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Hey guys, I need your advice on something. So a few months ago, my cousin introduced me to a girl who he had dated briefly over a year before. After giving me her number, I decided to contact her. The first few days were very promising and I assumed we were both into each other. We went out to play soccer a few times (she plays for a private soccer club) and grabbed food a few times, facetimed etc. I was surprised when she began to get distant from me, so I told her how I felt about her as nonchalantly as I could. She essentially said that she thought I was a "sweet guy" but that I was too similar to my cousin, so she couldn't date me. When summer came, she began ignoring me and talking with my cousin more frequently. After only a few weeks, she blocked me on all social media, and hasn't talked to me since. Last night, I was out with that same cousin and I just so happened to bump into that same girl. She didn't really get a good look at me since I was in the passengers seat of the car while she was on the other side. My cousin and her exchanged some basic pleasantries and we split ways. I didn't say a word the whole time.


So the question: Did I misplay the whole situation? Should I have confronted her? Lastly, was it a mistake to date someone so close to my cousin?
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>>18649325
Confront her about what?

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Hey 4chan please help me. I have the chance to film inside a $6million dollar castle that's based off everything Harry Potter. We were going to make a short film since we have all day to film but last minute one actor flaked. So now the film is cancelled but we still have all day to film. Please you creative people out there what can I come up with? Film should not be longer than 5 min. Please people I call on your 4chan force to muster something up. We start film tomorrow. Please text my text free number any good ideas. For the ppl that will just send me bullshit just please don't overdo it. I don't even care. Text me 91six 6one7 six13five help a fellow anon. This can make or break my film career.
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do something serious tempered by humor

see: the naked gun
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>>18649331
This. Comedy reels people in. Idk take somthing serious in Harry Potter and poke fun at it
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>>18649331
>>18649351
>make or break film career
>comedy
that being said i don’t have any ideas

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I know you guys aren't doctors but mine just came back from vacation and won't be available for the next 2 weeks.

I got a crazy 2-day fever with all of the typical symptoms that come with one. When I woke up this morning, the fever was gone but my neck was super inflated and sore.

I definitely have something going on with my tonsils. Pics are awful but there are actually fissures running though the stones.
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For some reason my tongue can't seem to cooperate but you can see how inflated they are here.
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>>18649262
medfag here

thats textbook strep throat, you need to go to a doctor and get a RX for antibiotic, most likely amoxicillin

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I am deathly afraid of dying; to the point where if I think about death, I WON'T be able to fall asleep. My anxiety will kick up and I'll lay in bed for hours just thinking of death.

I am so anxious of death that I want to die, just so I don't ever witness the death of my patents or loved ones.

I can't cope with death. I can't cope with other people dying.

Its ironic because, I want to be dead, so I never have to witness dying.

I don't know what to do. Its 5am right now and its all I can think about.
This is a typical night for me.

I'm so worried and anxious and scared all the time. I am worried my sleep deprivation will make me hallucinate demons and spirits.

I'll never sleep again if my brain goes so faulty I start believing in demons and hell and what not.

Fuck I need therapy but can't get any.

Someone help me please
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>>18649250
Rest My Darling. Be Joyful And Spend Time With Those You Love.
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>>18649263
Funny you post a mushroom because I've been considering doing LSD or Shrooms, cause supposedly it can reset your neurone connections and help lessen depression and anxiety when used in a controlled space (supposedly e.t.c)

But I am scared of a bad trip. I am afraid to fuel the fire that's already burning bright .

I did read once, "we are here for a good time, not a long time". And it helped, a little. But my pain is hard to manage.
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Fear to death is one of the reasons religion exists

'Subject to birth, subject to aging,
subject to death,
run-of-the-mill people
are repelled by those who suffer
from that to which they are subject.
And if I were to be repelled
by beings subject to these things,
it would not be fitting for me,
living as they do.'
As I maintained this attitude —
knowing the Dhamma
without acquisitions —
I overcame all intoxication
with health, youth, & life
as one who sees
renunciation as rest.
For me, energy arose,
Unbinding was clearly seen.
There's now no way
I could partake of sensual pleasures.
Having followed the holy life,
I will not return.
AN 3.38
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.038.than.html

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Does anyone have a fair understanding of air quality and how to examine it?

I have a very weak respiratory system and this new house I moved into has been giving me a hard time in that area.

I'm sure I can just buy some random stuff off Amazon, but was hoping to find someone who could point me in a good direction on what kind of stuff I should purchase or look for to help me with this.

