I'm 22 feels like I'm fucking old now, how can one cope with life?
By having sex with prime pussy (18-24).
>>18644807
>22
>Old
Nigga you got a world of hurt coming your way if you think 22 is old.
>>18644807
I'm 35. My joints are starting to hurt in the mornings. I want to kill you and eat your heart so I can steal your youth.
Has anyone here got rid of bed bugs on their own? If yes how did you do it?
I've noticed bed bug droppings in the bedroom of a new flat I am renting. The flat is completely empty with no furniture and I cleaned every single inch of the flat. The annoying part is that I even asked the landlord if there were any pest/bug issues in the flat and he said no.
>>18644792
yes. i basically just woke up and killed them anytime I got bit. im extra sensitive so i woke up after every bite and just smashed them then went back to bed. went pretty well. Towards the end i also threw away my old mattress and I think that helped a lot.
I'm told they cannot climb up metal, so if you get a new bed, metal bed frame, they can't get up the normal way. Instead they have to climb to the ceiling then drop down on top of you. scary, but its eaiser to kill them with a simple bedframe and no mattress to hide in.
I usually go to sleep in the morning and smash all the bedbugs that I can find through the night. Last night was the worst. Approx 30 bed bugs killed and ultimatelly I think those fucks will win the battle Im gonna kill myslef cant live like that anymore
>>18644792
>>18644792
Soak your bed in gasoline, lay down on the bed, while still lying on the bed ignite the bed using a lighter or a match, stay lying down until the flames have cleansed the bugs from your bed and yourself.
How do you deal / cope with low self esteem?
Its having a noticeable effect on my life.
Some events that cause me a lot of worry is
>Student (So poor)
>Girlfriend wanted open relationship (And got it for half a year until I broke up with her and she came back after that saying monogamy was fine)
>Skinny body
>No real talents
Trying my best to keep a gym routine now, and also getting into Nootropics to improve my study perfomance. I also practice drawing sometimes just to have some kind of talent or creative skill.
Thing is, my hate for myself keeps fucking with my progress or motivation. I randomly get really angry or hopeless, and it makes it almost impossible for me to fix what seems to be the roots of my esteem issues.
Your money, looks and relationships don't define you. You are choosing to hold yourself to these standards.
I like skinny guys, I think it's sexy. Values are subjective. Your negative self talk is your problem. Be more realistic.
>Girlfriend wanted open relationship
>And got it
>>18644795
I can't even explain myself.
It had such a huge emotional impact on me I just defaulted on keeping the status quo.
At least I also fucked with some other people, but I was never a fan of it.
>work in an industry I care about and like a lot
>have to work with one guy who is literally fucking unbearable
>takes credit for all my work
>thought maybe management would figure it out, but they constantly refer to it as "his" project.
>tries to take control of fucking everything
>every day working with him is the worst
>still want to work in this industry, but no other companies do quite what this one is doing
what do?
Give an example of how he take credit for all your work
>>18644761
I'm a programmer. Imagine me and him are working on the same team for the same project.
Suppose I made a video player, which is relatively complex if it works smoothly and for every user.
He will then take that code and move it into a separate repository, manually copying the code over. This basically "stamps" his name into it and removes mine _entirely_.
On it's own, there could be justification for someone doing that, like deadlines coming up so just doing it quick. But what's sleazy about it is he usually doesn't even tell me that he did this, and does it very early. On top of that, he will restrict access to only himself to basically secure full control over it.
Goes further than that. He will then brag about it as if it was wholly his achievement to people. I once heard him talking on the phone with a remote employee saying something along the lines of "oh, you should use the player I made, it's <here>, it's significantly better than anything we've made before"
One level more than that, he usually set up the product meetings and didn't invite me.
All of these things seem like they are tailor-made for having an easy excuse. "You didn't invite me to the meeting", he would respond "oh, I didn't think you wanted to go, it's just boring business stuff haha". I would say "why did you take this code and move it here before consulting me", and he would say "oh you know we had to keep moving, deadline is coming up".
