Does anything bad actually happen if you wear boxers more than one day without washing them?
>>17642093
don't see what could be wrong with it
Girls wont like the smell of your dick but i dont think you will have that problem
Just raising the chances for jock itch and a bad case of swamp ass.
If god hates your ass, maybe bacterial growth.
Hey /adv/ I almost never come here but I'm in dire need of help.
I've been talking/seeing this Girl for a few months and I love her and care about her but she's broken. Her Family life is trash, her past is fucked up, and her Exes were all shit. Anyways long story short she gives me all these mixed feelings and us being together is toxic as fuck. Last night I tried to leave her (For the 3rd time). I'll do back story on the leaving 2 other times.
As I said I love her and care for her very much and am not very good at letting go BUT every time I said I was going to go because it was for the best I just couldn't leave. Last night I tried to again and she "killed" herself, she was dead when she was found this morning but she got revived and is in the hospital at the moment. She left a note saying "Tell him it's not his fault, I just didn't want him to leave but it's for the best."
Now that she is still alive I don't know WHAT the fuck I should do. Obviously I now see her true feelings is she wants me to stay....but the few times I said I wanted to date her she just blew me out. What the fuck do I do and what the fuck does she want?
>>17642088
>"Tell him it's not his fault, I just didn't want him to leave but it's for the best."
Bullshit. She's trying to guilt trip you. Forget about her, move on with your life
>>17642088
Honestly i would leave as well. If the roles were reversed she would leave. Guilt tripping someone is just plain selfish
>>17642121
>>17642129
If I just leave and cut her out of my life will everything be OK?
>tfw everyone you encounter in public (esp. women) looks at you with hatred or disgust
>tfw people are happy and smiling then see you and start to frown
How do I deal with this? Even sunglasses doesn't hide the fact that I know people are reacting to me in that way. Why does everyone I encounter look at me with hatred when I didn't even do anything to them?
Take off the fedora. Smile better when you make eye contact, don't prolong it. Say hello and good morning with confidence when you and another person exchange glances.
Or y'know, just don't be jerking in your cock in public.
>>17642092
I don't wear a fedora and it's not like this happens because I'm doing something weird I'm literally just walking or sitting in public.
>tfw you think everyone you encounter in public (esp. women) looks at you with hatred or disgust
>tfw you think people are happy and smiling then see you and start to frown
Why are you so clever that you know exactly what people are thinking? What makes you so important that everyone that looks at you forms a judgement about you and projects it towards you?
I hate to break it to you buddy but, you're not the centre of the universe. You think everyone hates you, and you're looking for evidence of that. No one hates you, people are getting on with their lives.
Fuck man people probably look at you sat down thinking "Wow, that guys just sat there doing whatever the fuck he wants and I'm walking around like a piece of shit"
CAN the negative attitude, STOP assuming what people think about you and STOP thinking so damned much.
I like fast food. many don't admit it. but I think it tastes great.
I'm getting bored of mcdouble
what is your fast food item of choice?
Wendy's Spicy Chicken Sandwich
Carl's Jr. Famous Star
McDonald's #2 (two singles with large fry and coke)
Taco Bell Mexican Pizza and/or Cheesy Gordita Crunch
Panda Express Orange Chicken
Domino's Specialty Chicken
Jack in the Box Ultimate Cheeseburger with Curly Fries
How do you work up the energy and courage to improve your life? I see potential solutions to finding a better job/relationship/improved health but when I get home from work every day I just need to hide in a blanket of escapism and cry.
Any personal stories of suddenly getting the will to even do something like call your health insurance and setup a counselor appointment?
How do you even
>>17642078
>I just need to hide in a blanket of escapism and cry.
Meditate, there are watching your breathe exercises in youtube.
Have a nice shower with bath salts (I suggest a homemade one) and a good soap, then drown your sorrow in whiskey abit.
Foot massage and a warm foot bath also relieves stress.
Until you feel better I suggest you to drop coffee and stick to fresh squeezed fruit juice and herbal teas.
If problem persists or becoming chronic then get checked for seasonal allergies.
Diagnosis : Depression
>>17642418
Thanks anon ; ;
Is it easy to make a little kid no notice something like their teddy bear was taken? If they do remember can you give them some crazy answer?
that's a good way to make a child start doubting themselves early on.
you are basically gaslighting a child. the fuck is wrong with you.
