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Can you guys give me some advice regarding my ex fiance, whom I still love and want to be with?
I used to have no job, no car, no college education, and wasn't living up to my goals. I had a crisis and grew more and more depressed and neglected the last thing I had in the process. I eventually made the irrational decision to break up with her, because I felt she needed someone better than me, but I now only felt alone and without help, she was the only friend I had. She was obviously devastated but less than a week later I begged and pleaded her to take me back and what I said was a mistake. She eventually agreed, but probably because I was now focusing more on getting my life back on track than our relationship, she just didn't feel the same.
The past two months have been real rocky for us, the most disputes we've ever had in our years together happened here. Eventually it culminated to us giving each other some space for a week. At the end of this, she suddenly texted me saying that she decided we shouldn't be together anymore and that she didn't want me to respond because it would make her only feel worse. She blocked my number and social media outlets, so I cannot contact her.
Ever since this, I've felt so utterly broken. I've NEVER felt this bad in my life. I feel I fucked up really hard. I can't sleep much anymore, and I've cried more than I think I have in my entire life. None of her friends will obviously speak for me, trying to talk to her directly is out of the question.
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I don't want to move on. This is the woman I wanted to spend my life with, and should never have said what I did. I've decided that it's time I fixed myself to show her how much I've changed, but my question is, when should I show her, or even how? She won't talk to me. I have a car now, and am obtaining a better paying job. I'm getting fit and losing weight. Should I wait a month or two, buy her the flowers she likes the most and show up at her door with my new car, wearing the name tag to my new well-paying job? How can I maximize my chances of getting her to speak to me again?
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The job I'm getting will send me to Miami for 3 weeks of orientation. After I've certified for the job and come home, I'll have not spoken to her or her friends for a month and a half. Could this silence potentially be long enough of a wait before reattempting contact with her?
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You dun fucked up son
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I don't have a brother or dad to talk to about this so 4chan's a good second option, right?
I'm 21 and my dick don't work like it used to. I can't get hard from sexual thoughts anymore, not even from just seeing naked women. The only time I get hard it when I'm being intimate with someone and even then I have to focus on keeping it because I can lose it fast. During sex I usually last 15-30 minutes and just lose my erection without climaxing. I'm on Prozac, which has sexual dysfunction as a pretty common side effect, but I've taken it for years and this only started about 6 months ago. Before you ask, yes I'm willing to ask my doctor but I got to wait for my next checkup date.
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Guys I'm running low on expand dong memes to bump the thread
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>>17331771
it happens sooner or later with or without meds. maybe ask your doctor to change it to vilazodone with bupropion as an enhancer and get your dick hard as diamonds again like me
Hey anons. I have a problem. Every "relationship" I have been in has basically been the girl only wants to fuck. Now I know this sounds great for most guys, but i'm a lonely guy and I just want some companionship. Why do girls keep using me for sex? Do I have terrible luck or am I just forever a beta? Pic related (is me)
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I have a theory that the more beautiful a woman(or man, for that matter) is, the more she will be controlled by her instincts(fucking). So my advice would be to not necessarily go for the blonde chicks you can get laid with and instead look out for girls that doesn't necessarily scream sex. But what do I know, I only fuck when i'm drunk and lucky and rarely talk to girls sober.
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>>17331336
Well actually I don't go for the super hot preppy bitches anyway, but good theory. :)
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>>17331292
Haha you don't look like any girl would fuck you
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/b/ was no help so I guess I'll come here. Haven't posted here before. Sorry.
>Be me
>like 12 or some shit
>loner kid with no friends
>playing Maplestory
>complete scrub
>find high level person one day
>super nice
>stay around them and chat
>add them
>start talking to them whenever I can
>become really close friends
>find out she's 5 years older
>only friend I can rely on
>only friend that doesn't talk shit or make fun of me
>fastforward 2 years
>fighting with her boyfriend
>they end up breaking up
cont.
