So how do you actually get a gf?
>ask them fairly quickly
>I don't know you, you just like me for my looks, you just want sex, etc etc
>ask later
>I see you as a friend, you were hiding your feelings from me?, why did you wait so long, etc etc
Is it really all just Rules 1 and 2?
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No one really knows
Anyone who has a GF is either an:
>aggressive extrovert type A personality narcissist
>some chucklefuck who got extremely lucky, i.e., happened to be in the right place in the right time
Men are fucked in today's society.
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>>17332317
As soon as you meet them make it apparent that you like them, shit, tell them they look beautiful. Go on a date with them, see where it goes. And there, you have a girlfriend. You have to be confident and firm with your feelings towards them, don't fuck about and make them think you are just trying to be friends because guess where that leads you
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Honestly this.
>>17332341
Not this, don't take advice from virgins OP.
Just be yourself and don't let these females hold you down. Just talk to them, often times you don't even need to flirt or compliment. If anything just ask them to hang, do something that doesn't involve money (beach, park, netflix+chill) so you don't have to A) Spend on them or B) Make them feel obligated to spend anything. You then have protected sex with them, rinse and repeat. If you feel a love connection with them because your heart is still made of flesh for the time being, just return to them at a later date for another round here or there as real love connections take time, effort, and just enough space.
tl;dr OP is a fag.
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How do I stop sounding like a retard when I talk? I keep fumbling my words despite knowing English for over a decade.
I don't know what's wrong with me.
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>>17332260
What is your native language?
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>>17332260
I think i have this issue, and I think it's because I try to rush through my sentences. I have all of my thoughts in my mind already, and I just went to get them out. However, I usually feel like the person I'm talking to might be getting bored or already know what I'm talking about, so I try talk faster and get to the point. It's probably a horrible habit. So, I would say to just chill out, speak slowly, and practice enunciating.
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Serbian
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Had a job where the shift before me would regularly never finish their shift, leaving me with an extra hour of work a day. I quit as a result, yet now the boss is saying I'm fired for not putting in two weeks. I'm thinking about calling HR, is there anything they can do about this? I told multiple supervisors about what was happening over 3 months, they didn't hold up their end until I had an hour conversation with them before quitting which was basically "no one can leave until the work is done". That doesn't take back my time, should I get a lawyer?
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>>17332245
If you didn't comply with the minimum notice period in your contract, then you're in the wrong. Just because they did something wrong doesn't make what you did okay.
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>>17332251
and vice versa
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>>17332262
Of course. But the fact that OP did something wrong remains
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I feel like nothing ever makes my girlfriend happy. Like she'll always ruminate her way into being unsatisfied with everything. What do.
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Depressed people have cycles of depression. She'll be normal for a while and then depressed for a while. She's just always going to be this way. It's your decision whether you want a person like that in your life or not. But if you decide that you do -
learn up on behavioral treatment for depression.
When she's feeling down remove your expectations of her.
the thing she likely wants to do most is curl up in bed with all the blankets. Do it with her.
Encourage her to be easy on herself - the worst part about being depressed is the crushing guilt and feeling of uselessness.
Don't let her know that you wish she'd get better soon - just be there to support her until she does. (Again the guilt thing)
Take her on walks and to do quiet calm things with her like sit at the park or for drives in the country to look at the stars. Nothing too stimulating. People get emotionally exhausted very quickly when they're depressed
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>>17332233
get a new girlfriend
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>>17332233
women are only happy when they're unhappy.
dump her and find a new bitch.
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my bf and want to do things but not fuck. if i suck his dick and swallow his load would i get pregnant?
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Come on, you can do better than this
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>>17332232
Don't swallow it or his baby will explode out of your stomach like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdBu6VAESeI
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Yes.
You should be having anal sex, but then you run the risk of having anal babies.
GL!
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I'm suicidal all the time but too frightened by the entire concept of non-existence to pull the trigger. Do you have any suggestions?
Life has ended for me already and I'm just lingering, like the guy in Jacob's Ladder. There isn't hope for anything to improve, seriously, I'm just stuck in this current situation for the rest of my life and there's nothing left for me apart from loneliness and the internet.
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Try something new, if you truly feel this way that you have nothing left then go out and do something you are maybe scared of. You have nothing to lose.
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>>17332229
All you suicidal people need to get fucked up on drugs first.
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>>17332241
I have no motivation due to depression. I don't want to do crazy exciting things. I feel zero excitement or pleasure and have no sense of fun.
I hate my life so much. The dilemna is that I don't want to stop existing I just want to leave this body and start again as another person. I hate this life. My loved ones are dead or dying and I've suffered something that left me disfigured. I can't leave the house I feel so uncomfortable. I suffer bad anxiety in day to day life for the past decade.
I'm just lingering here but my life has already ended.
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Been with a girl on these happy pills for awhile. Everything is going fine but worried when she gets off them if she'll be the same
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>>17332215
The same as what?
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>>17332223
Like if she'll be like she is now or batshit
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>>17332280
what pills exactly ? what is her diagnosis? why would she be coming off them ?
