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I just went on a date for the first time since high school and I want to know how I did and what my chances for a second one might be. I really like this girl.
Here is recap
>meet up with her
>she gives me a hug, super happy to see me
>tell her she looks better in person, she thinks i'm good looking, walk to the mall to get food
>she's playing fucking pokemon go the whole time
>make small talk about a bunch of stuff, make her laugh, says she likes me, we actually have a lot in common she's pretty cool
>her mom (we're 18) apparently decides she's going to pick her up right when she gets off work to buy her a car from craigslist so date only lasts an hour or so
>we chill in park area for a little bit, just stand around kinda awkwardly not knowing what to say while she plays pokemon until I ask if we can sit down
>she asks why I'm so nervous and says she's just like any other person etc., tell her "I haven't really done this in a while I'm just kinda naturally shy" and says she thinks it's cute
>she gets really close to me and I don't know what to do so awkwardly put my arm around her and try that shitty pickup line about how her eyes are blue like the ocean and I'm lost at sea, makes her laugh but you can tell she thinks it's corny, puts her head on my chest
>her mom comes. girl hugs me and tries to kiss me on the cheek but I catch her by surprise and kiss her on the lips instead, she seems surprised but amused (probably because it's the one slightly alpha thing I've done the whole time), that was my first kiss from a non-drunk girl
>wave goodbye, tell her we should do this again sometime, she says "yeah" but not sure if serious
>go home and cry on the bus because I'm a beta retard and realize I wasted $15 on a pack of condoms I'll never use
tl;dr didn't get laid but wasn't a total disaster
What are the chances of a second date you guys think?
Here's another thread with background on situation >>>/r9k/29960339
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>>17361562
This was totally not a date. Are you fucking kidding? She was playing Pokemon the entire time. You were just side entertainment.
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>>17361610
To be fair so was I.
We did talk most of the time but she had pokemon open on her phone and we'd go around walking looking for them.
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>>17361617
An hr of walking around ain't a date anon.
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My body is literally crumbling 2016-07-16 03:17:19 Post No.17361558
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My skin is super fucking dry and has been for a while.
I've tried every trick in the book; at best nothing changes, at worst it fucks my skin up more.
I just shaved this off my face. No pain, no cuts, no bleeding. Just dead skin that I can rip off like old wallpaper ad infinitum.
My dandruff is embarrassingly bad, to the point that I cant sit at a computer with any part of my head over the keyboard or my snow avalanche will actually jam up the keyboard. Having shoes on for more than 4 hours results in peeling that would send most people to the hospital, but I don't even feel a thing because it's all dead.
I'm so sick of being a crumbling, peeling mess all the time. I've seen doctors, I've changed my hygeine havits, I bring extra shoes to work, I keep my pores clean, I eat right, you name it. I'm at my wits end and honestly if artificial full-body skin replacement was a thing I'd pay any amount of money for it.
What do I do?
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>>17361558
Seborrheic Dermatitis:google it, sounds familiar, get more sun.
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>>17361576
I work outside all day
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Looks pretty fucking crazy from that picture you just showed. Is there seriously no Dermatologists that have been able to help you out at all?
Hello /adv/. The last year and a half has really taught me how unusual my upbringing was, and I'm having a hard time fitting in to normal society. I grew up in a commune, and only really got a full dose of the outside world since moving to college, and frankly it's weird and scary.
How do I learn to be more normal, or at least learn to better relate to normal people? I'm tempted to drop out and go back to where I came from. I just have so much difficulty relating to people here.
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Bumping once before bed.
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>>17361515
What was it like on a commune?
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show interest in other people and their lives. ask them questions. share some of the differences you have in your upbringing.
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My mother in law sold my wifes dog with out her permission 2016-07-16 02:40:20 Post No.17361472
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My wife and I are in between places and her mother offered to hold my wife's dog for a month or two, while we got a more stable situation. After a few weeks my mother in law got a hair up her ass( shes bipolar, skitzo, and a bad person) and sold my wife's dog. My wife tried calling her and asking, but her mother was too busy screaming about aliens and shit. We called the police, but they were of no help and told us to go to small claims court. What do I do? Pic related, its a picture of the doggo
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>>17361472
Let that dog enjoy its new home and get a real dog.
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>>17361472
Do you know how she sold it?
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There's really nothing that can be done. She's crazy, after all. I'd try to find out who she sold the pet to and explain the situation to them. Get the money from your crazy mother in law and give them their money back
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Jobless, broke, depressed, and raging. 2016-07-16 02:39:25 Post No.17361466
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Jobless, broke, depressed, and raging.
