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Girlfriend (25) and I (26) have been dating for 1.5 years, just about to move in together. We don't fight - if there's an issue, one of us will bring it up and we discuss it calmly.
However there's a few things that I still hold some hard feelings for, and I can't shake them.
The first issue happened in our first 6 months. She was at a party with some of her close friends and one of her best girlfriends was trying to get her boyfriend to do something a bit kinky that night. So, to get him in the mood, my girlfriend told me she started saying sexual things to him and rubbing his leg (her friend was aware and okay with this). When she told me, I said I was not cool with this and she apologised and said it wouldn't happen again. Since then, there's been some hostility from the best friends boyfriend towards me.
About 3 weeks ago, my gf told me that they once told her that she's the only person they'd consider having a threesome with, and she's seen them fuck on camera (before we started dating). She also admitted that she thinks the boyfriend is hot and would love to fuck him (but won't because we're together).
I appreciate the honesty, but holy hell this is killing me... I can't explain why, but it's putting me off from furthering our relationship.
Am I overreacting?
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>>17359155
I mean she really shouldn't have told you that. Any self-respecting guy isn't going to take that shit. You are probably overreacting a little bit, but she doesn't come out looking very good in this. If you have any doubts then you shouldn't move in with her just yet.
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>>17359158
I had to read his post twice to make sure I read yours correctly. How is he over reacting in any way?
>gf says a bunch of borderline cheating shit to some guy
there is zero reason for your gf to have said anything sexual to this guy, she did it because of our next bullet point
>gf admits hes hot and would fuck him
too much information for me, saying this only serves to hurt you and pad her ego
>gf tells you they want to have a threesome with here
now she's basically fishing for you to say it'd be ok or on the other hand, just to let you know she has options
then the asshole faggot has the nerve to be hostile? he's trying to force a rift in your relationship. i'd be fucking pissed. id split this jokes face open with a solid hook before he knew what was happening to him if he said something to rile me.
this is the part where you tell your gf to ditch these people if she values you over them. it's time to start being adults. put your footdown and let your girl know you wont stand for this or she will walk all over you. this kind of behavior is absolutely not acceptable
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>> Since then, there's been some hostility from the best friends boyfriend towards me.
Well he can fuck right off. It's none of his business.
Hard to know what to do here OP, I would not be happy either. Seems like she is fishing for your permission for a 3-some. I'd second what the other poster said in that if it ever comes up again, firmly put your foot down.
If she can't respect that? Then...
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Hey /adv/, I've got somewhat of a conundrum for you. I'm 25, and by almost all measures and metrics, I'm successful. Pic is me.
I've got an MS in Electrical Engineering from a highly rated university in the northeast and work as an Electronics Engineer in a research lab. I'm a homeowner. I'm married to a great girl (who is both amazing and infuriating, often at the same often) and have 2 amazing puppies.
My entire life has sort of been a pursuit of the next stage. I worked hard in Middle School to get into honors classes in HS. I worked hard in HS and took college classes in HS to get into a great college. I worked hard in my undergrad to be able to get into a graduate program. And I worked hard in the graduate program to be able to get a job in the research world and make a difference in the state of technology.
I saved and scrimped to be able to be a homeowner at a young age. I was overly social in college (which is hard for me as a natural introvert) to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with, and I did.
I guess, I'm just not sure of what comes next. My entire life has been the pursuit of reaching my goals to be happily married, a homeowner, and have a great job that makes a difference in the world. I've reached the top of the mountain, so to speak, and the lack of a direction of where to go from here has got me feeling somewhat disoriented and empty.
Sure, there's professional advancement, which is all fine well and good, but that's far from something I'd consider an overarching goal that can permeate my life and would provide me with the motivation I need.
Maybe it's just a grass-seeming-greener thing, but I feel like the lack of some kind of overarching goal is sapping my motivation and my drive, which is leaving me feeling lazy and I dislike seeing myself as lazy.
What should I do /adv/? Where do I go from here? Do I find a new goal? Do I try to figure out how to live a life without that next-stage mentality? If so, how?
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get your phd
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find a new goal.
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maybe you should start thinking about spawning brood that you can shape and mold into fine achievers like yourself
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I've been dealing with social anxiety all my life, and with my first year of college under my belt with literally no new social groups or crazy fun memories to show for it I feel unsatisfied. I have a desire to be more social but it's very very hard for me to because of how terrified new people make me (I can't even bring myself to approach them and say hi).
I already wasted half of my own summer break sitting around the house doing fuck all. I've been trying to work on myself during this time (and I think I've made a good deal of progress the past few days), but I feel rushed, I feel like I have to solve this problem right away in fear of missing out on "college life".
