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I wanna get away from school and my country 2016-10-16 22:45:36 Post No.17676588
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I wanna get away from school and my country
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Hey, I'm a Swedish first year university student studying physics. And I hate it. I hate my country, my education and myself.
I wanna do something different. After 19 years here I want to leave and do something else than school. Then I could come back and get a degree or whatever in something I'm interested in.
What can I do? I would like to just go to a warm country and live in a tent on the beach and surf or go live in the alps and ski every day and work in a restaurant in the evenings and nights or something. Or just go live in London and work as a dishwasher in a shitty pub. Anything that is not this.
How do I get out? I have somewhat limited money ($2k) but I could pretty easily make some more I think. I also don't have anyone to go with, so a place where I could meet some nice people would be good.
Any advice helps.
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Does anyone have any ideas on how to easily get away from my country and sustain myself somehow?
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>>17676588
> I would like to just go to a warm country and live in a tent on the beach and surf or go live in the alps and ski every day and work in a restaurant in the evenings and nights or something. Or just go live in London and work as a dishwasher in a shitty pub.
All of these aren't too realistic. If you stay in Europe these things will be very expensive - and you won't be able to comfortably live in London (or any Major Euro City) on a shitty job.
How long do you want to travel/be on the road for?
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>>17676637
The issue is that you will most likely have a hard time getting any sort of income no matter where you go.
If you want to do some traveling and make "experiences" you could do some backpacking - though that could be rough on just 2k.
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Best way to get a girl to go out with me 2016-10-16 22:45:17 Post No.17676587
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Best way to get a girl to go out with me
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Is it better to say "lets do X" but in advance of it like planning it
Or to spontaneously say "lets do X right now you down"
Yes this is a continuation of that possible Christian girl thread
She just got back today and honestly its kinda late to try to do anything
Should I ask her if she's down for stuff tomorrow or just text her tomorrow and be like "lets roll"
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"Hey, I was thinking of doing X, would you like to join me?"
Note that none of these options make it obvious it's a date and could just be seen as two friends hanging out
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How do you make it obvious that it is a date?
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>>17676619
"Want to go to X?"
"Sure/yes/whatever"
"Cool, it's a date then"
Works more often than not, honestly
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Hey /adv/
I landed this sort of chill job recently at IT Support for SAP mainly. Although it seems as though I can just sit around doing nothing all day.
A few tickets get in and some calls here and there, however I can simply redirect the calls to whoever has been asked for and I am not allowed to work on tickets independently yet.
This job seems to have a lot of free time, even after being able to work on tickets myself officially. Their Internet Connection is monitored. I do have a smartphone with mobile data though.
What could you do to kill some time and still appear as though actually doing some work? The articles online all talk about boreout, but as a former truNEET I will take any job that requires no work.
Have you been in a similar situation and found something fun to do?
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>read or listen to (audio)books
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i already read 4chan and forums just like back when I was a NEET. I have my smartphone next to my keyboard on low brightness and nightmode. the reflection of the light of the window makes it appear as though the screen is off.
If someone comes closer I can simply turn off the screen with the thumb from the hand rested on the mouse.
I was thinking about getting an ebookreader, that would be to obvious though I am afraid.
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>>17676566
Study something in the meantime
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>Girl flirts with me constantly, seems pretty interested in me
>Text her many hours ago that I'll join her in the cafeteria for dinner
I end up with no response and eat dinner alone. Why? How do I even confront her after this?
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>Text her many hours ago that I'll join her in the cafeteria for dinner
What were your exact words? What was the conversation leading up to that?
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She asked me if I was still interested in some girl, I said no, I ask who told her I asked said girl out, she said she wouldn't tell me. I then said that "I'd join her for dinner" and that she should "let me know when she's going." I assume she went without me.
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Should I call her to ask what's up? Text her? Ignore and forget about her?
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23, kissless virgin here
I spend my days playing video games, listening to music and browsing funny meme sites. Sometimes i got drunk with my normie friends. I like my life. I know it's not super exciting but i like it. I will finish my uni and get a degree at the beginning of 2017 and i will search for a job. For now, life is good.
However, friends and family are asking questions more and more often. "Is there any girl that you like?", "Will you bring a girl home someday?". And i have never had a girlfriend, i have never been in love with a girl. My 30-years old cousin is a chad and his questions are most irritating and i really feel embarassed when he looks down on me and asks when i will finally get some pussy.
