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I got tunnel vision and passed out at a train station. I think this was because I didn't have time to eat or drink anything earlier in the day. The subway worker called an ambulance and made a report. The ambulance took over and drove me to the hospital. When I got to the emergency room I waited for an hour and was told that it would take a few more hours for a room to be available so I just left, since I was feeling better by then (having ate/drank and given ice), but I never got a hospital note, since only the doctor can do that and I never saw one.

It was just a one time thing, but now my boss is asking for medical papers. Can I show up tomorrow with proof from the subway stations report and a receipt from the ambulance to show that I was actually not alright?
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It looks really bad for you to be taken to the ambulance and then walk out while missing work.
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>>17562774

Just explain the situation. If anything he'll might insist that you follow up with a general practitioner, who might work you up for diabeetus or anemia. If he sends you back to work without a doc's note, then he could be liable if you pass out again and get injured at work

If you dont have insurance and money is tight, just forge it. I'm a doctor and no boss has ever called my office asking about an employee's doctor's note

I recommend getting evaluated though
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Almost definitely okay.

I had a bad breakup about four months ago. During that timespan I wrote advice to myself to cope. Thoughts /adv/?

•An action towards your significant other can be benevolent, but the road to hell is paved with benevolent intentions.

•Your action can be in all truth helpful and beneficial to the other person. However this does not mean they will ever see that this way. Just as the drug addict can hate the person who forces them off their poison.

•Many people think relationships end because you stopped loving the other. This is wrong, they end because one to the other stopped being a friend to the other. Love is what takes the friendship to a higher plane.

•"I trust them", i hear one say. Yet you are surprised when the thin ice you skate on cracks.

•Total compatibility with another can only be found in the cemetery.

•When loving another do not forget about loving yourself

•Avoid those who cling to you. Avoiding the Leech means you have do not need to worry about the pain that comes when peeling it off. If you do not avoid the Leech then you become drained trying to fix them. When they leave you'll be nothing more than a soulless husk.

•Avoid those who seek constant attention. They seek attention more then they do love.

•If they wander to someone else without a mutual consent then do not let them back. You weren't very interesting to them in the first place.

•A Bleeding Heart has not a place in a relationship
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You're Chinese, I assume?
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>>17562778
White
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Sounds like solid advice.

What seems to be the problem?

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I think I was manipulated by a girl and I'm trying to figure out how to fix the situation she led me in.

>be me at a social gathering
>girl who's dating a cuck from group takes me upstairs, she gives me all these compliments like how when she first saw me she thought i was electric and i'm a head turner
>she starts telling me all this sappy shit about her life, and i start crying (embarrassing) and she goes to hug me
>friend comes in and thinks that the girl is comforting me
>i'm fucked up from this emotional draining, she also tells me how i have so much dignity and i always do the right thing
>i continue on a bender the next night and become an emotional wreck
>I see her again, and she completely trashes her boyfriends brother (who is dating a good friend), I agree with her, and she convinces me to tell my friend to break up with him
>I do this, and on top of the mess I made i butted in her relationship
>she adds in that I should tell my other friend that her boyfriend is a cheater (i don't give a shit) but she insists
>she then tells me to delete my social media (i'm kind of scared at this point) and do it (i still wonder what the purpose of that was)
>she begs me not discuss what she said because she is good friends with the first boyfriends mother (she is dating her other son)
>she was good emotional support for a good week, knows way too much about my past which makes me feel indebted to her
>she says she cant talk to me anymore because her boyfriends family hates me (im sure they do)
>stops contact
>i realise I've been fucked over
>my friends aren't talking to me even if I did want to explain
>how do I get out of this situation?!?!?
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Find new friends.

You been fucked over.
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>>17562757

God I hate people I had to stop reading this wall of text. The only answer is to kill her and then yourself.
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>>17562762
yes i know. but my friend I've had for a decade. i'm desperate to rectify the situation. this happened like 3 months ago

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Is it weird to want to join a uni club even though you graduated from said university 4 months ago.I don't see the problem but im wondering if its weird being a graduate and joining a club.
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Don't tell them you are a graduate dude and you are good.

