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I was on a party last weekend talking to a girl, my male best friend, who is drunk pokes me and when i place my ear next to him, he says "I like you" I reply " Are you serious? " and he replies "yes". I thought he was joking so i tell him "We'll talk about it later".
He's always been kinda quirky and people have always thought he was gay. So there's that.
Should I adress this or just ignore it? He's likely my best friend and i'd hate to ruim our friendship.
Help
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>>18645338
Just be honest with him, if he's ur friend he'll appreciate it more than you catering to his gayness
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suck his penis
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You kinda already made your choice. Lie and ignore it will put a damper on your friendship. Talk about it and you will become closer either way. But srsly tho he sounds like a catch, go for it.
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>look at guides on getting laid
>they suggest being social with women outside of sex, making as much female friends as possible, do things that show social proof, yadda yadda yadda
Fucking why? I just want to empty out my balls in some slut
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Nothing is free in life. Maybe take that literally and pay for a bitch
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>>18645337
It'll probly work out as you imagine if you fuck dudes
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Get a prostitute then
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Are friends just a meme?
Id rather chill in my car, or sit in my room alone than be made fun of, or judged and called a weirdo because I'm not Chad McAwesome
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>>18645336
>Is X a meme
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Those aren't friends you idiot.
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>>18645336
>wah they called me weird I wanna be alone to spite them >:(((((
op quit being a bitch, you probably are weird and if you really wanted friends then it shouldnt matter, choose whether or not you can put up with it yourself. man i hate failed normans
A lot of my friends are superior to me in a lot of ways and being with them just makes me hate myself for being so shit. They're smarter than me, better than me at a lot of things, are better socially, whenever I show a little aptitude in something one of them will be better than me anyway. Even when I practice at something and train and shit I'll still be fucking awful and they'll be better. Compared to them I'm also a retard. They've done more shit and know more than I do and we're similar ages. It makes me so angry at myself that I'm so shit at literally everything I do. Should I just kill myself or what.
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>>18645334
STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS and focus on the shit you want to improve. There are a shit ton of people out there that are better then you genetically and other. All that matters at the end of the day is what can anon do on his own terms. Should you be mad if a Kenyan sprinter beats you is a 100 meter dash? No.
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Your friends are conditioning you to be second best.
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>>18645345
People I know who are my age have done more than I could do in years and by that point they'll have done even more. What's the fucking point if I'm always going to be fucking awful at everything while people I'm around will simply be a reminder of my inadequacy? Is it because I grew up in a family that didn't push me towards anything or am I just making excuses for being shit?
Also if I don't compare myself to others then who do I compare myself to?
>>18645349
Won't change that they're better than me from the get go. The facts of what I know and can do compared to them won't change with conditioning.
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i've been seeing this girl for a little under a year, very casually at first (i was fucking other people when we first met, i think she was as well, whatever) and then we gradually became exclusive the last 2 or so months.
She's moving though, to another state far away for grad school and I highly doubt any long distance shit is gonna happen. My strategy was to just enjoy the last 2-3 days or so with her, have her leave on an end note, and just follow each other on social media and bang if either us is in each other's zip code (highly unlikely but you never know)
problem is she's leaving pretty soon, and i've found another girl that i've taken out a couple times and sexed and she's into me. I feel guilty, but i don't think I should
am i an asshole or is this the right way to do things?
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pls respond
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Does she understand that the relationship is basically over at this point and that you're basically just fuck buddies (at most?)
Also, banging another girl while you're still with one, supposedly exclusively, makes you a cheating douche (unless it was understood that this was ok by both you and your gd)
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>>18645398
>Does she understand that the relationship is basically over at this point and that you're basically just fuck buddies (at most?)
She wanted to remain exclusive until she left. I consider this early bang evening the playing field seeing as an attractive girl she more than likely has a bunch of dudes already lined up (she's lived at the place she's going before).
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What's the best way to get a fine yet affordable escort/hooker here in the orange county? I'm tired about fake "massage sites" with inexpert girls that only jerk you off. And I don't want to get a bitch from the street.
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Little bit of a derail, what is an escort exactly? Is it basically a more expensive form of prostitution?
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>>18645321
B A C K P A G E S
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>>18645329
It's a fancy word for hooker. Is like calling a bus boy a dish and utensil technician.
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I'm insane. I think I'm insane. I wish it wasn't so
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Nah, you're just weird. Insane people either don't know they are or know they are clinically so, after someone else telling them about it and them going to a hospital or therapist. No Maybes. The inbetween are just the weirdoes.
It's fun here :D
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i keep ruining friendships by becoming extremely worried they hate me and i'm not good enough for them, when this happens i isolate myself and last time i managed to not fuck things up too badly but now i probably pissed my friend off, can anyone help me with this problem? it's extremely hard for me to have stable friendships even though i always appreciate my friends.
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>>18645299
I have this problem.. I over analyze everything. my current situation doesnt help either. Im terrible at making new friends, and the ones I have now are genuinely ass holes that make me feel like Im the third wheel everywhere we go.
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>>18645299
Tell your friends about this problem. Also do you have self esteem issues? If so it's probably attributed from how your parents raised you. Either they didn't validates you or made you feel like you weren't good enough or abandoned you at times. You need to work on your self esteem either way.
