How to keep a long distance relationship alive?
I honestly feel an amazing amount of love for this chick and we just started talking. But I won't see her almost ever.. should I kill it?
>>17657606
Visit. Visit a shitton.
Talk on Skype. Do things together - play videogames, watch TV shows, read each other books. Sexting. Have Skype dates.
I went through 2 years LD and it wasn't so bad.
>>17657606
what's the distance? I'm in one right now with me living in the Southern U.S. and her in Canada. I've had a long distance relationship for almost 3 years once before though
>>17657643
She's in The Baltics and I'm going back to the States.
Hi all,
> started living together with gf since 3 months ago
> not sexually attracted to her anymore, at all > thinking of breaking up, since relationship feels as if we're just good friends
> would completely devastate her
> care for her enough to not want to hurt her
So, break up, live my own life or try and stay together and hope that one day I will have feelings for her again?
>>17657603
Dump her.
It isn't going to get better.
>>17657612
Is that from experience? I am truly considering it, but I have to feeling that every relationship becomes as this one
>>17657616
No.
I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years, 7 of which living together, and today we had sex three times.
Can't sit next to him without being turned on.
It mitigated in time, but I still get horny for him.
If you have no attraction for her whatsoever, dump her.
i'm literally standing there for 5 minutes, squeezing out drops of piss from my dick, and yet i still end up getting wet spots on my crotch.
like, what the fuck? do i need to wear a fucking diaper?
people have to be noticing this shit and it's fucking embarrassing.
>>17657516
wear REALLY think underwear.
grab your penis after pissing and put pressure on it starting from base, working your way out, then wipe the opening against some toilet paper to catch what remains.
dont be afraid to get up and go to the bathroom again
physically hold it in until your body relaxes and its contained.
wear really thick underwear and dark pants
Maybe you got a weak bladder or something
>>17657540
what does that even mean
Backstory. I've been diagnosed and medicated for depression, anxiety GAD Social Phobia and a load of other shit for a few years. I've been on 150mg Sertralin aka Zoloft for over a year. It's not really doing it for me anymore so she siwtched me over to venlafaxin, starting from tomorrow.
Here's the tricky part. The hag told me to go coldturkey and immediately switch from 150mg sertralin to 75mg venlafaxin. Wouldn't this lead to a complete shitstorm in my head?
>>17657513
idk, ask a doctor
>>17657520
I don't have one of those available.
>depression is real
This meme really needs to stop.
Hello /adv/
I've recently moved into a dorm room - it measures 345 x 345 cm. (roughly 120 sq ft, or 12 m2)
I really need some ideas to make it feel like a home with somewhere to sleep, room for guests/a chill area and an office/desk. Any ideas are welcome, including a full plan, how to get plants inside, what colours to choose and what kind of furniture would be good. I like the nordic style with wooden furniture and the occasional antler-as-a-coat-hanger.
My biggest issues are the placement of my door, the tilting ceiling(265 cm at it's tallest (north), 220 at it's lowest (south)) and the 3,4 meters windowpane. Pic relevant.
stuff the room with blankets and pillows
>>17657479
Well - what is your budget and where you live?
Roughly 2000 USD, so if a piece of furniture needs to be custom built I can afford that.
I live in Denmark.
>Best friend is the only person I really feel confident around
>Girls always like him more than me. Impossible to meet women around him
>Anxious as fuck when I'm not with him. Impossible for me to talk to women by myself.
What do?
>>17657470
pick one of those scenarios and 'get over it'.
push through talking to women alone, or competing with your friend (possibly with his aide)
me personally, I'd do both.
>>17657470
You have an unbelievably unhealthy relationship with your friend.
>>17657504
He's just so naturally charismatic that even when he tries to wingman he outshines me.
>>17657510
Ik senpai. How do I deal.
called my coworker a monkey today to insult her intelligence, she has now twisted it and made it racial because shes black.. meeting with manager tomorow.. wtf do i do
>>17657459
apologize. why doesn't even matter, shes a co worker.
>>17657459
Ayy lmao, you dun goofed
Apologize, MAYBE say you got frustrated with her not understanding, and that it was wrong to call her that to insult her intelligence
>>17657468
She could make everyone think he's a racist, even though that's not why he called her a monkey
Tommorrow i see my crush in a class what can i say or do to start talking to her, she is easytalking and is always smiling so i think it would be easy to make her smile, and she start looking at me not long time ago
>high school romance
Disgusting.
Anyway, just be a fucking Chad and talk to her. Ask for her number and text later asking to do something tomorrow or whatever.
Doesn't matter what you say, just how fucking chad you are.
Maybe ask her something relating to the class, it may start a conversation; it doesn't always work 100% though.
For whatever reason I think that OP may be my crush
>>17657392
its college...dude whats mean chad?
