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What kind of games?
Just tell him to give you some peace or go to the neares river with a book, a blanket and some snacks.

>>17360042
As in verbally harasses me and is convinced I'm trying to be assertive and psychopathic when I accidentally leave the door open or don't feel like talking when I'm tired.

>>17360042
Basically saying that I'm being an asshole and grudging him for something I did say 2 years ago. My family for some reason buy it, thinking he wouldn't be acting like this for no reason and condemn me, making me feel like a dirtbag.

I honestly don't know what to do to get out of this situation... Talking to him and "reconciling" would be me basically submitting to his paranoia, as his basis for harassment is on me being a cunt.

Message her repeatedly with an obviously frantic tone. End with "pls respond".

Works every time.

I'm hesitating to follow up because I don't want her to think I'm clingy and all that, but it's been about two weeks since we've actually spent time with each other even though we live 10 minutes away from each other. Should I wait 2 or 3 days before following up? What should be the appropriate response? I was thinking of just telling her, " I know youre busy and all, but just message me whenever you're free to just hang out and relax, I feel like I'm bugging you everytime I ask you" is it a good idea to just follow up and message her today instead of waiting. I'm the one that always messages first, she's probably only messaged me first twice since we've been a thing

>>17360025

Best course of action is to follow up with a short text message and not really ask her to commit to anything. It sounds like you are actually aware of her time constraints but you are thinking about yourself a bit more than that, so you need to let her know that you care and are there but let her make the plans since she has the more hectic schedule.

Don't stress out about it because I can pretty much assure you she is more stressed she can't see you whenever.

>>17359970
Then you wanna get a girl that already do exercise, go to a fucking gym.

>>17359970
I think it's perfectly fair, even a good idea. But in today's society everyone wants instant gratification so finding someone who's willing to exercise isn't ad easy as it should be.

>>17360008
They bring up the "you don't accept me as I am" card when it comes to this.

>m-m-muh real self, desu!

>>17359959
Nope
Girls can get 8 inch cock anytime they want
Heck they can buy a vibrating gyrating pulsating rubber one and leave it under her pillow, easily accessible at all times
What else do you have to offer?

>>17359966
Loyalty

>>17359988
Lots of guys can offer loyalty. Anything more rare?

And before you say "my virginity", that's not an attractive trait.

>"unrighteous"
Define righteous, and then ask yourself why the ideas embedded in this definition are meaningful. I find hazy terms like this applied to oneself are often destructive and contradictory.

>I really believe in strong morals
Meaning?

>and I am very idealistic
Meaning?

>"Lustful" person who is taking advantage of women being exploited?
There's nothing wrong with acknowledging sexual attraction to a given female. Breaking down the rest, there's absolutely no functional impact of your actions on anything other than yourself. If you're not engaged in a market that is spurring the creation of more content, you're not sharing the content, and you're not producing the content yourself, I fail to see how you looking at it while for the purpose of arousal while stimulating your penis to the point of orgasm, has any effect on anything beyond yourself.

Often arousing content is a proxy for self discovery. Whether or not the nature of the mindset, and what it is to you, is something you want to indulge and integrate more deeply into yourself, is up to you.

>guilty
Remember that there's more to life than what you imagine to be the perception of other people. "What would they think of me..." etc, useless if you're not going to change anything with it.

>I want to cut /b/ out of my life altogether
Good idea.

>I even feel guilty about watching news because its so fucking negative
Makes absolutely no sense. You're likely using the wrong word here.

>and all the fucking racism on /b/ to.
Humans are machines.

>>17359925
>is X against my own beliefs?
Idk m8 they're your beliefs, you should know, unless they are actually not really beliefs and are actually memes on an image board that will probably be different in a few years, not ragging on them but dont base your personality on something you like mainly on an impression or aesthetic level and not on a core philosophical level

>>17359925
>cutting /b/ out of your life
do it faggot

>fapping to creep porn
try to fap to stuff where you know everyone was okay with making it at least
then see if you want to keep using porn. imagination is a thing.

>>17359908
Perdeu, playboy.

>>17359908
Try to be more confident about yourself and improve your self-esteem; try to get new friends on social networks, hang out with them, do sports or some hobbie.
Read a motivation shitty book.

>>17359912
De que merda de fórum/ chan você veio, viado?

