I'm fairly sure that my lab partner likes me, but I don't

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2017-02-12 05:01:50 Post No. 18042008
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 05:01:50 Post No. 18042008 [Report]

I'm fairly sure that my lab partner likes me, but I don't like her, and I have no idea what to do. She's a 5/10 Asian girl, slim but very average looking. I'm not attracted to her and because of that, I didn't care what she thought of me and I was able to "be myself". As a result, I kept teasing her, making fun of her, and borderline insult her. At the same time, I was also serious when it came to the work, so I did get things done.

Now, she's texting me and sending me snaps. I didn't ask for her snapchat or number, rather, she got them from me. The thing is, I don't like her, at least not romantically. I'm pretty much using her to practice my flirting skills, so I can get a girl that I actually want.

How do I proceed? We aren't even in the halfway mark of the semester yet, so if I flat-out reject her, it will be extremely weird.

Anonymous 2017-02-12 05:17:38 Post No.18042037
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 05:17:38 Post No.18042037 [Report]

Just keep subtly leading her on until the semester finishes. Once its over, fuck her once and go no-contact.

Anonymous 2017-02-12 09:21:22 Post No.18042419
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 09:21:22 Post No.18042419 [Report]

>>18042037
She seems like a nice girl. I couldn't do that to her.

Anonymous 2017-02-12 09:25:19 Post No.18042429
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 09:25:19 Post No.18042429 [Report]

>>18042419
But your conscience is okay with leading her on? Whatever helps you justify being an asshole.

Anonymous 2017-02-12 09:26:26 Post No.18042430
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 09:26:26 Post No.18042430 [Report]

>>18042008
>I'm pretty much using her to practice my flirting skills, so I can get a girl that I actually want.

Yeah uh, maybe stop doing that. Keep being yourself but don't be flirty with her. Just be casual about everything. And are you sure she likes you? Maybe she feels the same way you do? Maybe she's doing exactly what you're doing, even. Until she actually says "hey I like you" or whatever, you might not HAVE to do or say anything at all. But still probably stop flirting.

Anonymous 2017-02-12 10:47:34 Post No.18042522
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 10:47:34 Post No.18042522 [Report]

>>18042429
I don't think I'm leading her on. I don't touch her, I don't sexually charge the conversation either. I don't initiate texts or anything like that. Sure, I'll respond, but I do that for everyone.

>>18042430
She goes out of her way to talk to me. Remembers things I say from weeks ago.

Anonymous 2017-02-12 12:55:39 Post No.18042647
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Anonymous 2017-02-12 12:55:39 Post No.18042647 [Report]

>>18042522
She's probably just nice and you're taking it as her liking you.

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