I recently broke up with my gf. I still think it was the right decision, but right now I'm having a hard time remembering the lack of feelings I had. All I want to do is spend time with her, but just a couple days ago that would have stressed me out and felt like a chore.
I assume this isn't really unusual under the circumstances? I haven't really ended a relationship like this before.
You miss the codependency. People stay together forever and are miserable because they're afraid of change/loneliness/or that they'll never find someone better. It's easy to miss the good times because the bad times aren't clogging up the memories.