>>17642013
I'm not trying to hurt the child. I'm doing g something bad with their teddy bear and I don't want them to tell their parents or something
>>17642016
??Why are you doing something bad with their teddy bear?
what the fuck is this thread
Would it be possible to be successful in ChemE if I'm bad at math? I'm really good at Chemistry but I'm fairly awful at math. Is it a possibility or am I doomed to a non STEM degree. I'm willing to work hard to improve if that counts, by the way. Thanks
>>17641990
You could probably pull it off.
what do you mean your good at chem? what have you taken?
whats your highest math?
>Bad at math
Says who?
Fucking everybody ever thinks they're "bad at math", but the reality is most jr high and highschool math classes are absolute fucking trash.
I used to think myself completely incapable of math. I'm in calc 3 right now with a 100% and I passed 1 and 2 with >96%
>>17642025
Highest math would be calculus. I'm good at Chem IMO because I really enjoyed it in highschool and got good marks
>>17642033
Do you have any advice for getting better? I'm really trying right now and I want to be prepared for when I go to college
ITT: We ask each other for medical advice or a loose diagnosis.
I'll go first, I've talked about this a few times on here
>Wake up in late January (I believe this was after my period)
>Heavy feeling in lower abdomen
>Constant nausea
>Slowly bloated over time
>Fatigue
>Discomfort
>Weird moving feeling (not like bowl movements)
Anyone have any idea what this could be?
Here's some medical advice: ask a fucking doctor
>>17641989
Forgot to add
>inb4 "I've been to a doctor and they don't know"
If a doctor doesn't know, how the fuck are we supposed to know?
>>17641986
Have you had any imaging done?
So, my mother just got released from prison yesterday. I've just been having conversations with her like normal. Sadly, her boyfriend is treating her like crap, and isn't happy she's been released from prison. He even said it wouldn't have made a difference if she hadn't been released. I dunno, but it's really bothering me.
Try having sex with her.
>>17641959
You should go stick your dick in her face.
I literally think you might be able to pull off sex with your mom. Talk about how much you've missed her and how sexually repressed you feel. Tell her what you heard her boyfriend say about her. Bring up how much you love her and get slightly physical. Maybe a hand stroking back her hair or another one on her thigh. Tell her you want her and go for it, man. Just go for it.
If that doesn't interest you, then please don't be a dumbass touting an abusive relationship between your mother and her boyfriend. What advice do you really expect from us? Go seek counseling at your school. I'm assuming you're still a student from the way you've presented yourself this far. Seek it somewhere else even if you're not. Get professional help.
My friend's meeting a date tomorrow from a dating site. He has anxiety and is nervous he's going to faint/have a panic attack! Please, what can I tell him to boost his confidence make him feel better? Thank you
Have you ever seen him like this before?
>>17641999
yea he gets nervous all the time. Sometimes it's horrible to the point that he just wants to leave the situation completely. I don't want that to happen for him obviously.
Tell him to start going on first dates to see plays, It gives you alot of time to get comfortable just being around her, worked really well for me both dates and they think youre classy.
Is love just a myth?
>Be me 20
>Got laid last year
>Woo hoo I lost my virginity to a drug whore
>Regardless it was cool and fun
>After that realize what I was looking for was all along was love not sex
>Never have my shit straight
>Never find a girl that is single, cool or likes me
>21 next week
>I want to find someone cool to fall in love with
>Never have been in love or have another girl love me
>I want to know how it feels
How do I find love? Will it ever happen for me? I am improving myself everyday. The thing is I just don't settle. I won't ever date an ugly or shitty/uninteresting girl. I will never lower my standards. If that's the case will I never find love? Idk where to even begin
>>17641922
i dunno man I'm 24 and looking for the same answers myself
Dude, you're 20.
>How do I find love? Will it ever happen for me?
Yes this shit will happen to you as long as you make/keep yourself a candidate. That is don't become undateable and you'll be fine.
>The thing is I just don't settle. I won't ever date an ugly or shitty/uninteresting girl.
Why should you? Is that really what you think has kept you down to this point? You're 20.
>>17641944
>You're 20
Yeah but I think like an old man haha. The thing is I have a big journey ahead of me to become a legend/hero. This journey will force me to let go of all my material restraints. Before I let go of this world I want to find true love. Idk how much longer I can wait before I have to get on with it. I can probably hold out a couple more years but idk
I know this might seem pointless, stupid or childish, (and I know it is) but there's a huge moth in the roof of my bedroom and I have no idea what to do, again I know how stupid it is but I'm just overwhelmed by everything that has happened this last few weeks and I don't know, I'm close to a panic attack, I'm not trying the insecticide again cause that went awful last time, and my broom is to short and imprecise to kill it.
