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>>17740067
ask her out

>>17740078
But how

bump :^)

It's called "responsibility" and "commitment". These concepts might be new to you and those reading this; I advise you research their benefits.

It's really not that special. Why do people on here get confused that they can have two emotions at once? Is being a person that complex to y'all?

I had an older girlfriend for a bit who was perfect for me in personality but her health was shit. Not some, "she was fat" crap, literally had a hole in her heart, asthma, all these allergies, mood swings, etc. That's not something you willingly pass onto your kids. You can rationalize it however you want and attempt to call me a cold person or heartless; how selfish are YOU that you would ruin your own child's life and future just because of a fuzzy feeling you get in your chest?

Fuck off, kill yourself, all of the above. Love is nice, science is better. Make the money first, then find the chick. You won't have the time to enjoy with this girl if you don't AND even if things don't pan out well, if you have money, you can find those feelings again in another person. It's not wrong, it's human.

>>17740080
>It's called "responsibility" and "commitment". These concepts might be new to you and those reading this; I advise you research their benefits.

I've had long-term relationships before (4 years and a couple less than that). I am no stranger to commitment.

> Why do people on here get confused that they can have two emotions at once? Is being a person that complex to y'all?

Two clearly CONFLICTING emotions is something i've never really dealt with before. At least within a possible life-changing scenrio anyway.

>Make the money first, then find the chick. You won't have the time to enjoy with this girl if you don't AND even if things don't pan out well, if you have money, you can find those feelings again in another person. It's not wrong, it's human.

Maybe, maybe not. I've been single for quite a long time prior to this. Its the first time in a long time (literally years) that I have experienced any sort of attraction towards anyone. Head says stick to your plans, heart says give her a chance. I dont know what I will do.

>>17740054
don't lead this girl on OP. Guys bitch about women doing it so telling you don't do it to this girl. Tell her thanks but a big NOPE

fucking eat or you'll die you fucking idiot

Get help

>>17740052
you need to have sex. That will solve your eating """"disorder""""

bump for interest

I do

>>17740031
How about FU, OP?

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>>17740000
Dehydration is bad but an infection in the lungs is worse. Buy some pedialyte, you are losing alot of electrolytes by shitting your brains out. That or a sports drink(gatorade/powerade).

Eat oatmeal, it has undigestable fiber which should give more consistency to your stools. Also yogurt will help replenish the gut bacteria that is destroying your intestinal bacteria which helps you digest food.

>>17740044
I've been drinking a ton of liquids.

I'll do the oatmeal thing. Dairy, at the moment, makes my phlegm and congestion worse.

>>17739971
Finding a mate is hard dude. Focus on yourself, stop trying so hard. Learn to be happy on your own.

You are your own complete person, you aren't missing your other half or soulmate or whatever BS you believe. That's fucking retarded.

If you find someone, cool. Enjoy it. Give 100%. If you don't find someone, cool. Awesome. Do awesome shit with friends. Relax man.

>>17739971
Honestly I feel I'm in a similar situation, only thing is I'm 22 and still haven't given up.

If you don't mind I'd like to know about who you are, what you like doing and how do those things fit into the social context you live / work in.
Bc if what you say is true then you don't fit the profile of the NEET 5.5/10 usually associated to not getting laid for a while, and neither do I , i think.

So let's investigate

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>>17739971
Why are you guys so focused on finding people? I never understand guys who want to be in relationship so bad. I'm 23 and married, so I guess ask me anything?

>>17739951
Run

Girls, especially young ones, love that they can be as creepy and weird as possible to guys and they still have to suck it in and try to wade past the bullshit whereas guys get dropped the moment they raise the wrong finger.

Part of me feels like it's just her fucking with you in a way you couldn't to her without risk of being arrested or something. Either that, or she's genuinely weird and never had to not be so because girl privilege.

>>17739982
I can kinda agree with the young part of what this guy said.

When I was younger and sexually inexperienced, I always had urges to be really sexually and socially deviant. For some reason I thought it was hot, and thought the guys I dated would find it hot.

Looking back on it now, I feel like I was just kinda "peacocking" or sexually flexing to pique my lover's interest. And also trying hard to be an sexy edgelord.

>>17739911
As long as you don't break rule no. 1, which is don't even think of trying to fuck your roommates.

seriously, if you feel like you could go for a quickie with the girl next door just fap and move on, only bad things will come out of it.

Be willing to live by this and it should be fine. They must be fine with the idea of someone seeing them in their undies and so should you (without growing and instaboner, that is).

Follow just the standard stuff.
Meet up with them, talk, check if they are normal.
If everything is ok, why not.

Also listen to the dubs.

>>17739944
Im a perma virgin so I wont ever make a move, the think I actually are worried the most over that I will someday unintentionally see one of them naked.

