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That fetish is more common than you think

>>18646173
It's ok Anon this fetish is pretty common ;)

Instead of doing something stupid like dating a girl because of her major you should date someone who has similar interests and values as you.

>>18646162
There are far too many variables to accurately answer that question.

Even with the proper information, this is a dumb question to ask. People are different, and what major they choose in college is a horrible criteria to judge people by.

>>18646162
gender studies

Bump again

Is she happy with you?

Are you absolutely sure you would be ok with her dating someone else? Even if you did get back together, you're sure this won't fuck with you?

>>18646175
She is happy with me (At least I believe so)
I'm not sure I'm OK with her dating someone else, and I'm scared it'll mess me up. There's all kinda shit about relationships that were saved like this but it's all pretty fucking scary.

Sorry, the question is
It's normal to have dreams like this?
What should i do?

I dream about my ex after a breakup too. I'd say it's normal. You'll get over it in about a month or so. If you're feeling good enough to start dating again, go for it.

>>18646131
It's been 2 months
I really want to have another girl, but i know I'm not ready and I would only break hearts

>>18646111
Your dad is pushing you to pay for your own shit.

You are posting on 4chan. Surely you have some idea that there's a shit ton of kids living at home with no job no gf and no ambition. We have an abundance of that.

There is no golden rulebook on parenting. Likely his dad did the same and felt it was a valuable lesson. My dad did the same. Felt much less bitter after I started to pay for my own shit.

If you really *need* your phone tell him what you've got lined up to not become a loser. He's more likely to lighten up with reason than just whiny 'well that's not fair' comments.

>>18646125
I understand that he wants me to pay for my own but he also knows I'm actively searching for a job and the job I'm getting in a month is because of his old contacts and I'm thankful for that.

You're part right. His dad was absolute shit with him. Grandma has told me that.

He fucking actually knows what my near future is and he still acts like he's the big boss around. I don't have a problem in that when he does that to my sister but he just makes me feel like shit even when we have a talk. He even goes to say I'm pathetic and won't reach anywhere. Even my mom says that he's going a bit far.

Yes i know these all seem like a rant but man, I don't actually see a use in speaking with him anymore. I don't even talk much to him nowadays, heck for the past 2 years actually. I mostly communicate with my mom and through her actually.

>>18646161
Usually fathers are harder on their sons than daughters. Sounds like he might have good intentions but is being a bit rough. Same as my dad was. He was a bitch but lightened up and apologized when I was in my late 20's.

Usually fathers are harder on sons than daughters.

I would try to reason through your mom first. Worst case scenario you tell him you want your phone back say you'll pay him (for what it's worth as an old used phone) once you start making money.

Traditionally religion, science, and philosophy were not serparated.

Stop looking at religious texts literally.

Read The Secret Teaching of All Ages by Manly Hall before becoming an unbearable nihilistic suicidal edgy cunt

Strait up tell them you do not believe in Christianity. Don't be an idiot and start talking about science because like >>18646112 said they are not separate and can co-exist.

I don't really know why all these american kids feel the need to tell their parents that they don't believe in god. I guess their parents must be more hc Christians, mine are orthodox and I've never felt any need to tell them that I'm an atheist.

This is how it goes:
First find out if your parents are reasonable.

Will they kick you out of the house if you say you're an atheist?

Will they forcibly try to get you to go to church or decrease your quality of life because of it?

At the very least there will be some cringy arguments at the dinner table for months, so just gauge how much they will fuck on you for not believing in their religion and decide for yourself, you've known these people for 16 years, thats more than enough time to decide.

Definitely. But you'll need to get past the ridiculous notion that being inexperienced at 25 is supposed to somehow make you less desirable. That is only in your head, and as long as you continue to believe that, then it will manifest artificially and hinder you and bring your own ego down with baseless assumptions about yourself and the people you date.

You'll even find that there are women out there that would be thrilled to show you some of the exciting things you think you've been missing out on

>fuck a hooker, to get rid of the stench of virginity
>be attractive
>fuck sluts at clubs/on tinder

you don't care if she enjoyed it, they're just one night stand sluts, you'll get better at it with time

>>18646157
I mean this is uplifting but I've read women asked about this and most reply that they'd assume something was wrong with the guy if he was a virgin so late in life, and that they prefer experienced partners. And let's not forget virgin is like the first insult a female tells to a man.

I know it shouldn't affect me but it does.

>>18646339
I'm really not attractive nor confident enough to pull off one night stands. And I'd prefer if my first time was with somebody that liked me back.

Why don't you just think critically about what you're learning instead of sitting and reading someone else's views on the material?

>>18646101
Stupid young neet with little perspective on the world. I would like to read more outside material and gain broader knowledge than what I've just been simply taught.

>>18646106
Which is why you think critically about what you're being taught, you fuckwit.

>>18646070
In this economy you're going to be unemployable when you graduate whatever your major is. So you might as well study something you'll enjoy while you're doing it

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>>18646066
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose.

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>>18646066
>you've completely given up
>nothing will ever be good again
>it almost certainly would be better for me to be dead in every respect.
If you are sure nothing can change why are you asking for an advice...? Or could it be you believe there is still a chance?

Now tell us: What is wrong? What kind of things are wrong in your life?

>>18646234
everything is wrong. i have no reason to do anything. nothing i ever want i could ever have. there is no point trying to do anything because it'll all mean nothing at the end. and the loneliness is crushing me

>>18646057
Well since it's sunburn it's probably not your genetics, people that drink, eat lots of junk food, and smoke are destroying their insides; they will eventually regret it. If you want to try something that will 100% help your dry skin, use Betaderm (betamethasone valerate) cream, I was plastering my face with moisturizers and decided to use this (it was supposed to be for my eczema but cleared that skin up) and my skin is very soft and moisturized now. I have not been using it a long time, a couple days. Before I used it my face was so dry it looked like I had forehead wrinkles, and my skin was visibly dry and peeling but now the wrinkles are gone. It also MAY help with acne, for that problem just make sure you aren't washing your face too much, it might be because of overcompensation that it's happening. I had tons of tiny pimples and teva-doxycycline cleared it up very fast, two weeks. These products together would cost around $70-80 together

>>18646057
Get a proper skincare.
>Vitamin C
>Retinol
>Peptides
>SUNSCREEN (DAILY)

There are tons of very light moisturisers that you can use and won't break you out. Just find out which one works for you.

>>18646050
>3 holes (oral, anal, mouth)
Did you think this through anon

>>18646063
haha, mistake.

I meant: vaginal, oral and anal.

Do you hear people talking about Chads in the real world unironically?

yea, only that its not like what you little shitters think

they dont need to be jacked or part of the sports team, generally 30+, with a well paying job prestigous job (doctors, lawyers, soldiers for with "love a man in uniform), a handsome face and charm that women from age 14-99 lust after

they are adult man who do not have to flick a finger and women get interested in them

Do attractive, successful men exist? Yes.
Does your fantasy of people with lives that are perfect in every conceivable way exist? No.

I hate going to barber shops so I just cut my hair myself. It tends to look shitty after a while. I do occasionally get a little self conscious when I see a dude with a sharp crisp hair line. But, sitting in those barber shops for hours is uh. Not worth it.

I've seen a lot of nerds of different ethnicities with fucked up looking hair, too. These are also the type that seem to care less about their appearance.

>>18646127
>But, sitting in those barber shops for hours is uh. Not worth it.

Make an appointment or find out when the barber is not usually not busy and stop in then. Haircuts only take like 15 minutes.