Is it a requirement to be friends with someone before I ask them out? Like, if i can't even befriend them then I shouldn't bother trying to date them kinda thing.
you can ask someone out with knowing them first, but try thinking about it from their perspective.
choose from 2 situations which one you would go on a date with:
situation 1. stranger comes up to you and asks you out
situation 2. someone you know asks you out
I feel the same way op
>>17657380
if you're going through a dating site or w/e then nah i dont think you have to be friends first, however you can't just go up to a girl at a bar and say date me. like there has to be a little bit of entrancing first
So last night I crashed at a friends house, and this morning as i was waking up i felt him running his hands across my stomach and thighs, now bear in mind that this dude is the most asexual guy i've ever met, and i've got a girlfriend, so this is really out of character for him. I asked him about it and he says he doesn't remember anything, but I'm 99% sure he was awake because his breathing was shallow and light whereas normally he snores. I'm not really sure what to make of it.
Help?
>pic related is mfw
>>17657376
this fucking post
>>17657387
>>17657403
mane wtf do i tell u
i aint run my hands down ur thigh
>now bear in mind that this dude is the most asexual guy i've ever met, and i've got a girlfriend
got me keking hard
he could've been like lucid dreaming or some shit
maybe he thought u were a tight little piece and sleep groped u
like i doubt he as ur male FRIEND just randomly thought
'let me grope this guy and run my hands over his body and he will no way wake up'
also why the fuck did u sleep in the same bed KEK
I've been heartbroken by the girl of my dreams.
We've been best friends for years and our friendship ended up with us naturally falling in love with each other over time. Our whole thing was very complicated but I fully believe that we are a perfect match for each other.
I'm really struggling. I'm still not sure how to feel about everything that went down. All I know is that I'm constantly sad, I sometimes break down into random crying fits out of nowhere (I've had them at home in my bedroom, I've had them out with friends, I've had them in the middle of work, they can happen anywhere and they don't even need a trigger they just happen), it's all I think about even if I do other things to try and get my mind off of it, I have zero motivation to do anything even things I enjoy, and I have a constant urge to contact her even though I know I shouldn't because she developed bitterness towards me because I didn't give her space after things went down because I was such a mess I didn't realise what I was doing. I have to constantly battle with myself to not contact her.
I don't know what to do or where to go. I just want her back. I've never felt so lost and helpless in my life.
>>17657355
Well, what happened?
Time helps with this kind of stuff. Keep yourself busy, and if you have those moments where you aren't doing anything and your mind starts dwelling on the matter, come to terms with how you feel.
Try to stop thinking about it go out with your friends, try to smile as much as you can, and it will soon pass, time is the only thing that can help you now
just remember to stay positive because if you let this heart break beat you will most likely end like the guys on /r9k/ and you will never find another girl
Hyper Original: I want be friend of a girl in my class
I think she likes me but is like the pic i post
here is a post i made about >>17657193
>>17657322
ask her for a coffee
>>17657333
Thanks a simple advice like that always help people
>>17657322
Tip 1) Learn English.
Tip 2) Stop being rude.
You'll get tip 3 when you provide evidence of the first two being fulfilled.
Is there any way to naturally make your breasts smaller save for surgery?
Losing weight was supposed to help but if I don't see any kind of result by the time I hit BMI 18 I'm giving up on that.
>>17657225
Do you have some sort of pain and discomfort?
Unfortunately you can't choose where to loose fat, so concerning this surgery is one of the few options, but I understand you not wanting it considering how much the operations cost and healthcare in America's a hassle
So is it a medical necessity that you need this for? Self esteem?
>>17657233
It's not a medical necessity, and I'm not in any pain. They're just a nuisance.
Do they come back if I do manage to get rid of them? If I drop to like 100 pounds and there's nothing left, they won't just grow back once I get back to a human size?
This is me, I need a new steam name
>>17657213
Niggerfaggot
Nevertrust/adv/becauseitsfulloffuckingfemales
>>17657213
what vidya do you like?
Its my first time here so let me start, i was in college in a class of english, i was telling he about how pretty and good body (big ass) had a girl next to us, i tell he (she will never pay me attention, she only like guys with money) thats was because she has the body like the pic i posted, and always act irked.
Well let me say im good looking i have a lot of crush that follow me though my life but i dont think im a 8 or a 9, but i get up in my seat to expose in front of the class, and the girl asked my friend if i was the guy sitting in the sit i was, he told that when a finished exposing and she asked me something about it. Then when we finished the lesson my friend told me that a friend of her was looking at me and she too when i was sit focus on the lesson. My questin its what do i do? I see her next monday, that happen today, we study diferent carrers, i dont own a car to take her out. I like her or her friend? tell me what do you think.
>>17657193
Well, it certainly tells she's interested in getting to know you, but wont go out of her way to hang out unless you plan something.
Yeah, just befriend them, ask them to help you in English if they're native speakers
Sorry i dont refer to my friend in the first line on the text.
And does thay hear me when i say all that things?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BFOkNOipiP-/ i look a like him, but i had diferent nose and my face is more slim
>>17657215
Also im of the same height of her and that low my confidence, im 1.70: i think its 5'6'' in inches