Usually not comfortable with seeing people in their undies, would perfer if everyone have clothes on in public rooms like kitchen/living room.

bump pls. I'm retarded

>>17739908
Jesus christ anon maybe she just wasn't feeling well,or just wanted some alone time that day.

>>17739908

My ex was like this too when it came to sickness especially early in the relationship, after only a month she probably doesn't want you to see her all sick and tired, could also be that she just wants to be alone during this time so she can rest up without worrying that you're bored or whatever. Just leave her be and stop pushing the matter, let her recover and come to you when she is ready. If you haven't already I would just send her a quick message saying to get better soon with a love heart or something, otherwise leave her be.

>I literally have nothing better to do than wait hand-and-foot for a woman
You're going to be a great doormat someday.

Thirty minutes seems terribly long to you because you're anxiously waiting for a reply.

If you're up and about getting shit done then responding in half an hour to a text is nothing extreme. Most people I know get so many notifications etc that they just put their phone on silent and check once in a while.

Your mistake was thinking that in her life, your text is as big a deal as it is in yours. Be it because she has more going on in life than you do or because you care a whole lot about her that she doesn't reciprocate etc.

>>17739832
Nah i don't wait for her message like an idiot i play CS:GO.

But this shit fucks the whole conversation dynamic.

no, but then again I'm not a retarded person or a memento victim

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All I want to do is make a residential complex. A large, private town where all of my friends and family can live rent free. We'll have a big central recreation house and kitchen. All the basics would be provided so that nobody would have to work if they didn't want to, but helping around the complex would be encouraged. Maybe I'll even make a small grocery store.

Right now, I'm making livable wage in California at $60K/year as an entry-level Civil Engineer. Which is a lot more than the rest of my family, but not enough for me to realize my dream. I think people in my situation eventually buy a restaurant chain in order to make the next leap in income, but I still don't make enough to get that started. The gap between me and a millionaire seems so big. I think I'll have to start making video games or patenting inventions in order to ever have a chance.

>>17739813
What´s wrong with having a bucket list?

wv hast du beim herr gemacht und wv als kommerz pilot?

>>17739796

I was always keen on becoming an airline pilot, but I declined to study for an ATPL after finishing high school due to fear of unemployment or unbearable working terms, I didn't feel it was worth all the sacrifices and hardships.

Now it's four years later and I've just graduated in physics, sometimes I think about what I could have become had I chosen to pursue the pilot dream.

Would you say my fears were unfounded?

>>17739798
Commercial between 800-950 a year.

Military wise I did close to 8000 in total - without counting the first two stages of training.
Not a jet pilot so that number isn't too crazy

>>17739807
>Would you say my fears were unfounded?

Its hard to generalize that - I usually encourage everybody that dreams of becoming a pilot to take the military route (unless he is really against serving in the military) for it is a lot less risky than hoping into the hardships that screening and testing at airlines can be.

>I want to live in a squalid trailer while constantly trying to dodge my probation officer
Go ahead. It seems to be a popular lifestyle choice. I wouldn't say that people go out of their way to live like that, though. Other rednecks are going to think you're a fucking moron for giving up your old life.

>>17739787
>My gf and I are gonna become hippies
My grandfather is friends with a guy that was a real hippie before they were given a label, not make believe. He was on the magic bus as it crisscrossed the country and lived in the Haight in the mid 60's before it was a trend of wanna be hippies by the end of the 60's. Fascinating guy to talk to and you name a drug, he's done it, you name a place and he's tripped there. Done all the free love and university drop out turn on shit. Seen pics of him and Mick Jagger stoned out of their mind when they both were dabbling in Scientology and eastern religions. Here's the thing though, the fuckers a multi millionaire now, has several homes and drives a Mercedes convertible. He told me he and many of his friends got tired of being poor in their late 20's and started producing. He's quite odd, still smokes weed but he watches his investment portfolio.

>>17739814
>trailer

No, a nice two bedroom apartment near the falls.

>redneck

Suburbs, my man.

>>17739838
Interesting. I'm still thinking about opening a few franchises out here, and eventually living in a castle since the standard of living is so ridiculously cheap out here.

>>17739763
>Should I hack my ex's Facebook?
No.

>There's a programme that apparently has a 70% success rate, and I'm obsessed with finding out whether she was just pacifying me or telling the truth when it was broken off.
If you're that kind of person, then don't bother buying the program; I'll tell you for free. Yes, she was just pacifying you. Anything to get away without setting you off, at least until she was a safe distance away. You need help, senpai. Check yourself in somewhere.

>there's a program with a 70% chance rate
Go ahead and pay for your RAT you retarded faggot.

>>17739763
why on earth would you even be checking out an ex's facebook anyway? It's fucking over

I don't think you will, legally (although you may want ask a lawyer to make sure), but most likely it will cause some kind of problem or at least inconvenience for you. If it's just for revenge I suggest you don't do it.

>I want to ruin someone's life because they dumped me
Ah, women.

>>17739738
I want to ruin someone's life because they ruined mine.