Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 401. page

>>18645632
would you have used the bugs life picture in your OP if you really thought it was a good idea?

>>18645641
4chan was saying there was an error, I didn't know what else to use lmao.

>>18645612

if you're asking these questions you shouldn't be using tor

>>>/g/

>>18645612
you can ask companies like google and microsoft not to do that. I guess you would need to ask an insider at google or microsoft if their "please don't record my activity" buttons actually work.

as for making you safe from outside interference, the latest operating systems are good at that. they have good security and built-in VPN support.

the truth is that when you use any software company that is connected to the internet, you are entrusting them with data. online anonymity is never something that should have been spoken about so much, because it's paper thin unless you're some kind of hacker.

I got rid of my social media (except instagram which is just for "hey look at this" innocent photosharing stuff), and I turned off all of my data sharing options with companies like Google, Microsoft, and Apple. I think this made me somewhat safer, but there is no way to certainly know.

The best safeguard is to probably stop having split anonymous online personalities. Don't think, "Man, online me is such a goober. He'd talk extensively about cutting women up into little pieces because he's just a character. That doesn't reflect the real me." Yeah it doesn't actually work that way.

You're one person. Just keep that in mind and you should be alright. Stop entertaining the idea of having more than one persona, unless you become tech savvy enough to actually not be tracked.

>>18645592

For some. When I'm drunk I hold back a lot of things and don't spill my heart out.

Also, sometimes, when I'm drunk, I'm mean, sad, or just burnt out, and I have feelings that have no point.

>>18645592
It speaks the truth. Shit can come from the heart but it speaks truth. That is why I am aware of what I say even when I am straight out shit-faced and plastered I just keep happy thoughts

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I wonder, bc I'm typically super emotional and talk shit to my bf when I'm real drunk. @times I can be fun and cool but I find it getting worse a long the corse of the relationship. Always talking shit to him while drunk then being fine while sober. Any thoughts on that?

>>18645554
i personally don't see anything wrong with it. if you don't like it, then get something done to fix it. if it isn't causing you any health/vision problems, and you're fine with having it, then there shouldn't be a problem c:

>>18645671
You look slightly strange but with enough training and discipline you can become normie.

>>18645554
Become a pro boxer and go by the name of Ricardo

This makes your balls come off

And there's a chance you might cum blood

Sorry I mean it goes around both your cock and balls. I'm not using this around just my balls

>>18645541
You mean a chastity belt?

Stop worrying about things you can't control and focus on things within your control

>>18645487
Cocaine.

>>18645487
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy could be a start. Break your negative thought habits and rewire your brain.

I'd also recommend Mindfulness self help alongside it.

There is medication out there that may help dull your anxiety but it definitely would be a permanent fix so see your GP about therapy, particularly the two forms I've mentioned above.

Ultimately though, I believe fitness is more effective than medication.I do strength workout's and cardio (long distance running) and train as an amateur boxer.... I haven't touched medication in 4 years as a result.

>>18645475
Your almost done puberty

Can't you masturbate?

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I have the same problem. Started when I was in late high school, so probably around the same age. It comes and goes in waves. I used to drink a lot or smoke a lot of weed to mitigate it. Don't do that, if you can. It makes things feel worse. Meditate. Look up zazen. Don't just do things because they feel good. Everyone has a "hedonic treadmill" that keeps them motivated. Yours is broken. So you can't rely on it as a carrot on a stick. Basically when I turned like 23, it hit me. "I can't use warm fuzzies as guide for what I should be doing with my life"....uh.....it's rough man. I mean, it's different for each person, but I'm 30 now, and I feel "blank" all the time. DON'T DRINK. To quote Louis ck: "it's a perfect solution to all of your problems right now". You should be old enough to understand why that's dangerous. What do you want to do with your life? Do you have philosophical convictions? This is the best advice I can give you with such little info

Erm.
Why? Work at your own level. It's your body that you are burning out

>>18645423

Because there are a lot more things I want to complete, and I'm getting old and really like where I am heading in my life, I just want to achieve so much more.

>>18645440
Get a better diet. If you don't take care of your motor is going to burn out faster.

Some people feel self conscious about it, don't take it personally.

Did you clarify who was giving head to who?

But seriously it probably just wasn't her kink. That or it was too racy for her ATM. Seriously, she might be afraid of squirting on you or something. Communication is key.

>>18645434
I was trying to give it to her, first time doing so. Kind of a big deal for me. She's too scared to give head so she gets the uncertainty I have.

>>18645405
what i do is i dress like a criminal, its practically high fashion really

if youre white thats harder because white criminals cant be taken seriously, try the skinhead look maybe

just dont actually be a criminal, obviously

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>>18645469
I didn't really mean clothes i mean face and stuff

Confidence.

>>18645384
Your story was hard to decipher. I don't want to advice you

English isn't your first language, is it?

>>18645378
xxxmemeguy69gag

>>18645393
Nvm. Found my name (Grizzly). Surprised nobody took that name desu, even though shit like "PepperoniToni13" and shit is.

Also, 69gag, xDDDDDDDDDDDD 8=D <acurate sizze of pengi

>>18645435
Nvm, OP HERE, it is taken, because my internet is shit. Keep this thread going.

>>18645370

just wait it out

>>18645370
I'm going through the same thing. I don't think there's an easy fix.

Are you me?

Get a study buddy or a tutor. Some colleges have Groups of those, or schools have clubs. People are easier to pay attention to than books, as said by someone with ADD as well :D

>>18645342
Almost no 10-year couple finds each other "exciting".

If you can't get it up for your wife you have deeper relational issues that you aren't sharing. Why do you hate your wife, faggot?

>>18645342
How about you talk to her and both of you can figure out a way to make sex exciting again?. You think it's going to hurt her when you say "you don't excite me anymore"? Wait until you say "I don't want to have sex anymore". Your so far up your own ass and assuming everything. You can't even fathom the idea of sitting down and have an honest talk with the women you spent TEN YEARS. Are you 5? Are you afraid you might hurt someone's fee fees? Well it's gonna happen either way but at least come together and problem solve. I don't get this "I need to isolate myself and not communicate" bullshit mindset. Be a fucking adult, at least do it for your kid.

>>18645342
Also, you're watching porn. Stop it.