This is supposed to be the time when I start living is it not? Where I'm putting myself out there, meeting lots of new interesting people, doing cool fun shit? I know if I miss out on all this because I couldn't figure out how to work past my anxiety in time I'd hate myself. I'd have a big fat nothing during a time where I'm supposed to have some of the wildest memories of my life.
This really has me scared guys.
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BUUUUMMMMPP
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>>17358981
>get a gym membership
>workout
>fix your diet
>focus on this until you feel good
>do it only for yourself
Once you learn to enjoy yourself. Making yourself the shit. Not giving a fuck about anything but becoming the fucking best. Pursue that shit. Then not only will your anxiety will go away, youll feel great and get what you want.
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>>17361332
>he fell for the /fit/ meme
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Is calling black people "niggers" really still just 4chan's go-to form of edginess or is your use of it based in some kind of ideological reality? Would you leave your house and say the word nigger in a social context and accept the consequences for your beliefs or is it still something you and your white friends say during LAN parties when you know no one else can hear you?
Are you ACTUALLY racist or do you just like having fun participating in the shitpost echo chamber?
Honest question.
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>>17358430
Me and a bunch of my friends like to use racial slurs around each other as a joke, and usually people just react with shock.
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>>17358436
So I'm guessing you're like 15?
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I come here to let off the anger I build living a life I'm not adapted to. I've said nigger out loud once in anger and immediately felt bad from letting fsuch a strong emotional response take over me. So instead now I say it on the internet so I can let it go, fucking nigger
How do I convince a lady to try out my big dick?
I'm a legit nine incher, proportionally thick. She claims size doesn't matter. It's not everything, but I've changed plenty of women's minds with my huge cock. Some of them had "big" seven inchers that didn't know what they were doing and jackhammered their poorly lubricated pussies. They thought sex with big dicks was uncomfortable, but that's not the case with me.
My plan is to explain to her that I'll orally pleasure her until she's wet and her pussy has stretched--it happens when they're properly aroused, i.e. when a man with a big dick eats them out properly--enough to take me. I'll make it clear I'll take my time easing my dick into her, which typically gives women at least two or three small orgasms alone, then go slow until she's ready for a pounding.
What else should I say to convince her to try out my dick? My roommate is leaving for a vacation next week, so she won't have to worry about him finding out.
Any other tips?
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>>17358119
fuk u normie
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>>17358124
Don't be jealous. Haha.
Anyone? Tips?
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>>17358119
Try to slide some fingers inside of her to open her up more.
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I'm trying to figure out easy, petty, non-taxing tasks to make money without having a job.
So far the only amount of money I've been able to secure on a weekly basis for every single week, is 50 dollars from 2x plasma donation visits.
That leaves me with a bunch of time to try and make some more money. Ideally, I'd like to be pulling in at least 200 a week without a job.
Help me find a way to do this, please.
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>>17353162
Kek, I don't know what world you live in but it sure as fuck isn't the real world. Making money without working is an oxymoron. The only people who are successful in doing this are lottery winners and those who inherit their fortune. Other than that, there is no way to earn a sustainable living without getting a fucking job, you bum.
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>>17353162
Have things you don't want anymore? Sell them on eBay. It won't bring in $200 a week unless you get really good at it, but it's a start.
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>>17353469
I'd run out of stuff, and eventually need money again. That's a bad plan to start with.
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>fuck a girl
>be into it
>cum
>be digusted as fuck
>"what the fuck am I doing"
why???? I know every guy has this, but what the fuck is going on with my brain after cumming?
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>>17361026
Rationality.
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>>17361026
every guy does not have this. I've literally never thought that and I'm in my thirties.
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how would you feel if you fucked a guy?
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No answers on /b/, I'm not surprised, but I'm looking for serious legal answers. Am I dreaming or is this totally true? There's a 16 year old that wants me and I'm 22, in Florida. Does this law mean we can act? I really want to be with her.
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http://www.ageofconsent.com/florida.htm
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>>17360982
If that is what the law says, then you are good to go.
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>>17360987
Her mom doesn't care. And mostly everyone thinks she's 19.
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Hi /adv/
I started working as a server in a restaurant a a week and a half ago. Today, they fired me. Will I get paid for the hours I put in?
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Should they pay you? I mean, if they fired u in a week, you probably suck and didn't do shit. Why should they pay you?
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>>17360963
Yes. They will mail you your check.
I worked as a manager at a store for approximately 13 hours before quitting because the store was a clusterfuck. Mailed me my check the next pay period.
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If they fired you, they'll still have to pay you. If they don't, sue the shit out of them, because that's highly illegal. Good luck, anon.
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I didn't Feel bad when I found out. 2016-07-15 21:06:39 Post No.17360759
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I didn't Feel bad when I found out.
