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Making a short film that will be shot in school.

1. It needs to be school appropriate.

2. And it needs to be a short story, the film needs to be 5-7 minutes.

Brain storm ideas. The best idea gets
credits in the introduction. Get clever.

I expect lame answers but I trust 4chan.
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>>17741356
>Establishing shot, crime scene
>detective looking for clues
>they think they find the killer, but its just some guy who bought drugs
>lather, rinse, repeat
>At end, somehow reveal the detectives superior was setting them up, as people stop trusting them
>movie ends with the detective in prison, and the chief getting away with it
You're welcome
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Bowling for Sandy Hook
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>>17741373
As expected.

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Hey /adv/ I could use an outside perspective and advice on an odd situation I found myself in.
Starting this year of college I notice a really cute girl in one of my classes, and she starts to get involved in a club I am in. Periodically she would drop bizarre "hints" to get me interested I guess? Things like saying "we could sit together at graduation if we got married" and other less forward hints.
I finally got the stones to ask her out on Tuesday and she accepted. The date is coffee tomorrow morning, but ever since then she has been avoiding me at club activities and flirting with other guys. Is she playing hard to get? Having second thoughts? Or justing teasing me?
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>>17741337
maybe sowing wild oat, maybe flirty, maybe not.

Go on date and find out.
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Is my life so fucked that nobody can give me advice or does nobody care?
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It's because she's nervous.

Hi /adv/

well guys... I need all the clues to know if girlfriend is cheating you from your personal experiences
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If she's sucking another guy's dick, that's a pretty big clue that she's cheating on you
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>>17741296
If you need to ask.........
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>>17741307
The biggest clue of all.

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How do I make friends in college?

I used to like being alone but now its put me in a pretty deep depression. I'm sure I have social anxiety so talking to random people is next to impossible. I don't do anything other than go class, the gym, and my dorm. I've looked through the clubs on campus and none have any of my interest.

What do?
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>>17741246
get out go to parties and bar events. Get uncomfortable and be brave.
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>>17741261
I would go to parties mostly because I like to drink, but none of the parties will let you in if you're not in the frat or you have a penis.
There is a bar/club near my dorm that I see a lot of people go to on the weekends but being 18 without a fake ID, can't get in...
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You just got to get out there make yourself look available and happy. Warm smiles and a friendly hello will go a long way. You will not hit it off with most. Although if you put a smile on someone's face you might see them tomorrow and have something else to say. Because as you know if you just keep doing what are doing no-one is coming up and trying to be friendly. It took me 5 years to learn this. To sum it up, make others happy about themselves and other's will be drawn to you.

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>Be me
>Start college in Fall 2015
>Want to be Air Force officer but need bachelors
>Want to graduate college as fast as can
>AFROTC detachment at local uni says I'm looking at a May 2020 graduation date
>If I speed run college with no ROTC I should graduate in Fall 2019 and try for OTS instead

Should I take the 2020 date or 2019 date?
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>>17741176
Always give yourself some wiggle room. A fuck ton can happen in 2 years.
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you are not going to want to rush through college. the workload is immense and you risking wasting a year.
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OP here.

I should also mention I'll be 26 in 2020(yeah I wanted to go to college).

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Was my drink spiked?

I went on a date with this guy, and he did not give me a great feeling. I had a panic attack on the date since I got nervous. We were chain smoking in the car, and then we went to Walgreens so he could get cigarettes. He bought me water (also bought me dinner that night). When I drank the water I got this intense head rush a few minutes after, but I'm not sure if the nicotine was kicking in just then or what. I didn't faint or lose consciousness, but I remember not being able to perceive things that well, and although I was like that before the water (I couldn't listen to him well all night since I was that nervous) I felt like I was just a lot more relaxed yet still nervous. It's difficult to explain. I don't remember well what happened when he gave me the bottle of water, whether the seal was undone or not when I took a sip. I didn't black out though, I do remember basically what happened but not the fine details. I still felt so odd after I drank the water, but it very well could have been the nicotine mixing with my anxiety. He didn't seem like the type to do that, but you never know people. He had mentioned he was an addict though on the date. What do you think? Is this normal? Was it just my anxiety? The water didn't taste funny and didn't change colors or anything. I felt like I wasn't driving well and was having an out of body experience.
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sounds like it was just anxiety. look up derealization. it's a sort of panic attack that leads you to feel detached from reality
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>>17741174
> I went on a date with an addict and i can't remember shit.

