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I've worked in a warehouse before when I was 19, it was hot and a lot of heavy lifting. I left within a month but goddamn did I feel like I worked for my money. The pay is 12 an hour for this job.

Anyone?

Go back to school and get a degree.

>>17643500
Forgot to mention: we were classmates at uni and did lab projects together. Went to each other's places a couple of times but not really a burning friendship.

>>17643500
Just don't reply and block them. The internet couldn't make these issues any easier for you.

I remember I hooked up with a floozy a few states over one time, and I had a girlfriend.

This dumb bitch had the nerve to find me on facebook, try to add me, and send me messages.

She got no response from me, and a prompt block. I don't want that shit in my life, it's not welcome one single bit, she knew I was in a relationship when I fucked her, and she knew I had no intentions of ever seeing her again after that point.

It's literally just like Tyler the Creator has said, that bitch never bothered me again.

>>17643500

Wow, that's... pretty bad. If I were you I'd ignore him just like you did t the end. Let him get bored.

Does he know where you live or something?

>>17643462

You're an adult now. Pretty much no one will be bullying you any more over your height.

They just won't sleep with you.

If it works, it works. What you need to do is heal, and for most people talking it out and being analyzed helps without them even realizing it.

>>17643470
many guys will.

>>17643452
fucking won't help them to pass the exam, mister horny instructor

Do you wanna get fired? Because that's how you get fired.

>>17643452
Are you willing to destroy your career for some student pussies?
You know what? Your students are not stupid. Their dream is not to get fucked by you. Their goal is to flirt you and try for good marks. They know that since you are young teacher you may have this damn fantasies on doing sex with them.
If I were you I would be very serious at the university, keeping distance from them,or you'lol lose your job. You must be very lucky for getting suck a job on this age! Think with the upper head ,not the other..

Cold shower for at least 60seconds.

Not kidding it helps against anxiety

>>17643387
is this real

>>17643389
No clue, but i imagine i'd be too pissed at myself for taking a cold shower to be nervous.

>>17643317
Is she willing to stop cheating? Are you fine with her cheating? Are you willing to forgive her cheating? Is there a way to stay together while being happy as well?

I'd personally divorce, but it's really up to you.

Also - is your wife a yoni masseuse?

>>17643317
That's a tough one. It's like yeah someone is taking her away from you, but it somehow feels less threatening since that person can't impregnate her. I mean we are biologically programmed to hate cheating because we don't want to invest resources in raising someone else's child. It's up to you whether you can deal with the emotional aspect.

>>17643317
She cheated on you with a girl? Then have 3some

a ginger?

>>17643290
Pretty definitely amata.

Whoa, drunken Albert must be pissed or something because he was fucking with the electricity. Probably pissed because he got a raise at Esprit, working overtime folding t-shirts at so late an hour.

Does anyone have a cure for a hangover? Any advice on how to avoid vomiting in the morning?

You just have to.

Might sound cliche but really, the best way to motivate yourself to 'do something' would be to join a community. Or at least tag along with a few friends. Of course, said activity or goal should be relevant to your interests(you mentioned coding, that's a lucrative career and your family will be pleased).

>>17643296
I've been a part of a small gaming community I made with some friends I met online for about 6 years. Also have a good amount of irl friends. For a long actually time I wrestled with the thought of who I should care about more, cause my irl friends do a lot of nothing but were driving me to get into music. Ultimately they made much more progress than me because I never got into it like they did. As for my gaming community, I feel like I've neglected them a lot for people that gave me nothing, except for irl company. Kind of feel like a stranger to my online buds now desu, but I'm getting over it.

Quit being such a pussy.

>>17643281
Why are you asking med advice no one can clarify without a blood sample? How can you be a doctor, qualified and not know this? Go see a doctor.

Go to a doctor

>>17643281
Hookers are far cleaner than the average girl you can pick up from a bar.

You could either torrent a fuckton of martial arts material and go cocoon mode, judging your form and execution with some mirrors and feel, or you could just go to a gym and learn to summit your anxiety.
The former will require tremendous discipline and study, while the latter will likely prove more beneficial in the long run...

>>17643280
>I want to take up some martial art
>What do?
Seems kinda obvious what you should do.
Are you a girl perhaps?

>>17643280

>I'm want to learn to fight people, but I'm afraid to talk to people.

This should end well.

>>17643278
Wait, she said this in front of the whole class?

>>17643287
Yes sadly

>>17643278
she said it as a joke

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>>17643277
>Am I overreacting or is she tryin to meet up with me?
Just sounds like she wants to get to know you better.
>Is it worth a try?
Absolutely. If you're too shy to ask a date directly in the middle of friends, try to score a phone number discreetly, in case you didn't already.
>I guess tomorrow is my last chance
Are you sure she'll be there tomorrow tho'?

>>17643381
OP here.

>Are you sure she'll be there tomorrow tho'?
absolutely. we have a class test tomorrow.


> try to score a phone number discreetly, in case you didn't already.
got it already, but I really don't like to do such things via whatsapp or something. I'm just waiting for the "right" moment, cause I really like her as a person and don't want to rush things.

Well, I'm going to ask her definetly out. The only problem is that I not 100% sure what we could do.
We both are really into movies, so I wanted to take her out for cinema or... she never saw Star Wars (but always wanted to) so I thought that I could invite her to see 4-7. I'm just afraid that this would be kinda too "offensive" and nerdy?

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>>17643277
>I'm just waiting for the "right" moment
Offer a walk&talk after the class, catching onto her shouldn't be hard if you don't stall.

>she never saw Star Wars (but always wanted to)
Try to discuss this on a talk, once ask her idea first -general idea about what to do or starwars movie-, if you can't get any strong opinion change the plans, be the initiator.

>>17643274
Let me help you,but first
How old are you?
What are you doing? Studying/working
Why do you feel like that?

>>17643274
I feel the same as you,but we have to fight it. It's called depression. I went to a doctor and I try to get rid of it. It's hard but I try.
I am 25 years old,I have problems with my family from when I remember my self. They had fights every day and every night, until the age of 18 that they finally broke up. Then bigger problems started with my mother asking me to ask from my father more money,my father didn't. My mother started hanging out with someone met on Internet,he was 28 years old! She was out of the house the nights,I had to take care of my younger sister. One day she expelled me from the house. Then I stayed to my father's house and some days to my bf's house. I got a car two years ago,and before 6 months I had a big car accident,but thankfully I am alive,and didn't break anything. My depression started being bigger due to financial problems. My father after the accident changed behavior on me. Now my bf is away for a month,for a job. I was at my house with my father and my grandmother, but my grandmother hates me when I am at home,because I don't have a bedroom and living room is my bedroom,and she hates me for being there with closed the door etc. so she started fighting with me,and then she hit me! My father did nothing for that,so I came to stay to my bf's house for the days that he will not be here. My father is nervous on me and he stopped talking to me because of that. Btw, my younger sister lives with her bf from when she was 15! My father is ok with her, but not with me! The only thing that keeps me alive is my bf.

>>17643329
Shit happens eyh.

no one?

>>17643248
What a shitty definition of love. Raise your standards man.

If I love someone I wouldn't be stressed about some side bitch.

>>17643347
If I wouldn't love her I would cheat. So not wanting to hurt her is not loving? Have you ever been attracted by another woman than your spouse?

"Do you come here often"

then you wait like half a minute

"oh wait that's not how it works in texting, is it"

sincerely
femanon with a horrible sense of humour

>>17643261

kek
this

>>17643261
hahaha i might try that, thanks a lot