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The girl was a total bitch which was why I instigated, she didn't have much to say back and just kept pushing me, so I flipped her in the sand in left. At first I was playful raging, but my roommates friend recorded the whole thing and I sounded like a complete sore loser as she smiled the whole time. Deep down I guess I hate women who are better than me. I was with my family on vacation, we were watching some judge judy divorce court bullshit, as the judge was introduced I mockingly said "wow she's really going places", my younger sister said she makes more money than you which offended me, so I said along the lines of "yeah, well I'll be making more from CS than your little music therapy major gig". She didn't react, which made me even more mad, so when she made fun of the defendant I just repeated what she said and she ran out in tears angry. I talked to her about it and she said it was all because I made fun of someone, except while yelling incredibly loud to the point my dad told her stfu. My suicidal thoughts just keep progressing, I'm trying to quit smoking weed and drinking, but nothing's working again. I need a positive mindset and thicker skin.

tldr My life feels empty, I'm too mentally unstable to trip acid and got bulled by 17 year olds.

Treat others the way you would like to be treated. I know this sounds like generic fucking advice, but actually think about it. How would YOU like to be treated? Think about it for a while.

>>17361403
And that's what I try, before that drunken incident I wouldn't fuck with people because I hate giving them a hard time, but I just gave up. Everywhere I go, I see happy successful people who are dicks. I'm sick of being a nice soft loser.

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>>17361130
This shit creeped up on me after i got sick, really bad.

If she isn't with me it feels like she wants to be with someone else and that's why she isn't here.

Before I was sick she was the clingy one, now it feels like she isn't so it makes it worse.

Keep thinking she found someone else to talk to while I was sick.

>>17361130
Hey, asshole, make a sacrifice for her and be there for her. Going out of your comfort zone as a gesture to her happiness is the type of compromise you do make in a relationship. She'll want you to be there, and you'll have peace of mind.

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>>17361172
Your feelings are very normal but you have to learn to deal with them, or else your relationship will be ruined in the long run

>>17361105
Could you tell us more about your son? Why isn't he leaving for college?

Also, how much disposable income would you say you have?

Jobs also build responsibility and character. They can also, incidentally, subsidize a dog.

If you decide on getting a dog, could you convince your child to get another large, fluffy, motherless animal from the shelter? It will be much cheaper and will save a dog's life.

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>>17361105
i wanted a dog since i was 18. now im 27. numoures time i was thinking of getting one. girlfriends always had dogs. so temporally i had contact with dogs and trained them. now im pretty happy i never did get one myself since although i love dogs i think i wouldnt want to have this kind of responsibility for up to 12-14 years. cant tell you how happy i am not geeting one.

but thats just me. cant talk for your son, so this might be no help at all

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if you feel guilty about it, I'd say go ahead and remove it. it is not worth feeling or fussing over about, truly. because you won't get much out of it, but worry. and I don't think you're a degenerate, personally, maybe I am being a little soft on this reply, but I've done worse.

Keep them up and send the archive to your entire family. You might as well let them know what you've been doing for the past month, after all.

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>>17361085
If it's only the idea of being a degenerate that prevents you from achieving pleasure, just forget it and keep on doing what you've been doing because "being a degenerate" doesn’t mean shit. Don't fall for spooky /pol/ buzzwords.

>>17361051
A lot of people have a hard time coming to terms with the fact that every person they'll see, meet, speak to, or brush against in a subway all have lives of their own.

It's a really overwhelming concept and a lot of people don't think much of it every day. Everybody has their own set of problems, memories, hopes, dreams, family, and nightmares. It's absolutely terrifying when you think about it.
I personally have the opposite problem of you. I feel like an npc a lot of the time. My whole life feels surreal, like my decisions don't matter. No matter what I do, I'll follow the same general path.

Stop. Look at the size of the universe. Realize that you are a tiny speck of nothing on a tiny speck of nothing in a galaxy that is really just a tiny speck in a universe that does not fucking care about you. You aren't your fucking khakis.

Life is an experiment to filter out all the individual sentient beings that have the capabillity to fathom the fact that they are just as relevant as anyone else, or just as irrelevant as anyone else. If their psyche can handle this paradox, their conciousness is preserved for future iterations and testing. If they dont make the cut, their conciousness is deleted permanantly when they die.

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>>17361047
Yes...I spelled 'bored' wrong...im fucking wasted.

Just stop, jesus christ. You need your liver. There are other ways to have fun.

>>17361047
I don't accept your premise.

Just because you have too few emotional and intellectual resources to keep you from being bored when sober now doesn't mean that you can't discover new ones that will give life and interest to a sober existence. Indeed, rediscovering what life is like sober might open your eyes to new things to fight boredom.

Oh, and you blew "quit" as well.

>>17361022
It's literally entirely dependent on the person because everyone eats different things and their bodies react differently to them.

No huge difference. Poop smell depends on diet though.

It smells and tastes differently depending on the person, but I haven't ever eaten a guy's shit so I don't really know if it's different depending on gender.

>>17361009
Yea you can

>>17361009
Do you have a car? Is it paid off? Will you need transit pass? Do you have a bike? Student loans? Any other bills? Is that 1400/month before tax?

Do you have furniture? Do you have a bed? Desk? Chair? Do you need to get internet? Do you have a phone bill?

Are you a cutie grill? Do you live in indiana?

>>17361009
Generally you only want to spend at max, 33% of your income on rent and bills but I guess it could be done if you have no options.

>>17361003
What are you insecure about?

>>17361017
Looks, weight, height, whether or not people like. The usual. I'm in the middle of changing looks and weight but the other 2 aren't exactly as easy

>>17361106
>what people think of you
Its more than likely in your head . And it doesn't matter what you do , people will make baseless assumptions no matter what
Ie
>" look at that skinny fag I could woop him "
But they could also think
>"that big guy probably has a small penis from all the steroids he does .

Also when it comes to height I wouldn't care , I'm 6'3" and for most of my life I thought girls liked short guys cause I noticed short guys got more girls than me

Pls respond

what happened to you

>>17361205
The scar is from an exploratory laparotomy after a bad car crash

Wish I knew buddy.

rouston drive, louisiana

>>17360940
Thats oddly specific, you from their anon? I

Single bump

They don't do tips in Iceland. It is an insult to tip.

Dont jump into geyzers

Why not?

>>17360904
Smoothies, grilled bristle sprouts n corn. Peaches on top of bitches

work

You are making general assumptions.

Please do more research on your question.

Through history, women look for men with good strong genes so their offspring have a better chance of survival.

Not as obvious in the present but we all have fundamental primal instincts.

>>17360885
But doesn't men search for the same?
Then why they go for beta women?

>>17360890
Current society favors monogamy to insure a happy, healthy family unit.

As I mentioned, you are making assumptions.
There are plenty of men who like strong women.
And there are plenty of women who like weaker men.

These are your observations and researching the subject more would have removed the need of thread.

Same here, OP. I just do it because it's something to do.

If it doesn't interfere with your daily life then it's generally not a problem.

You could always try taking opiates, you won't be able to stay hard, and orgasms on opes are shit anyway so you won't want to fap.

>>17360866
I'm just trying to make it so it isn't boring again. The only way to do that is to not do it for a long ass time and then to do it but I have so much free time on my hands that it's hard not to. I don't think narcotics are exactly the answer though

Do it only once a day, then every other day. If you can regularly go a day without masturbating then it's not really an addiction. Find something productive to do in your free time, and get off the internet. Avoid tempting websites. Just try to distance yourself from it generally.