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Apologize, and say that you appreciate them to their face. Tell them that you have these stated anxiety issues. It will be fucking deep and shit
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It's official, I can't have fun anymore.
I have been hanging out with a girl for a few months, things go good, next day bad, next day good, few days ok, next day bad. She's fine for the most part, but she's actually tearing me apart. She told me it would be like this but my feelings got the best of me. I know I should just fucking stop but I can't. Now I can't have fun anymore, everyday is a hassle and I am always in a depressed mood. I always blow off taking my anxiety medicine, which obviously doesn't help at all. Some would say to just fucking do something about it, but i'm having so much trouble trying to do so. Even menial tasks make me sad. I used to enjoy being outside and playing games. Nothing has meaning anymore, but I love her. I can't bring myself to stop loving her.
Should I see a therapist? I don't know what to do, I can't talk to my family about it.
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>>18645293
How about cutting contact with this girl?
>but I don't want to I love her
Okay stay miserable but know there is a solution you just don't want to do it.
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Should I just drop out of college and join the navy or airforce? I have until Wednesday to decide.
I have one year of college done and got it for free while in high school, if I go to the only affordable college I could commute to they'd make me do a masters for my preferred major. I already know I CAN deal with the courseload and everything but I don't really want to go into debt while doing it I think...
If I go to a college that doesn't make me get a masters for the subject then I'd pay like $14,000 extra a month for dorms and I don't want to be a debt slave.
To clarify I have not gone to college on my own dime yet besides this semester which I can still get a refund for.
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>>18645281
Can you make a lot of money in the field your going in?
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I have social anxiety. I've been working on it at working talking to my coworkers. I found one thing that works is by asking about their kids (when they have pictures on their desk) But everytime I see them I don't want always be asking about them.
What are some other conversation topics?
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>>18645280
Ask them if they watch any shows you know. Or ask them what they do outside of work (hobbies/ interests)
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So I just realized I'm ugly because my jaw is recessed and have been obsessing on posture and all that. Head, neck, back, tongue.
But now I'm freaking out about my shitty flat feet. Not only do they make walking just hurt in general but from recent researching now I'm kind of afraid it's playing a part in my shitty posture and making my face look worse. Basically they're starting to hurt now AND I'm afraid they're making me uglier.
How fix flat feet guise? Do any of u have?
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>obsessing on posture
>tongue
please elaborate
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>>18645295
Tongue posutre, google it. You're supposed to keep your otngue against the roof of your mouth
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>>18645473
i'm not drunk enough to be rused this easily
> Met a gal on Tinder and we exchanged numbers for a date
> We scheduled a date and proceeded to text random interesting facts that we know.
> we went on for a while
> I eventually stated " Did you know? a ducks dick falls off every year and regrows?"
> She canceled date and wont talk to me anymore.
> Any one have ideas of a text that could fix this?
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I think you blew your chance. What could you say to redeem yourself when she could just move on to another rando that doesn't have duck facts. In all fairness, it's better that she dropped off now, rather than later down the road when you want to say something like that.
(I got a chuckle out of the duck fact, for the record. Some people can't take a joke.)
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hahah it is a true fact tho. Now you know
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>>18645282
>when she could move on to another rando that doesn't have duck facts
Not OP, this is good to know though. I've got stupid trivia, save it for game night.
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Jealousy? Why can't people just be happy and not shit on people.
Ever since I bought my new car, a group of "friends" have continuously shat on almost everything I do, and when I fire back and put them in the hot seat their criticisms hold no water. And I'm left looking like the asshole after I get put into a corner and forced to defend myself. This entire weekend I haven't gone out because I refuse to hang out with people who just want to make me the ass of every joke. One of them came over and asked why I was "acting like a loser" and not hanging out with them, I told him to fuck off. Any tips on how to deal with this?
These friends just happen to be co-workers as well. I have no friends outside of work that live in my current area..
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>>18645259
what if it has nothing to do with your car
just be normal you dumbass
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>>18645271
Thats the only thing I could think off. NOTHING in my life has changed in over a year except for THAT one thing. But thanks for the advice.
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How do you know when someone genuially loves you versus just being lustful. I feel like my feelings have been toyed with from somone Im in love with whos been with someone else. He still tries to have normal and fun conversations with me and doesnt really bring up sex. But when were alone, we cant help but have a strong sexual tension between eachother. Because of this I wish i had a low libido. Its made me do the same mistake by hoping this guy would love me back.
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>>18645252
More info? It takes awhile to know if they genuinely like you...
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>>18645260
Weve been knowing eachother since high school. Were in our mid 20s now. Since then hed always come to me first about issues hes had with both family and girlfriends. He says he always found me attractive and I found him attractive as well. We both love video games and always introduce eachother to new shows we've come to like. We have lots of things in common in general and get along very well. But he tells me he wouldn't have sex with somone he only finds sexy but also that shares good chemistry with him. And I find it hard to believe him since he loves somone else.
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>>18645252
Why can't women take responsibility for their actions? Why is it always my X made me do it? And not I did it? It sounds like you feel guilty over something here OP. You're not in a relationship with this guy are you? Is that what's bothering you? Is he in a relationship with someone else and you feel guilty because it's an affair? Did you know he was with someone else when you slept with him? Give us some more information to go on.
It sounds to me it's lust, you're just fucking the guy and he's going to keep doing it until he gets bored of you. What do you anons think about this?