Well as long as your were not raped (you would know.). I would ditch him. an addict.....OUT
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>>17741198
Yeah we stopped talking. Sometimes I think about the dates I've been on though and this is a possibility I've worried about that I'm now asking about. I still don't want to have drank something spiked without knowing I did even if I wasnt raped.

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Title.

Your opinion about overprotecting guys.
Do you find them cute?

In my case, there's a guy that tries to do everything for me all the time. And, more than helpful and adorable, sometimes, i find it quite unpleasant, it makes me feel useless.
wat do?
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Overprotective guys are only for manipulating, use him only for money so you can find suitable alpha mates.
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>>17741148
>Your opinion about overprotecting guys.

Everyone will measure this differently. I consider it overprotective if he is in your business checking phone and shit. but others might consider it overprotective to ask how your day was every day.

From what i have dated women seem to have very mixed views on this. Usually wanting to be completely self sufficient by their 30's.
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>>17741160

>to ask how your day was every day.

Basically this, and trying to be around me all the time, also giving me stuff,,,

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Evening guys!

Today I lost a friend of ~10 years.
We don't know yet the exact cause but have reason to believe it was an overdose. Perhaps Heroin, maybe cocaine.

I'm not looking for advice, but hope to offer a word of warning to anyone out there who knows someone who is messing with hard shit or experimenting with different substances.

My friend was smart, in grad-school, and had a great future ahead of himself. He'd been experimenting/taking with psychedelics, party drugs, etc since high school. It never got in the way of his studies and he always preached about using responsibly. We believed him. He was, by all accounts, a successful person.

That's why we never saw this coming. We didn't think it was a problem. We didn't know he had even fucked with something like heroin until today when it came out through his room mate. This was probably the cause, but I can't say until his family confirms it.

What I'm trying to say is, look out for your bros Anons. You don't come back from heroin addiction. It will take you in the end. So be mindful, talk about it. Tell your friends how much they mean to you.
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>>17741097
What do you actually do when you see people going down that way?

A friend i started studying with is similar as you described it, just not successful. He's smoked weed heavily since he was 14 or so, and sometimes did some nastier shit when it got offered at parties (coke and speed mainly). In the last year or so he's been experimenting quite heavily with "research chemicals "(basically legal versions of speed and other stimulants, just with pretty unknown side effects), used speed and coke more often. Sometimes it got out of control (with speed and some shitty RC, whatever it was). Ended up in the hospital once because the shit fucked up his immune system and he got a nasty infection in his mouth.

I recommended him to go to a therapist for his problems with depression he sometimes talks about but he just blocks off completly. Talks about them in some sort of /pol/ tier conspiracy shit, that they just want to get you on anti depressants and whatnot.

I really fear that he'll go to far and loose himself in this shit.
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>>17741291
Well, I don't know what to do when you see it because we didn't see it coming. We had no clue that it was an issue.

I guess there is only so much that you can do for a person before you've exhausted all of your options. You could always reach out to his family as a last resort, though this may just piss him off until he comes around.
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R.I.P to your dear friend anon. You can do drugs responsibly though. Shit like Coke and Heroin aren't good but most psychedelics, weed, MDMA, and some other drugs are perfectly fine and are proven to be safe.

what's the point of this board? I mean, it says "advice", yet any people with real problems the idiots on this board just start spouting their stupid fucking memes, or better yet, have no fucking clue what they're talking about

this board's filled with preteen fags and 30 year old NEETS complaining about their non-issues

it's a fucking cesspool and I hope anyone reading this sincerely grows the fuck up and kills themselves or decides to stop being a mongoloid

no, really, I genuinely mean this

how the fuck can you retards complain about your petty fucking issues, it makes me sick to my stomach

If I could, I would literally come to your houses and torture, murder, and dismembered all of you fucking stupid fucks

/vent
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>>17740966
no u
:^)
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For real problems, seek real help. For "advice", go to /adv/. I'm amazed you're even asking this.
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lmao

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I'm turning 20 next Monday, the 14th. I have nothing to really show for it as far as life progression
I worked a decent job for a coupledom months, I have two cars and a motorcycle, but that's it
No gf
Not in school
Now working a fast food job
No friends
Im 50/50 on suicide. Helium looks easy, but sometimes I think about it and how my parents would react and I tear up.
But I'm also miserable. Should I suffer so no one else has to, or should I end my suffering?
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>>17740959

Military?

