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>>17741711

Work out / be confident?

Pic related. Has no chin, fairly unattractive. Dates Paloma Jimenez...

Work out and get a short haircut. Those 2 things alone will make you a lot more masculine

>>17741711
It's not about looking feminine.
It's about acting it.
That's what's making gays act like they can hit on you.

Try for a week to act like an "asshole"
Then you'll seem masculine

Also, try the gym.
Having good delts makes you more masculine

Is this Canadian girl real or is she someone you made up during the summer?

>>17741705

I don't get the reference. But yeah she's real.

>>17741700
Question 1:
¿Is there any possibility for you or her to move or at least travel to the country of the other?

If not, forget about her. LDRs doesn't work.

Lucky you im extremely into living off the grid.

>What are some things I need to think about?
Food water shelter thats it.

>First thing that comes to my mind is employment
If you are living in the middle of bum fuck nowhere this is both improbable and impossible

>Property could be cheap. Probably a few thousand per acre of land,
Think more like a few hundred an acre depending on where you buy it and if you are smart and go to county offices and ask about foreclosed land etc.

>A log cabin would probably cost like $100K to be built
Why the fuck would it cost this much? Use 100% recycled materials and it can cost you 0$

>What would be a good state/place to settle in
California, gun laws, cheap, marijuana abound

> If I use a well with a pump then I wouldn't have to pay for water
You most likely wont be able to afford to dig a well and if you did you arent guaranteed good water on your land. You will collect rainwater instead.

>How does this idea sound? I would appreciate some advice! Thanks a lot in advance.
Its the best fucking idea you could have ever had OP. Just git gud first and look into permaculture extensively before starting. Good luck!

>>17741716
>Food water shelter thats it.
True haha

>If you are living in the middle of bum fuck nowhere this is both improbable and impossible
See that's the thing. You need a source of income, if not I wouldn't be able to afford anything or be able to do anything.

>few hundred an acre
That is cheap as fuck, I would literally buy as much as I can even if I just use a few of it. (The more I own the more fencing I would have to do)

>Why the fuck would it cost this much?
Well I wanted something very nice, I doubt I have the skills needed to build one myself. I want something with nice interior and exterior, something very comfy!

>California
>cheap
>gun laws
I have heard the opposite of this.

>You most likely wont be able to afford to dig a well
Is piping and paying for water monthly like normal be an option?

>Its the best fucking idea you could have ever had OP. Just git gud first and look into permaculture extensively before starting. Good luck!
Thanks good anon! I appreciate it. I need to do a lot more research, and save a shit load of cash.

Could you please tell me a bit of how you manage shit? Would love to here from someone that is in a similar situation that I want to be in.

Also why would you say it's a good idea? (It is, and I agree with you. Just want to hear some points from you)

Again, thanks a lot anon!

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>>17741682
Go to raves or other public places with people in your age group. You can pretty easily weed out fake people by talking to them for about 5 seconds and then moving on.

>>17741682
kind of the nature of being a woman at your age.

>so how do i find a real life boyfriend who likes me as a person?

Every girl has more or less the same problem in their 20s


You do it by searching and searching. Dont expect to find the love of your life in an instant, or even in a single year.

>>17741682
Perhaps make friends with the front end of a shotgun?

Well, do you want sound advice or do you want a real answer? Because we can give you both.

>>17741669
Go to public places and events and meet and socialize with people. Find meetups in your area for things you are genuinely interested in/want to be interested in.

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Seek professional help.

that's exactly how it works

Put it up on Ebay. Take the bike apart and ship it to her. There are a lot of scammers out there so I recommend that you put it up on that site.

(ONLY SHIP AN ITEM WHEN THEY HAVE PAID FOR THE ITEM!!)

>>17741629
Be careful, because this is the setup to many classic scams.

Not really.
I never found any use for it for a number of years living alone.

Do you have a toilet brush?
Can you cook?
Do you clean at least once a month?

Then you're set

A lot of those cleaning products are made with bleach.

