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Hey /adv/, i need your opinions / thoughts
> own apartment
> apartment is shitty
> spend money on renovations
> school / life happens
> haven't been paying rent on time
> get a notice that I'm being taken to court
> I owe about 12K in rent
Has anyone been through something similar? I don't have 12K, but I can definitely pay it off over time, how worried should I be?
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>>17362642
Have you got enough equity to remortgage?
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>>17362642
> haven't been paying rent on time
> I owe about 12K in rent
how many months did you miss to pay your fucking rent ??
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>>17362680
>School/life happens
He also said it's a shitty apartment so i'd guess like 2 years, costs of not paying rent is also alot
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Any positions or advice for a small penis? 2016-07-16 15:04:40 Post No.17362630
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Unfortunately, my penis length is quite below the average, and this is causing me problems. It's 4 inches long (maybe barely above that) when erect, and it doesn't seem to be long enough to remain inside my girlfriend's vagina during coitus. I've been reading into this and apparently all you need is 2.5 to 3 inches to have a successful intercourse, but I can't... it keeps slipping out.
Missionary is the only position that seems to work, but only if I'm careful and barely pull it out. Cowgirl is the same, but worse; she moves too much and it always comes out. Doggy style and other similar positions we've tried are a disaster and don't work at all.
This is a real problem, and it's really grinding me down. My girlfriend is nice about it (says it's fine, that she likes my penis, and so on), but I know she definitely isn't satisfied with our sex life, and I can tell she's bored of always doing missionary, and so she tries to avoid coitus. Our sex sessions mostly consist of oral, and me masturbating her with a dildo... and they're becoming more and more scarce. Everything else in our relationship is fine, and I really don't want this to end up falling apart, but our sex life is definitely a growing issue.
Is there any position any of you guys can recommend me or any advice you can give me to help me fix this?
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What is your height and weight anon.
If you are overweight you can fix this by loosing it. Loosing 35 pounds will give you some inches. And work the fuck out.
And I don't know if it works but try jelqing. That's all I can really say. Sorry man.
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>>17362753
I'm 6ft and 167lbs; not really overweight.
I could use some exercise though... idk if that would help me improve my sex life, but it's something I should do as I quit the gym a few years ago and haven't done shit since.
Jelqing doesn't work (or didn't work for me... I tried it years ago).
Thanks for the reply
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>>17362753
How does loosing weight make your penis bigger? O.o
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My insecurities are turning me into an asshole 2016-07-16 15:04:15 Post No.17362628
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I've been a weak, autistic loser through all my life. I've realised that in the past few years, after I started finally accepting the fact that I'm this pathetic creature, that the constant awareness of it has turned me into a huge fucking cunt.
Here's the reason: think of the classic bullying scenario, where you're bullied because you're too weak to fight back and too shy/autistic to answer back. If you were strong or sharp, you'd never be picked on, but since you were an "easy target" people picked on you. And it's not just with bullying. I remember that when teachers wanted to impose order in class, they wouldn't ask some popular funny kid to stop talking or threaten to expel him from class, because he could easily turn the situation around and make an idiot out of the teacher. They would, instead, yell at someone like me and then punish us because we couldn't fight back. They'd make an example out of us, not others, because we were the losers.
This is a pattern that I've become accostumed with, and I started to read the world and people's actions through these terms. This idea that I'm receiving a special negative treatment has become so ingrained in my mind that I can't ponder, at almost every negative interaction I have, if that person is just acting a certain way towards me because I can't do anything about it, or because he expects me not to be able to do anything about. I get sensitive at most jokes, I get aggressive whenever I detected a tone of reprimand in someone's voice, I get absolute bitter whenever someone ignores or snubs me, etc. I immediately imagine that they wouldn't treat me like that if I were stronger, or taller, or wealthier, or more extroverted, more popular, and so on.
The result if, of course, that I'm a fucking dick all the time, I'm constantly being an asshole, and I'm aggressive almost by default because I feel like if I'm not, people will exploit me.
Am I on the path towards misery if I keep doing that?
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Jesus Christ I can't be the only one
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Life has jaded you anon, I understand how that feels. I want you to know something though, you can be assertive and still be kind. If you want to stand up for the little guy then do it, I am completely supporting you on that, but keep in mind that being aggressive doesn't mean you're assertive. People respect assertive people because they have a level of control on their emotions that weak/aggressive people do not.
Honestly, seeking therapy can really help with these problems, it can help you sweeten your bitterness.
To answer your question, yes you are headed on a terrible path. Jadedness is a self-feeding cycle. You will hate yourself more and more until there's nothing left of you to love.
