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>>18651370

Join a mushroom hunting group or something like that

> free food
> Free company

>>18651370
4chan? reddit? some random meetup?
I'm asocial, so my opinion is worthless, but have a bump

The fact that a large concern of yours is "is she a slut" when you literally haven't even talked to her indicates that you have no chance in hell of dating her.

>>18651361
if she doesn't make eye contact with you and doesn't smile back when you smile at her then she isn't interrested in you and you should probably keep your distance.

you could ask her for notes at the end of a class and gauge her reaction. if she isn't smilling then forget it.

How can you tell if she's a slut or not without even talking to her?

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Damn your balls don't hurt from that shit?

>>18651395
Sometimes, i had to knock it down to like 3 today.

I only do it 2-3 times and i'm pretty normal.

>>18651353
Bump for interest.

>>18651353
Hang out with the students that come in late and never know what they are doing.

Dress properly and join all parties that you can, uninvited and without having close relationships with anybody. When in the party, talk a lot about anime and attack people using your favourite character's move. People will look upon you and say "Wow, Jimmie, what a guy!"

No, just kidding. No reason to party unless you feel very comfortable. And if you wanna feel comfortable you need to have built good telationships with a few guys. Or if you really, really wanna party (reason???) join uninvited and have an unforgettable awkward experience

>>18651352
It's just way too dangerous and you need to storage this whole radioactive waste

ask /pol/

APgov was one of my easiest classes, but that might be because of my teacher. Just have a basic understanding of American history along with knowing the three branches of govt. and what they do, get used to writing FAQs/DBQ's and study a couple times a week.

English lit is fun if you like reading, and isn't fun if you don't. It's difficulty entirely depends on how well you can analyze writing.

No idea about engineering.

>>18651344
>no math course
>no science like physics or chem

you're on easy street kid

>AP Government
>AP Economics

You're wasting your time.

Looking at those personals and backpages is your way of indulging with the fantasy of dicking someone else. I personally don't see anything wrong with this.. it's akin to watching porn to get yourself off.

I get urges like that too, and it comes down to me just being horny. I have no intention of leaving or fucking things up with my girl, but the thought of fucking other women crosses my mind a lot. But I get over it. I even remind myself why I shouldn't fuck up a good thing and move on.

But be careful though. The more you 'indulge' into this fantasy, the more likely you might be to act on it if the opportunity ever arises.

And finally, don't cheat on her. If you really want to fuck other people then do the right thing and break up with her.

I usually have thoughts of cheating when I'm withdrawing from the relationship, but that's just me.

>>18651345
Thanks for your input, I think you put it quite aptly that browsing is my way indulging in the fantasy of cheating, it definitely orients me in that direction. You're also right, if I am going to cheat I should just break up with her, thanks.

be a cam whore

>>18651326
What if I'm a fat dude with a small penis.

>>18651329
looks like you're gonna have to go out and get a job then

I'm coming out of the same thing OP. I'm old, and the past three decades of my life have been shit. You gotta work on yourself, you gotta exercise and take care of yourself man. Find something to do that addresses how you feel directly. Maybe that's painting, or making time to be outside, or volunteering or something. Whatever it is, you need to start taking control of your life, one aspect at a time. I can promise if you do that, it will get better. Not right away, but it will happen.

I'm in the same boat. Ready to off myself tonight.

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>>18651319
I grew up playing video games and spending time with friends, going outside, going to local shows, now I can't do anything, nothing is truly enjoyable to me. So I decided to put all my interest into love, being in love made the sun shine in my life like I was a kid again, food tasted good again, tv movies and video games inspired me again, music actually sounded pleasant again. But then you forget that people aren't to be trusted. Nothing can fill this void in me, I'm back to my old self just sitting and staring at the ceiling. No calls or texts in my phone, just notification from spam emails and youtube uploads. Life is bleak and dark OP. You can try and fill your void like I did but failing feels worse than never trying at all. Maybe we were just meant to go with the motions until our inevitable demise. People like us weren't meant for this life, we don't belong. Society accepts us because we are able to work and contribute but that's the most value we'll ever have in the grand scheme. I know this doesn't help, but you aren't alone.

Transfer to your computer via USB

Get a haircut, take a shower and become confident. This will solve itself then.

>>18651270
Not him, but I always take a shower, I just got my haircut today coincidentally, and there's no confidence in the world that I'm in.