Something in my blood tells me he is trying to cheat me every chance he gets.
Now at first I thought no one would be dumb enough to fall for this, but time and time again if we're working on the same project, people refer to it as "his". They seem oblivious to the fact I even worked on it.
They will almost refer to him as the sole contributor in meetings, and if they ask anyone a question about it, it's him.
I feel like if I bring it up to my boss, I will come off as whiny because he probably only cares about results.
>>18644790
Here's a thought: leave. Wowwwww! Mind blowing!! There's lots of other software jobs, OP.
This shits is really taking a toll on my studies since i cant get past a difficult problem without getting stuck with it until i do it and this is making me get behind lessons. It's like a voice in my head saying i can't do it and i get myself constantly trying to prove myself to my own fucking mind...
>>18644735
How could I overcome this issue in my head ?
her eyes, the way she talks and acts. everything I adore, I see in that person. what do? I am happy and sad at the same time.
You're probably idealizing her and seeing her as this perfect person because you aren't in a relationship with her and therefore can't see her true, flawed self.
>>18644737
This. Or kys.
You should really watch this show. All 7 seasons. You'll realise more about life after watching 3 seasons than you did from just living this past 3 years.
How can I tell the difference between a woman really being into me or just fucking with me because I can do something for her?
Don't do anything for her and you'll be fine.
>>18644716
if you try to put your penis in her and she stops you then you can reasonably assume she isn't really into you.
>>18644730
Putting penis in is not a guarantee of anything
>be back in February
>back into another car
>was driving a borrowed car
>I have no personal insurance
>just dented their door
>cops came
>got ticket and paid it
>thought it was over with
>be now
>getting calls from their lawyer
>says owners of car I was driving had no insurance at the time
>says I need to sign an affidavit confirming I indeed did not have insurance either
>if I don't both his client and their insurance will sue me
Do I sign the affidavit or are they trying to trick me into something?
>>18644712
>says owners of car I was driving had no insurance at the time
>if I don't both his client and their insurance will sue me
wat
>>18644712
>Do I sign the affidavit or are they trying to trick me into something?
if its not a court order then you're under no obligation to do anything. If they send you something and ask you to sign it do not sign it. They are probably trying to make you admit guilt and responsibility for the damage done to the vehicle so they can more easily force you to pay for the damages.
in truth it is probably your legal responsibility to pay for the damages and they will probably sue you in small claims court to recover the money it cost them to fix their car.
>>18644717
I borrowed the car, my friend apparently let his insurance lapse on it so his insurance obviously won't cover their damage.
Lawyer says the insurance of the people I hit will pay for the damage if I confirm I didn't have insurance at all. He says if I do not sign the affidavit then the guy I hit and his insurance (geico) will open claims against me.
>>18644720
I already took responsibility on the police report. I even offered to pay for everything before they called the cops but then they insisted on calling them anyway and I had to pay 450 dollars in tickets. This was six months ago I can't believe I still have to deal with it.
I can't smile for shit.
A girl I've been falling for was right in front of me at work, we were forced to pass eachother since the corridor was so narrow. I couldn't stop looking at her, she was so fucking beautiful - but my face was frozen in dumb confused look, my brain was in a state of shock and I couldn't even force a smile. She on the other hand, looked at me for a little bit, looked down and used a forced smile as she walked by.
Fuck. Why can't I act like a normal human being and smile when it's required.
Does there exist a platform like Uber/Lyft, but instead of passenger rides, matched people with pickup trucks to people or businesses that need something towed, hauled, or delivered on demand?
>>18644708
>matched people with pickup trucks to people or businesses that need something towed, hauled, or delivered on demand?
yeah its called being a actual tow/tanker/flatbed truck driver
u-haul u idiot
>>18645670
>>18645819
No I mean like on demand gig work apps/sites. For all the yuppies and small business owners who need help with moving or delivering something locally.
