simply put
>currently 3 months unemployed
>have a couple thousand dollars in credit card debt
>moved back into my parents' house
>not doing anything and am unhappy
>need to do something about it
>lacking motivation to get a job
>not going to join the army
>job it is
I would like to make enough to live on my own again. $14/hr 40hr/wk was plenty to support myself, I've quit that job, long story.
I have worked fast food, retail, and janitorial work, and I'm sick of it all. All that I can put on my resume is a service position at McDonald's for 1 year 5 months, and a union janitor job for a year and a half. I have worked other jobs, however I shouldn't disclose them to any future employer. I also have 45 college credits completed, undeclared major, just did generals at a community college for a couple years and can't afford to take anymore classes until I'm making decent money again.
I don't know where to begin to look.
You don't really seem to have any marketable skills. Pretty much everyone these days has experience in low-level jobs and a few college credits. It might be tough getting a decent job.
Also, where do you live? $14/hr is probably easier to get in California (where that's the equivalent of a shit minimum wage job), but harder to get in bum-fuck-nowhere Alabama (where $14/hr is likely considered a big-time position).
Landscaping is a readily available job in the summer. You'd probably be looking for another job in the winter though.
Just get two retail jobs until you're able to either find something better or major in something
hey /adv/ so im in a foreign country atm and they dont speak very much english at all. theres a girl at a local supermarket that i like. ive smiled, waved and said hello to her hut further then that its hard to communicate. what should i do?
>>17358808
bump
>>17358906
Meme her a meme
>>17358808
Drag her to your room and fuck her senseless, she will love that.
But seriously where are you anon?
What are the keys to wealth ... I know it isn't just college .. Only the fool would believe such a thing...I have so many Questions.. I just can't post a lot ..
Start your own business and make it your life.
If you have to resort to asking 4chan the secrets to wealth you'll never have it because wealthy people are able to learn on their own. They're extremely hard but smart workers.
>>17358807
Invent something you can make for a dime, sell for a dollar and is habit-forming.
Spend less than you earn.
Also don't fall for the entrepreneur meme, yes starting your business might be good, but it might not be for you, you might have better luck joining a young business that you expect will grow and help it grow, that way you can focus in what you know instead of having to manage everything.
long story short, back in March I discovered my girlfriend of a year (probably the only girl I ever truly loved and the only one I see myself marrying) cheating on me. It was the worst night of my life, broke up with and haven't talked to her since. Been with other girls/dates but I just have such severe trust issue and emotional de-attachment. Depressed some days, I am 25. Please help.
>>17358801
Hey, at least you found out before you got married and had kids. You sound needy; so needy that you drive people away. Go to a therapist.
>>17358828
How is facing trust issues after being recently cheated on 'needy'? Also he doesn't need a therapist for gods sake, he simply needs time and someone worth taking the risk for
Just give it time. Don't rush things. Not everyone recovers from a cheating whore in the same way (or same time frame). Could take years. Realize that (/r9k/ epix memes aside) not every girl will cheat on you.
Why does 4chan hate Reddit? Is it just /b/ and /pol/?
It's really only the legit basement-dwellers whose lives are literally spent on 4chan all day.
The rest either are too busy in real life to care about an imaginary internet war or just troles.
They both hold very different ideologies in regards to communication. These differences seem to, real or not, cater to a certain user base that they find unsatisfactory
Having a system where the users are not anonymous and has a rating system is inherently flawed.
>meet girl in college
>start dating afterwards
>talk about sexual history
>everythingokay.
>year and a half later move in
>talk about sexual history again
>inconsistent details
>inquire about it
>turns out she lied
I threw a huge shitfest and told her not to be in my apartment when I get back. Shes texting me talking about how it was just an innocent lie when we first started dating. Im fucking furious though.
I dont understand why she would do this. Why?
Because she assumed you'd flip out apparently
If she lied, she probably has a very deep sexual past. No one would have a reason to lie about no/few past sexual partners.
>>17358792
>inconsistent details
>inquire about it
>turns out she lied
>threw a huge shitfest and told her not to be in my apartment when I get back.
...
Yeah it sucks she lied and a relationship should be based on trust... but, your response is not proportionate to the misdeed.
Right now nothing anyone tells you is going to connect with you because you're being irrational, self-pitying, and self-victimizing beyond what is appropriate.
Stop doing that.
how in the fuck do people deal with day to day life
I moved out about a year ago. I work and go to school to.
I can't deal with this shit. all the responsibility and apartment living and juggling like ten things at once. it fucking sucks. sleep like shit, constantly worried about different things. I have this feeling that at any moment I could fuck something up or I could get sick and I would be screwed.
I frankly want to give up, move home, and do nothing all day.
how do you adjust to this
>>17358779
I just accept that life itself is suffering. And your mind is the only refuge you can depend on.
It's normal, Anon.
You have to tell yourself something dark that is feeding your anxiety. "I might fuck up", "I might get fired and humiliated", "I might fail this semester".
But
you'll still be in the end, OK. You will get through the misfortune.
In life, you need to expect bad things to happen. Expect betrayal, sadism, theft, humiliation. You get mad when things are bad AND unexpected. You don't get mad whenever it rains, because you expect rain. The same should be applied to every misfortune. Let this help ease your anxiety, use your time on earth stress free and wisely. Work hard but expect these things to happen, or else you will not be prepared for life. Become stoic. Have goals.
what specifically is giving you problems?
tips for dealing with the pain of unrequited love? the kind of love you feel for someone so strongly but they could never return your affection, and most of the time they will never even know about it.
