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>>17358572
>tfw white and rarely match with Asian girls, who are my muse
I don't know bro. Some people aren't meant to have what they want.

>>17358572
>How do I get average white girls or hot asian girls?
Be a good looking white guy

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>>17358572
Looking for a girl to marry in tinder?

Why would you ever get in a relationship with a girl that forces you to use condoms in the first place?

Because sex isn't my biggest priority in the relationship, I mean i enjoy it, but its not the biggest deal to me. Wearing a condom doesn't bother me.

put them on when it rains.

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>half the controls are missing
typical

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what meme magic am i missing to lead a happy and productive life instead of one full of bedbug infestations, constant nightmares, and everything I own breaking down constantly

you must meditate on this

You 'practice' them by doing it for real

>>17358514
The thing is if I fuck up I'll repel people and wont get any more tries with those given people

Well, I don't think so. I was seeing a therapist for social anxiety and depression, my work forced me too, and they didn't really do anything like that. She wanted me to get out in social situations and stuff, but she wasn't grading me on it, or even analyzing it.

>>17358504
Wtf why so insecure?
Go for it op

>>17358548
I don't want my life to look like pic related. :/

>>17358504
You aren't going to get anywhere anyway, so might as well not bother

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She's into it, or she's into it specifically with you? There is a difference.

>>17358658

As far as I've known, she's into it. I haven't even thought about doing it with her until now though, so I don't know if she's into it with me.

eh I dunno avoid the public I guess.

>>17358485
That's not possible.

Op did you get neglected or abused a lot as a kid? Falling in love with any person who is being nice to you indicates the lack of love and kindness you received during your childhood.

How do you overcome this? Simply become cynical. The real answer though is sleep around and date as many women as possible. Desensitise yourself from that "love" you obsess over.

Only when you have felt the full gravity of what it means to be heartbroken will you realise that not a single woman is special, nor do they deserve your love, and you'll start learning how to make them earn your love.

please help.

Looks like it already worked pretty well judging by your pic. Do you have another tattoo or something?

>>17358540
that's not my tattoo.

How old was it? It's probably food poisoning, something like salmonella. If the pain is too severe, go to the ER/call an ambulance and explain the situation. If you are in danger they will pump your stomach, if not you will likely get some pain relief and a place to stay while you puke up every meal you ate in the last 5 years (figuratively speaking.)

this is one of those see a doctor if it doesn't improve or starts getting worse things. I've seen a lot of people let food poisoning (if that's what this is) pass over them, but a doctor never hurts. just remember you're not gonna die or anything. your body should give you good feedback. it's time to rest and take it easy on your digestive system, and to keep in touch with your general physician.

People usually over exaggerate the dangers of eating old/spoiled food. At worst, you might vomit or have diarrhea, the abdominal pain will pass though

I mostly masturbated, drank and ordered food. You could probably so something more fun if you have friends though.

Invite friends/a girl/a guy over and hang out and/or fuck

Warning: Nighttime alone is scary as fuck.

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some of you must have been here
male or female doesn't matter

I assume you're in your 20s.

If so, it's hard to make new friends. Social groups are usually already made and people are plain-and-simply busy.

Join a few social clubs (like rec sports leagues, fitness classes, book clubs, shit like that). It will offer repeated, unplanned social interactions with the same people, which offers the best odds of making new friendships.

>>17358545
an acquaintance of mine is in drama club at the community college, and seems to have his hands full with friends

maybe just one or two of those clubs would supply me with friends. good advice. thanks.

I guess I was also looking for reassurance that I'm not fucked or doomed to be alone. my best friend and girlfriend recently got too whacky for me to handle.

Any mixed drink or brew of high quality is good to me. The stuff you see at liquor stores can make good mixed drinks, but the target audience is alcoholics. The average bar is probably the same way, with a little bit more leaning towards taste.

>>17358417
Italy, wine, because I like being stereotypical.

I like beer (especially Belgians) too. Don't really drink cocktails.

To actually answer your question, I would also say good wine. However, I'll drink anything that has an appealing taste.

I'm curious to know what you think it means?

>>17358373
I think it means just cuddling while watching movies together, or sleeping in the same bed without having sex or something. I honestly don't really know. I had to look it up and it didn't say much.

>>17358361
>I don't mind cuddling at all, in fact I could go for some right now, but just strictly cuddling seems like such a fine line. How are you not supposed to develop feelings, sexual feelings or loving feelings, for someone you're embracing for long periods of time with?

Preeeety easily desu.

That's assuming you're used to and comfortable physical human touch.

I've never heard of a "cuddle buddy" though <.<

>I haven't met the girl I'm talking to yet.
Ok... That's kind of burying the lead there buddy... You should have started with that. So this is online.

First of all, slow your roll. You haven't even met this chick yet. Stop planing your marriage -.-.

Second, it's something someone said online, which means it could mean anything:
Could mean she's needy/lonely as fuck and just wants some physical contact
Could mean she's just trying to play out
Could mean she's mentally unstable
Could mean she's trying to be coy
Could mean absolutely fucking anything

Honestly, this'd be kind of a yellow flag for me if this kind of stuff came up online, to the point where i'd probably still meet them in person, but have next to no expectations because I'd assume their base personality is either manipulative, a total flake, or confused and wishy-washy as hell--and those types of people are generally more of a headache to deal with than anything.

Relax, go meet her if you want, stop getting ahead of yourself.

Getting over your social anxiety would need to come first before you go persuing a woman.

Think of the person you are most comfortable around.
Thats how you need to feel and to an extent act around people you meet.

Problem i had with social anxiety is i was worried id offend or piss someone off and theyd lose their shit at me in public. So i never approached anyone.

I used to think about "what ifs" about some pretty basic shit like "what if i say hi to th are girl and she laughs at me. Or what if i say hi and i dont know what to say next"

Protip. Say what ever it is your thinking wirhin the first 2-3 seconds of thinking it. Any longer and you talk yourself out of saying something.

As for finding women with similar interests youll need to go to thwse places And talk to them about whats going on.

Goodluck

>>17358369

Thanks. It's something that's gotten worse as time has gone on, I guess because I kept moving away from people that I knew to the point I'm all alone in a city in a small apartment, leaving me to my thoughts too much. I think apart of the anxiety comes from feeling like people know I don't have my shit together just as much as I know I don't.

>>17358354
Just explore a bit, I suppose. I understand the whole social anxiety part. Don't over think what you say. Sorry, I can't really give the best advice. Cons of being a NEET, I guess. Best of luck, OP.

"Hey, I wasn't exactly honest with you the first time we met, I was nervous because I am scared people will think I am crazy."

There you go, quite literally the only answer you need.

Do it. There's no secret to it, just let the words fall out. It's like vomiting. There's horror and a clenching strain a huge mess in the floor and you're hot and embarrassed.

And then (if you're going to a good therapist) he'll smile and get to work. Remember that dealing with issues like yours is his day job; he can handle whatever you throw at him. Anything.

>>17358357
Pretty much this