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Went to a music festival, tripped acid and had unprotected sex with a complete stranger Inb4 idiot. Got tested, got chlamydia, took muh pills and my dick still hurts a lot. I'm concerned that maybe the test didn't cover all possible stds and I could infect someone. I miss unprotected sex, if I had to wear a fucking condom, I'd just masturbate.
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>>17332207
Also, this included blood and urine tests.
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Don't mind me, I'm just here to laugh at a stupid degenerate.
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>>17332207
They typically don't test for hsv1 and 2 but you get that even with a condom
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I cant stop worrying that Im going to lose my new job. I'm 3 months in, 2 months interning and 1 month full time and I feel like im not growing as much as I should be. This is my first job out of college, its my dream job and I will do whatever it takes to keep it. But its an artist position, so I can keep or lose this job solely on skill. I know Im good at it but I worry I wont be fast enough. I need some legitimate techniques to keep worries like this under control, its starting to affect my performance. Please help me.
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Meditate
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hey man, shhhh. these things take time. there's a thing called "imposter syndrome" that's actually pretty common you might want to read up on. it's when you feel like you're not actually accomplishing anything and you're gonna be exposed as a "fraud" basically. lots of people have it, and most people are faking being ok till they make it. breathe. you're probably doin fine.
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>>17332610
You know ive been suspecting impostor syndrome, if youre suggesting it its probably what ive got haha. Thanks anon, youre right. I think the next move is to slow down, if I keep ramping up my intensity im going to burn out and do worse.
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Ok so I have a problem and I don't know if I'm blowing it out of proportion or not, nor do I know how to deal with it.
Ok, so my problem begins with my girlfriend. I have some friends that I want to see every so often but she HATES nearly so of them. She hates them because they do drugs, and the ones that don't she still doesn't like me hanging out with them and I can tell by the way her mood completely changes.
She doesn't like one friend that I go to the gym with, because he does C4. She's completely anti-substance use (with the exception of alcohol). When I do try and see my friends she gives me the cold shoulder. She even admitted to me that she is too controlling and is surprised I'm even still with her after some days with the way she treats me.
Now don't think she's a bad girl at all, she's amazing. She works hard and she even buys me things sometimes too, she takes me to eat at my favorite restaurant sometimes too. I know for a fact she genuinely loves me and cares about me, she even bought me a ball python with heat lamp, bedding and all kinds of shit too. She instantly replies to messages and always shows me care and love. It's just my friends that I have the problem with.
She doesn't have any really close friends she spends time with outside of school. She's been cheated on ALOT so I think the problem lies there. We're both completely loyal to each other but I think that's where the problem really is, and sorry if some of what I say sounds autistic, I'm typing this on my shitty s5. What do I do? How do I talk to her about it? I've tried before but she just refuses to.
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People are judged by the company they keep, and it is pretty accurate most of the time.
You hang out with some fucking losers, so she is worried.
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>>17332210
Ok let me clarify on the drug thing, only a few do them and I never really try to see those ones. She assumes since a couple of my friends do drugs, that for whatever reason all of my friends do them. They dont, they are genuine hard working good people, just a couple occasionally smoke pot. I don't partake in it either.
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>>17332166
First off, sixes.
Controlling bitches just need to be dominated, it works either way. Unless you're trying to be the bitch, place that bitch neatly in check. If all else fails, fuck your friends. That is, have intercourse with your friends or otherwise abandon them for the pussy. Only one of them will still talk to you in 5 years from now anyway, and he will still hit you up even if you stop fucking with him to peruse this girl because that's what real friends are for.
Also, against substance abuse but she's cool with alcohol? Is she retarded?
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So I got an email saying that my college has refund money for me in the amount of $100.00 and my tight-fisted jew mother says the money belongs to her, I'm currently unemployed and she knows I'm looking for work but she can't even let me have $100? Jesus Christ...
And then she throws me this pitch how "Oh well you're living in my house for free, you have no bills to pay and I provide everything for you. Including food, bedding, toiletries, insurance, etc." And she's right, I can't really argue with her on that. I just think that's a low blow to bring that up, she's trying to make me feel guilty and she knows that I have very little money in my bank account right now so god forbid if she let's me have $100.00. Of course my parents shilled out $40,000 for me to attend college so I guess I'm being really selfish and stingy. My mother is a really jew, she will fight fucking tooth and nail for that $100, by god she will take you to court for $100.
Anyway I decided she can have it, fuck it. I'm not happy about it but It's not worth the argument and headache, I'll be the bigger man and let her have the money. I guess deep down it's the fair and right thing to do, I'm just not happy about it. Obviously I'm just as tight-fisted and greedy as she is, I fucking would love $100 for free and so would she. But she has to play the whole guilt card and I have nothing to counter that, so fuck it. I mean in a way she does buy me everything, whether it's food or new clothes so I guess I really am the one being selfish but obviously most people I feel would want the $100 for themselves. I tell myself I'm being the bigger man, but at the end of the day I suppose there was never any doubt that the money should go to her, it's not like I have bills or anything I have to pay.