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>Jesus Christ I can't be the only one
You aren't. I'm not and never was a bully target, but people often would take advantage of me because I always was a hard worker and willing to help others. I was blinded by this and thought I had friends. I realized that I never got calls to hang out, or nobody ever asked how I was doing, so I became a bitter piece of shit, and broke ties with everyone that used me this summer. They haven't noticed yet, but one did. They were shocked by my hostility:
"Hey anon can you help me write an essay for my composition class?"
"No."
"Aw why not?"
"Because you don't deserve it."
""What?"
I didn't want to deal with their bullshit anymore so I just blocked them and continued with my day. Keep it up Anon, I feel you man.
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Friends dissing my girlfriend 2016-07-16 14:57:08 Post No.17362616
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So back in early May I met a girl at a small local festival. We spoked, eventually kissed and added her on Facebook to sustain contact.
Days later, some of the boys from class had somehow found out I was talking to this girl, and after being pressured by one of the boys to reveil her name, he immediately claimed she was a cheap slut ''and has probably already fucked half her school''. The other boys got to know this and kept reminding me how cheap she was - few were serious, rest just played along. I kinda started to believe them, but I stood my ground and remained optimistic.
Fast forward 3 weeks. Me and the girl had been on multiple dates and she turned out to become my girlfriend and even best friend, someone who I truly love and who feels the same. We have now been together for 2 months and we are smooth. However, some of the boys keep calling her things like 'slut' and they got pretty mad at me because I would rather spend my time with her instead of them one night.
I used like these guys a lot and we are currently attending senior high together. Now I find it difficult to like them as long they are not showing me, my girlfriend and our relationship some respect.
I feel like it's either her or them, and I really don't want it that way. What the hell should I do?
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>>17362616
Defend your girlfriend, so what if she even is a slut? You have an amazingly slutty girlfriend and that's awesome. Your friends need to stop hating.
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>>17362616
Stop being a little bitch and defend your girlfriend. Your friends sound incredibly jealous and sipping on that hateraide.
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>>17362616
Your friends are mentally in elementary school.
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So I was getting ready to transfer colleges, and when I talked to my parents about cosigning a loan they basically laughed at me and said I didn't deserve to go to college. What do I do now? I'm getting older, I need some sort of career and I had all my heart and mind focused on completing school. What should I try to do? Find money for school? Even though my credit is fucked up. And why is it so hard getting into a trade?
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First thing, you should try to figure out why your credit is shit and fix it. I say that because that will take the longest, but be the most beneficial to you in the long run. Best website to use for credit score related stuff: https://www.creditkarma.com
(100% free)
Secondly, do the school you are going to have any sort of financial assistance at all? Are you able to find scholarships or grants?
What trade are you trying to get into? How much more schooling do you have left or did you even start?
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>>17362607
Credit is shit because I owe the bank a $400, one payday loan place about $400, and the hospital about $45, no bully plz I know I'm dumb
I'm looking for scholarships and grants but I've missed the deadline for a lot.
Plumbing or HVAC, maybe electrical or carpentry? Anything that puts me to work and lets me grow up and not be a manchild. I have about 3 years of school left, 2 if I bust my ass and take every CLEP test I can.
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>>17362619
No judgements here, don't worry.
Okay, so only $845? That's not that bad, have you checked your credit score to see the actual number? How hard would it be to start paying off some those debts?
Well that being said, there are still alternatives. Have you been able to find any recent ones that you can fill out? How much is a semester's tuition at the school?
I know this may sound stupid, but are those things that you actually want to do or are just doing for the sake of money?
Do you have a job right now? What's your current situation?
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>wanna go to beach
>have to go it alone
>wanna relax and talk to girls
>don't wanna worry about my shit getting stolen while I sleep or swim
Tips por favor
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I never had your problem but i'm bumping because it's interessing.
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put your stuff in a garbage bag that way it looks like garbage and no one will steal it.
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>>17362597
Just don't bring anything you wouldn't mind losing.
OR
>waterproof phone case
>Only take paper money (for swimsuit pockets)
>get a swimsuit with a lot of pockets
>>17362682
Although this is probably your best bet.
Or make some friends and go with them.
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Need to streamline my wardrobe. 2016-07-16 14:43:36 Post No.17362591
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I want to keep only what I need and get rid of everything else. I'm;-
>male
>unlikely to gain or lose any significant amount of weight for the next few years
>not even remotely /fa/
How many of the following do I need assuming I wash once or twice per week?