That's the point, I want to lose virginity. Not get a girlfriend, that would be nice, but this is not important for now. I just want to have sex with some girls. What should i do? I'm shy and i always spill my spaghetti when i interact with attractive females. Should i get prostitute if i'm super desperate about it?
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How do you view sex and virginity? Both for men and women
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>>17676537
Damn, i don't really understand your post, engrishs not my mother language. I'm only interested in women.
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>>17676532
If you're just looking for some strange, then get /fit/ then Tinder/Grindr, whatever, or hit bars/clubs with your mates.
That said, if you're happy with your life (which, props, dude) then either:
a) stop giving a fuck about what they think and keep doing you
b) lie to them, say you've been on a few dates that didn't work out (or had a one night stand with some girl if you're talking to your cousin)
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I was so emotionally invested in someone and eventually realized they were an emotionally unstable narcissist who never truly cared about me unless they needed my attention. I'm angry with myself for ignoring so many red flags, but I don't intend to let that happen again.
But when will this sinking feeling in my chest go away? When will I stop wishing it was real? When will I stop reminiscing about the good times? This was my first experience of this kind and I've learned my lesson, it's been two days but I want to go on with my life.. How on earth do I stop grieving?
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>how on earth do I stop grieving?
dont push it away rejecting these feelings with make them last longer , accept what is .
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>>17676518
Red flags like what OP?
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go to the gym, jerk off, drink with your buddies but not by yourself and not too much, if youre sad allow yourself to be sad and sit in it for however long it takes to go away
How come some people will fuck others over for thier own gain? I get that everyone is different, but it really baffles me with how many folks seem to lack empathy and try to justify thier shitty behavior.
I'm not perfect, but i'd like to think that I learn from my mistakes aswell as possess a fair amount of empathy and understanding for other people and thier situations. To the point where I often find it hard to take sides as I can understand both sides (though not nessesarily like both) equaly. I guess this makes it both a strength and a flaw on my part.
I'm just not sure why so many are quick to judge and fuck others over. And I know it sounds dumb but it really grates on me to see people treat eachother with such cruelty and have it (appear) as a commonplace thing in life.
I guess what I need advice for is how do I learn to deal with this? Is it even something I CAN learn to stop caring so much about/deal with?
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Someone's got to suffer in this world and I'd rather it be you then me. If you spend your life being concerned about othe people you'll be fucked over for the rest of your life. So grow up and be selfish this isn't a movie or a book.
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>>17676465
The thing you need to understand is that caring so much about people won't get you much of anywhere in life. A little bit of empathy is healthy and necessary for normal relationships, but you have to have your own convictions and not agree with others just because you can see things from their point of view. Take care of yourself and the people who are most helpful (for lack of a better word) to you first, and then care about others if you have the time/resources. If you feel bad about it, just do charity work on the weekends.
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>>17676480
Oh, I agree you have to put yourself first yeah, as everyone should be able to take care of themselves first then others, but i'm more refering to folks who deliberately fuck over or alienate other people. It's fine if you don't always go out of your way to help others, I mean it would be nice yeah, but it's not really "bad" if you don't. I just hate it when a person goes out of thier way to ruin a situation for someone else, so just deliberate assholes really.
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Apparently I should get help 2016-10-16 21:50:28 Post No.17676461
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Apparently I should get help
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>been told I'm incredibly sarcastic, scathing and confrontational
>I'm pretty much obsessed with myself
>all my relationships are incredibly toxic
>constantly speak to people and then get bored and ditch them
>told a literal millionaire, kind hearted girl to piss off because she was annoying
>ditched a tall, multilingual, arty, piano playing law student to go out with a slutty Asian girl because I enjoyed the chase of her
>end up dating the Asian, turned a bit nicer, saved a lot of money for future plans, but I still argued with her constantly, almost hit her too
>we break up
>meant to be going into law but I just cannot be bothered to study
Now spend thousands on clothes I don't wear, drink on my own every night because it's fun and do drugs. I regret some things but I'm not too concerned about it. I've definitely gone back to being a cunt to everyone. I'll forever complain about being alone but it's me that pushes everyone away. I feel like shit about things briefly then laugh about it and never learn from my mistakes.