Is it wierd? No.
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>>17562743

Yes, it's incredibly weird and sad, don't do it, you have no reason to be there anymore.
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>>17562793
Why is it sad though i have no other way to meet these kind of people

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Do any anons have any insight on buying a small home or land? I've saved up just over $25,000 and I want to buy a small piece of property around North Carolina or some of its neighboring states to be 'homebase' for my mom to live on eventually and also to build a storage shed on in the meantime to put her stuff in.

My credit is absolute shit and no one in my family has ever done anything like this before. Where do I start?
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You want to build a hoarders den for your mother? Where is she storing all her shit in then, if she needs this new home?

White trash, I will never understand, and I've lived i east TN my whole life.
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for 25k you're not going to get much. maybe 5-10 acres in a bumfuck area likely without a power hookup and certainly with no water

I mean it's still possible, you can buy a little piece of land and drill a well and look into buying a generator and/or a windmill/solar

as far as living accommodations you can buy a used trailer house for pretty cheap, sometimes under 10k
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>>17562747
Are all livable plots with access to power that out of my budget?

So sometimes you can get a cheap trailer for under 10k (not including the land to park it on).. I had hoped eventually when I earn more I could build a house on whatever land I get.

Well I definitely don't need that many acres.. Saving up more is certainly an option as well (although I have a big incentive to get started now). What's the path I should look into do you think?

>>17562732
you're making alot of assumptions and I don't feel you're entitled to be corrected on them so please just fuck off

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Sup /adv/

4 Months ago i was broke and NEET, my friend invited me to went out and meet this qt and after two weeks we became in a a relationship a month after that i became clean and finally have a job..im happy i am better than even i was before. I feel great everyday specially knowing that someone like her would support me even tho she know my situation before, she believed in me. cont.
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>>17562692

So when i finally have a job, i met this girl whos my current worker...shes sweet and shes also beautiful its been 3 months since ive worked with her and were both new at the company it kinda sucks that im starting to have feeling for her.

Before i met her she already has bf but few weeks ago they broke up because he was cheating on her, i felt sad and wanted to comfort her but i know that what im doing is basically wrong because i have priorities now, also i feel sad for her because our boss is also giving her shit everyday and now shes deciding to leave. She met a new guy obviously shes happy with him hanging out with him. I just cant stop feeling bummed seeing her happy with someone. I know i still love my girlfriend but this girl i feel something for her too...

I need help on dealing with this situation
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What do you mean you need help you idiot? You have a girl and a job, stop trying to fuck everything up.

Ditch the girl and stay with the girl that loves your sorry ass.
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>>17562710
Should i hold on to what i feel till she finally leave? she only has 5more days to stay here before she quits the job...im lost.. i love my girlfriend, because of her i wouldnt be a man i am right now (clean, happy, has a job etc) but i also feel angry about myself having feelings for my co worker, she likes me too but she knows that my girlfriend really loves me.

My girlfriend and i fought a couple times now because of her, i know its my own fault. Man i really do love my gf but at the same time i feel something for my coworker too. Its making me feel shit seeing my coworker happy with a new guy, he seems good and probably wont hurt her..

i hate this feeling /adv/ i feel heavy on my chest all the time.

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>depressed
>ex fiancée cheated on me
>12k in debt
>live in shitty house with shitty people cause cheating ex kicked me outa apartment
>wakemeupinside.jpg
>dunno how to deal with this at this point

What do you guys usually do when you're extremely stressed and need to relief? I've been thinking of taking a few days off to go camp and try to clear my head.
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Smoke small amount of pot.
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>>17562670
Jerk off until I have a headache and I'm dehydrated
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getting out into nature is great. there is nothing like getting a fire going and cooking some food over it. going for little hikes around the campsite. looking up at the stars. If I'm going camping alone I like to bring a radio and pick up some local stations and listen late at night

also props on the grammatically correct spelling of fiancée.