>>18651270
I always shower and regularly cut my hair. I understand the confidence part, but that doesn't tell me anything. It isn't about being shy, it's about not understanding how to go about it logistically. Who would be a good person to approach in a random area? What should I say to initiate conversation? Where would be a good place to do any of this? I can go up to someone in a park and say "Hey, how are you?" but that just feels weird to me since there isn't much apparent context or reason for starting conversation.

If she wants to break up with you, she's going to break up with you. It doesn't matter how much you think "I'll always wonder what it's like to date other people" is a meme, if she feels that way, there's nothing you can do about it.

>Should I just break up?
What, just so you can say you were the dumper instead of the dumpee? Because after all that waffle you just spewed about how well you work together, that seems to be the only reason you'd want to break up with her.

If a job is the only thing keeping the future secure with her, and she doesn't like your family (and you felt the need to mention that because it obviously matters) then it's probably fucked. You sound young so I doubt you'll commit to going to therapy so there's no use in telling that. Just suck it up and see what happens at the interview, she sounds like she's gonna put her foot down and you're going to let her.

>>18651254
I'm asking because it is her doing the majority of the waffling. I'm not going to bullshit you and say I don't have mixed feelings as well. I just know I'd like to give it a shot. When I try and get a more direct answer it's always "I don't know what to do. I love you but what if it won't work?"

Let me try and condense. If someone says things like "I feel like I could have regrets or I'm not sure I see a future" is this a normal sort of "dark midnight of the soul" or just a precursor to breaking up?

I don't know what else to tell her. I;ve already said "people always wonder what the other grass is like, I do to, but I feel I can choose to be happy with you. I have no way of telling you what dating other people is like. Please, just make a choice here because I'm not going to be your stand by back up plan."

>>18651265
I just what a straight answer. I wish she would do something so certain, it would be a relief.

Sometimes I can't wait to get to the toilet to get away from my girlfriend for a little bit and fuck around on my phone. Don't get me wrong, I live with her and I love her, but there's nothing like relaxing on the shitter.

That said, just hang out on the john while you browse 4chan until it all comes out. But since you actually enjoy holding it in.. what's the problem?

>>18651244
Holding your poop is bad for you.

>>18651644
How???

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>>18651220
Google: "how to [insert thing you want to be able to do]"

>because I wasn't motivated enough
I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess this is your problem for everything. You can learn to cook. You can learn how to tackle job interviews (although I don't think that particular question was the reason they rejected you). You can learn more things and become more well rounded. But you need to get out there and do it. You might not have all the confidence now, and you probably think attempting is futile, but you NEED to know that it's okay to fail. It's OKAY TO FAIL, just pick yourself up and try again. And if it comes time to call it quits, at the very least you probably learned something and that already makes you
a better person.

What's not okay is not trying at all. That ensures you'll be as useless as you think you are.

When thrown into the wild, you'll figure out how to survive anon.

>Can't cook
I highly doubt you've ever actually given it a good shot to learn. Pull up some recipes online and practice till it's good.

>Job interview
Well, now you know how to answer that question don't you? Failure is progress anon.

>5 year old
This is a valid issue, the only thing I've got for this point in specific is you'll get into a routine eventually and you'll understand shit the more you work at it.

>Social skills/awkwardness/confidence/insecurity
>Aka the rest of what you put there
Practice practice practice. The ONLY way to get better at socializing is to just do it. There is no way around it, you have to go out there, fail, and succeed.

>I've been tackling all these problems at once
Don't do that. Baby steps, one thing at a time. Learning to cook is probably the easiest thing you put up there, start with that.

> With some of these problems I don't even know how to solve them?
All of them are solved with practice. And I mean putting in a real honest try, not half assing it once and giving up because you are embarrassed.

Take the time you need to recover, but you need to never lose sight of the future. It might be frightening to try to pick your life back up again and carry on, but the alternative is to live in a shell doing nothing until you die.

>>18651224
Agreed, I'd say start by picking up a minimum wage job or something to test the waters and re accumulate yourself with a schedule, learning new task ect. ect.

But one thing you gotta remember is recovery time is NOT wasted time if that makes sense, that idea is what gave my mom a second heart attack in two months. Good luck to you anon

>>18651215
Go to college as soon as you are ready, do not become a NEET