What do I do if my life is so shit I literally can't be alive. I have problems with my family so just giving up to die alone in a basement isn't even an option.
I literally have no social life. Everyone I meet or talk to hates me I have no idea why. People are really put off by me and avoid me I have no idea why. Now I'm just fucked because being socially recluse for so long fucked with my head and I can't have any type of friendship or relationship.
I have literally no girls in my life at all and I hate myself so much I would never want to date anyone and weigh them down. I have such a fear of intimacy and dead inside feeling that I can't even get aroused during sex.
I literally feel physically sick and drained most the time just from being so depressed and having a lack of fun or laughter in my life. Every time I try to be outgoing I look like a dumb ass and piss everyone off around me.
Now it's gotten so bad I can't sleep at night without drinking or smoking pot and popping pills. When I'm drunk or on benzos I look like a retard and say dumb shit on my phone and shit like that.
Before I always thought ok well I'm young I'll figure it out it'll get better I have time. Nope now I'm 24 and the biggest reason for wanting to kill myself; I'm already half bald. If I part my hair or anything you can see my hairline going halfway up my forehead. I'm literally the only person. So now I have no social life, no hair, no girlfriend. When I was younger in high school people would at least talk to me or approach me and I had the occasional girlfriend. Now people won't even talk to me or look at me people literally won't even add me on Facebook.
What the fuck do I do? It's literally like I just stepped through a wormhole into a world where everything is shit. I feel like I died and went to hell already or something.
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If you can definitely try therapy.
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I knew a pretty hot girl who liked balding men. Maybe try working out some. I got a stupid tattoo and before that I was a stud so I understand how life can go to shit in an instant.
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>>17334277
but its all in my head. I just have to work on it.
My heart breaks for my friend she's just always unhappy and sad I feel so helpless in a guy and I've known her for ever I just don't know what to do
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>>17334436
Bruh, a savage :^XXX
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hey /adv/ so I've been sexting this guy for a few weeks now and he wants to meet up for NSA sex. I agreed and now I have changed my mind.
He knows my full name and lives locally, I don't want to meet him, but I'm scared that if I say no he will try and spread my nudes.
How do I cancel the hookup without sounding like a bitch?
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You fucked this one up. Now you can only hope he's not a bitter asshole. What's the reason you are backing out of it?
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>>17334208
Spread the nudes yourself, then he has no ammo against you, might as well start here.
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>>17334213
Also, you might want to give him a reason and not just ghost on him. I'd lean more against "i changed my
Mind about this whole nsa thing" instead of "you are creeping me out". Make sure to not hook up with another guy right away. That might piss him off
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Snapchat fuck up
I'm gonna get to the point
> be me hate social media, no Facebook etc only snapchat.
> girlfriend is decently popular on social media will add any stranger
> only been with gf for a month
> random chick adds me on snap saying she's friends with my bestfriend. Whatever
> week later 5/10 chick hits on me
> 5/10 is jealous of my girlfriend and asks to see pictures
> randomly send her snaps of my gf
> maybe I can convince 5/10 for 3 some
> 5/10 ask alot of questions about my girlfriend even for her snap name. Which I didn't give.
> tell 5/10 to go out for a drink with me
> 5/10 tells me she's actually a male and was using me to stalk my girlfriend and thanks me for all the info/pics
> wanted to respond but was blocked.
Can I go to the police about this?
Should I tell my girlfriend?
My bestfriend says he dosent know 5/10 stalker. Which confused me because I can't figure out how this stalker found my snapchat name. It's not connected to my phone number or email either.
Help
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Really need the advice
To afraid to tell anyone else due to embarrassment.
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I just found out that my ex told her friends that we had an abusive relationship and now I feel like a monster.
Now never hurt her etc but there was a lot of misunderstanding, mistakes and problems. In general, yes, it wasn't a good relationship.
But what should I do?
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Do you interact with her friends in any way?
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Well its something that happens a lot during break ups, she and her friends are just in a circlejerk to make her feel better. In reality shes hurting for you man.
The question is, how much of it is right? Not like it matters, but the approach you should take on this depends on the amount of truth on her gossip. So, can you go in detail about the problems in your relationship?
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Place got a job interview at sells clothes, electronics,accessories, other personal items. What are some good answers for questions they might ask?
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Retail interviews ask you the same general interview questions you'll see on example interview question sites, so just prepare for those.
One oddball question you may be asked is something along the lines of "Was there ever a situation when you went above and beyond to help a customer out?"
Just make some scenario where a customer had some ridiculous request that you were able to figure out and fufill.
Make yourself sound like the greatest, phoniest do-gooder that there ever was. Too many people are honest in frank in these entry level positions (hence why they're still working these shitty entry level retail jobs, because they're tards). You just need to stand out amongst them, and that's not hard.
9 times out of 10 they'll hire you simply because they're desperate for employees.
Good luck OP
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>>17334453
this. people think that being frank will win them points, but honest to god the interviews always pick the phoniest goodie two shoes 'im so perfect' potential employees.
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Thanks! That helps, i really want the job, and I'm starting to think that too. Researching about the company , trying to remember facts
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I took some allergy medicine and now I am literally shaking like I had an adrenaline burst. How the fuck do I calm down?
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Flex large muscles, such as quads, glutes, arms, back, all at once. Keep flexing for about 5 seconds, then slowly stop flexing.
Take a warm/hot shower.