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So today I was messing with a friend and I guess even though we were playing earlier I just annoyed her for a second and she called me a piece of shit and an unsympathetic asshole etc.
I know I can be a jackass but shit we were just getting along and all but after that I just sat down silently then walked out because I was really pissed about what she did.

The thing is she's not the first person to do that last year I asked a friend for advice and he started blaming me for all of his problems and stopped talking to me but months later asked me to play video games with him and I didn't want shit to do with him after that argument.
I told one friend who was rude to fuck off because he was disrespectful and cheap then he sent me death threats later on and was harassing me for months, still thinks it's funny to call me sometimes.
I made friends with a pothead (now cokehead) and we got along really well but he started being extremely rude and blamed me when his druggie friends stole from me. told him to fuck off, he later called me apologizing but could see I couldn't care less.
I got along really well with this one other chick for a few months but she cut me off and when I messaged her she told me I made her uncomfortable and just tells me bye (that was the second time she actually did that)
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It is you dude, not them.
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It's you and them. You're a scumbag so the only people who will give you time of day are scumbags as well
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Now this chick is a lot more difficult but Idk if I'm really doing something wrong or if she's a bitch. I've known her since high school sometimes she tells me I'm fine but is constantly annoyed with me to the point where she won't respond half the time and at one point I asked her bf if I should stop talking with her and he says she's just upset but like two weeks later she makes me sit down with her and tells me how shitty I am and how I make other people uncomfortable.
She'll talk about how she really hated her job or depressed so I visit and call her and we get along when I visit her but sometimes she doesn't seem to care when I call or she seems annoyed about the stuff I bring up when we talk. I visit her on her bday and she didn't really give a shit. And I liked talking with her but it seems like she doesn't care half the time but when I say something about my insecurities or how I feel I'm doing something wrong she tells me I'm fine.
I don't understand people at all it's pretty annoying how shit keeps happening.

People are constantly giving me shit in life but (((community))) college is the only place I've noticed I seem to get along with people without problem even though I don't like it at all yet she says I'm just a shit causer for her.

Is it really me or just me making bad choices surrounding myself with awful people

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I keep absolutely destroying her like 4 times a week. Afterwards she locks herself in the bathroom and cries. Last night she cried for 3 hours. I am getting sick of this but she keeps asking me to play Halo with her and she takes it really seriously. Should I just let her win?
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Yeah, just beat her at street fighter from now on. Round house kicks and uppercuts are effective, but nothing is better than hitting her with fire.
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I'd say you keep putting her in her place.
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Tell her she needs to git gud

share, comment, advise
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>>17562623
oh fugg finally a thread for me

>tfw porn no longer excites you
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>be me
>have a girl you like
>known her all your life
>just recently started to develop feelings for her
>a few months ago
>found out what college she was going to attend
>was a shitty community college (she didn't do well in school/poor family)
>had already been accepted into dream school
>my school in different state
>still hadn't told her my feelings
>get really worried she might get boyfriend while we're apart
>decide fuck it
>I only get one first love
>apply to shitty community college
>get in easy ( naturally)
>a few months later
>almost time for school to start
>hear that girl I like is in mental hospital
>not sure for how long
>mfw


...

>be me
>lost girl I like
>lost dream school
>stuck in shitty college I hate
>constantly reminded of mistakes
>broken man.avi
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>Girlfriend blurts out best friends name during sex
>Huge argument happens and we say some stuff
>I break it off and tell her to fuck off
>Tells me she was faking it the entire time, my friend has a bigger dick and that my friends talk shit behind my back

>Also my little sister is starting to dress more promiscuous
>Be me coming back from uni
>See kid sister in the bus terminal at the far side
>Hide so she doesn't see me
>Dating some hipster looking fag who is rubbing his hand on her ass and kissing her
>Go up to her and tell her to come with me right now
>Tells me to fuck off and stop being a pest in the terminal
>People look and I am embarrassed
>Walk home in the rain because too embarrassed to stay there

>Found out I failed my lab

FUCK
>

I know I can do it if I try enough times

I'm a virgin and I wanna fuck already, pure and simple

What are the odds this would result in hiv or even worse aids?
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Condom always you stupid fuck. Never EVER rawdog some slag you meet in a party. Always wear protection.