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Ok. Short and sweet. About a week ago i was at a party with a bunch of people I knew and alot of people did not. Im 20 years old and I will be honest. I wanted to have sex. it was a perfect opportunity. I would say I become really flirty when drinking at that night was no different. I thought it would be better to approach people i didn't know just to save myself being embarrassed. To cut the situation down. I ended up having sex with a 15 year old. Her friends where slightly old but none of them should have been at this party. I found out the next day and honestly when i knew i had sex with a minor, It was strangely funny to me. I now think im fucked in the head and would appreciate your advice on the situation. Now, to Clarify. I am a flirt but this girl was done up to the max looking like a 23 year old and she was willing and drunk like myself. I just dunno what to think.
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>>17360759
If you sincerely thought she was of age then it's not like you're a pedophile just for sleeping with a 15 year old. However it's still really illegal so you better do your best to tread lightly otherwise you'll be in deep shit.
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Move on with your life lol
You were drunk. Also being attracted to 15yo girls is completely normal in your age - they have a perfect skin and they start to look like adult women.
Just never do it again because it's illegal.
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>>17360759
You got lucky man. Just stay away from her.
Ive seen plenty of 15 year olds that look 20+ thanks to the hormones in food. Dont feel bad, apparently she had all of the biological markers that made her look sexually appealing to you.
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still alive. wat do?
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>>17360688
Let it die
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Take to nearest vet.
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leave it the fuck alone, it's fine.
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/adv/, my boyfriend is whip-smart, handsome, and honest. He has always been kind and gentle to me.
The problem is that he's kind of childish and doesn't handle adversity/being frustrated very well. For example, one time he couldn't get his computer to work. He had to spend a long time tinkering with it, and as that process went on, he got more and more upset and ended up raising his voice. He almost seemed on the verge of tears. The more he escalated over a minor problem, the more my heart felt like a cold stone.
Or another time, he ordered food and it came hours late. Same as above, he was stomping around and yelling and loudly sighing while I sat on the couch and begged him to calm the fuck down, made silly jokes, etc. Reader, I could almost feel myself dry up.
I don't want to be around someone who can't handle problems and stresses me the fuck out over stupid shit, because I'm going to feel a chunk of what he feels. I explained the above to him and hopefully it will help, but what if it doesn't? Would you dump someone over this?
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Yes. Why on earth would you want to live with a petulant emotional powder keg? My step-mom is like this. Going out in public with her is almost painful when she starts verbally abusing people over stupid shit. It's a wonder my dad is still with her.
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>>17360677
When you explained the above to him, did you also explain that if he can't display some maturity in the face of minor frustration, that you're going to drop his childish ass? Because that's a threat he needs to hear and you need to mean.
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>>17360690
I would just feel bad about it because he's such a sweetheart, and he would have long-term potential in spades if he didn't do this stuff.
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>look for entry level jobs
>they all require college degrees or experience in said job
I'm eternally stuck at fast food places aren't I? I'm 24 with only a GED and no money to go to college. Do I just kill myself at this point?
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>>17360630
fake it.
volunteer someone. then put it in your resume as office experience.
i helped a guy move furniture in his home office twice. that became 'internship' at 'nativ' for 3 months.
literally no one has ever checked my references, and now i manage a small business.
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Military time
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u can always just lie on ur resume like everyone else or you can riot and snap and decide to kill everyone else around you before ending your own life. Your choice. Your rights. Don't let the gubberment take that away from u. def dont join the military.
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Why should I stop smoking weed everyday? 2016-07-15 20:20:06 Post No.17360624
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Why should I stop smoking weed everyday?
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Why should I stop smoking weed everyday, and if so how do I?
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>>17360624
No one can answer your why. Don't mate.
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>>17360624
I mean, it's about to be completely legal and will be looked at no differently than alcohol in the next 10 years.
So, you might as well just ride it out until there's an herb shop next to every gas station.
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ive been asking myself the same thing over the past few months, i always smoke at nights after work so i wake up kinda foggy, a bit forgetful too so thats the negatives...
other than that its pretty unharmful
so smoke away OP, just dont do it every single hour, you will burnout eventually
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Hey guys.
My partner and I are ex-Simple Pickup staff, and we specialize in helping guys with advice through text - especially regarding Tinder and Texting.
Ask us anything.
Post your tinder conversations and we will tell you what to do next, or if you fucked up - we'll tell you exactly how, why, and what to do next time.
The pic attached is one of the breakdowns we do and send to our member, btw.
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>>17360537
The simple minded people you will attract to this thread seeking your advice upsets me. Is their any mystery left in the world.
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>>17360561
Actually, you'd be surprised. Most normal, regular dudes are not great at using Tinder. Most conversations are boring, and don't lead anywhere.
If you have any Tinder conversations, post them up and I'll critique it.
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Ok so I have gotten some dates off Tinder but try usually stop replying before I can ask them out. Tips?