Work a fuck ton. Even if you still want to die, you'll have more money.
t. someone who works 60+ hours per week
Distance yourself from them and swallow the knowledge that you have no future with them
>>17358752
Turn the situation around
List some things you have learned about yourself because of this experience
Apply those things to a healthy mutual relationship
Life will go on, I know it feels like this is the end, but its only the beginning
hey /adv/,
i would like to drive a guy absolutely crazy.
how come men do not get attached to women anymore?
i feel like i am always the one having crushes on men and it never goes anywhere.
how do i get a new, attractive guy to go absolutely batshit crazy over me, where he cannot get me out of his mind, and is absolutely obsessed with me?
I want someone to chase me, for god's sake. but most importantly I want him to go cookoo.
Be worth going crazy for
You haven't found me yet
>>17358748
You need to be insanely attractive and not a total bitch
I took 2 hydroco/apap 7.5 325 about 20 min ago I'm 250+lbs about 5'11 and male I'm I going to be ok? What should I look out for? I can feel myself getting a little drozy?
>>17358714
That's nothing as far as the hydrocodone is concerned. Yeah, it makes you drowsy. Then it feels good. Then it pretty much ruins everything else about your life if you keep taking it.
But enough about me.
The Tylenol (apap) will fuck up your liver if you take too much so don't take any more than two at a time.
>>17358730
Op here thank you for replying I was told that more than 10 mg of hydro is deadly and I took 15 with the 2 was my friend just fucking with me then?
>>17358730
This. You're fine op, I'm not sure if you can do a CWE with hydro and apap but if you can then do it .
I have a case of the phimosis. I've had Sex 6 times in my life and every time my skin on my dick just stretches and it hurts. I've never orgasmed in my life. What do I do? This one girl wants me to come over on Sunday and I want to enjoy it.
stop posting your dick on 4chan
Go to a doctor you fucking idiot.
>>17358723
this. i had fimosis, doc fixed it without chopping off the entire foreskin so if thats what youre worried about, well, it can be avoided.
and about the never having orgasmed.... not even jacking off?
Why is EVERY SINGLE woman I meet a die hard liberal? They ask me out and it goes fine and all, and then they call me a racist or fascist when I talk about how I like Trump or how the "Syrian" refugees have ravaged Europe. I'm fed up with this and I just want to meet someone who won't fucking leave and ignore me for my views. Do conservative women how are slightly attractive exist somewhere? I know my college campus isn't the prime spot for it, but is there anything I can do?
>pic related savior of the female gender
>conservative
>attractive
Pick one
>>17358702
Tell me about it
>>17358699
>and then they call me a racist or fascist when I talk about how I like Trump or how the "Syrian" refugees have ravaged Europe
Gee, I wonder why...
I needed to use my roomates bike to get somewhere pretty quickly. On the way back I switched gears and something fucked up. I thought that just a chain hung down and I tried to fix that and that I noticed that these wires are disconnected and bended and shit. I couldn't do nothing so I took the bike on my bike and brought it home.
Now I'm here fucking desperate trying to figure out how could I fix this shit. Also the shit I hold in my hand fell of, I don't even know what that is. I rode a fucking dirt cheap bikes my whole life and this never happened to me and now this fucking thing.
>>17358592
>took the bike on my back*
I'm drunk as shit.
dude the spokes are broke it needs to be taken to a shop to have them fixed they need to be replaced.
the thing you have in your hand is a multi tool for bikes I think.
When I watch porn I find myself not imagining myself being the one fucked, but to be the one fucking the girl. I'm straight and I have no intention of ever being in a serious relationship with a girl. I don't have a dick, but just imagining the feeling of sticking my pseudo stick into a girl/guy is the only way to make me orgasm. I've never achieved orgasm through sex because the feeling of being penetrated isn't physically or situationally hot or sexy to me. No, I don't want become a guy, I'm completely content with the way I am. I feel like I'm just experiencing the negative effects of watching porn all these years. It's taken a toll on my sex life.
tl;dr I can't orgasm through sex because all the years of watching pornography made me want to be the one doing the "fucking." What do I do?
Girls are weirrrrd
>>17358593
>You must be 18 years or older to be on this site.
Time to get some serious dildos
I'm currently in a bit of a moral debacle, here. I recently graduated high school, from a very small school. For perspective, their were 22 kids in my class. Being that small of a school, theres a lot of drama.
I have a friend named rick whose a fucking asshole, and is the most 2 faced person I've ever met. Why are we friends? He has a nice family. I mostly just hang out with him so I can talk to his parents, they're cool people. He's the most intolerant person I've ever met, and I don't mean in an SJW sort of way, although he is super homophobic and racist and yada yada yada. He just throws huge fits whenever his friends do something he doesn't like. Like buys a certain album or a pair of shoes. He's constantly throwing fits at people, cutting ties and apologizing, good god, I can't describe this dude enough.
Anyway, we have a mutual friend named Lee, whose a cool dude.
Him and Rick cut ties a while ago because Lee just couldn't take it anymore. They went around 3-4 months without saying a word, whilst Rick talked major shit about Lee to me.
I get a snap from Rick today with him using a stupid ass filter saying "Lol look at me, I'm Lee."
an hour later, he posts on instagram saying how much he misses baseball, high school, and Lee.
2 more hours after that, I get snaps from both of them hanging out at Lee's place.
Lee has no idea that Rick sent that shit.
Do I tell him and start a bunch of drama, or just let them be?
>pic describes how I feel rn
bump bump bump
bumping god damn this board is fucking dead
>>17358581
That's... tough. I'd say it depends on how close you are with Lee? Personally, if it was a very close friend of mine, I'd tell them. As nice as it'd be if they were buddies again, I'd tell my friend because I'd feel they deserve to know. I couldn't let them hang out with such a two-faced asshole without them knowing.