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Ok, so, I've been haunting the adv/ for a little while now, posted my story in a few threads, and haven't gotten any good responses yet, so let's start a good idea/rage thread in the hopes of attracting someone smarter than me, shall we?
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Just to sum up my story; started dating mother of three, fell in love, started paying her bills, got her preggo, 'ohshit, gotta get a house', got a good job, had baby(boy no. 4, my first/last/only child, love him so much), lost job 2weeks before Christmas, got another better job, worked out for two years, started school, get a letter from landlord/mortgage holder that says 'dear anon, we filed for bankruptcy, you're fucked', full time 7day third shift job + full time college + now looking for new home/lawyer, lose job, get another job, cycle continues.
Skip forward to today, I'm sitting on my couch, watching Ridiculousness on a borrowed TV for what will be the last time as our DirecTV will be cut off soon, my electricity will be cut soon, and we can't pay our rent. Can't find a job, nobody is hiring, just smoked some pot because I'm an idiot, and I live in a shithole area in shithole South Carolina, bottom of the barrel black hole of the South.
I want to start a photography business, it would do well with all of the old retired fucks passing their old money to young fucks wanting to get married and shit. Any ideas on how to get this shit off the ground?
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As your wife's son
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Some girl I used to go to school with ran into me twice today while I was driving my car and the second time I parked right next to her at the store. How stupid would it be to message her jokingly and say stop stalking me?
She was a popular person btw
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No one can answer this except you.
People thought I was a bit crazy, because I was a bit crazy. So I could get away with telling someone that their chronically (and laughably needlessly) elevated coritsol levels were causing their hippocampus to atrophy over time, every time I saw them within the course of the day.
It's all in the predictive networks, the framing, and the contrast. What they think your motivations and intent is. Etc. Their theory of mind and how they view you as a person.
So answer your own damn question. You've had a LIFETIME of experience in seeing how and when people treat you differently from someone who just did the same cutesy bullshit you did.
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don't say nothing. depending on how they saw you as a person. you would either be creep or just weird. The fact that you parked to her it would then imply your "stalking" her. Then should would go from meh to hmmm. This guy might be creep.
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>>17361566
It's a small town so we all know each other crazy well
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Why do I only come to this board when I'm depressed? Being here only makes me more depressed. Why do I feel such a need to talk to strangers about nothing when I'm feeling depressed?
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The same reason I only come here when I feel like shitposting, faggot
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>>17361425
About nothing? There's always something going on. I find it draining to my psyche, but I can't help but come here. I'm a caring, sad and lonely person that has nothing else. Sometimes the things I read here really dampen my spirits, but theres genuine good people and advice to be had
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>>17361437
This
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My boyfriend spends a lot of time playing video games. I originally bought this game for him so we could play together but now he just plays all day and all night long with his team and blows off our plans.
I've tried to get acquainted with his teammates but it's a "boys only" sort of club with a bunch of gamer guys. I want to continue being the cool and chill gamer girlfriend for him but it is starting to make me increasingly upset and sad. What do. Sorry for sounding whiny in advance, first world problems, I suppose.
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He doesn't enjoy playing with you apparently. If only I was your bf, m'lady
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It sounds like you have reasonable complaints. Be honest with him on how you feel and try to focus on that and don't put the blame on him. You don't want him to get defensive, but you should be able to share your feelings with him. If he can't do that, then he's not worth your time.
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>>17361392
offer him a interventions only 1v1, quick scopes on rust. it wont be easy but if you win he will know you are super girl gamer. trust me I'm a professional.
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How do i deal with guys hitting on my gf
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You don't. She should be able to tell them to fuck off if she has a spine. If they're persistent, then you tell them to fuck off
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Are you aware of the Baggage method?
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>>17361395
no, please do tell
>>17361393
she tells him to back off when he tries to get touchy, she doesn't seem to mind talking to this guy tho.....
pls tell me everyting is alright
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Its Just A Word. Right? 2016-07-16 02:13:22 Post No.17361378
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Ok. This is just my own little world here but maybe some people can relate. Nigger. Is just a word? I say some of the most fucked up racist things and just sick things in general. Its comedic and i find breaks walls when you totally disarm the word of the meaning that actual shitty people gave it. What do you guys think? Its just a word right? Why Nigger trippin?
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>>17361378
A word has as much meaning as you give the word.
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>>17361383
Could you rephrase that? I don't understand what you mean. are you saying its only offensive if i make it offensive ?
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The word Nigger has a very negative historic connotation to it, but nowadays people take it too seriously because they think their special.
Don't worry 'bout it Nigger.
