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just die, it doesn't get better

sorry

>>17677332
You don't. You move on.

>>17677332

She's gone, man. Even if you get her back she'll just leave again.

>>17677282
Same way you would eat an elephant.

One bite at a time.

Here's a greentext on what to do.

>Acknowledge you have anxiety
>Figure out when your anxiety is striking
>Slowly work on being okay with whatever is making you anxious

What do you think makes you anxious OP?

>>17677317
Ya I know when it strikes but have a hard time dealing with it after it starts. What do I do then?

Well, not pills. Find out why you have anxiety, then take care of it.

Dude, literally no one wants to see a dick, don't sweat it. Just seal the deal and fuck her. Go down on her first, never once had a woman stop sex because my 5 inches turned her off after her third screaming orgasm.

Also lose some weight. I know it's hard and sucks, but if you start now, in a year you'll be more comfortable with your body and your dick will look bigger. If you dont, you'll still just have flab and anxiety obscuring your dick.

Man up, take a dick pic and you can go two modes:
-Full alpha, man up and send it like you already own her pussy. But if it gets serious she'll find out eventually that you're a beta. Depends what you want to build with her.
-Go beta, send the dick pic and add something like "I never really did this, but I guess I should return the favor" or some shit. If she's onto you, you may get some "aww cute" from her.

Now if I was in your shoes I get the fuck away from that girl. I tend to believe if a girl sends nudes to a guys she's not with, she's probably a thot, and thot will destroy you.
But that's from my limited perspective.

Good luck m8, get that puss

>>17677297
I've started losing weight because of her. Lost 17kg so far, but I'm still not yet at a secure point.
>>17677308
But what if she laughs at my dick?

Are you trying to ask if people settle when it comes to long term relationships without actually asking?

>>17677199

i successfully communicated the idea to your mind, didn't I? what the difference?

OP here, whats the deal? I know there are married people / people in LTRs here. Are you scared to confront the idea that you "settled"?

>>17677181

its not retarded to just ask a girl out. if she says no, take it as face value. really if she says anything other than yes.

>>17677189
Alright, some say I should just wait and ignore her to make myself more attractive but I'm not going to play the same game she's doing. I just hope she's actually interested in me.

>>17677208

games suck. truth is shes either interested or shes not.

put it this way, if she was dumb enough to fall for sitcom meme manipulation would you want her anyways?

just go ask her out.

What a pointless endeavor. Do something better with your time.

"Wow OP, you're such a hero"
Is that what you want to hear?

Seek help this is really sad

>>17677159
You do you - do you want to go out?

She just wants the best for you anon.

>>17677159
I haven't been driving as hard as i could because all the places to work around me require me to be 18. My view of the situation is, once i turn 18 i will save my money and get a car. Getting my license soon on Halloween. I don't get it what is she trying to do

>>17677177
I love the outdoors! But i don't have many friends and i honestly have no reason to go.

I would not even reply. I bet that's some bullshit. If you were Brad Pitt I bet she would forget she even had depression.

I knew a girl like this, weirdly enough was another 7/10 climber and parkour type

Meh, you can do better, if you have options

>>17677147
Not a lot of options. But she is cute and has an amazing ass. I just want to know if it's bullshit or a major red flag. After all, all women have somekind of issues. I bet some good dicking can cure all kinds of depressions

>>17677129
Get an education

>>17677129
Look inside yourself and see how much it matters to you. If you're not okay with joining their church (if only in name) and for your kids to be raised in it, then you're fucked

does it really matter
at least you're both not atheist

>>17677123
I think part of the problem is that you don't know what you want in a girl. As you say the prom queen types have it all, which makes them attractive to you. The reason you may think all of your friends "settle" for "boring" girls is because they don't have what you find attractive.

>>17677272
>they don't have what you find attractive
Is it wrong that I respect that they find them attractive, and I'm happy for them for being with someone they apparently like, yet I cannot comprehend how they do find them attractive? At all? I feel like there's a part of my brain that didn't develop.

>>17677301
Honestly in my experience that's fine. I have had plenty of friends with girlfriends I didn't see much in, and sometimes my friends couldn't comprehend what I saw in some girls.

Tell your husband you don't want to see them. He will understand.

You'll have to give more details about what they didn't support.

>>17677107
What was the specific way/what is your disability?

>>17677034
Have you had a girlfriend since?

You just need to get under someone else

>>17677034
>If I never experienced it I wouldn't know what I was missing.

Well, at least you've had a gf at some point. Damn sight better than I have done

Pic of yourself OP

this is harassment and legally you can fuck her up the ass and profit !
i suggest you take advantage of this, casually voice record a couple of these incidents and lawyer up buddy, you can make $ from this

>>17677059
im not unattractive
in fact I put a lot of effort into looking good

but obviously not in a gay way or whatever if thats what your thinking

You dont. Shes messaging you because shes bored and wants attention. Or do you really believe she was so busy she couldnt talk to you once in two whole weeks.

Yeah, op. Don't respond. If you absolutely have to, just say "k."

Do not answer until she show signs of actually wanting to catch up. All I see are excuses. Nobody is that busy they can't even fit in a snug or a fuck every once in a while.

If your text game isn't great, I'd say put her on hold and read up on how to improve, before you proceed.

At best, respond with one single text:
>as if. Maybe I'll hit you up when you've run out of excuses, haha

"Regular" girls are treated like human fleshlights.

You have to upgrade to a better type of man.

>>17676933
Are the guys you usually talk to know you're trans or is it something they learn later on?

>>17676933
put it this way op. if a guy wants a relationship with a women, why would he get with a trans women when he could have a real women?. i have never in life heard a guy say "yeah, i would date a trans girl" but they do often say they would fuck one.

Trans girl do get relationships but they are obviously going to be incredibly hard, especially if you dont look really good.