You don't want to end up like my friend who got drunk, fucked some chubby chick and now he has a land whale as his baby momma.
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hiv and aids are the same disease, aids is just a more advanced state

as to your question that's self destructive behavior, I've been there and would advise against it. I remember back in the summer of 2009 when I was going through a lot of problems with depression I was going out every night and waking up in someone else's bed every morning. That might sound glamorous, but it was extremely unhealthy and did nothing but create more problems.
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>>17562618
If she doesn't know my real name and we met at some random club downtown, and she doesn't have my number, then there's no way she could track me down

what worries me is dying via stds

>>17562626
I know but aids is still worse

Cause like I wonder if the odds are similar to getting in a car crash, or more like getting blue on one of those spin wheel game show things

How do I deal with a long distance relationship anons? Me and my so of two years recently moved off into different universities, and I'm having a ton of trouble adjusting to this. Like I'm one of those people who if you asked, "would you consider being in a long distance relationship?" I would tell you hell no hands down. But continuing our relationship meant falling into one. But she means the world to me, and I've nearly convinced myself she's better off without me. I've told her that I'm having a hard time and I know she misses me too. I guess it's relevant information that I wanted but felt guilty for wanting that she come to the same university I went to. I feel like she made the smart choice but I'm conflicted because in the still quiet moments of the night I catch myself wishing she were here. I feel guilty for wanting that because it feels utterly selfish.

I just dunno anymore what's worth it to me, and I'd like to hear if any of you have had similar issues or situations? I feel like it'd be helpful to see how other people tried to deal.
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>>17562526
Kenny Despot,is that you?
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>>17562539
Aw darn, ya caught me!
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>>17562526
Is that your face?

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Ok so i need help, pretty sure i fucked up texting this girl when i misinterpreted the first text to be a late text. Should i text her Tommorow

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Please send help

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How do i stop my hate for jews? I'm not even right wing, i have nothing against asians, southern americans, black people and hell, i ain't even got shit against arabs, i'm pretty much a liberal or some shit like that (don't really care about politics) and i recognize that it's stupid to hate a whole fucking race but whenever someone's discussing about Israel and jews i can't help but get mad like a bitch and associate them to those bad stereotypes of le happy merchant and bad people. This is quite a problem since i also have friends with jewish origins and i'm afraid of letting some of this antisemitic bullshit accidentally slip in front of em.
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>>17562454
Pretend they don't exist. Works for me.
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>>17562454
Just realize that it's racism and is inherently irrational. Im Jewish, and I personally find many of the things Israel does truly disgusting, but they don't do those things because that's just how Jews are, they do it because they have shit leaders who always take the easy way instead of making hard choices, exactly the same as every other country.

And ive seen no evidence of some big global Jewish conspiracy, but if there is one then man I am seriously squandering my Judaism.
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>>17562472
The problem is that i do realize it but it won't help. I think i finally got it but whenever the Israel topic pops up BAM here come the bad thoughts.

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My coworker at a supermarket always greets me when we make eye contact. She always says "Hi (my name)" and looks happy. I my self am pretty shy and have hard time talking to people. She has told me a few times that I don't talk much and that I should talk more. I like her, but i'm not sure if she likes me back, or she just being friendly. What do you guys think?
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>>17562434
The only way to tell is to either talk to her more, or ask her on a date. It's perfectly possible she's just being nice.
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>>17562434
Until she gives you her number or asks you for a date, assume she's being nice LIKE SHE IS PAID TO BE.
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>>17562434
my bet is she is just scared of you being one of those random shooters,
so she is just buying herself a "survivor" ticket

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