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Did you talk to her about it?

>>17640877
I don't know what parts of that would be good to say or how to say

I feel the same pretty much. for the last 6 or 7 years I was out pretty much every weekend but now I live alone and rarely go out with friends.

I don't see anything wrong with it at all although some dummies will talk shit of course because that's what they do. I also think it's easy to go overboard with it and really alienate people to the point that you can't just call them up anymore, and it turns into a more formal thing and you lose them.

I like it though because I can do the things I need to do at my own pace.

In your situation I would go out just for doing your friends a pleasure. Its better than losing them in the long term. Maybe go out once a month or sth. like that

>>17640915
I mean, they care about you. They dont want you do get in a crisis. IMHO it would be a bit egoistic and shortsighted to refuse their "help"

>>17640759
You sound like a real catch. Why are you so concerned about if she's a virgin or not?

>>17640777
this

Get the fuck over yourself

>imagining that she do those things with him in her past..
every girl has past intimacy with someone else, so learn to get over your insecurities or dont date.

Aww your 3D animu waifu image is now shattered? Well relationships needs real people with pasts that you may not like the question is if you like them enough to accept them with everything. Your post is absolutely childish and you are far from ready to be in a normal, healthy relationship

>>17640694
Who was this?

>>17640694
i like the spider

>>17640694
Cute spider

>>17640665
I dunno man. I use head & shoulders every day, and it keeps me flake free.

If I skip a day, or use a different shampoo that isn't H&S I'll usually end up getting some.

>>17640665
It depends on what is causing the dandruff.

If it's a fungal dandruff, head and shoulders should work. If that's not working its most likely caused by a dry/irritated scalp in which case shampooing your hair everyday is only making it worse.

If you have dry hair/scalp then I would suggest unprocessed coconut oil. It will keep your scalp and hair moisturized. It has no long-lasting scent (your hair will smell like coconuts for 30 or so minutes and then the smell will fade) and it also has mild anti-fungal properties if your dandruff happens to be a combination of both.

>>17640665
I have as a sim problem in the past.. What I taught was dandruff was a skin condition i can't fucking spell correctly .. I found natural sea salt mixed with shampoo that hydrates works wonders.. Ever since i been using this mix of shampoo and sea salt witch you buy online for 10 bucks a 20 pound bag corse ground salt i have been flake and itch free .. I highly recommend giving it a try can't hurt other when wasting 10 bucks on salt witch if you don't use the entire bag up as you should not you can all ways use it to cook or eat as its plain sea salt...

get a job

>>17640637
Quick Bump

>>17640643
I am only 21, but I have a part time job so thats something. If it means anything else I have a car also

>>17640617
That's a good image OP.

Eh, why worry about it unless it interferes with your day to day living or working towards your goals in life?

>>17640617
Have you tried opening a tumblr and releasing your masterpieces there?

>>17640656
I don't know if it interferes though, I don't have a job and no aspirations to get one. I spend every waking minute on my computer, if I am not on 4chan, I am either playing a videogame or browsing porn

>>17640672
I have considered making it into a job people could contract me to do for a character they like so I would be having a source of income

Common sense

>>17640614
Windows defender

Does the same thing as AVG/avast, but doesn't bombard you with pop-ups to pay for premium protection

>>17640650
This and Spybot

>>17640609
Vanilla, fruity, or something appley or cinnamony

>>17640609
Depends on the season, on what you like, on the natural scent of your skin.
I like flowery perfumes on myself, detest them on my mom.
Invest money on it (if you have the means). Buy something not completely mainstream and peculiar.

>>17640609

Hey, another chick here. I am not a super connoisseur on perfumes, but my general advice is: follow your taste and make sure you really like the perfume.
Trying it out in stores: try it on your skin (each perfume smells a bit different on different skin, those paper testers are shit) and also wait for around 10 mins for the real smell to come through.
When I smell a perfume the moment I apply it they all smell quite alike. You gotta let it breathe.

So yeah, just go and try a few. I'm sure there are some everlasting ones you can try.

p.s. chanel no 5 is popular but i don't recommend it. for me it belongs in the group of perfumes I adore smelling but that give of the air of an old lady.

