the very least bisexual but more than likely a lesbian.

Recognizing that she needed to figure this out, I would break it off and she would reinitiate our romance through various means: telling me to come over and fuck her, telling me she's made a mistake disregarding our chemistry, telling me she loved me. at one point she told me she was considering suicide and needed me for support. All of these instances had a backlash of "I cannot commit to you. I told you I can't do a relationship and I want women". I was often made to feel that I was in the wrong and that I was subtlely manipulating her to my wants. I have a biased perspective, but more often than not I bent over backwards to accommodate her.

You make strong valid points, but I cannot help but I was the one in the wrong; I was the bad fit and should have left her to her own devices.

I didn't think I could fix her by being good enough, I thought I could fix her by showing that compassion others still exists. I just got taken advantage of though.

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What is the best way to learn how to play piano for free ?

I own an old 88 keys electronic piano and I've always wanted to be able to play it

The thing is piano lessons are often expensive so I can't really learn with a teacher. I've also browsed several "free websites" or watched videos that are actually not free after a few lessons...
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>>17333405
Memorize the keys

Then start hitting them to the rhythm your heart desires
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Youtube
Fourms
Etc
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>>17333405
Learn to read and play sheet music.

Start with simple nursery rhymes

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Is there any alternative to having one these two fucktards run this country. Sure their will be a third party candidate, but none have won in recent history. Is there any hope at all? Also, is smug cuntface Hilary really just gonna get away with it?
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No, there is no alternative.
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Also, out of morbid curiosity, what are the chances of being visited by the feds for making empty threats against cuntface Hilary?
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>>17333380
Probably low, but I've refrained from doing so.

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Hello,
Are there people who survived depression? I mean not bad mood but long depression. And what's the difference between schizophrenic symptoms and depression?

Sorry for lack of English.
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>>17333316
>shit white people make up when they cant get laid or have friends
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That's not about it. I cry everyday, and feel lost. I just need to know is there anyone who can tell me he cured?
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>>17333316
>Are there people who survived depression?
Yes, obviously. What kind of question is that?
The vast majority of depressed people get better, even without treatment.

>And what's the difference between schizophrenic symptoms and depression?
This is a difficult question, since the 2 families of disorders overlap heavily in signs/symptoms. First of all, you need to determine what kind of depression you might be dealing with, ie a subtype.
Psychotic depression overlaps with schizotypal, schizoaffective, and full schizophrenia.
Manic depression overlaps with schizoaffective.
Melancholic depression overlaps with schizoid and schizotypal.

Beyond that, you basically need actual psychological training to distinguish them. But some general points:
1: Depression tends to get better on its own, negative symptoms typically don't.
2: Negative symptoms are almost always resistant to standard antidepressants, eg SSRIs
3: Negative symptoms come with more and heavier cognitive dysfunction, aka pseudodementia

>>17333331
Have you even been to a professional, like a psychiatrist?
If not, go see one. If you have an actual medical condition, they can help.

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Hey, /pol/.

Dunno if this is the right place to post, boys, but I need support, I guess.

My dad might be diagnosed with multiple myeloma (bone marrow cancer) based on the tests we've done at the doctor. Oncologists are advocating heavily for chemo, and I'm totally against it because of its low success rate and its devastating side effects like hair loss, nausea, and general weakness. I'm looking for alternative treatments where I live (Orlando, FL), and I wanna believe that they might actually work. Cancer is extremely fishy, and I wanna be able to save my dad, but it's getting tougher and tougher to believe.

I guess I'm looking for support from /pol/ack bros and probably some redpills on American medical industry. This thread might attract shills, but it's fine, we can still discuss shit.
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Though, I'm not sure if this is the right board for this topic.
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>>17333258
Next time you see him tell him your proud of him. If he wants to go through chemo, let him. The way a man goes should be decided by him and no other. I hope things get better for ya bud
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Good luck to him and my condolences. I have no real advice, but I think you're right about the chemo, I don't think it helps people. Honestly I think cancer is a huge industry at this point, they don't want a cure. I'm sure there are plenty of ways to slow it down or put it into remission however. Will be watching this thread to see any ideas.

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Evening /adv/
So I've been in a relationship with this girl for 3 years and everything is going great, especially considering we're both pretty busy, but the sex if getting pretty vanilla. I mean, it's as good as sex is, but it's becoming less frequent and less interesting.
Anyone know how to spice it up? What has worked for you?

= discuss
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>>17333256
First I'd start out with a respec potion after finishing my specialization quest from Heir

Then instead of skilling into the mainline dual dagger skills just go to assassination and off poison for better DPS

I am looking at tempest as well though because honestly zero cooldowns in a set period of time makes me a bit randy
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>>17333299
You got me, I laughed. Zero cool down is a myth, in any case.
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Start fucking her and after a few minutes dress yourself and leave the building.
Repeat 4/5 times
If she asks something just deny and say you love her.
When you feel is enough brutally fuck her like there's no tomorrow, for all the times you left without finish.
I don't know what I'm saying but this sounds like it may work

I just got back from a third date with a girl. I really like her and she seems to really like me. It might be getting serious. She wants to go on more dates soon.

The only issue is I'm dirt broke. I barely can pay rent this month. My situation should change within a month or two, but right now I'm so broke it's depressing. I can't afford to go on a date.

How do I tell her that I'm broke? She's not rich but she's doing okay. I mean, I'm making more than her right now, but she also lives with family and doesn't pay rent.
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Can you do things on the cheap? Have her over and cook her dinner? Go for a hike/walk? Stay in and watch a movie? Just communicate with her, after three dates I feel like that's an okay conversation to have
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>>17333251
why would money be an issue ?
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>>17333251
Just tell her mang, true love goes beyong money. You're not forced to go to fancy restaurants or to the cinema. Just have a walk in the nature, next to some river etc.. The true thing with dates is not the activity you're doing together, but simply the fact your sharing time together

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Should I tell my GF of 6 months that I was raped as a kid by other boys?