Any help appreciated.
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There are lots of things and habits to look into when it comes to air quality:
-Does the new house have carpets? Replace them with tile or wood flooring.
-Does the house have a ventilation system? Get it checked and cleaned out.
-Are the windows and doors insulated? Check and make sure they are sealed tight.
-Do you have a air purifier? Make sure you get one with a HEPA filter.
-Clean surfaces with a damp cloth and not a dry one.
-Roll you bed sheets off the bed, dont toss them off as they are major dust collectors.
-Vacuum often. Preferably with a vacuum that has a HEPA filter.
-Get low maintenance plants that improve the air quality.
-Is the house near a highway or other high traffic area. Dust kicked up has a habit of lingering in the air.
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>>18649752
Most of those are negative, though I'll have to check the vacuum, it isn't used much now since everything in the new place is hardwood/tile, also interesting point about the bed sheets.

We just found a leak in the roof which buckled floorboards with damp and mold and looks like we need to replace about 8x12ft of floor and 10 feet of wall and ceiling.

I'm probably inhaling mold from that until it's replaced, yeah?
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>>18649795
Yeah mold will fuck you up

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>20
>girl
>bisexual
>virgin
>no relationship history

Is it fine or weird that I don't really care for/ rarely think about sex? I have a very low sex-drive, I don't look at porn because I'm simply not interested, and I find masturbation to be awkward and unfulfilling.
>inb4 "that's because you haven't had sex yet! you'll learn to love it in time"

Bro I know I'm bi without ever having fucked someone, I just don't want to yet. Maybe one day if I know and trust and love the person, but not with randoms.

tldr: am I weird or should I not worry and just be comfortable with myself?
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You don't like sexual stuff. Some people do, some people don't. Not a big deal.

Head over to /b/ and post nudes until you get a good answer
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bruh are you me holy shit

I'm not really interested, but I like to try new things, so I hope to find someone while I'm still young, but I'm not pressed about it.
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Stop obsessing over se-

Oh. You're a woman. I see.

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can some psychology anon explain to me why im horny all the time
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hornomes
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>>18649226
10/10 scientists agree.
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>>18649226
>>18649231
but im 23 wtf

I have observed 4chan for an unspecified amount of time and there is definitely an obsession with being in a relationship. Whenever someone describes themselves they always state
>have/don't a significant other (Usually a girlfriend)
There are plenty of post which describe people who really don't even qualify to be a close friend. The details keep getting more pathetic and it actually makes Me uncomfortable to know that some of these individuals are in a relationship, like how? In conclusion, i would suggest that people focus on more beneficial things like education or career training. Please feel free to comment and start a conversation. I anxiously await your response.
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>>18649196
I think its because people don't know what a relationships like.
Once I got a relationship the feeling changed. It wasn't something I "needed", it was just something different that could be good.

I was happy single after that relationship ended because I realised that I legitimately just had to wait until I found someone I could mesh well with instead of forcing it.

Really its harmless and formulative, its the weird clingy folk who just can't be alone that are troublesome.
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>>18649218
Thank You For Your Response
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The world sells this obsession... Every hero has a lady, every lady finds her white knight... stuff thrown in massive amounts to young people.

It's also relevant in a behavioural analisys... Our minds evolved so fast in the last 500 years, while our bodies can't keep up.
We still have some body responses similar to animals, and that includes our brain and hormones. What I'm saying is that the cave man that held a woman would have more chances to survive and thrive, while the 'beta' male would never mate, and run high risk of death. This leads us to associate having a girlfriend to surviving and thriving.

It's not just that, I'm adding on.

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I have been getting this BSOD for the last 12 months and have damn near replaced everything but the CPU.


Anyone got advice?
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>>18649189
Get a new computer
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>>18649189
go to >>>/g/
be specific about your problem and how you've tried to fix it
ignore all advice instructing you to install linux
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>>18649261
he was there and was too dumb not to post it in the stupid question thread. If might have even got an answer if he took the 3 seconds of research require to find out this is not a driver problem.

Also, he wouldn't have this problem in linux, because the computer is crashing because he is playing games.

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>tfw still miss my ex-girlfriend after 5 months and no amount of fucking can get her out of my mind
>yet trying to remain focused on what I have to do for myself and keep girls at arms length does nothing for how insatiably horny I am

The fuck do I DO?!
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Tell yourself "I accept the fact that I still like my girlfriend. I am not smaller/weaker because of that."
And drop the weapons. Stop fighting the feeling, let it roll, let it flow, right out of you through time. Everytime it bother you, take a deep breath and tell yourself the above.

Also, there's this EFT thing, a practice that is said to remove unwanted emotions. Check it out online, the full name is Emotional Freedom Technique.

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Anons i am a leaf and will by applying to Universities in the next few months and i need to figure out which to apply to

Can any Canada-Anons share their experiences at their university? Like things you enjoyed, what you majored in and how your experience was or if you would recommend it.

My top few choices would be
>University of Toronto
>Queens
>Western
>Guelph
>McMaster

I am not set on a major right now but i am leaning towards majoring in either law, international relations, or history. I really have no clue. Im more just looking to hear about experiences at your school.