My girlfriend of four years is breaking up with me. We met our junior year in high school and now we're juniors at separate colleges. She claims I don't love her the same way she does. She wants someone to obsess over her but I've never been the obsessive type especially over text message. She wants someone to marry her now, but I want to finish college first.
Pic unrelated
What do I do?
>>18644690
>What do I do?
let the relationship end and celebrate dodging that bullet
>>18644690
>separate colleges
Its over OP and at least you don't have to see her everyday with the new guy she is with now. A four year relationship doesn't end for a girl without her having a new love interest.
I guess if she's not willing to wait until I'm ready to marry her than she's not worth the wait. She's coming over now, I guess this is it.
Thanks guys
I'm struggling with Pure O obsessions of various kinds and I fear it can only get worse and I'll never truly be free. Is anyone else in this position/beaten it?
>>18644682
I have had a subtype of ocd, probably weaker than the actual diagnosis but an obsessive pain in the ass nonetheless. Just fight with it quietly. Ask yourself every time you check some shit for a millionth time : wtf ?, remove as much potential causes as possible and distract yourself with something. Count to ten and then say NO and stop.
Cognitive behaviour therapy.
>>18644699
I am on the waiting list to get it with a professional. I don't feel I can do it properly by myself, I have had it with contamination OCD but this feels unbeatable. Especially the sensorimotor obsessions.
It gets hard but it just slides next to my leg, it doesn't push up, my last erection like that was when I was 16, now I'm 22, is this over?
Go to the doctor and get your testosterone levels checked. You probably have low T.
My girlfriend and I have the same birthday. I'm exactly a year older than her and I'm turning 21. We've been together for 5-6 months
The issue I have is that I want to spend it with her. She says that she doesn't want to ruin my birthday because I should be drinking with my friends and that I wouldn't have fun at her party with her friends. I told her that it really hurt that she didn't want to be with me on our birthday, but she still doesn't want me to go. She just said she really didn't want to argue about it.
She parties a lot and her friends are kind of trashy party animals. I get why she might think that my personality might not mesh with these people, but it still doesn't mean she shouldn't try. I get along really well with almost everyone especially if it's at a party. It's almost like she's embarrassed of me or something. I actually can party really hard though even though I'm not always like that
Is this a huge red flag? Am I wrong to be really upset about this? What do you think?
Tell her straight that you want to spend your and her birthday together, and tell her it's important to you.
If she still says no, then add it to the list of reasons to end the relationship
>>18644689
I basically already did and she told me that I wouldn't have fun so she doesn't want me to be there
Also she says that she always gets mad at me when I'm drunk so she doesn't want me to drink. Her reasoning is that we always get into arguments when we're drunk, but that's an over exaggeration
Bump
I'm a post-secondary graduate and I've never been in a relationship before.
I don't understand how people have dates or start relationships since I've never done it myself, nor have I been taught. Since I never learned this important social lesson in the time the it was easiest to, is it now too late?
I'm not a robot or anything, I have friends and a job. I just can't figure out how to even approach the subject with a woman, even if I can talk to her without losing all composure.
I also hate bars and clubs, and I'm not attracted to the kind of girl who goes there. What do I do? How can I meet a girl I'd like and who would reciprocate my feelings?
I'm not at all attracted to the few women I work with, although its a moot point since they aren't single anyway.
Online dating is a meme and I've pretty much exhausted that approach at this point anyway
And even if I meet someone by some miracle, how do go from being somebody she's met to going on a date with her? How can I make that step without making her feel uncomfortable?
Is it too late for me?
Please help, /adv/
>>18644672
Rejection is probably going to happen and it's going to suck. Take chances despite all that.
you see girl that's pretty, you approach her and say things
you'll probably stutter and look like an idiot
if she's interested she'll overlook these things
that's all it is - you've just been terrified and hid from this aspect of things