It's never effected me nor have I cared about it but when I was about 10 or 11, I was manipulated by two older boys into having sex with them numerous times. Basically orgies between us, Should I tell my GF this? I've never told anyone this. I doesn't effects me at all except for sometimes getting off to tranny porn. I'm not depressed or anything about it - not even close. I just like honesty. My GF has told me everything about her past.
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>>17333208
>It's never effected me nor have I cared about it
>I doesn't effects me at all
>I'm not depressed or anything about it

Why should she know then? You moved on, that should stay in the past. If you need to talk about it, then that means it still affects you in some kind of way
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>>17333208
>I've never told anyone this
and you shouldn't tell a gf of 6 months

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I'm in love with this girl and have been for a while now and we've known each other for years, and she even tells me every time I see her that she's in love with me too, but we're not dating. Her excuse with me is that since we're both going off to college soon that she wouldn't want to start something with me and then have it be ruined by long distance and separation and that she believes that fate will eventually bring us together and that we'll end up getting married someday. This is what she told me for a while after we both acknowledged that we love each other and still tells me. The problem is she hooked up with one my friends last fall and is still dating him and even kept it a secret from me for months. After confronting her and a lot of angry shit, I eventually just accepted it and am now in a really shitty position. I still willingly hang out with her frequently and she still tells me how much she loves me while having a boyfriend and all the same shit about wanting to get married in the future and fate, etc. I just don't know what to do and I can't just cut communication with her and it kills me knowing that no matter the good times I still have with her, that shes just fucking some other guy who she's even admitted to me she thinks of below me.

TLDR: What to do when two people are openly in love with each other but one of them has a boyfriend??
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She doesn't love you bro. You are her safety net when she gets done banging the dudes that she really wants to be with. If she loved you, you would be dating her right now. When you have a cancerous tumor in your body do you wait around for it to make you feel awesome? No, you cut that shit out of your body, cut this bitch loose. She doesn't feel the same way and while you are waiting she is fucking your friend. Don't fall into the trap that so many bros fall in to. Cease contact and move on, she isn't your friend; friends don't do that to their friends.
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lol she's not in love with you, just clinically crazy, I've seen some shit but this is weird, delete her chat, block her and if you see her go away, in 10 days you'll forget her face
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>>17333187
>>17333190
her excuse to why she hooked up with him and started dating him was because I wasn't ready to have a relationship with her yet because I was so occupied by my studies and own personal motivations and aspirations. The guy she's with is more or less a loser with no real goals or life aspirations that can completely dedicate all his time to her so that kinda made sense. Am I really being rused this hard?

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So we have been dating almost 3 years. I logged onto my boyfriend's facebook because he is the type to hide things from me. I saw that he keeps searching girls up on facebook, especially this one girl who he was kind of into before we got together. Should I confront him? because if I do he will know I logged onto his facebook again without him knowing,
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Learn to respect privacy, and learn that adults have wandering eyes. Don't give him a reason to do more than look.
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So am I just to keep quiet while he keeps looking hr up over and over again? its been almost 3 years he should have been over her already they didnt even have anything together to begin with
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>>17333164
He probably just does it to jerk off to her facebook pictures. Unless there are some sort of messages between them or something else incriminating. don't worry about it.

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How does one work up the courage to ask a girl out?

I'm not shy at all when talking to them or making normal conversation with them, hell I even flirt with them. But when it comes to asking them out, I usually pussy out. I don't think I've ever actually asked a girl out (although weirdly enough I have had girlfriends)
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>>17333129
you do it as normal conversation. it should feel normal. it should feel so normal that you understand that if you get denied it's not a big deal for you.
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You almost have to loathe women all together to come up with the realization that their all selfish pieces of shit. Only then can you not give a shit enough to be able to ask them casually out.
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>>17333146
I guess this is ok advice

>>17333140
how do I make it seem more normal?

fucking bitch has been playing me.

What do?
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Why is every post on 4chan so funny today.

That image, fuck.
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>>17333127
It's like this shit I found on /sci/.
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Come back to this site when you are 18.

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I'm a 18 years old male and i am waiting fo my A level results to be released in about a month. Honestly, I didn't think I did too bad and been stressing out because I want to apply for dental schools but I feel like I didn't do well enough. I am so afraid that I didn't do well enough and too scared to face the harsh reality. I have been having suicidal thoughts recently, well actually for a long time as long as I can remember... but it reaches its peak recently, i cannot stop thinking about death, like literally every single moment, for example, I would wish a car hit me whole crossing the road and I gotten to a point where I am too afraid to look out my balcony. I honestly feel like life is too hard to live, I have no friends or anyone I can trust and I hate everyone tha i see, recently I can't even stand my face in the mirror. The only thing that has been keeping me from committing suicide is my mom but I feel like I'm starting to lose my grip...i have been having the same dream of staring at myself sitting at the edge of a cliff and I would fall with just one touch. I have no ideas what to do anymore, I think it would be better for me to leave this world right now than growing up to become a burden on everyone,right? I swear that I am not looking for attention and all of these words I have said are the things I have been keeping in my heart for years, and this is the first time I have ever told anyone. I am so tired of pretending to be happy in front of everyone , I am just too tired to go on
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>>17333107
>male
Lol nobody cares pussy not reading anything past that
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tl:dr

You should wait til your results come in first though. Then you can decide whether or not to kill yourself.
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This looks like depression disorder, you need profesional help not some lame advice.

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