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I'm 19 and I haven't had sex yet, but I really want to. I've told my bf of 1 year that I feel ready for it. He has already had sex before. I know it will hurt to begin with, and we have lube and condoms on hand. Is there anything you anons can tell me, what should I expect, how long will the pain last, will sex effect my period? I'm open to all suggestions, but I'm not a complete bimbo about sex I know the obvious things.
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First time will be Shit as fuck, that he has had it before is a plus for you though. Also never do missionary with the guy on top, shit sucks.
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>Will sex effect my period?
Only if you get pregnant.
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>Also never do missionary with the guy on top, shit sucks.
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Don't do it!!!
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Self Defens laws in FInland are Liberal and retarded 2016-07-07 17:01:35 Post No.17334399
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Self Defens laws in FInland are Liberal and retarded
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Should I really REALLY risk a prison life JUST to defend and preserve myself?
The chances of me getting attacked are unlikely but its still possible and when I do get attacked, I'm either fucked royally, I turn into a berserker overlord and bathe in blood, become spitroast, or die to death, or become a vegetable.
I'm especially vulnerable now since my legs been aching, physiotherapy starts later this month.
tl;dr how to defend myself without going to prison?
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By not using more violence than necessary to create an opportunity to run away, or cause the assailant to.
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Painu vittuun täältä jonne ja mene mussuttamaan isällesi.
So last night I was having sex with my fuck buddy, and everything seemed business as usual. This morning she texts me and is asking me about something I said the previous night. I had no idea what she was talking about, and she said she heard me say "I love you" when in reality I said I love your pussy or some shit like that. I told her this and joked around with her about it, but now she's acting weird and her responses have been really serious and pretty much just yes/no answers.
What should I do? I know what I said, but it seems like she doesn't believe me. Should I just drop it?
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Does she want to become more than just your fuck doll?
If she does, then you gotta work out for yourself what you want.
If she does not, just leave it.
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I'm certain that she doesn't want anything more. I'm just going to leave it alone I guess.
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>"pussy", two syllables, sounds nothing like "you"
>her brain wants to hear one thing and so she goes with it because it makes her emotionally happy even if it mentally hurts her more.
>sounds like she is 24 and american.
i've had social situations like this happen with female co-workers. they think i said something or made a face/reaction to something when really i didn't at all. it's minor delusion. the thing is is when they mention those things, or bring it up as a joke to me, i tell them the truth and their mind already wants to not believe it. they sub-consciously just want to see how i react to it and let me know that they know what i said earlier.
so what happens is i end up looking like a liar and an asshole and this overlaps with future interactions with them. i remain the same and they think i'm playing it off as an asshole. it ends up being a game for me but reality for them. it's FAITH. it only punishes emotions. words can lie but actions cannot. you didn't say "i love you" you said something more like "i love your pussy" which is a HUGE difference.
when people do this, hey are the source of a new problem. and they end up gossiping and telling all these other girls they know or work with. and guys hear it too and take their side because of competition.
now i got people clearly interacting with me differently all based off of faith.
i would personally ignore her, completely, to make a point that in my life i don't need this issue pertaining to the relationship with her.
if any mutual friends give you shit, get serious and stop hanging out with them. this is bullshit what she is pulling whether she believes she is mistaken or not.
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cheating on my girlfriend 2016-07-07 16:54:39 Post No.17334379
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cheating on my girlfriend
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I love my girlfriend and all but eh. I don't really see her that much. She's not the greatest girlfriend but she isn't a bad person either. I kind of want to cheat. If I could do it and get away with it, should I?
inb4 shaming
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why not just break up with her if you aren't done with sleeping around? you can prevent a lot of drama and heartbreak.
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Leave her if you want to fuck others. The guilt will catch up with you.
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Might as well end it. Cheating on her could harm your rep
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My gf doesn't want to talk to me about what's going on with her 2016-07-07 16:42:53 Post No.17334345
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My gf doesn't want to talk to me about what's going on with her
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Everything up until Sunday was normal. On Monday she stopped talking to me, messaging "I love you" like usual. I thought was weird, so I text her and she replied so fucking. weird; like if I was an absolute nobody.
I knew that was not how she talks to me (like normal), so I askeD
-What's happening? Is there anything wrong?
She lied -No :) Everything's ok.
I asked again. She told me -No, there's nothing wrong. I love you. Good night.
But I still kept asking until she sent me a "it doesn't matter", [broken heart emoticon]", etc.
Okai. The next day I kept asking, and still nothing. She told me she wants to talk to me. Okai, I asked her when and where. And up to this day she hasn't replied to that question.