>Winter coat
>Medium coat
>Summer jacket (also my suit jacket)
>Jeans
>Trousers
>Pyjama tops
>Pyjama bottoms
>Vests/undershirts
>T-shirts
>Jumpers
>Collar and button shirts
>Boxers
>Pairs of socks
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>>17362591
*Wash my clothes once or twice a week
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>>17362591
>>Winter coat
1
>>Medium coat
1
>>Summer jacket (also my suit jacket)
1 (maybe 2)
>>Jeans
2
>>Trousers
2
>>Pyjama tops
1
>>Pyjama bottoms
1
>>Vests/undershirts
2
>>T-shirts
2
>>Jumpers
2
>>Collar and button shirts
3
>>Boxers
16
>>Pairs of socks
16
Start with erasing everything you don't use and does not fit you anymore.
Get ride of broken items, things with holes or rips in them.
Get rid of items that doesn't color match the main items you got left.
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>>17362610
I'd buy some more t-shirts - they're very versatile and you can look clean and nice with a t-shirt and a pair of chinos.
And another pyjama.
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Is it possible to be bi but only be able to fall in love with women.
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Sure. Shit's complicated, yo.
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Of course, love can be more than just sexual attraction.
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Yes. If you want to put it in tumblr terms, you would be bisexual but heteroromantic.
And, just fyi, it's possible for these orientations to change at any time (though this isn't super common, it DOES happen).
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>Dating girl for 8 months now, pretty serious at this point
>She just admitted to me that she lets her dog eat her out when she isn't spending the night with me
Uhh, what the fuck am I supposed to do now? That shit is so fucked up.
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only a matter of time before she tells you she wants to watch you fuck a small horse
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>>17362580
You know what to do.
Unless this is bait.
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>>17362580
Better start feeding the dog peanut butter with spices before she marries him instead of lucky you
>grew up in shitty suburban area with nothing to do
>was a shut in
>move to city thinking I'll have stuff to do now
>still a shut in
How do I carpe diem (without going broke.)
>tried joining a meetup group
>still pending acceptance 3 weeks later
>several r3ddit meetups but hate r3ddit
>phone incompatible with mememon go
>temporary NEET, job-hunting
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>>17362575
Just because you move to a new area doesn't mean your life is gonna change that easily. You need an actual drastic change. Like a real drastic change. Join the military or work your way up to a cool job. Better yet try to volunteer for things in your area.
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Yeah, I know I have to do something different. I messaged someone off craigslist just now for a volleyball team. I just don't know what sites are good. craigslist is kind of...lame? And redd1t is full of tryhards. 4chan is awful for meetups. I played tennis in highschool and would love to play again, but the local tennis websites all want you to be a member of the national org and have a rating and all this, I'm not competitive at all. And like I said, the first meetup group I tried to join left me hanging 3 weeks now. I applied to one more but this shit is annoying.
I'm sure as hell not joining the military, and I'm already looking for a professional job but I'll probably be working with a bunch of 40 year olds, that's not gonna give me a social life.
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What city?
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Strong desire to legally change name 2016-07-16 14:29:31 Post No.17362566
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I have three names: One my mother gave to me, I like it. I'll probably keep it. One is my father's first name, I don't like it. I've never liked him or felt any pride as his son, I'd rather be my own man. He was not a decent person. My last name is Mohamed.
I've never liked my name. I've never wanted to share my name with people. I strongly dislike it. I never liked writing job applications with the name down, knowing it instantly closed so many doors on me. It brings me no pride or joy. I don't even like saying it. Maybe some people will find it offensive, but I honestly don't think my feelings would be much different if my last name was Hitler. I was raised in a Muslim home, I have read the Qu'ran. I understand who the prophet Muhammad was: a pedophilic warlord, an illiterate, a misogynist, a conqueror. I don't even feel comfortable when people call me Mohamed, even though it is my name.
I see nothing of myself in this man. I see nothing of myself in this religion. I see nothing of myself in my father.
I have a strong disconnection with my family. They don't understand me, I don't understand them. I don't think we'll ever have a very close relationship, and I've strongly desired to move away from them once I have joined the engineers association in Canada. Maybe somewhere in another province where I could focus on my career, and hopefully find someone to start a family with.
I already have a new name figured out, I even wrote it down on a piece of paper and felt happy with it. Maybe other people will think it sounds funny, but I felt much happier writing down "I am Isaac Michael Isaiah."
That terrorist attack in France was like the last straw. Knowing some idiot with my name is being broadcast as having run over children with a truck in the name of Islam just makes me feel even sicker.
Is it so wrong to change your name if you hate it so much? I honestly feel like it might be a hassle legally changing everything, but my own happiness would be worth it.
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>66
>book of Isaiah has 66 chapters
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Changing your name is fairly easy and inexpensive. If it makes you happy, then do it.
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>share an apartment with dad
>be slipping up with housework
>have crazy summer schedule of classes and work
>be preparing for today
>todays the day imma get all the housework done
>feel proud of self for wanting to get organized
>wake up this morning
>make a to do list of all the things imma do
>dad wakes up
>he swears and screams at me that hes disgusted with me for not cleaning up the house when he told me to do so during the week
I don't know what kind of oppositional defiance behavior shit I have, but after he said all those things to me, I don't feel like cleaning anymore.