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>says she liked me
>being 14 and alone, I tell her I liked her too
>"internet date" on maplestory for like 2 years
>starts going afk for 2 hours and then disappearing on random days
>sometimes doesn't come on at all
>comes back
>stays for a few months
>back to our old ways
>literally spend hours a day just sitting on Maplestory, chatting to each other
>genuinely seems like she wants to be there for me as much as she can
>end up getting her 2 games on steam totalling like 80 us
>while later she comes on every once in a while. Few weeks or so
>comes back a year or 2 later
>says she's sorry for being gone for so long
>doesn't explain herself when i ask
>disappears the same day
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>comes back a few months ago
>ask her to prove she is who she says she is
>never seen her outside of pictures
>tries to set up webcam
>says it's not working
>ask her to screenshare
>screenshares
>goes to camera settings
>has manycam
>camera spoofing program
>confront her about it
>says she thought it was a driver or something to make it work
>says she'll work on it later
>disappears shortly after ending the call
>haven't heard from her since
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It's been 8 years since I met her. About 6 since she was on regularly. We shared a lot of good moments together so it's really hard for me to let go, even if I believe they were fake all along. I'm now 20 with severe depression and anxiety and thinking of them or even listening to something resembling the music causes me to feel like complete shit. Anyone got any advice? Should I take their word on it and believe they were who they said they were or should I just stop chasing it and let it go? If the latter, any tips on how?
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I wish she thought of me as a boyfriend instead of a friend. Also wish she'd stop hanging out late at night with that other "guy" friend of her. I wanna let her go, but she'll always be stuck in my head. Especially laying down and thinking at night.
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I wish I was better at letting go off the past and unanswered questions. I know I'll never get the answers now.
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i wish that i had cherished you when we were together more. i took you for granted and didnt appreciate you like i should have. i realize now—only too late—that you are a perfect person for me. i miss you, and i wish i could talk with you again so i could love you like you should have been loved. i wish we could still have the future we dreamed and planned out together. i know that we never will, though.
im sorry, and i miss you so much. we never got to touch each other, but youve left a mark on my heart that i know will never fade away. i wish you would come back.
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exact cartoon porn age???
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Guys, I'm freaking out. How do I know for sure the ages of the OC porn characters I've fapped to? I went on a guys tumblr for a mpreg shemale pic from a link ( I know, I have a stupid fetish). So then j see the rest of his gallery, and they look very much like little boys. WHO'S TO SAY THE GUY I FAPPED TO WASNT UNDERAGE
> I'm 18 btw
Pls help. I don't want to know that I've unwittingly fapped to a younger boy. I'm no pedo, I've never had fantasies about children irl.
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Trip back on, Peggy
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>>17328133
What
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>>17328133
Who is peggy
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She usually texts back quickly, sometimes irritatingly so. The other day she didn't but she texted me at like midnight apologizing. Does this mean she's into me?
pls help she's the only girl I've gone on a date-ish thing with since I started college I don't want to graduate alone
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>>17335108
Beta alert, you're not a normalfag, these thoughts will happen a lot, chill the fuck out and stop thinking about it too much. The more you think about it the worse it gets.
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>>17335108
Why can't I have love :'(
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>>17335125
I ignore the thoughts in my day to day life and just "bee myself :^)" when we talk but that doesn't stop me from overthinking things in the meantime.
>>17335144
Don't get too jealous, I haven't done anything meaningful yet.
Except I accidentally exposed myself as autistic to my friend griping about it thinking I accidentally had a Freudian slip because I mentioned the number 2 in relation to an activity and I don't think he'll look at me the same way ever again.
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I broke up with my girlfriend of four years in May.
Since then, we've been texting on and off. She called me on the phone last week, we just caught up for ten minutes.
I told her I love her and I want to work things out, and I asked if she was free to meet up this week. She said she wants to, but she doesn't know when. She isn't sure if she's ready to meet up.
We've had plans to meet up a few weeks ago. She invited me to her house. At the last minute she said never mind she's not ready yet.
Wtf do I do? Since I dumped her, should I be chasing her and begging for her forgiveness?