And its weird because yesterday I insisted a lot and she told me something like
"I wanted to tell you since a lot of time. In fact I wanted to tell you on friday, but I didn't knew how to said it and there wasn't enough time. I love. I'm sorry you're this worried". Also to add she acted a bit strange too. We usually kiss, but that day neither of us kissed each other.
My first/stupid thought was "Are you pregnant?" and of course not. But I mean, what's soooooo important and time consuming to talk that up this day she hasn't fucking told me when and where she wants to talk to me?!
And to add. she keeps saying to me "I love you". I don't know if I still love her since the only thing I told her that I want in this relationship was communication, sincerity; no secrets, no lying.
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btw sorry for my horrible english grammar
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>>17334345
Sounds like she cheated on you, bro.
It's pretty much either that, that she wants to fuck someone else but hasn't yet (but will) or a serious illness.
Given the circumstances, I would bet on her having cheated on you.
Just try to get to the bottom of it without making accusations, and hopefully she'll be honest with you.
I would recommend you start planning your "nope the fuck out" moment, though.
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>>17334345
this shit happens with girls and it's one of those things that really can destroy a man. be prepared, you'll suffer anyway
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How do I prevent myself from becoming a racist? 2016-07-07 16:06:37 Post No.17334248
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How do I prevent myself from becoming a racist?
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Everywhere I turn, some black idiot is being inconsiderate, selfish, lazy, dangerous, and stupid; especially when they're given a job or almost always when they're given a driver's license.
Why do they even stay here if they break every law out of protest because it's something 'whitey' does? How long can they keep just blaming whites for everything? How is that acceptable, but when I point out dumb shit niggers do, everyone flips out because I said one of the forbidden words according to my white privilege.
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Dont think, judge and talk about them as niggas.
Think and talk about them as inconsiderate, selfish, lazy, dangerous, and stupid people.
As long as you are able to see these qualities on whites too, people will not be in a position to call you racist.
Now, you have to choose your words well when expressing an opinion... people are eager to attack a rayciss. Be smart.
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This.
I live in an area that is 90% white. I see a black person maybe three times a year. Pockets of whites around here have taken the mantle of stupid, trashy and obnoxious. Trash is trash and comes in all colors.
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You can't. I wasn't a racist before I worked in a ghetto.
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My ex gf stole like $200 worth of video games and sold them to gamestop. Will gamestop just give me the games back or do I have to go through the legal process to get them back?
What is the proper course of action here?
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Cut your losses probably. You know gamestop only have like 10 dollars for all the games. I guess it wouldnt hurt to call them up and inquire.
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Did you already confront her about the games? Did you do so over the phone and record the conversation?
If not, whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy not?
Gamestop can't accept stolen property, but yeah, you'll probably have to get the law involved. It's not going to require going to court or anything, though. It's going to be an officer going to her house and telling her, "you stole your ex's property and sold it. You can't do that, it's illegal. Get him his property back or make things right with him or he'll file a theft report and you'll be arrested. Have a nice day."
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I was gonna sell them to fund my PS4 purchase but now I just don't know what to do. I barely get any hours at work and I don't even enjoy living in my apartment because it's shared living space.
>>17334239
Yeah I should cut my losses.
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Gf wants to watch bondage w me 2016-07-07 15:46:45 Post No.17334201
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So I told my gf I was into bondage and we tried some rope stuff, teasing, orgasm denial etc. She was into it, more than I expected. Later she asked me what kind of porn I watch. I told her mostly bondage stuff and she said she wants to watch some with me. Only thing is, the porn I watch isn't the gentle domination and control that we were doing together. It's more of the "damsel gets abducted and molested" variety. I also watch some shibari stuff but I think she'd find that kind of boring. I'd rather not freak her out when she's just starting to get interested, so which route should I go there? Not asking for links to NSFW sites but are there any good sources for gentler, more intimate bondage videos?
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Have you tried typing soft core bdsm in the search bar at any porn site?
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What I would do is go on pornhub, find the type of video that you can still get off on, but that your gf won't be freaked out by, and following the source of the video to more similar content.
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Just tell her beforehand that it's more rapey than the stuff you've done and reiterate she's not in danger when you two have sex. She'll be more creeped out if you act all coy about it then it suddenly comes to light when you watch porn.
On the other hand, don't try to soften it up for her sake (she should be comfortable and accepting of what you're into), and don't say "it's just a fantasy/fetish", because that implies you wouldn't want to try harder stuff given the chance.
It may be awkward at first, but be brave - as they say, honesty is the best policy.
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I'm 29. I have a degree, I have a job. I have a girlfriend.
I don't wont to be romantically involved with just one person for my whole life. I don't want to have a family. I don't want to fucking work another day of my fucking life anymore. I don't see a fucking purpose in much anything except enjoying art and nature - because I'm aware that I'll be dead in a few years, just like everyone else.
