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Work on your English skills first.

Did you have a 4-year long fap session?

>>17639485
I do not live in a english speaking country.

>>17639469

You just get up and do it, there's not trick to it. You've acknowledged that you're lazy, so next time you procrastinate just think to yourself "that's my laziness talking" and just do whatever it is you have to do. Keep repeating and maybe you'll pick up the habit of doing shit in time.

Just do the things.

Adderall

Drug are bad and you should feel bad.

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>>17639450
>implying I don't already
Why do you think I'm taking the drugs?

>>17639460
You should feel bad FOR taking drugs.

>>17639357
Depending on how far you drove you got played big time. Next time maybe you'll be smart enough to realize ebay is not a dating site.

>>17639357
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75QihdgK9dU

>>17639357
>All that headache organizing the meet, got nothing in return
Yes you got.
You damn fucking money. Be gratefull that she pay you.
Want a date? Use a diferent website.

Also, she loves her fiance but She wanted me to know how she felt on things. It wasn't a cold feet thing. She was very clear on that.

>>17639286
Be objective and honest, which sucks for you because you're prolly in a place where emotion is ruling you right now.

Would attempting to get with her, or letting her know how you feel, actually be successful in the end? If not, don't, if yes, possibly consider pressing the matter.

Then you next need to decide for yourself if this is what you want, if it has a good chance of being successful, are you ready to do a rapid social structure change to accommodate your desires. If not, don't, if yes, do.

>>17639283
Brah, that bitch clearly playin' with ya. Tell her to suck that dude's tiny dick, and pick up a hot chick and bang her and send the pics to the bitch.

>>17639282
25 year old virgin here, ONLY 5 MORE YEARS BEFORE I LEAVE THIS REALM.

Hang in there and stay positive kiddo, the fruits of your dedication wait to bloom!

>>17639285
So I should kms at 30?

>>17639287
Are you fucking kidding? That's when the true magic begins.

>>17639267
Take a shot of whiskey and stop being a little bitch.

>>17639267
You don't because you're clearly a pussy.

>>17639267
everybody finds out their parents have a fucked up past.
just wait till your 30 and have a few beers with your dad, he will tell you shit that will blow your mind.
chill out dude. everybody makes mistakes
as long as she got her shit together and changed to raise you, she is a good parent and a good person

Gonna wrap this up:

Do you want to date her? Yes? Talk to her anyway. Do you just want to fuck her, and not date her? Talk to her, make sure you're up front about that. That's it.

>>17639251

Absolutely nothing with that level of indecision

If you wanna fuck her, try to fuck her
If you wanna get her as a gf, try to do that

If she doesnt go for it, then at least you know she aint an option, get closure, move on. Aint that complicated

>>17639251
You dipshit.

Cut your losses and drop contact

You sperged out and ruined a relationship. Let it die

>>17639214

What did you say that was autistic?

Anyway, leave her be OP, she may or may not call you back idk. The more you keep texting/calling the more interest she'll lose in you. You reacted like a little boy who got in trouble with his pyscho mom.

son: no mom i didn't mean it.
mom: you don't love your mother
son: i do mom i'm sorry
mom: I'm going to cry
son: mom no IM SORRY.
mom: i raised you and took care of you, you're not a real son a mommy would love.
son: MOM IM SORRY I LOVE U.

Don't really apologize for shit really, when it comes to women because they'll get pissy for stupid reasons. Just leave women be when they're in a fit.

Word to the wise lad, never ever persistently text someone

Be brief, but make it clear you read her profile. Comment on how you also like whatever she wrote she likes.

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>>17639192
Think of it this way, if there's something in her profile that you want to have a conversation about, use that to try and strike up a conversation, offering some information about your interest as well. Do this 3 times. If you can't, then you probably don't have enough in common anyway.

>>17639317
>Do this 3 times

3 messages to the same person? Or 3 times to 3 different people? If she didn't respond the first time why would she reply the next two times?

>>17639145
For fuck sake. Just imagine what you would do if this was 2005. Social media is a perverse phenomenon and ruins most peoples social lives - especially the insecure.

Just approach her and strike up a friendly conversation, without any expectations in mind.

Please don't turn into a creep, op.

>>17639145
technically you did cyberstalk her... that being said. most lit majors are fucking NUTS. and will probably go for a 30 yr old. just to try it out. If she has weird molesty or daddy issues she will be all over you.. if not than she might be primed for an older guys phase, it's pretty good odds in your favor. strike while the iron is hot.
if she backs off...
honestly I can't imagine anything worse then trying to talk to an 18 yr old chick. whats with you man?

Man, if we're only looking at age then you are out of her league. Think about it. What insights does an 18 year old have? If you have chemistry then she probably thinks it's hot that you are so much older than her.

i can relate anon.
i have clinical depression, apparently i've been dealing with it on and off since i was a young kid, but in the past 3 years its gotten really bad, and in the past year especially bad.
broke and in debt, teetering on homelessness, can't figure out how to make things better and i never have enough energy or care enough to try and change things anyhow.

i flunked out of university more than once.

you should try and get back in treatment, maybe it will help.

>>17639142
>>17639618
Anons I have suffered with depression and bipolar disorder both of which run in the family. The other week I felt fucking incredible, I know this is a meme buzzword but I felt euphoric, nothing could bring me down at all
Now I feel like I'm at the brink of another cycle of depression

Get on medication you idiot.

>>17639087

It probably wasn't for "no reason". More likely there was plenty of reasons you weren't aware of, but this was the last straw.

>>17639090
Hm..yes maybe so
They were upset bc I had my phone in my backpack while I was walking home from the store and didn't see it ring
Called right back once I got home
They said they couldn't do long distance anymore..

Sounds rough OP, I've got something similar
>relationship for 5 years
>be in an ldr with gf since she's at school out of town
>works well for the past 4 years
>last week she says she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore
>try discussing it with her, some times she's receptive, other times she hates me
>agree to leave her alone for a while
>she still feels she's going to leave me in the end
We're not technically broken up yet, but it still feels that way, hope you get to a better place OP.

It's not all that complicated, practice producing all day every day for a few years, listen to all kinds of music and especially what is big atm, post it online, go to shows and network with other producers. It sounds like you only want the rewards without putting the work in, which is never gonna happen

>>17639058
Yeah but I need to live in a big city like Atlanta that's how mike will got discovered Gucci mane heard him making a beat

Nigga it's the digital age you slacking

You need to be desirable first. Ask yourself why any girl would be attracted to you?

>>17639030
because i have my penis tucked into my ankle sock?

>>17639069
Typical virgin, women are only attracted to the cocks of the guys they want to fuck. Cocks aren't inherently attractive to chicks, for the most part