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stop having your parents pay for it

>>17642455
that'd be great but they'd probably kick me out if i dropped it

>be me

already have some loans out but still don't really care about my classes nor college overall

Please fucking respond

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you fucked up bad dude

>>17642448
It's just skin

Sadly, because it is in such a sensitive spot, it's going to be a bitch to heal and she's going to hate you for a bit

But trim your nails faggot, that way advisement like this won't happen again

She'll get over it and laugh about it later in life

>>17642429
And at the same time, even if I did have someone to talk to, I am afraid to tell them about my boyfriend because I'm kind of afraid they'd just tell me to break up with him, and I really don't want to, I still believe he maybe has good intentions and we can make it work, I love him a lot.

What should I do? And yes I've tried talking with him about it, a million times

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>>17642429
Your problem is lack of friends.

Fix that problem. And if your boyfriend gets in the way of you getting friends, then he is definitely an asshole.

>>17642434
I don't really want or need friends though, one friend is good enough for me, honestly. Like it would be nice to have someone to tell me if he really is an asshole but more than one friend is just too much work for me personally.

I'm in one, but not one gives a fuck about interracial relationships where I live, plus we look like we're the same race anyway.

>>17642409
Where do you live by the way? We used to live in Dallas but are moving to Seattle next year. We hope it's better there.

What combination are you and your SO?

>>17642414
I live in New Zealand. I'd rather not say what we are, but we're both some form of brown (he's actually mixed white and 'brown') and we both just look 'ethnic'

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>>17642396

Piv sex is not the most pleasureable oart of sex for a lot of women. It's the while package, which includes foreplay, which often includes oral. Hate to say but girls sometimes have sex just to feel wanted (that's why they say they cheated because they felt neglected and taken for granted...), not for physical satisfaction. Orgasms are probably the smallest reason why girls cheat.

>>17642396
Well little Cucky, the female mind is different from the male mind. Not better or worse, but different. They have this ability, this insane ability to rationalize anything so they don't feel like a bad person for doing what they did. So fucking a man to her would make her feel like a slut and a bad person whereas sucking his dick "isn't that bad" or "doesn't really count as cheating" which are both excuses to eventually build up to the final "atleast he didn't fuck me! gosh anon why are you so mad? get over it already" as they successfully shift the blame of her cheating on her significant other onto him and voila!

They don't feel bad anymore.

Simply put man, Women don't operate based on logic, they operate based on how they feel. Logic is optional to them. Men are also capable of letting their emotions dictate their emotions, but not nearly as frequently as women. Men operate based on logic and what makes sense logically. our feelings play a minor role in how we approach day to day life.

I probably sound like a woman-hating fuck but I'm really not. This is just me being very blunt with an internet stranger. Take it as you will

>>17642362
I do this aswell, just cuz im bored. You're fine.

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>>17642306
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ear sticks

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take them out when you're at work and put them back in when you get off work

did you really need our help to figure this out?

>>17642306
on to your local piercing shop or amazon. Find your correct flesh tone and guage pop the new piercing out and put the flesh toned piercing in and they can't say shit.. Use to work as a armed guard had my toung pierced got the flesh toned flat piercing and bam problem solved.. Take it out after the healing time is for what ever piercing you got and you can swap between them when healed... again look up flesh toned piercings on amazon or your local piercing shop costs about 15 bucks each .. Hope this helps ya out some

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>>17642302
I have no idea about what Pomodoro technique or whatever is that... But have you thought about giving "priorities" to the things you plan to do? I really do believe some house chores you written down should have lower priority than what you want to do. Is it really hard to write "high", "medium" or "low" next to lines?

>>17642498
OP here, sorry, fell asleep last night.

I didn't try writing down the priorities but I did try mentally noting what priority the tasks are, and this didn't really help. Most of the medium and low priority tasks just didn't get done at all.

>>17642302
Have you considered meditation?
It makes you more aware, keeps you in the moment so to speak. This helps because youre more conscious than you without mediation, the things you want to do will keep creeping into your mind. And then, as soon as they do creep into your mind, memes aside, just do it. What ever it is, do it.

Apply for that job? Just do it. Right now.

Sign up for the gym membership? Go do it now.

Want to learn that language? Start now, go to that website/book/tutor and fucking do it.

Women are bitches and whores.

They'd be fucking every last man on the street if we didn't put them on a leash with "marriage".

Men are allowed to lust after other women, not the other way around.

>>17642258
It's true. We have to spread our seed as far and wide as possible.

Oh wait...

>>17642253
"Good girls ," are secretly sexual deviants but just because they like to be fucked hard in the bedroom does not mean they have an inherit desire to fuck you or anyone just because you have a dick and they are trying to fill the hole their father never did .

>>17642243
is that Roxy ?

>>17642266
No clue, whe was on the website that featured these.

>>17642243

Holy shit that's the nickname of a guy I watch on twitch

Lmfao someone gave him the nickname of a sex toy

Aye there out there if you turn your head sideways and look in the corners not the centers, and who needs a match when gasoline and a lighter will make everything go up in smoke.

I'm listening, but how about you present your opinions first.

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taken bro! haha! sucks for us. ah shucks...

they're flirting and being nice. don't take it as some sort of objective evaluation of your attractiveness but as a compliment and stop sperging out

>>17642201
That makes sense, it's just never happened to me before, I'm 22 and that's the first time.

She didn't have a sarcastic tone so it really threw me off, legitimate surprise.

She may be surprised because everybody she knows is in a relationship.
She may think it's weird you don't have one because you're attractive, but then again a lot of attractive dudes prefer to not be tied down by one girl.

young people who aren't trust fund babies or at least getting a small allowance from parents don't actually live in these cities anymore. it's a myth of 80s and 90s media that millennials tried to live out by gentrifying neighborhoods until they priced themselves out, too

>>17642187
Fuck I was researching for awhile and it sounded like that's probably true for almost half of the people

>>17642189
just go to a mid-tier city until you actually are advanced in your career. places like minneapolis, new orleans, portland (less so over time, but still the case now), even boston and providence and stuff are very doable with roommates and good budgeting

i had a hard time until i turned 16 and read Kierkegaard instead of all the French pseuds

>>17642155
it's not necessary to turn this into a philosophical circlejerk

>>17642149
However I deal with it, it makes no difference. So ultimately this question is unimportant.

Join a club or something. Don't just approach women randomly

>>17642124
Ive gone to the park and public places for a year and still havent found anyone.

>>17642124
go be a volunteer at something, doesn't really matter what. You'll have to cooperate and you''ll stand as out active and someone who cares about others.