Keep warm.
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Is the active ingedient dipenhydramine? That's normal, it will wear off in a few hours. Just don't take more, you will start hallucinating horrifying shit.
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Use the energy. Run until you can't run anymore, take a breather and run some more until you're burning up. Put on some music and dance. Go for a swim. You can relax later.
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>"I wish you were half-girl so we could have onsen together."
Got this from a Japanese girl who I think I'm dating, but could just be my friend.
Is that good or bad? It feels more bad than good.
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>>17334153
Sounds like straight from an Anime, are you being catfished?
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>>17334189
Nah I've met her a few times, can't tell if it's actually a date or hanging out with a new friend. Shit's confusing.
But like the "half-girl" part sounds really bad, the "onsen together" part sounds really good.
It's got me all mixed up.
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Nowadays noone abstains from sex. If they like you, you get pussy, if you don't get pussy, they're not interested.
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Hey /adv/,
I was on Tinder swiping and I matched with one girl. I was thinking of how to start off the convo when she randomly unmatched me after like 20 or 30 minutes. Idk what happened but usually every girl I match with doesn't just unmatch randomly after matching or maybe I'm just unlucky this time.
I noticed she has a facebook and I found her through there cause she has a few mutual friends. Should I message her on there and get her attention or let it go?
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Let. Her. Go. Less than a few percent of Tinder matches result in actually meeting. Get back to the numbers game.
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She could have swiped right on every guy in a frenzy, only to later realise she didn't really fancy you after all.
She might have fancied you at the time she swiped you right, but that could have been months ago (this happens, matches aren't necessarily swiped at the same time,) and realised she needed to be more picky by the time you swiped her.
She might have been drunk when swiping you right, and regretted it.
She might just be in on it for the confidence boost and doesn't really care about actually talking to guys.
It could have been an accident deleting you.
You might have taken too long to write her, and perhaps she took that as a sign that you were busy texting other matches, and she didn't want to be second to anyone.
Just don't take it personal. It's just a game anyway.
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Absolutely do not message her on Facebook about it you autist. Just forget about it and let it go.
Op from last thread
/adv/ help me with what to say with this girl I want to befriend who just left college
>details
>likes the same music
>similar interests
I just need help on each message because I am bad at social media thanks
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She talks like a retard anyone know why?
She is social anxious in real life but is still very popular, do you think she is just writing her thought flow or that its just a gimmick
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Why does she text like that?
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>>17334119
I dont know, the top image was probably worse because it had the shy monkey following the ahhs and wows
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>20 years old.
>Never felt the touch of a woman.
How fucked am I?
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>>17334078
Come back when you're 25+.
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>>17334078
You know as an 18 year old virgin who's never had a real gf, it's good to know that I have at least gotten as far as spooning.
Thanks anon.
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0% fucked. Stop making yourself feel bad. Go make a good life if you want to be atractive and happy.
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Advice thread. Post your problems/questions and I will do my best to help. Will be here getting drunk until the Euro cup starts.
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Why are buildings called like that, if they're already built?
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>>17334012
Vier Stunden lang vorglühen?
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>>17334045
Ask vsauce.
>>17334055
No idea
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I want to be "effortlessly cool".
How do I achieve it?
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>>17333985
Stop trying to be.
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>>17333985
If you have to ask other people then you're never going to be
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You have to master the fact of not giving a fuck, thats the main trait of coolness.
Careful with the edge tho.
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4chan, help, i am an introverted little shit, who is going to spend 3 months camping without internet and with sociable normalfags.
How to survive, it's just begun and i am already nervous as fuck?
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>>17333908
Odds are you'll get out of there much better or much worse.
Good luck.
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>>17333920
I came to that conclusion too, right now i feel trapped and want to escape.
How do i cope with that? Plus there is "comparing myself to others" shit, and everybody is better than me at everything. I just feel i'll end up a janitor.
It's an internship kind of camping.
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>>17333946
I have no idea.
Never heard if this before.
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I've been close friends with this guy for going on 9 years, since we were in college. He's been with the woman who is now his fiance for about 6 years, and I also have considered her a friend since they've been together. His bachelor party is this weekend, and last week I had to bail from the bachelor party, due to money issues. Essentially, my student loans and bills made it difficult, and vehicle issues made it impossible. Since they found out that I can't afford to go, they've stopped talking to me, but not before his fiance told me that "money is no excuse as [I've] had plenty of time to save," that I haven't been around very much, and that I "should paymy share since I won't be there anyway [sic]."
Now she's not wrong about my not being there very much; I work a lot just to keep my head above water. The problem is, and I have yet to mention this to them, is that he hasn't exactly been knocking down my door. More often than not, I'm the one who usually even initiates the conversation, much less facilitates getting together.
I've tried a couple of times over the last week to talk. I gave them a few days to cool off before I called him, but still no word.
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
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>>17333871
Got a face book account or something with him?
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>>17333882
No, he deleted his a while back. I have his fiance on Facebook though.
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>>17333871
>I've tried a couple of times over the last week to talk.
text, or write a letter or do nothing. Sometimes friends fall out when someone gets pretty serious in a relationship. I still call, text or message my friends on their birthday and when we still go out for drinks and parties during new years eve or some summer nights. If you can't make the wedding just write him a message or letter and accept that you won't see your friend as often, it's not just about making peace with him but about making peace with yourself, or some guru bullshit.