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>>17362290
Do you take any medication? Even antihistaminics. Some stuff is known to give nightmares.

You're under stress so it could be that. Anxiety overday that you don't let out translates to dreams involving fear.

Also I believe in pagan stuff so I'd link this with a psychic attack and would look at cleansing out at least my own room and putting up a ward but that depends on what you believe in.

>>17362303
>Do you take any medication?

Absolutely nothing. Last thing I put in my body other than food or drink was a couple aspirin a few weeks ago for a headache.

>You're under stress so it could be that.
I mean, I certainly have enough stress for 10 people, but these nightmares seemed so spontaneous. I've been feeling like shit ever since I lost my job, but the nightmares came on so suddenly, and they haven't stopped even once. There was no gradual onset, it just started happening every single night on a seemingly random day. I'm trying to think back and remember if anything shitty happened about a month ago, but I can't seem to come up with anything. Could this really have come on over stress I've had for months, you think?

>pagan...psychic attack
Nah, I don't believe in that stuff. I'm a Christian, so I guess I can't count out Satan being a dick to me or something, but that kind of stuff comes at the very bottom of my list of probability.

desperate bump.

Well you can either get married so they can live with you in the US sooner, or you can not get married and wait longer. I wouldn't recommend marrying someone without having lived together for a significant period of time however

>>17362267
I know it sounds weird, but for the sake of my mental health I honestly can't wait more than a few more years. It's been long enough as is. But I also already know we'd be fine living together, so that's not an issue really.

>>17362255
>>17362255
Get a prenup. Problems solved. Anything beyond that can be a problem you encounter with even a gf.

Also, get marriage counseling if you ever want a divorce. It helped my ex wife and I understand each other well enough to end the relationship amicably. No alimony, no arguing over who gets what, etc.

tfw no one cares

>>17362244
i feel your pain anon. My doctor subscribed me some pills but im pretty sure they're just placebos they dont seem to be having any effect. The only thing i can recommend that seems to work for me is taking little steps. it sounds silly but a few weeks ago i was too worried to walk to my local post office but by walking a little more each day i managed to get there and even further

Something might be wrong in your life.Are you happy with yourself? Do you have friends you can go out with? What are your hobbies? Do you work or study?

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>>17362237
>>17362240
What's her problem?

>>17362246
butthurt about being friendzoned

>>17362236
>>>/pol/

>>17362236
can't ban erdogan

Erdogan Can.

A: Wear long sleeved shirts and hoodies
That being said, your will and letters will do nothing to comfort your loved ones. You should give those who care about a chance to care for you, tell them what you're struggling with, don't become an endless nightmare and sorrow for them.

Oh quit being a depressed little shit. Find something you live doing and dedicate your time to that.

And also, stop cutting yourself and you won't need to hide anything.

>>17362644
Way to be a condescending fuckwit. OP needs legitimate help, not just someone saying they need to "cheer up" or "get over it". If that actually worked, there wouldn't be any suicides, but clearly there are.

OP, go get help. From your family, therapists, friends anyone ot anything. Coming out the other side is like being cured of a terminal disease - you feel amazing and life actually seems decent for once.

Bring weed. Nobody will care where you came from

>>17362199
i'm bringing goon and acid, don't have any weed on me. Should I just be able to fly under the radar?

heading off now. wish me luck /adv/.

>>17362140
Dude move on asap. Don't stick dick in crazy.

>>17362151
Agreed. Fucking Crazy is never A good idea. My girl was a chronic lier. Bitch had another guy on the side.

stay her friend but dont pursue a relationship. she obviously isnt ready.

Sorry, you're going to hell, there's nothing you can do

>>17362132
dude i'm making a satire video

>>17362159
woosh

Also, let this be a message to anyone who is interested in threesomes: DO NOT FUCKING DO IT.

I've spent a handful of years fantasizing about sex with 2 men at once or having a woman help me take care of my man.. It was seriously the most stupid decision I've ever made in my life, and easily my biggest regret so far. This has seriously completely destroyed my relationship for me, and I never should have been selfish enough to push someone I loved to do something they didn't want to for a stupid, unrealistic and childish fantasy. It was NOT worth it.

You did mess up very badly. You need to have very open communication and profusely apologize with him to start. Don't jump immediately to therapy but keep it as an option, first thing needs to be to talk with him about it, a lot, ask him if there's anything that can be done to repair the relationship. Ask him if he's still interested in pursuing a relationship with you. You as a person are also very broken, bad ideas turn into bad mistakes, repent. Seek restoration for yourself as well.

>>17362139
>You need to have very open communication and profusely apologize with him to start.
I have. And he forgave me for it. I can't even believe that he's been so forgiving and nice about this. And the worst part is that I'm not even sure I would feel that bad FOR HIM if I had enjoyed it as much as I thought I would. It's like I was completely blinded by being a selfish cunt.

>Ask him if he's still interested in pursuing a relationship with you.
Yes, he has already said that he intends to stay with me and that we can work past it. The problem is that I don't think I can.

I want more than anything in the world to be with him forever and have everything the way it has always been, but I fucked up so badly. It's like a nightmare that I have to keep waking up to every single day. I keep wishing and praying that I'd somehow be given a chance to take back my stupid decisions.

I know that this is my fault and that I deserve this pain 100% and then some, but he doesn't. I should've protected our relationship and I didn't.. I'm the one who doesn't feel like we can make it through this. Is there any hope for me to be able to have a real relationship with him now that I feel I've ruined it?

everyone hates niggers

you already know this

>>17362105

i'm not a nigger famalam

she's embarrassed for you

Go party and fuck women?

>>17362069

strippers

>>17362069
Go to the shows, they're quite nice.
Also Vegas has a shooting range, some museums, and even an area where you can play with construction machinery. No joke.
Also check out grand canyon if you haven't. They can fly you from Vegas.

>>17362068
Well there's pro and cons.

Heres one of each lol.
I've lived alone for two years before i met my bf and well i liked it but i prefer someone to share, cleaning cooking and everything with. It can get pretty silence when you are all by yourself

Pro: you can walk around naked,

Cons: you're alone unless you make sure to write your friends and meet up

Depends on the kind of person you are. I was fine living alone because I was disciplined with keeping up with chores, and didn't mind the solitude.

Some people struggle with the loneliness or let things pile up and it all goes to shit.

I lived alone in dorms in college for a summer. Got real paranoid about being in the dark, occasionally really lonely because the campus was mostly deserted and I'm not very social. Otherwise it was great, tons of space, no surprise parties, music/videos aren't gonna wake anyone up/bother people in their bedrooms.

It was nice, but the loneliness fed into depression. Currently have one roommate and it's a really good friend. Mostly pretty great.

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>>17362019
Tell your friend to get tested.

Degenerate.

>A friend
Right...

>>17362033
When should he get tested?

Exercise

>>17361997
If you find out how come back and let me know

Insomnia or some other sleep disorder.
Change your sleep patterns. I used to go through the same thing.
It was bad enough in highschool where I'd skip the entire morning and only go to afternoon classes. After highschool I got lucky for a few years with a job doing graveyard shifts which was great. Then after that in university it fucked me. I'd weigh my options and either skip morning classes or stay up all night and sleep in the early evening.
Now with a proper 9-5ish job I've adapted a polyphasic sleep. Nap 7-10/11 and sleep 3/4-7, It's not the best and you'll definitely feel the toll it takes on you, but it's better than never sleeping