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K so there's this guy in college I've known for like 3 years now. We were never that close, we just often talked in college and that was pretty much it. A few weeks ago he randomly asked me if I wanted to go for a beer and pizza, I said yes cause "why the hell not", and now he keeps asking me to meet for drinks, vidya, going dancing and stuff. For the way he acts I think he's into me, but I'm not interested in going out with him. Problem is I suck at rejecting ppl cause it makes me feel bad so I tell him I'm busy a few times but always end up going cause he won't give up. Wat do I do. he's a nice guy and i don't wanna hurt his feelings. Also I don't wanna make things awkward since I have to keep seeing him in college for 2 more years. (Srry for pic not being entirely related)
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Stop that. Get better at turning people down, or you'll have to live in this 'string them along' existence hell forever.
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>>17361373
you're not going to be able to not hurt his feelings. stop stringing him along. Jesus fucking Christ.
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The longer this goes on, the worse it will be. Even more so for him and shame on you for not doing so earlier. Be upfront, but not negative. You need to be firm but gentle too. <hehe> anyway, if you want to stay on good terms, do it asap or risk his resentment. But, on the other hand... If he's nice, why not? Say it's the fact that you're too nice to say no and eventually go anyway... Sounds like charm to me. If he was a cave troll you'd say no in a heartbeat no? Just food for thought that last bit.
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Which is more dangerous? A girl joining a meetup.com language exchange group by herself when traveling abroad or a girl meeting a male online friend with a group of female companions when traveling abroad? Both events occur in a public area eg cafe.
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>>17361365
>Both events occur in a public area eg cafe
they are equally safe/dangerous.
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>>17361365
Both
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>>17361365
Oh, God. Is this the girl going to Spain again? You used to post this question every day until we finally chased you off. You will get no answers you didn't get repeatedly back then.
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I got my twitter account "blocked" Now they want my cell phone number to send an acivation code. lulz yeah right. I tried to get a code sent to one of those free SMS websites but I think twitter is on to it. Any other solution?
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>>17361350
What's wrong with giving them your number? I'm pretty sure my account is linked to my number and i don't get any spam or anything
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>>17361353
It's bad enough they already have my IP. Sometimes I like to post stuff knowing it wont get back to me, call it trolling but whatevevr. It's truth but these days you cant say anything without being called racist or some other buzzword of the month. Not worth it.
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>>17361364
> It's truth but these days you cant say anything without being called racist or some other buzzword of the month.
If this is what you believe you shouldn't be afraid of it coming back to you. I doubt you're so much of a celebrity that anyone would give you shit for voicing an opinion they don't agree with. And unless you're doing some targeted trolling or something, you're not breaking any laws.
So what if people call you names? That's literally the extent of their power.
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>decide to take a looky-loo at my Facebook
>2015 (last half of last year + real world) - 50 new friends
>2014 (last year of college) - 140 new friends
Is my social life just slowly going to spiral downhill? I'm not meeting as many new people anymore now that I'm in the real world
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Having 50 'friends' in a year is a lot. I mean, I don't even understand why you'd have or want so many acquaintances myself, but whatever.
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>>17361333
Without college, you probably have less avenues to meet people. But by now you should've found at least a few true friends who you're actually close with, so it shouldn't matter. You don't have to make nearly 150 "friends" a year to be social.
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>>17361339
Self-validation desu
>>17361347
That is true, but it's also kind of pathetic that my entire life consists of one small group of friends. And 2015 also included college
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Why is it that women cannot put up with a guy who will fall in love with them right away?
I understand what women want in theory: a man that can get any girl he wants but chooses THEM because they are just so amazing. In other words, a man of high social standing; someone popular who will contribute to their own social status.
But this is worst than just dating guys based on their looks. It's dating guys because it's socially convenient, leaving those that would be genuinely loyal and who love unconditionally to be bitter rejects.
What do women make of this? As someone who judges potential partners mostly on looks, I'm really curious.
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>Why is it that women cannot put up with a guy who will fall in love with them right away?
Because it's creepy as hell. It's creepy as hell for either gender. What if you met a woman at a coffee shop or in a class, went on one date, and then she asked when she could expect a child or a ring? That's what falling in love immediately looks like.
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>>17361330
>genuinely loyal
fucking everyone and their mother is genuinely loyal. you have to bring something else to the table.
Would you date some girl that basically walked up to you out of nowhere and told you she loved you and would be loyal? What if she's disgusting, or has terrible credit, or is racist, or a hundred other fucked up things?
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>>17361407
>or is racist
Reddit pls go
>>17361330
Women are only truly attracted to the top 20% of men, everything else they just settle for. The moment you realize that this isn't just a 4chan meme or what your bitter friend says, but actual cold hard truth, understanding them becomes easier.