I have good parents, so I've learnt that what I do is wrong but it doesn't make me want to do it any less and I can see my mother's concern on her face. I'm happy to keep going on and I don't really want to get help but the only person I don't want to disappoint is my mother
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Go to therapy, anon.
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Keep a journal. Write down what is working for you and what isn't. Be honest with yourself. Find out what it really is you want in life.
Pick up a pen, or open google docs. Start writing.
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You sound like a badass. I wish I was more like you.
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I've been with my gf for five years. When we first starting dating I was a fat, ugly, neet, with no hobbies. In that five years I've lost weight, got a good job, and started taking care of my appearance.
She's very nice and is a sweet girl. Our relationship is pretty serious and she thinks we're getting married but ever since improving myself I've noticed hotter women looking at me.
Should I dump her and get an upgrade?
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yes you should. either way you're gonna learn something
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>>17676443
It's a pretty shit thing to do.
But probably if you don't care about her its better to leave her.
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You've met a woman whose seen u at ur worst and loved u still and ur gonna throw that away on the off chance that u MIGHT get poon once or twice ? Ur a dilusional if u think woman like that are easy to come by.
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Hey looking to get my first cough syrup high/DXM. What is the best way to go about this!
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Inject a gallon of it in to your dickhole.
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>>17676448
I feel like that might not work.
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Read erowid, don't be an idiot. If you don't have the patience to do it properly then don't do it, it isn't worth it and you can seriously fuck yourself up
I've got a date this tuesday in a small town with basically nothing in it. We've gone on one date already and I can tell she's really into me, so I'm not worried about making her like me. I just want to make it a fun experience for her.
She's only been in america two months, so that might give you any ideas.
I'm taking her to dinner first but I want to do something fun after.
Thanks bbs
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Okay, and?
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>>17676413
I need date ideas.
Re-reading it I realize I didn't make it very clear
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>>17676418
And somehow you expect us to know what's in your town and what resources you have available to you?
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How do I write a bitchin' college application essay, /adv/?
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Bump for interest
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Have done shit that's worth putting in there
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I wrote mine about how this injury I had in high school helped me grow personally and academically. It was half bs, but half true and it got me into places I wouldn't have based on GPA and test scores. I can give more details if you want.
I'm not a Chad. Should I bother trying to get a gf? Do I have to become a Chad to get one?
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You should:
a.) Stop using false and broken concepts to interpret the world
b.) take action logically and realistically, scientifically if you believe in science.
c.) stop making fake, stupid ass threads.
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>Stop using false and broken concepts to interpret the world
How is it false? Can you prove that dateable girls don't flock around Chads?
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No, yes.
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No-kitsch recommendation thread 2016-10-16 20:53:21 Post No.17676327
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No-kitsch recommendation thread
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Dear b/,
I am looking for more wholesome art which I can hopefully appreciate. I know it sounds self-ironic for much of the Ghibli are heavily accented on ideals of tempered but dogmatized old geezers. But I seldomly find works with captivative capacities in which different modalities (visual, acoustic, etc.) harmonize so effortlessly and still in finely grained detail, embellishing a not so base content, that are on par with the Ghibli works.
Can you recommend me more of the likes of these? The request is not bound to animu. Anything, be it film, music, paintings, anything of quality. I am in dire need of profound beauty.
Thanks
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For music, much of the krautrock movement of the 70s. That means:
Faust - s/t
Can - Tago Mago
Amon Duul II - Yeti
Ash Ra Tempel - Schwingungen
And their contemporaries like Tangerine Dream, off-shoot projects like Klaus Schulze's solo electronic work, etc. You'd also be interested in the 90s-present post-rock movement:
Slint - Spiderland
June Of 44 - Four Great Points
Rachel's - The Sea And The Bells
Boredoms - Vision Creation Newsun
Godspeed You! Black Emperor - Lift Your Skinny Fists Like Antennas To Heaven
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ever watch cowboy bebop, or samurai champloo
soundtrack from both is fantastic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qK8LfZAOqKs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USAQQnQzaSs
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John Coltrane Alice Coltrane sun ra miles Davis Lee Morgan dizzy Giuseppe Kenny Dorham Roland kirk cannonball adderly bill Evans etc
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She left.
Do I keep it?
Do I sell it?
Seems like it'd be wrong to give it to someone else.
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>>17676305
id sell it
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>>17676305
Sell it.
I'm sorry anon. Hugs.
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>>17676305
Sell it :(