Sorry for the blog post, I just had to rant and get my frustration off my chest. My mother always got on my nerves with how much of a tight-fisted jew she is when it comes to money, it's annoying.
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>>17332165
>Of course my parents shilled out $40,000 for me to attend college so I guess I'm being really selfish and stingy
If your parents paid for college, then it's their money. They're the ones getting the refund, not you. That's all there is to it.
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Get a job.
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>>17332173
Did you even read my post, I'm currently LOOKING for a job. I can't just snap my fingers and "get a job" it doesn't work that way, some people have great luck with finding works and others don't.
I've known some people where it took them months to find work.
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I already realized that, I'm just not happy about it. $100 is very small compared to $40,000. I figured it wouldn't be a big deal just to let me keep it, but I guess every dollar helps and as I already said I'm living a pretty care-free life so I shouldn't really complain. A lot of people at my age are having to support themselves, pay rent, bills, buy their own food and what not. Having everything provided and paid for is pretty high end, so yeah, I know it's the right thing to do in deciding to give her the money.
But as I said, I still would have just liked to have it. But it really doesn't matter what I wanted/thought.
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I'm 26 years old and had recently lost my job and moved back into my parents house. I found a job quickly and moved out. I was there for 3 weeks and 4 days all together.
And during the time I stayed there, so did my 20 year old brother. He never moved out. He doesn't work. Never had a job, never had a car and has NO MOTIVATION to own a car. He stayed at home the majority of the time watching... no, blasting... the tv until 3 am daily.
My other brother is 25, he never moved out on his own either. Instead, he's in prison a gun-related crime. So I lucked out and didn't have to deal with him during my temporary stay. He did own a car and have a job before he went to prison.
Then there's me. The main reason I ever moved out was because I couldn't stand living at my parents house. It was never comfortable for me to live there so I moved out. Even stupid little things pissrd me off like how they kept the a/c at a warm temperature. They had a shitty, untrained dog that barked 24/7. No privacy. Noisy full house. My brother who is in prison used to steal small amounts of money from me, thinking I never noticed. I never got along with my parents and my mother is a cunt.
Why could my brothers stand living there are not me? Honestly, I think they were more laid back and I'm a finicky fucking person.
But my main question is:
WHAT the FUCK is wrong with my family? Honestly, who is to blame here?
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>>17332159
Are the parents hard workers? If not then it's them
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>>17332193
My parents are both in their late 50's and both work as cashiers at department stores. My dad retired from the military and never made it to a high ranking position...after 20 years. My mother was a stay at home mom. Both of my parents do not have college degrees.
So, pretty much- not hard workers.
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>>17332201
So in other words you came from a family of losers and you're wondering why your siblings are also losers?
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How do I stop my mind from turning to sex when a woman my age gives me the slightest bit of attention?
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>>17332155
Is it not natural to want sex? I think a libido is a good thing.
You should learn to want all the other parts of a acquaintanceship/friendship/relationship/whatever as well, such as enjoying that person's company, lifting each other's moods etc.
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>>17332161
I'm not really at a stage in my life where I can use that libido so yeah it's annoying, especially when I want to think about other things but it's hard when I'm, well, hard.
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>>17332155
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I want to die. I want to go away forever. Im so tired and i feel like everything around me is slowly crumbling away. I should do something about it. But i wont. I just dont have it in me to keep going. I need help offing myself. A gun would be ideal but i dont have the time or money. Whats my second best option?
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>>17332154
Jump from ~10 stories onto a hard surface.
But if you asked me, I'm sure all your problems are solvable.
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The only problem i want a solution for is a quick painless death
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Death is always painful. There is no painless death. It's like the worst muscle cramp you've ever had, but all over your body.
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Ok, so I own my own home. I bought it at 138K, did a months worth of renovations and updates now my house is worth 160K.
Very nice neighborhood, no theft or crime. worst we have is dui's almost all white.
Brand new stainless appliances (Frigidaire gallery series) aside from washer/dryer.
granite counters, nice laminate floors, with nice carpet and pad in bedrooms, tile in bathrooms.
deck, 1/3rd acre yard. 1300 sq ft 3 bed 2 bath.
I am really laid back and chill, make sure that the grass is cut myself and I keep out all the pests with my own pesticide. provide dish soap and towels etc.
I pay all the utilities, including the internet (uncapped biz class, fast speed.)
Now I have 2 roommates. I charge them 600 a month flat. One of them thinks this place is a sanctuary (roomate A) and the other thinks I am overcharging (roomate B) (evidence provided by roomate A).
now we all get along no fighting ever as well. what do you guys think I should be charging given what I have provided.
Am I overcharging? or is he just ignorant.
Thanks.
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If they're willing to pay for it, you're not.
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>>17332156
so would you want to live there based on what you have heard
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>>17332141
Tenants want to pay the least amount possible and will often do whatever they can to make that happen, including guilting and trying to convince you any way they can. If they seem ungrateful, they can always leave, willingly or unwillingly. What you charge really depends on the area and the going rate, also what you put into the house each month in terms of costs, bills, etc.