Thanks
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You're better off asking on the redflagdeals forum

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Am i really crazy for wanting to go into the film industry?
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>>18649069

no. most people wnat to be involved in some form of art. its a little crazy to put all your eggs in that basket, but definitely not crazy for wanting it.

im in LA trying to make it as a writer. but I got a back up career going pretty well, so not as crazy.
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>>18649069
>>18649070

this is from a movie i just finished filming
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>>18649069
No but ask yourself if you think you can be in the top 1000.

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>be me

-late 20's
-Shit at most jobs, overqualified for a lot or health impairment due to highschool sports. oh, and criminal record.
-Saving grace is talented with my hands
-Started selling shitty art in my late teens to afford food
-No matter how many jobs bomb through, arts always there
-mostly selling OC illustrations to /d/ faggots
-end up trying normie job thing for exgf's, fails spectacularly like clockwork.
-cut to now; living on own, no help-- 2 roommates. have PC studio suite
-supporting self with art. still selling dick to /d/
-embarassed, but still happy to have food on plate, AC in hot as balls summer
-having bad month, supporting roommate for last 6. best friend.
-miss rent once. rely on tumblrina roommate. everythings chill, but tight.
-catching up on work
-really bad week cherry on top of shit sundae; mom in psych ward, bank account jacked, sister in shithole trapped relationship, dad back on the meth
-minor breakdown
-shut down for a few days, dont wanna deal with people
-normally working/streaming art daily.
-best friend pitches fit to drag me to bar to 'cheer up'
-meeting former neighbor he has crush on.
-suspect not so much cheer up as to fund beer and him hooking up/wingmaning
-go to shut people up.
-bar is ok. ladyfriend is there with new boytoy. boytoy is black, athletic, nice dude.
-I hang out with him, talk comics & shit, artist too.
-bestfriend having shitfit
-forced to shell out 40 to put to drinks for bestfriend and tumblrina roommie
-fml
-black dude says he's quitting olive garden, willing to put in good word.2 positions; cook, server.
-suggest unemployed roommate try for it
-thrusts it back at me that I need it
-my fucking face when
-agitated, fuck off to smoke in front of bar, fresh air and decrease tension.slightly drunk.
-best friend comes out. drunk angry. fight. turns to fists.
-best friend calls art not a real job
-throws everything in the world he can at me.
-fucking scene
-ladyfriend comes out to break up fight
(pt1)
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>>18649039
>cont

-days later now
-things are cool, apologies around
-bestfriend found job almost on the spot with local restaurant, server.
-new art jobs coming in
-client buys another comic page, big money 4 spider dicks. idk, easy art.
-modfriend on discord working on Skywind
-modfriend recomends me for project, invites to discord dev group
-suggest I do voice acting (smoke so dark elf is easy to do, eloquent from years of streaming)
-new clients hmu for art
-Game dev in workgroups hmu for concept and voice work
-my face when


So here I am. sitting here wondering what the hell... why is it people think my work accomplishes nothing or isnt a 'real job' in the least. I spend upwards of 10 hours a day illustrating and entertaining people. I get work, I have galleries with a combined viewership of over 750k unique viewer signatures and growing. I have a healthy number of subs on picarto and just...

I still feel people are looking down at me. /adv/ whats the outsider perspective on this? help me sort through this last stupid fucking month cause as is I feel like slamming my head in a car door repeatedly.
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>>18649095
You need to dont give a fuck about people opinions they just try to drag you down a be miserable like themselves

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>start dating very attractive girl at 19 who I had known for a while
>fall in love with each other very quickly
>we don't have a lot in common but have a lot of fun together
>she spirals into depression because of some home issues
>I gravitate towards the role of being her "rock"
>she loses all her other friends
>tells me all the time how she doesn't know where she'd be without me and how she loves me
>very genuine affection for me, can't imagine her ever crossing me
>at 21, start to get spooked because we are getting really serious really fast
>she's still my first relationship, can't help but doubt maybe there is someone else out there who understands my humor better or I have more in common with or some shit
>also start to feel immense pressure to keep her in a stable mental state
>it gets to be too much, broke up with her in June
>she begs for me back in the weeks to come
>I try to stay decisive
>she eventually says she accepts it though she doesn't understand my reasons and still wants me back
>we hang out now and then and hooked up once or twice because I'm only human and weak
>still love her and miss her like crazy, but can sense that with each passing day she misses me a bit less and will eventually move on
>happy for her to do so but also can't bear the thought of losing her permanently

How do I stop being this selfish? Did I make a mistake? I feel like I need this time as a young adult for individual development and gain more experience on my own so that I can know who is right when I find them, but also can't shake the feeling that no one will ever love me the way that she did.
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You're not selfish. You did the right thing and you should probably get your friend help.
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If anything, you're incredibly unselfish.

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how do I garner more empathy?
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>>18649029
Playing Mario Kart
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>>18649029
Read more philosophy

I want to lick that guy's tummy.

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