Dá umas dicas ae. Flws.

>>17359918
Self-esteem? I don't have any. Let me talk you about this: I can't even walk on the streets without look down every time someone looks to me. I'm disgusted. I even avoid social contact desu because I'm a fucking neet, you know.

I like women too but became disappointed after read some shit on these american forums like roosh and it makes me sad as fuck. Those testimonials of guys f*cked by their gfs, wives, I end feeling like it was with me.

Aren't these books scam?

We have to learn to let things go ;)

Lol she already let you go, dummy. Don't be a fool.

What's to hold on to? Friend moved away, isn't coming back, and has different interests?

I mean shit, how much more of a sign do you need? I've heard of long distant relationships, but not long distance friendships unless they're long distance from the start and usually only last as long as you're playing the game, or enter that chat room with them.

That's the good thing about the internet, you can cut your losses at any point in the relationship.

>>17359866
PussyslayerX20Xx

My real name is Erik. Could I come up with something based on that?

>>17359924
Yes, how about "TotalFaggot420xXx"?

Bruh, I love nigger women but that doesn't mean I don't find white women attractive.

Fuck, I love Asian women, latina women, pretty much all women unless they're that ugly gook asian type.

But, I defo have a nigger preference. From chubby hood girls, to athletic white acting niggers, it's all up my alley.

Darker the berry, the sweeter the juice my man. But, that's just one white guys opinion. But, I'm also married to a white woman.

> Am I guilty of fetishizing white girls?
Don't be, they fetishize you. You're new and exciting and dangerous to them. Watch out for the ones that are looking to make their daddies mad, they're all complete psychos.

Fellow black anon here
>muh thick
You're not fooling me, Ahab

>>17359847
Let's see, it's Friday now, and I know hiring someone is kind of a big deal for most businesses, and I hate having a big task ahead of me on Friday to bug me all weekend.

Give 'em a ring monday, ask about your application, they probably have an HR desk you could ask to be transfered to.

Before noon, but probably not before 9:30AM

>>17359847
Depends on whether or not it's after an interview and what they said at the interview.

I've made a point of asking "So when do you think you'll make a decision" or "When can I expect to hear from you either way?" and get a general idea. This is after an interview tho.

If you just sent in the application and haven't heard anything about an interview, I'd call and ask to make sure they received it. It shows interest in the position is genuine as well.

Thank you! Also I found the opening on Indeed.com and sent my resume and cover letter through there (I fulfilled all of the job's requirements as well) Haven't been to an interview yet...

shes curious on how you are able to take the next few days off since you mentioned that. lots of jobs dont let you do that unless your in a high-powered position which would spark a persons interest.

tldr; she wants to know why she cant take vacation days in starbucks like you do.

>>17359775
Interesting perspective.. I thought it was common enough for someone to have a mon-fri job. And I just have a regular weekend off.

I'm a bit annoyed that the response doesn't express anything but a blank question.

In three minds about whether I should ignore (bad communication is a pet peeve of mine), give a neutral answer, or remind her that I asked a question.

>>17359807
Can you post some previous conversations? Maybe instead of a literal chat bot she's a r9k robot with autism.

He will probably be in jail by the time he turns 15

What?

>>17359756
Jesus Christ, learn how to write a coherent sentence.

Goddamn Millenials...

>>17359724
Some people don't get high their first few times. It took 3 sessions across 2 days before I actually felt weird.

>>17359724
It shouldn't smell good

Are you even inhaling?

On top of that, I'm chubby, ugly and wear glasses. Planned to get rid of most of the weight and glasses, but I lost all power, motivation and energy.

My confidence is somewhere 6 feet underground

Shameful bump. How do I go through this?

Shit happens. But keep working, don't think like you'll be at your job for the rest of your life. You'll still have free time and new friends when school starts. Don't judge your circumstances and the possibility of your future by where you are now.

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>>17359695

Well it appears to be sone sort of... car.

How about begin at the begining, OP? Tell us what happened and how it came to be where it is.

>>17359699
Sorry, I'm still shook up from the accident.

Honestly, it was my fuck up. I turned left when I shouldn't have and I got hit by a car going straight. This ensued.

I'm an extra dumbass for not realizing comprehension on my insurance is not the same as collision, So I have to figure this out on my own.

Any other details you guys need?