Do you have 2 cars just because or because they are both unreliable pieces of shit? Still, sell one or the bike. You are throwing away $50-100 a month on insurance.
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>>17740972
Only one car is insured, and my bike isn't either.
I only drive around one vehicle, because I'm currently fixing the other car, and I'm taking a motor cycle safety course next week to be able to ride my bike.

I may go into the military
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>>17741970
Bump 2.0

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Should I buy this?
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Definitely.
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>>17740940

No.
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those are really uncomfortable

So my ex has never really had a boyfriend. I was her first kiss and first everything else, and I was great to her and we have many good memories. But she broke things off, not really sure why (there was no other guy or anything).

Over the next 3 weeks, her sister told me she started talking with 1 guy, then another, then got with a 3rd guy, but that rebound only lasted 2 days. They didn't even do anything (he was some beta loser). It just felt like she was trying to forget about me. Her sister says she misses me. But at this point me and her are just on and off arguing all the time and she starts most of it. And she's said a lot of mean things to me too, saying she don't like me no more, she don't know why she got with me in the first place, just real hurtful stuff I couldn't believe it because I was only ever good to her.

So anyway last night with all the fireworks going on, apparently her sister asked if I should come and she said she didn't mind. (Even though she told me to stay out of her life). And today when we went to the shop she even asked if I was coming. So I did, and she messages me, starting another argument telling me "I thought you was gonna stay out of my life", and she proceeds to say it again. And then she changes her profile picture to the one she uploaded the first day she met me (as it was about me)

During the two times she told me to stay away, I tried to put myself out there and fix things, but she shoots me down, now that she's said it a third time, do I just go full no contact?
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You'll get nowhere, don't waste your time.
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>>17740914
Stop talking to her fucking sister, she told you to stay out of her life
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>>17740914
>>17741692
Yeah OP you have no chance with your ex but it sounds like you could fuck her sister if you want.

So recently my cousin "moved in" to my parent's place.
>Late 20's
>He's going through a divorce
>Doesn't have a job and isn't trying
>Been living at my parents for the past 2 months
>Has a MAJOR Meth addiction
>He's been stealing from them and my younger siblings who still lives with them.
>Has multiple arrests
>Nearly killed his brother by stabbing and brutally beat his mom
>Has a restraining order from his family
>His parents don't want to do anything with him

The kicker
>My parents know all of this
>But would rather see him alive than homeless and dead on the streets

I want to slap my parents on the face! My cousin is a ticking time bomb and is just using them because he's their "nephew" who's going through a rough time. HOW DO I GET HIM OUT OF THERE?!
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If your parents are happy to have him living with them, who are you to say no?
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>>17740915
My parents are, but my siblings are extremely uncomfortable with him. Every time I've seen him so far he's been high as a fucking kite!
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What did he do to you that you can't give a fuck for a close blood relative?

You sound more like the person who should be kicked out.

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Is this a thing? I have one ex that I'm pretty sure it is always going to hurt to even think about and there will never be any sort of real closure or "I just don't really care anymore."

I know they say "time heals all," but are there some emotional wounds that are forever sore?
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Yes. This is a thing, but more importantly, you should think about why you feel this way. Maybe reflect on what went wrong, and eventually you will be able to let go, slowly. And it will hurt less with time.
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I have an ex that, to be completely honest, was terrible towards me. But the sex was great and everyone since hasn't been nearly as good in that respect.
The way we ended it was what really left me hurt in the end and lingering on sort of wanting him back despite that I know we were shit for one another. It's been seven years and I'm still not entirely over it, I just try not to think about it much.
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>>17741058
Does your name start with a K? Because that could describe one of my past relationships pretty well (even the amount of years).

Speaking of that relationship, for a long time, I thought I wouldn't get over it, but I did. It was a combination of moving on and realizing how much it was hurting me at the time. Even though I'm over the relationship, sometimes I still think about the ex and wonder what things would have been like under different circumstances, so maybe I'm not completely over her. But that's what most people sa is supposed to happen with your first love.

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Hey /adv, just a general philosophical question - At what point would you say a person crosses the point of no return, and becomes an irredeemably "horrible person"?
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At no point. The concepts of good and evil are created by humans, they only apply to us and they're purely subjective. Objectively, there is no good or evil in the universe. What to you may look like an irredeemably horrible person to someone else may seem a normal, well-adjusted individual. Any line we cross is subjective, arbitrary and pointless.
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>>17740668
Hitler was good.
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>>17741757
No he wasn't, he was excellent. Pity he got stopped before he could complete his mission.

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