One thing that I would like to do is to create something that I would be proud of, but as an artist I'm a complete amateur and don't have much skill, and generally I am completely at loss as to how to get sth like that started.
What the fuck is wrong with me, /adv/?
All of this is making me super-anxious, just writing this is making my heart pound. All my friends, coworkers and family consider me to be, more or less, a well balanced individual, was never diagnosed with any type of mental disorder or anything like that.
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>One thing that I would like to do is to create something that I would be proud of.
Then figure out what that could be, and try it.
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I don't know OP.
On a side note, consider making this thread your good deed for the day, because you just made me believe that normalfags can be miserable as well.
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>>17334115
Ok, did you do sth like that yourself? Care to share any personal experiences?
I desperately need your help, how should I cut my hair and what color should I dye them?
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Since you are an inbred that can't rotate a fucking picture all the advice I can give you is to fucking kll yourself.
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Dyeing hair is for homosexuals and attention whore girls. Also you look like your going to cry.
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>>17333962
work on your picture orientation skills first friendo, then we can discuss about the other thing
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Let's have a thread on breaking down the topic of nice guys.
The word "nice" seems to have become one of the most villianized terms in the English language, and is a kiss of death no matter what when it's applied to a guy. Not just for women but men as well. it usually goes like this-
>Girl - He seems like a nice guy but I would never go out with him.
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>Guy - He seems like a nice guy but I would never chill with him outside of class or work.
Nice in people's minds implies that there is no challenge or that there's nothing interesting about you. Worse case people think you are awkward or a creeper. I'm not saying you should be mean or a jerk, but people should figure out the difference between being a dick and being confident and maybe a little aggressive. Save your "niceness" for your grandparents or work at an old people home, they'll eat that shit up.
Any thoughts?
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Yes. Stop letting /r9k/ poison your mind. Being nice is a good trait. Being nice and confident makes a guy attractive. Women don't like assholes. People who claim to be nice usually aren't.
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>>17333904
Nice is great as long as it is not the only thing you have going for you.
You can be nice AND smart, funny, charismatic, generous, wise, whatever.
If you're just a nice guy, and you don't have any other qualities, you're boring as fuck and people get tired of you.
There is nothing bad about being nice. There is a lot bad about not being anything other than nice.
I'd prefer dating an interesting asshole than a boring nice guy, but I'd pick an interesting nice guy over everyone else.
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Well, there goes what was left of me self esteem.
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so a girl i dated very briefly from work found out about a fake facebook profile i was using to stalk her. Being the idiot i am i had my family members who share a distinct last name as friends on the account so she knows it was me. Im gonna be off the next two weeks but im thinking of just switching jobs in this time. I see no better way in dealing with this situation. thoughts?
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Hahaha you're a fucking creeper lmao idiot. Switch jobs now because word is gonna get around your job that you're a creeper
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I have a pen pal in Japan that I've spoken to for years. We were platonic for a long time, but lately I think we've developed some feelings for each other but have never out right mentioned them. She wanted me to visit and stay with her during Christmas break last year and told me Christmas is more about couples than family and gifts there. She also lives alone. I was unable to visit her because I had no job and still don't. I didn't have one then because I've been trying to focus on school, but now I decided fuck it and have been trying to get a job but with no luck. I applied at several places, some entry level cashier jobs and still nothing. How can I raise money to visit her? I need about $2,000. I have spoken about her before on other boards so if this sounds familiar, hey it's me again. She is the sweetest thing and I would love to meet her please help.
Pic somewhat related. It's her dog she drew for me on my birthday a long time ago.
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Sell your body.
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Write that you want to visit her on a wish card and hang it on bamboo you faggot. It's Tanabata after all, the one day when Orihime and Hikoboshi can meet.
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I have bamboo growing in my backyard.
A few anons said to make some crowd fund and post it on reddit and imgur, but it seems like every site gets rid of any posts like that. It also seems like something looked down upon unless it's to pay off a medical emergency or something.
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Do you think I'm fat? Be honest 2016-07-07 07:51:54 Post No.17333090
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Do you think I'm fat? Be honest
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Hello y'all. Just give me a honest opinion about my body. Click the link to see some pictures of me
http://imgur.com/a/yqtpQ
Thanks!
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I would definitely take you
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Yes. Please stop eating.
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Girlfriend going to music festival 2016-07-07 07:32:37 Post No.17333056
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Girlfriend going to music festival
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My girlfriend is going to a music festival for 2 days where people camp in tents and listen to music. Two men are going and three girls including her. She has told me multiple times that they are just friends from work (all are coworkers) and that I shouldn't worry.
Should I worry?
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Yep.
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>Should I worry?
Only if your not in to your girlfriend being in a tent drug orgy at a music festival
Otherwise your fine cuck