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Would you respect someone desperately running after you and begging you to forgive them?
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>>17335069
I mean, if I was the one getting dumped, that would make sense.
But since I dumped her, how is ignoring her going to make her want to take me back? It's just going to make me look like I don't care.
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If she had any self-respect at all, she'd have told you to go fuck yourself. You're a manipulative narcissist who only acts in your own interest, with no regards for others.
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How do I stop being insecure about my intelligence?
This has been bothering me on and off for around 4 years and stops me being as productive as I'd like.
If I ask someone where they think I stand I don't trust their answer because I don't know what their standards are or who they've met.
Internet IQ tests are not an option because I can't trust them either.
Objective achievements don't help me because I can't account for all the confounding factors.
Is this a thing that will just disappear over time? I would hope so. I can't be sure though. Any suggestions?
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I don't even understand what you're asking.
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Intelligence isn't how much you know, but what you know and how you apply it (knowledge).
Also: Pic.
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Basically I want to know how intelligent I am yet don't trust any resources that could help me do so. Thus I question myself: my ability and potential.
It probably ties in to the perfectionism/procrastination struggle I have as well. I often worry that I am not good enough for my own standards or am too lazy to achieve what I want.
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I think I'm a bad person.
There's this girl, and she's got a boyfriend. She's got an amazing ass, and ass worship is a big thing to me. I really, really just want to steal her away from her boyfriend for a night, fuck her ass a few times, and then be done with it, because I'm thinking about it all the time. I've been talking to her about it, and she's let on that she's interested. She said something like "stop, you're turning me on!"
How the fuck do I make this happen? Should I?
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Pro: you get to impregnate an ass
Pro: thus relationship seems doomed anyways
Con: shit on dick
Con: dealing with the guilt
Your decision
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Cheating is socially bad.
Just convince her to leave her BF or to openly go on a break.
Don't mislead her, be open about your intent.
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>>17335037
Washing my dick isn't an issue, and seducing her into cheating on her bf is a huge turn on.
>>17335050
The cheating is part of what's drawing me to it. They've been together for years, I'd cum so hard thinking about that while I'm in her ass.
Being open about my intent is a good idea though, thanks.
Wtf do I do? About 4 weeks ago I was driving and there was a fox or something just staring at my car on the side of the road. I couldn't see anything but eyes and ears so I slowed down but it was coming right over a hill. I slowed down a little and kept watching it but the fuckijg thing literally sprinted towards my car and literally made me hit it going like 40. I cracked the bumper of my moms car and never said anything and they just noticed it and have no idea what happened. I feel like shit about it and don't know if I should tell them or try and get insurance to fix it or what. I've been having such bad luck with cars and me and my parents were fighting as it happened so I never said anything.
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>>17335019
If only there was some sort of company of organization you could pay over a long period to safe guard you from things like these.
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>>17335019
If you had reported it right away the insurance company might have covered it now that it's 4 weeks in it's unlikely.
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>>17335046
I have insurance. It just freaks me out telling my parents because I keep having car issues and they hate me
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Hey /adv/, this sounds a little too cynical for me to ask, but today I just turned 21 in Florida and one business refuses to allow me to purchase some liquor, can a business legally do that despite me proving my age?
I contacted my county sheriff and they told me that "If I can prove I am 21, in which my ID said Under 21 until 07/07/16", then I am legally permitted to consume and purchase liquor.
It doesn't seem to make any sense, but can a business refuse me service to purchase even if I turn 21 or older?
The sheriff's office told me that they can't provide legal advice despite me leaving home and there hasn't been any disrespectful conflict, so I can't seem to get why it doesn't make sense why I can't purchase despite it being the first day I turn 21 and some restaurants have legally allowed me to drink some alcohol on my own.