For dusting: strips of cotton T-shirt and windex (works on glass, walls, wood, counters, fridge, toilet etc) then wash out strips of T-shirt when done. Paper towels are useless.
For floor: any cheap broom and dustpan, then get a bucket mop and pinesol , mix 1/2 cup pinesol with 1 gallon water (roughly, no need for exact) mop floors and extra mopping to get up spots of dirty gunk.
For carpet: get a super cheap vacuum, don't buy in to that $1,200 Kirby vacuum bullshit.
Laundry and dishes just use something cheap and effective, no need for bleach.
Source: Marine Corps field days.

>>17741562
If you're willing to cut things off with her you may as well confront her about how she's acting. There may be something in her life that's causing her to lash out at the only thing that can take it (you)

Have you told her how you feel? Try talking about it. If things don't improve them walk away.

tell her it bothers you maybe? if you are only interested in being friends then you're not going to lose much.

give her a chance to explain herself at least. if she doesn't care about you very much then oh well, time to move on.

if her fantasies/sexual desires are more important than her relationship with you then fuck it, it's a lost cause anyway.

it would bother you if she wanted to be sexually satisfied by some other dude, why would some other woman be any different?

you clearly aren't comfortable with it. don't "let" her, but don't physically stop her. if she's gonna cheat on you, just move on.

>>17741584
It feels like our bond of love is deeper and closer than just mere sex though, so this would mean that her fulfilling that fantasy is just a fantasy. It's not like she's leaving me for another girl, if she wanted to do that she'd do it wouldn't she?

There are plenty of guys who masturbate to shit porn, but then go and pay someone to shit in their mouths and realise what a fucking huge mistake they've made just as its too late.

Fantasy and reality are different and its important to recognise that.

Being honest and communicating how you feel is also important. Tell her that you don't like the idea of her being sexual with someone else, don't just expect her to know what you secretly want. Especially if everything you've said about up until now has given her the impression that you're okay with it, because you're too much of a beta to enforce your boundaries.

>I feel really lonely, but i can't seem to find likeable people.
STOP IT.

>I've tried clubbing and going to bars, but most of the grills there are cunts
STOP IT.

>oh, and i'm male btw
No, no, no. We don't go there.

I'll let you know soon as I figure that out. Focus on a good career. Once you've done that you can create your own bubble/paradise away from the world and shitty people.

Clubs?
That's how I'd do it here.
The only other way is to have friends in that inner circle
But if you're not, you're not in.
Try clubs.
Like book club or movie club

But I don't know if that exists in SA land

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I didn't even read all of this (did you actually expect that? LOL) but if you don't see yourself (or herself) moving so you can be together you might as well cut that shit right now to end heartache.

>>17741509

I wrote it in short paragraphs and I felt I needed to write the info to make things clearer. I would move to where she is, definitely. I cannot wait to leave my country.

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>>17741512
OK. To be honest I'm drunk as fuck. But the truth is that long distance relationships NEVER fucking work. Unless you can be there and see her (and vice versa) on a days notice, it will never fucking work. Trust me. I have went down this path.

Darkweb is for drugs and stolen/illegal goods. The only benefit to sales on darkweb is bitcoin. If its bitcoin you're after just sell in other places and buy bitcoin.

>>17741706
Yes but those other places are eBay and amazon and take shitloads of fees and could fuck me over if they wanted. Whos to say you cant sell legal shit on "illegal" websites... you?

>>17741724
>Craigslist

Who's bastard is in her belly?

I wish this would happen to me.

>>17741467

Jesus m8.. are you regretting it or something?

what's your plan? im in the same boat except im older and indebted

>>17741455
Frugal living and investments. Rental properties. Retire by 35 but I haven't bothered to do the exact math on when I can yet, it'll be dependent on the growth of my rental income, possibly software royalties as well since I'm also collaborating on a cashgrab mobage too. I work at a dealership right now.

I do live in a very nice house with three roommates and own two vehicles while still putting money away. I still always have that thing in the back of my head though saying that the longer I go and older I get without a degree the more it's a strike against me to others. I feel like it's the representation of a lack of effort or work ethic in life than not being educated.

one more bump before I fuck off

Nurse

Statistician

Computer science.

>>17741360
>And I want to get into Pharmacy but that's competitive entry

I also believe its saturated. Do a bit more research. Not sure how it is now

As far as what else you said: Accounting, Engineering, CS, and a few others.

Lots of jobs and job security with just a Bach is all about Engineering or Accounting