I seriously hate this right now, it's just too much to me.
Again sorry to clutter the board with pointless posts but I need to talk to someone, I don't know really...
>>17641899
Take a shirt, shoe, or anything and throw it at it.
>>17641905
I've already tried that in the past, it won't kill it, I might try it just in case.
Maybe I'll drink a little, maybe then I'll be less anxious
>>17641899
Open a window and try to scare it away with a blanket or a tshirt
female here, when I walk past other girls on campus they always smell amazing. It's not exactly perfume, I don't know how to describe it-- kind of like a salon, I guess?
What's the secret? Is it actually perfume, or is it fancy shampoo? My hair stuff doesn't usually have a significant scent.
Are there any cheap hacks to smell more like a girl?
>>17641842
1. murder the good smelling girls
2. rub their skin all over your body
3. repeat when necessary
4. ???
5. profit
>>17641855
ed gein please leave
Smelly bump
Just wanted to clarify something. I'm Scottish to let you know.
I'm not sure if its what its taught in school but the whole of UK inst called England it is so frustrating hearing Scotland being called England in films and such.
in no way is this to cause an argument with americans i would just like to know some views on it.
>>17641819
Doesn't matter if it is taught in school or not, a good amount of people probably would mix them up all the same.
Would it bother you if we called you british?
>>17641819
Don't watch American films then.
>family is muslim
>are not bad people at all, very against extremism and pro-democracy
>despite this, the religious aspect still bothers me a lot
>only child
>never considered self religious
>parents still think I'm a muslim, sometimes try to get me to learn how to pray the islamic way or spend time with extended family
>islam gives me anxiety and makes me uncomfortable. whenever prayer or "islam" is mentioned all I can imagine is nauseating mosque patterns, that weird smell, people dressed hijabs and muslim hats speaking a language I don't understand or find sonically pleasing and a strong uneasiness
>extended family often makes comments such as "he needs to learn how important it is to marry a muslim" or go on rants about islam is the only true way
>can't stop being angry at this, obsessively thinking about hating their narrow minded perspective, Islam and islamic thought/culture
>also undisciplined and have issues with emotional regulation and anxiety
>always feel a sense of guilt/paranoia that all my negative thoughts will haunt me in the future, completely unfounded but I can't shake it
>whenever I feel sick, depressed or anxious about something, it feels like it's payback for being so neurotic and ungrateful and complaining, and that something terrible will happen or that I'll go to hell
>but also very much dislike islamic culture/cultural values and my understanding of their perspective
>if my parents knew about the things that go through my head, they would be very sad so that intensifies my guilt
I find no clarity in my thinking, I just keep thinking stuff like
"they're stupid, uncreative, narrow-minded, have no aesthetic taste or sense, don't question anything, inbred, anti-progress, lack self awareness, etc", mostly about extended family rather than parents
how do I approach this from a healthy angle when I'm fundamentally unhealthy? I don't want to bring this up to a professional because they might hate me for being so politically incorrect
>>17641808
>how do I approach this from a healthy angle when I'm fundamentally unhealthy?
Not sure. I would suggest just telling your parents that you're are not fond of the islamic faith. You could also just avoid going to anything that would be with your extended family (somehow).
>I don't want to bring this up to a professional because they might hate me for being so politically incorrect.
If you bring this up to a therapist they are required to have full disclosure. In my experience most of them aren't that judgemental at all. You'll only find a few.
It isn't necessarily unhealthy to be different than what your parents expect. If you don't agree with Islamic perspectives don't feel compelled to, but try to think about things objectively.
P.S. Maybe you should ask /pol/ what they think-they're all around helpful and understanding.
>>17641817
whenever I bring up any idea that makes me not seem like a theist, my parents seem to get uncomfortable or on their toes. I don't like to see them like that so for the most part I just avoid the topic.
>>17641818
it's just that the islamic perspective scares the shit out of me. they have very vivid and extreme descriptions of what will happen to you if you do not follow the rules to a T. whenever I was told about Allah as a kid, it was never a sense of comfort for me. It fucking scared me so much that I couldn't sleep by myself in bed until the age of 10 because every night I thought "Allah" would grab me and take me to hell because I had a few indecent thoughts. I can't change my perspective on the religion, but I'm still paranoid as fuck.
I envy Christians because Christianity is all about salvation and that a human can be redeemed as long as they repent, whereas Islam is about implementation and discipline which makes it feel less like a religion or faith and more like a cult