I know I have to, but my dad has never yelled at me like that before. And the reason I slipped up is because I'm not home for 12 hours a day. Once I do get home I study and sleep.
It feels like if I do these things after dad yelled at me, he will think yelling at me is okay. Help me logically get through this.
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Do you pay for the place?
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>>17362569
I don't pay for all of it. I pay for 1/3 of the rent, help with utilities and buy all the groceries.
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Your dad is a person, not a thing, just fucking talk to him and get over it.
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I'm making an effort to go out more, make friends, have fun, and hopefully meet some girls. I'm going to my first party soon and I'm very nervous. I don't know anyone except my only friend who is taking me. A part of me wants to not show up but I know I'll let my friend down and I want to change myself so I'm going.
Any advice?
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>>17362536
If you're new, talk to everyone but don't treat the girls differently from the guys. If you don't know what to say, just ask people random questions and act interested in what they say. If they keep up their end of the convo well and put in effort into talking to you, then compliment them on something. Once everyone's friendly and cool you can do a little more if you like.
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It's very normal to go to parties in twos. You talk and hang out with the new people you meet. It's kinda the point.
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>>17362556
The part that bothers me is that I perceive everyone around
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>yesterday night, gf gets home from work
>is talking to me normally, saying she loves me, how we're gonna spend all weekend together, etc
>suddenly takes hours to reply and starts replying with one messages
>I leave it alone and go to sleep
>wake up tomorrow
>same thing still happening
>I say, "You're weird, you're talking to me normally and all of a sudden I get the single messages"
>Says she's tired
>I ask what's up, she gives me vague answers
>"Oh its just mental"
>>"Whats on your mind?"
>"Nothing, its nothing"
>Keeps being rude to me and treating me like shit
>kills the conversation
EVERY WEEK she does this. EVERY FUCKING WEEK, for three months now, at least once, she gets mad at "nothing" and then is rude to me for no reason. Holy fucking shit, this is tiring. How the fuck do I respond to this behaviour?
And to all the people who will tell me to break up, don't even post. Not every problem is grounds for ending a relationship.
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Don't try to keep up a convo if the other person isn't interested. It's like getting a kid to play with a toy they don't like. Don't. Just let her be when she isn't keeping her side of the convo up.
Talk to her when she's normal. Tell her firmly that while you're concerned with her well-being and want to be with her through her troubles, she's being utterly selfish, unproductive and even hurtful by completely closing up when something's up. Let her know in no uncertain terms that that shit won't fly.
Seriously, just look her straight in the eye and say "I'd like to see a change." You'd be surprised, everything can be fixed in an instant.
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>>17362502
That is great advice, and the word "selfish" hit me pretty hard because I feel this is a trait she has.
Our biggest fight ever happened when she cancelled a date of ours (which had been set days before) a few hours earlier to go to a party with her friends, being that they had called her that same morning. And this monday she was supposed to come sleep here, but cancelled 20 fucking minutes before the agreed time because, again, she wasn't mentally well.
I have a real anger problem and the amount of self control I have exercised in this relationship is beyond all human capabilities.
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>>17362485
Man I know exactly how you feel, I've been going through the same shit for three years, but there's more to it than that. She's very pushy and demanding of me. I can't take it anymore and have decided to break up with her (tonight actually). It's going to kill me, but dealing with her belittling me, demanding me to do things I don't want too, and her constant mood swings has finally pushed me to far. It doesn't help I work 6 days a week and work 16 hour shifts for five of those days.
But back on the matter of you, I don't know man, no not every problem is grounds for breaking up and I'm a firm believer than you should always talk to your significant other and explain to them how you feel, it's not like taking care of a pet where you have to read body language, you can actually talk to a person. But I don't know, three months is a long time...do you see it getting any better?
At any rate, best of luck papi churro
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How do I accept that people are going to lie and cheat on each other? Maybe more importantly: how do I destroy the desire for companionship? I'm tired of setting myself up for heartbreak.
Source: been cheated on and been told lies that have majorly crossed the line to in many relationships and seen similar behavior in many others
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Here's your redpill. Everyone gets cheated on at some point. Some people don't value loyalty as much as others. Move on and get past it
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>>17362466
i've been cheated on a lot, how can i trust when this keeps happening?
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>>17362450
You don't accept it. You set firm boundaries and don't put up with bullshit. Many people have no morals or sense of commitment, or are completely selfish. This doesn't make their bullshit ok.
When women do stuff like act flakey, lie, or start talking to other men that way, I slam their ass in the friendzone and move on. Life is too short to put up with stupid bullshit.