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I have this problem and it's driving me mad but I don't know how to explain it.
Since me and my GF never have the chance of having sex in our homes since our parents are always there, she used to suck me off on the stairs of her building since rarely someone exits. One day I went limp while she was sucking me and ah well, I said no problemo because I was very tired. Never thought about it for the following week since I thought it was because I was tired. Next Saturday it was the same story. I was fully erected but as soon as she gave me an handjob I went limp. Since then i've felt the worst feeling ever, from March (when it happened) to today. I'm also feeling less turned on, even from porn. Still, I can cause myself an erection but it's weaker than before, and it's harder for me to have spontaneous erections. Has someone experienced something it? I'm thinking about going to an andrologist, but it's a bit scary for me, because I don't want to tell this to my parents, and I'm in my early eighteens, so I don't have a driving license to go there by myself (it's pretty far from my home, the nearest one is about two hours of bus).
Sorry for the big, unorganized wall of text, but I'm shaking as I'm writing this so it's a bit hard to organize my thoughts well. Will provide more details if needed

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I have an amazing job, I'm talented at my passion of choice, I have friends from all over who support me and love me, but while I have most of the things I've always wanted, I still feel like I'm not who I'm supposed to be.

There's a very good chance this is stemming from the fact that I've never had a healthy relationship with a woman. I've been taken advantage of horribly during all of them. Maybe it's the fact that I'm not exactly where I want to be at in my career.... I don't know. Something just feels wrong about all of this. I feel like I need a reboot.

Does anybody have any tips or suggestions or books on re-evaluating your life and goals?

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Please give me new games to play. I'm bored after hitting 2300 hours in gmod. Please keep in mind I'm looking for a single player game and please keep in mind my potato PC specs, pic related. pls no bully

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Im somewhat new here on 4chan (a year maybe).
I noticed the following:

There are threads where OP askes other anons to reply with something.
e.g. on /b/:
>ITT: we describe our sex live with movie titles
or on /g/:
>Screenfetch thread ! Show your screenfetch
Or the OP is asking for something related to the Lives or Person of the other anons.

Those Threads have a high reply rate but nobody is replying to each other.
Everbody is only interested to tell something about him/her self and it looks like nobody is reading posts.

Another example is currently the ylyl threads on /b/

What are those threads called? Are those indeed dead thread ?

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Few days ago I was on house party and there was a girl there that basicly forced herself on me at the end of it. We hooked up because I had nothing against her. I knew her for some time and we talked from time to time but mostly when in social gatherings. Should I contact her after that?

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I want to join FFL and I want to better my chances to be accepted. I do judo and boxing and I'm knowledgeable in bare-handed combat. I'm confident in my physical test what should i do more?

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>be me, 29
>send resumee to amazon
>didn't hope for any answer
>they actually send me an email
>answer the email
>They call me back
>I was sleeping so had a strange voice
>asked if I can take 4 days before the interview because I live far from them and I need to plan the trip
>tell that I have some problems
>the girl on the phone says "oooohhh you're so sweet <3".
>what.jpg
>she says "hurry up because I don't know if we make interviews on weekends"
>howthefuckyoudontknow.jpg
>think she's leading on me, say goodbye and that I'll call back to set up an appointment


The girl I talked with is in charge of making the interview. I think my autistic voice set up for a full failure. She knows I'm sleepy and dumb. At least, I'm well educated.

Thing is that now I'm embarassed and please help me understand that "you are so sweet", because it is an out of the world sentence, it was supposed to be a pre-interview call to set up a meeting, and maybe I was just having a hallucination... which is really fine. Because if even who's supposed to treat me like an adult shows up like a bitchy girl, there is no hope for me.

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>Work in HVAC with a buncha beaners
>Am fully assimilated bean with minimal understanding of spanish
>Wife is a NEET but works in education (is in between jobs atm)
>Make like 13hr
>Bretty good at what I do
>Diploma bro (HS)
>Born here so inb4 get some papers faggit
>My old man is my boss which allows a bit of wiggle room
>Owners are cool and coworkers are tolerable

Im not going to make much more at this company because we only get about a buck raise per year so I want to get into something that is going to pay more and I don't have to fuck around on the roof

Worked at this job about 3yrs so solid resume (I guess)

What are some jobs I can get into that don't require you to have prior experience? Something cool like a vet tech or whatever

I don't want to do work like an illegal if im not an illegal so any suggestions on getting into some different jobs that are decent starting pay and room for improvements/advancement would be great

>Houston fag so I don't know if that helps with suggestions

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How do I get over my irrational fear of calling the Student Loan Office? I need to get either a deferment, forbearance or reduction in my payment but I am deathly afraid to call them. I'm not even sure why.

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Hey guys, I've heard you like reading! I want to help my little brother (10yo) with his rather severe social problems: he is fat and lazy, spends most of his time playing stupid videogames and is afraid to go to school. He says he hates everyone and isn't honest even with his mother and me. He also once stole quite a large sum of cash from the family and gave it out to his classmates and spent some of it on vanity items in videogames. I suppose you already guessed that he doesn't have friends and doesn't go out to play outdoors. We live in a rather small town, there is no good enough psychologists, so I took it upon myself to help him, and ask in turn for your help in my endeavour, namely to find a proper good book on helping children like him.

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Has anyone managed to properly fall in love again after a great ex girlfriend?

My last girlfriend was so great, that I legitimately felt like killing myself after it ended. Been empty inside for a year for the most part.

I've dated and partied with a wide array if women, and I'd say only one managed to make me feel weak at the knees. Of course she was here on a tourist visa for only a few months.

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I am a young man, and i have no experience, so how can I get a job? What do the people hiring mainly look at?

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Please educate someone like me who has never been in a relationship before about what I should know or should have learned by now.
I really don't want to ruin my first relationships by being inexperienced.

If you want some background info
I'm 21, male, going to uni, not a NEET and had girls interested in me. I was just too pussy to make something happen. I'm also introverted and secluded although I have friends inviting me to parties and whatever. I'm not shy.

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Ex-NEET here: besides wearing earings, painting my nails and doing my eyebrows what should I do to make me look "tidy", like I "care" and like someone you wouldn't treat like trash? These three things aren't enough it seems.

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So I'm eating a pretzel rod, Clancy's, and suddenly I feel a tiny bit of something that DEFINITELY ain't a pretzel rod bit. I stopped chewing immediately and rolled the thing out of my mouth from the pretzel stuff.
Turns out it's part of one of my back upper left teeth, since I feel something missing and something sharp. It wasn't bleeding at all and it doesn't hurt any different from before, nor did it hurt at the moment I felt it.
This happened on Saturday, and I'm waiting on a date from my dentist. I also probably had a filling in that area. There were no indications of a cavity from my last visit but they were concerned about my inflamed gums from not flossing enough.
Before any of that, what can anyone tell me about this? Like, why'd that happen? What does it indicate for the future? Should I get some work done on it?
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