Hope this helped. Good luck choosing your perfume.

>>17640607

porn is a lazy mans hobby. the less time you spend inside, the less time you have to watch porn. the less time you spend on a computer, the less time you have for porn. and the less time you spend doing 'nothing' on the computer, the less time you have for porn.

if you're on the computer, be productive, if ur not, go do something else, preferrably outside.

>>17640635
I'll start running thanks man!

Can you masturbate to your thoughts? I regularly masturbate thinking about my ex. It's the only time I actually moan when I masturbate, I think it makes me sad.

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>I think I met my gf's physical boyfriend today.

Funny pasta

>>17640580

i hope you werent trying to trick people with this.

>>17640573

most people seem to seek relationships out of a habbit, almost OCD. bojack horseman made a great joke aimed at teenagers but it applies to adults as well.

>girl: So who do you like?
>boy: i dont think i like anyone
>girl: you have to like SOMEONE.

there's this push that you have to be in a relationship. and its easy to see why. we grew up on fairy tales about true love and settling down. everyone acts like getting married is winning the game. we are taught from an early age that its not only okay, but expected that we disregard our own friends because this girl might be 'the one'. were supposed to build a life based on the most fragile of human relationships and put aside the long term ones that could quite possibly last a life time platonically.

its a subplot in every single story. there's always a romantic subplot. and if its in EVERY STORY, it must be important. the problem is that we dont treat it as a subplot. we treat it as the climax of the story.

people seek a relationship because they don't know any better. they're told that being single is miserable, and that love is the only drug that can make you happy.

me, I've been singleish for 4 years. I've had flings and they were fun, but there was only one girl i found worth making it 'official' and even then it was only because I knew she wanted an open relationship and i knew she'd be returning to her home country at the end of summer.


though in the normies defense
>why a fuckfriend isn't enough?

it usually is actually, people just dont realize that cuz its REALLY hard to get a fuck friend, and even harder to get one that you find long term attractive, and have your shcedules line up well, and then on top of it not develop emotions. its rough.

when i thought alot about why i wanted a girl friend and going through all these crushes were i get fucking hopeless because i can't talk to people with my social anxiety, i was sick of it and was thinking WHY do i actually like that person and it all came down to me wanting someone to hug, cause thats pretty much all i look for. but maybe thats just me because i dont remember the last time i hugged anyone and i want it to be someone close.

>>17640573
I am in a relationship.
I don't seek anything, right now. Maybe in the long term I'd like to have kids, but there's nothing factual I gain from the relationship right now. Sex and companionship are cool, tho - but I'm not unreasonably ugly and I know I would be able to find sex anyway, and I have friends.

I am with him because being with him makes my life better, and makes me better as a person. I truly love him, like I've never been able to love anyone else.
Being with him changed my life so much and he made me grow up a lot. Thanks to having someone as supportive and loving as he is, I found the courage to do so many things. He's my best friend and everything is funnier if I do it with him. He gives me butterflies in the stomach, he makes me want to improve myself, and because the thing that makes me happier.

>>17640569
why does it have to be creative?

If I'm going out I'm going out in style

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just make sure you succeed

Not OP, would also like to know, other than theobvious

Talking to someone I trust about an issue. I used to do that with someone a lot, and they shared their issues and I offered comfort too... I guess I don't really deal with it now, since they decided to leave. I kind of just try to distract myself

>>17640549

me personally? i try to put everything into context.

we tend to stress abotu things that already have answers, but we keep acting like they don't.

for instnace, if im going to be late paying rent. i know its not actually a big deal that'd be late, but the fact that im not doing it on time makes me anxious. but realistically, nothign happens and its fine.

if you're handling a sitduation like, talking to people think of it this way
>if they like you, great, your anxiety doesn't matter
>if they dont like you, great, your anxiety doesn't matter cuz you dont have to talk to them ever again.

what is your specific kind of anxiety?

acetaminophen raises your core body temp

Masturbate.

Sometimes I'll be sitting, with a warm/neutral temp, and I'll touch my own hand or nose, and it's cold as ice. I guess this is just a chick problem