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Businesses have the right to refuse service to anyone as long as it doesn't violate any civil rights type stuff like they can't be all "We don't serve blacks here" as it doesn't seem like they did that, then yes they can refuse to sell to you
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>>17334997
just try somewhere else anon
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>>17335042
I live in Florida temporarily for now, and will be moving back into New Jersey soon, can't seem to get why it doesn't make sense on why it becomes some hassles, I was at the gas station when this happened, possibly the reason why I called this cynical, but I don't think this was a judgemental reason or hateful reason.
>>17335060
I was able to at a local restaurant for my start of my 21st birthday, maybe that's the only answer? I hate it when other human beings can't flow in completely, just never makes sense.
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My gf will not talk on the phone to save her life (or right now, her immediate future).
She applied to grad school about a month ago staying within the same university, for a 1-1.5 year Master's degree. Since she was already "in network," they're forgoing all the exams and prereq stuff, and basically all she needed was a personal statement and 3 letters of rec.
She finished pretty much everything in a week and sent out the requests for letters of rec, with a personal message. 2/3 get theirs done in a week, and the 3rd either intentionally or unintentionally ignores it. She still works for that professor, so she sends another email, the first half about the letter of rec, the second half about work, and the prof. doesn't address it at all, while the application status page says the prof hasn't even acknowledged it. A week later, she sends another email, which was ignored. I ask her to call the prof during the prof's office hours, and she utterly refuses, getting snappy and bitchy with me.
Last week, the school sent a message to her saying that due to their spaces filling up, they're not going to take her app anymore, since its incomplete. That same day, the prof emails her asking if she needs a letter of rec. GF is inconsolable for 3 days. Then, the admissions officer emails her in surprise, saying that admins told them to extend the deadline for her, as long as she gets the last letter of rec in by tomorrow. She emails the prof on the 5th, and the prof responds quickly, saying that she'll get it done.
Now, its the 7th, the letter is due tomorrow at noon, and she's bugging me and tearing her hair out at work because the status of the recommendation is still "acknowledged" and not "started." She sent another email a little bit ago, and is panicking. I tell her to call, she rejects it.
What do? Ignore it and let her feel like shit and also miss out on a fucking great opportunity? How do I convince her to at least try?
TL:DR. GF can't talk on phone. What do?
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Op you've done all you can to help her, this is just one of those things that she either handles on her own or fails. So let it play out
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>>17334987
This is like the one thing that's genuinely annoying me. Even the emails I'm ghost-writing for her because her original drafts are so indirect and non-assertive, I'm not even surprised the first request was ignored. She didn't make deadlines or urgency clear until I went back through them with her to make sure there was no confusion.
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>>17335002
She wont learn if you are her crutch. You sound like a good guy, let this one play out maybe she'll learn her lesson. It is annoying to see people you care about make stupid fucking decisions, but thats how it goes some times
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How do I bring myself apologize when I feel I've done nothing wrong? I've done it many times with this person just to keep the peace, but we'll keep having these conflicts forever because he never learns/understands.
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Explain the situation
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>>17334939
>how do i bring myself to apologize even if i dont think i did anything wrong
consider lying
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You don't. Only apologize for something if you're sorry about it. You need to communicate properly and tell someone when you don't agree with them, regardless of how you think they'll react.
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A big chain of esport bars is opening one up in my town (USA) and they want me as a special guest on the opening day because I used to be well known in a game's competitive scene (I only play casually nowadays)
They contacted me through email and asked me what is my "usual fee" for these kind of things. It's the definitely the first time i've been approached for such a thing and so I was wondering, what is an usual fee to appear as a special guest? I can't really ask him before then he will probably pay me the bare minimum and I know of nobody with a similar experience, so I though maybe one of you had a clue.
I honestly have no idea. I don't even know if this would be a one time payment or a hourly rate, but i want to gather as much information about this before looking like a fool and being paid peanuts
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tl;dr What is an "usual fee" for hiring someone as a special guest
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Kripparrian?
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>>17334917
Whats the chain called? I've never heard of a dedicated e-sport bar
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>>17334917
How long do they want you there? Come up with an hourly rate and then multiply it by the time you will be there. What game are they having you play?